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Posted by OnTheVirg
SOS to my fellow Virgals.



I’m really close friends with a Taurus of mine. We’ve been taking the organic approach of letting our relationship blossom and flow. He has gone above and beyond for me multiple times so there is no doubt in my mind of his loyalty to me.



I’ve befriended a new chick recently-Gemini. She’s fun, but the one thing that irks me is her need for attention-from males; self seeking. She recently broke up with her bf and laments to our male friends about it, which I've had no qualms about it…until she has started to include my Taurus into her ‘woe is me’s’ who just met her last month. He is annoyed by her, but once in a while she will FB message him out of the blue. I never knew she was chatting him up on the side until he mentioned it. She's got 10 other guys in line and she needs to add my Taurus into her queue? Barking up the wrong tree...



I’d like to know how you Virgals would handle this situation in kindly telling this Gem to back the eff off without coming across as a crazy, possessive bish so that the Taurus never knows. There's a lot invested into this for her to barge on in trying to manipulate my Taurus into another minion.


It's not about her at all, it's all about the Taurus and how he reacts.



I've had this happen three times so far in my life, with three different guys and women.



First time around, the guy cut her off and was planning to cut me off too because he thought it was a test and I had asked her to hit on him to see how he would react and was offended that I would resort to that. That was an angry reaction from an honest, decent man. Was quickly solved.



Second time, at a party where one of the friends of another friend hit on the guy I was with. Didn't have to verbalize anything because I didn't even time to process it before he looked at her and said "Not sure if you are aware but I came here with Damnata, I'm not single".



Third time, I expressed I was uncomfortable to which I got anger back and was called unreasonable. Instead of seeing this as guilt on his end, I actually stood there and considered if I was unreasonable. Things quickly ended after that between us.



So as far as I am concerned, it's all about observing what he does/says. You won't stop people hitting on someone you have a crush on because they also may have a crush and it's fair game to go after what you want. His reaction is the only one that counts, I wouldn't hold anything against the Gemini in this scenario.
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personally, in that situation..

we're not really in a concrete relationship

so i probably won't do anything about it

he can talk to whoever and be with whoever

and i can do the same

if it works out, then it works out

if it doesn't, then it doesn't

you can just swipe right on anyone nowadays

if you're mildly interested, then i'm mildly interested

i'll pull if i feel a push..if not, i'd float away lol

I'm aware. Which is why my initial thought was to do nothing and watch it play out. She'll probably shoot her own foot and annoy him to the point he blocks her. click to expand





i've an unconventional way of going about things sometimes

i mean, maybe he'll have a better connection with her than with me

why would i get in the way of that?

i could have a better connection with someone else too

sure as hell wouldn't want him in my way if that happens

but i'm mostly this way at the start of a relationship

very lukewarm.. almost cold coz i sure as hell won't invest so much

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High five @Sierra, I'm the same way if we aren't dating. When dating it's another story...Had a gemini friend try to get cozy one day with a scorp I was in a relationship with. Flipped out on both of them and told them if they wanted to fuck why not go ahead and do it...She was shocked and I think felt badly. Whatever, don't be flirting with my man in front of me or I'm going off.
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Did you already read it too before I hid it?





Yep. 🤣 click to expand





butter... LOL! click to expand



Let me read lol click to expand





You got 2 mins.... click to expand



Thats hot dude! Thats how I want someone to be with me, but I can never be that way :c click to expand





Haha...The Pisces had his moments too but nothing like that.

I remember when I worked at this grocery store and The Cancer worked there as well...of course we always talked and what not...but I remember seeing the Pisces come storming in, pissed the treetrunk off and runs into the back talking about how he was gonna beat the Cancers ass because he was tired of him always flirting with me. It was hot but I had to stop him because it would have been bad. The Cancer just stood there...frozen and didnt know what to do. I had to get in between them and talk the Pisces down...ugh what a mess me and him were lol



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i just never think these things are hot.. ever

like i may be a creep but i'm not a dic-grabber lol

you know they're pretty forward, not at all confusing

like most people complain about their sign

they simply go: "i want you," really not much to it

it annoys the shit out of me when he even so much as

remotely insinuate shit, stresses me out click to expand





So you are a public dick grabbing virgin? You just need to get the first one outta the way and you'll become addicted to doing it click to expand

Teach me thy ways click to expand
Class starts at 10am sharp....bring your favorite dick shaped object. click to expandclick to expand
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Oh my virgoness!
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I could show up in some va va voom attire and steal her thunder. Just thinking aloud.





Spoken like a true Scorpio moon. Don't get mad. Get petty.







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Ha! I'm actually a Pisces moon. Idk where you guys are getting scorpio from 😂 click to expand
cool me too! 😍 must be why i like your username

and why we haven't gone dic-grabbing before lol

now i'm even more confused why you're stressing

clearly if he falls for that, then he's got bad taste

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Fellow mooner! I wouldn't say stressing, just more annoyed that she doesn't respect friendship boundaries. She just met him and personally invited him to her birthday which he was weirded out by. He's only going because I'm going, otherwise, no point.
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It's not about her at all, it's all about the Taurus and how he reacts.



So as far as I am concerned, it's all about observing what he does/says. You won't stop people hitting on someone you have a crush on because they also may have a crush and it's fair game to go after what you want. His reaction is the only one that counts, I wouldn't hold anything against the Gemini in this scenario. click to expandclick to expand



Good perspective. It's why I questioned doing something in the first place. Technically, she isn't doing anything wrong and I've no grounds to say anything since he is fair game still. I think I'll let it play itself out come her birthday event.
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Concensus is:



Grab his dick. Let him know you're serious and he's yours. He'll like it, don't worry.



Ask me how I know.

Is that how a Virgo locked you down? click to expand





Yeah, it caught me off gaurd, but after thinking back and talking to her since, it shouldn't have. She had been watching and stalking me for a while, I just didn't know it. So, from my perspective all I knew was we talked for a few minutes before the cock-shock. I honestly should have known she liked me when she struck up the first conversation.



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Ahaha She glocked your cock. Then Taurus men like aggressive women? He has Aries in his chart.

When I met my Taurus we were on friendly terms, a hi and bye here and there. He respected that I was in a relationship at the time-it was short lived. We broke up for reasons that didn’t have to do with the Taurus. Not shortly after, Taurus approached me asking if I was alright since he heard the news of the breakup. I never let on we had broken up. Apparently, my ex opened up to the Taurus about our break up because he needed someone to talk to. Later on, the Taurus confessed that we didn’t seem like a good fit for each other and he pointed out times how I looked annoyed by my ex. Oh he’s been watching, alright!



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Did you already read it too before I hid it?





Yep. 🤣 click to expand





butter... LOL! click to expand



Let me read lol click to expand





You got 2 mins.... click to expand



Thats hot dude! Thats how I want someone to be with me, but I can never be that way :c click to expand





Haha...The Pisces had his moments too but nothing like that.

I remember when I worked at this grocery store and The Cancer worked there as well...of course we always talked and what not...but I remember seeing the Pisces come storming in, pissed the treetrunk off and runs into the back talking about how he was gonna beat the Cancers ass because he was tired of him always flirting with me. It was hot but I had to stop him because it would have been bad. The Cancer just stood there...frozen and didnt know what to do. I had to get in between them and talk the Pisces down...ugh what a mess me and him were lol



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i just never think these things are hot.. ever

like i may be a creep but i'm not a dic-grabber lol

you know they're pretty forward, not at all confusing

like most people complain about their sign

they simply go: "i want you," really not much to it

it annoys the shit out of me when he even so much as

remotely insinuate shit, stresses me out click to expand





So you are a public dick grabbing virgin? You just need to get the first one outta the way and you'll become addicted to doing it click to expand

Teach me thy ways click to expand





Class starts at 10am sharp....bring your favorite dick shaped object. click to expandclick to expand

Oh my virgoness! click to expand
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Yeah, apparently my virgoness is broken lol
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Posted by OnTheVirg
Posted by sierra_
personally, in that situation..

we're not really in a concrete relationship

so i probably won't do anything about it

he can talk to whoever and be with whoever

and i can do the same

if it works out, then it works out

if it doesn't, then it doesn't

you can just swipe right on anyone nowadays

if you're mildly interested, then i'm mildly interested

i'll pull if i feel a push..if not, i'd float away lol

I'm aware. Which is why my initial thought was to do nothing and watch it play out. She'll probably shoot her own foot and annoy him to the point he blocks her. click to expand



i've an unconventional way of going about things sometimes

i mean, maybe he'll have a better connection with her than with me

why would i get in the way of that?

i could have a better connection with someone else too

sure as hell wouldn't want him in my way if that happens

but i'm mostly this way at the start of a relationship

very lukewarm.. almost cold coz i sure as hell won't invest so much

when i'm not quite sure about you.. i'm not hurting myself over butter click to expand
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Ya know honestly, I think this way too sometimes. Can’t beg for someone who doesn’t want you. I thought the OP was already in a relationship w/ the guy. But if he technically isn’t hers (yet?), then I guess he’s up for grabs. And maybe he will have a better connection w/ the Gem 🤷🏽‍♀️
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Hey Nata, what sign was this person?

Posted by Damnata
Second time, at a party where one of the friends of another friend hit on the guy I was with. Didn't have to verbalize anything because I didn't even time to process it before he looked at her and said "Not sure if you are aware but I came here with Damnata, I'm not single".

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I knew your Cancer Moon antennas will perk up with this story. Right up our alley that level of devotion.

That's my Aries ex.
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Update:

Dolled up for the event and the Taurus’ reaction was priceless-could not stop staring. Went to the party, we had a blast.

There were no issues except some guy getting handsy with my sister. Taurus was about to step in before I could, but she handled it. He made a comment about how he needs to protect his circle and how she’s now a part of it (a la me).

Left the party early and he offered to drop me off home. He brought up how a friend of mine asked him if he was seeing anyone. He said no. Conversation followed:

V: Hm, then we aren’t together?
T: I didn’t say that
V: But you told him no
T: That’s not what I mean…I don’t know if you’re telling anyone about us or not.
V: Do you like me?
T: What do you think? I see you almost every day, we hang out with my family, even my brother gets along with you which is rare.
V: Didn’t answer my question
T: Of course I do!
V: Then if you like me and I get along with your family, why are you complicating things more than it needs to be?
T: Ok, we’re together! Happy?
V: What do you think?
T: Grr, you brat *pulled me in for a kiss*

Then I grabbed his junk saying “also this is mine.” And we made sweet, sweet love all night…and once more in the morning.


Maybe grabbing junk does pay off.

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Posted by OnTheVirg
Update:

Dolled up for the event and the Taurus’ reaction was priceless-could not stop staring. Went to the party, we had a blast.

There were no issues except some guy getting handsy with my sister. Taurus was about to step in before I could, but she handled it. He made a comment about how he needs to protect his circle and how she’s now a part of it (a la me).

Left the party early and he offered to drop me off home. He brought up how a friend of mine asked him if he was seeing anyone. He said no. Conversation followed:

V: Hm, then we aren’t together?
T: I didn’t say that
V: But you told him no
T: That’s not what I mean…I don’t know if you’re telling anyone about us or not.
V: Do you like me?
T: What do you think? I see you almost every day, we hang out with my family, even my brother gets along with you which is rare.
V: Didn’t answer my question
T: Of course I do!
V: Then if you like me and I get along with your family, why are you complicating things more than it needs to be?
T: Ok, we’re together! Happy?
V: What do you think?
T: Grr, you brat *pulled me in for a kiss*

Then I grabbed his junk saying “also this is mine.” And we made sweet, sweet love all night…and once more in the morning.


Maybe grabbing junk does pay off.


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Hey Nata, what sign was this person?

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Second time, at a party where one of the friends of another friend hit on the guy I was with. Didn't have to verbalize anything because I didn't even time to process it before he looked at her and said "Not sure if you are aware but I came here with Damnata, I'm not single".

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I knew your Cancer Moon antennas will perk up with this story. Right up our alley that level of devotion.

That's my Aries ex. click to expand
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What a lovely Aries man
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Are you in a relationship or are you friends? All I know is dont back off. Claim him outright.

I was really good friends with a taurus who liked me, but he had a couple girls after his nuts. The really crazy one messaged me a lot to throw random jabs. I just backed off from everybody and disappeared and he ended up marrying that girl. I should look up to see if thats still working out for him lol.
Deets?
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Posted by Schawq
He’s a Taurus, he will be able to see right through her, trust me. A Taurus knows when somebody is giving them their all vs. when they’re just being used for something less important. You have nothing to worry about.

And if anything, if you express how you feel to your Taurus, he will love your possession!! Tauruses love to know their friends and lovers want to possess them as much as they want to possess them. But I’d advise against doing anything behind his back and speaking to her while trying not to let him find out, because that makes you the manipulator. A Taurus hates that - any sort of manipulation, hence Scorpio being their opposite sign.

Sincerely,
A Taurus Female.
I can agree with this. Let him know you didn't appreciate finding out through the back door that they were talking on the side. Just say - you wouldn't want me to do that would you ... that'll fix him right up!!!
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Update:

Dolled up for the event and the Taurus’ reaction was priceless-could not stop staring. Went to the party, we had a blast.

There were no issues except some guy getting handsy with my sister. Taurus was about to step in before I could, but she handled it. He made a comment about how he needs to protect his circle and how she’s now a part of it (a la me).

Left the party early and he offered to drop me off home. He brought up how a friend of mine asked him if he was seeing anyone. He said no. Conversation followed:

V: Hm, then we aren’t together?
T: I didn’t say that
V: But you told him no
T: That’s not what I mean…I don’t know if you’re telling anyone about us or not.
V: Do you like me?
T: What do you think? I see you almost every day, we hang out with my family, even my brother gets along with you which is rare.
V: Didn’t answer my question
T: Of course I do!
V: Then if you like me and I get along with your family, why are you complicating things more than it needs to be?
T: Ok, we’re together! Happy?
V: What do you think?
T: Grr, you brat *pulled me in for a kiss*

Then I grabbed his junk saying “also this is mine.” And we made sweet, sweet love all night…and once more in the morning.


Maybe grabbing junk does pay off.




You sound difficult. I feel like you ruined an opportunity to be super romantic and unforgettable. The beginning is the most important. Its what keeps them hanging on years down the line. Luckily, taurus men put up with difficult women rather easily, and maybe they like that idk. click to expandclick to expand
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It was the gist of the conversation, there was a lot more talking than that mixed with some playful banter. He had a bad experience with telling a girl he liked her once; it was pretty traumatic for him so I knew he’d never fully admit it first. If you want the romance we did discuss the subtle things we noticed about each other that attracted us to one another without the other knowing like "remember that one time when you...". A confession of sorts. How would you have gone about it?