How to tell when a Virgo woman likes you!

Hey everyone happy to be back. It's been a while €. Things are much better around this time. Took time off of here because I was indulging in a situation that just mentally exhausted me daily. And I was projecting everything on here but things have gotten better. I just wish to know what are some signs that a Virgo woman likes you. By the way her and I are both cusp signs. But let's stick with our majority. Me being a Scorpio and her a Virgo. Tell me what you think about the combination also.ƒ

Hi. I am a Virgo. Is your gf Virgo/leo cusp or Virgo/libra cusp?
I can tell you about myself being a Virgo. At an initial stage when i haven't even talked to the person i like,
i will make lots of eye contacts with him and will be a bit uncomfortable around him.
After i start talking, that uncomfortability will be there and i will be a bit shy and reserve,
but inspite of that i will give hints with my sentences like 'maybe we can be bf and gf in future'.
I will try to ask too many questions.
But with time all these uncomfortability will go, I will open up revealing my passionate nature.
I don't take much time to open up. It can happen within 2-3 days, it depends upon how comfortable that person makes me.
Virgo and Scorpio both are passionate as lovers. So they can be a good match. You should also consider her venus sign for love relationship.
Also compare your chart with her's to understand how much compatible you both are together.

Yeah her and I have known each other for about 6 months or so now. Don't quote me on that I was dating around and I saw her in the gym one day. Sexual attracted to her and the fact that she took part in something that's big in my life the healthy lifestyle raises the bar as far as interest in her. Long story short I approached her. Talked to her. At the time she was in what it came to be after she sat down and talked to me "rocky relationship" which she ended. So it took time for her to get over that. Didn't really talk to her in months after that. Well we converses via txt but that doesn't matter to me. So I planned a going away gathering for me at a buffet. Invited her. Of course she came. Looking so beautiful. Never saw her dress like that in school. She akways wore fitness gear. Kind of like me. Like to be comfortable then Always dress up. So that grabbed my attention oh gosh lol. We connected before my friends all came. She blushes a lot. Opened up about her family situation which I never would have thought of. It got so serious that I said we will finish this anther time because I don't want to make you dwevle deeply into that with my friends coming and on our first date. Nonetheless, she still opened up to me. I was happy and I opened to her. Kind of lost eye contact in the mix which doesn't happen when conversing with anyone. But our conversation was that emotional and uncomfortable so I thought to be human and not act inhuman like I was negotiating a deal or something. Leading up to the dinner a week before she contacted me through a txt on her vacation in Maine. Asking when was my dinner. Immediately I got upset but remained composed because I "thought" I knew the outcome. That she would not come. I told her and she replied okay I was invited to party. So I reply " so your not coming" she goes " yes I am I told the person I could not make it" that made me feel special „. A couple days go by we talk again and she decides to joke with me. Which I thought was so cute but it got to me a little. She recited " hey I'm going to be on my vacation for another month I can't make it" so I didn't give in. My response to her was " ok well I guess I won't be seeing you before I go then" even though I was furiated. Eventually she gave in and said " lol I'm just joking". That was leading up to the dinner. So back to the dinner closing out I asked may I take her out again. She blushed and kind of stumbled on her words. Eventually said yes.

So..what isn't clear here?

So this morning ( on the day we planned to have lunch) she sent me a txt in the am saying this "I still haven't made it to sleep yet Josh I'm not feeling good so I'm gonna have to let you know about today I'm sorry " I took into consideration that works overnights and gets off at 6. So maybe she is feeling sick like she said later in the convo. I feel like she was nervous or just did not want to come. But tell me what you think people.

Lol haha well gold digging I've met one of those virgos but with her not at all. She has her own money and works very hard for it. Really good at saving money

Well in stopped by to see her at her job today. She didn't even come by where I sat "alone" to even converse with me for a couple minutes or so. Not even a minute.i would have accepted that no she wasn't busy tonight at her job. She works at a diner. What's your thought people?bbecause I'm ready to call quits already. I don't stop at that place ever. It's not even in my town. But I was in that town with a couple friends so I thought to stop by and see her on my way home. She knew why I was there.

1)You went to her work alone or with your friends?

2)How did the conversation go when you told her you were coming into town?

3) Did you just announce to her you were going to drop by her work or did you talk about it and asked her if you could go at her work?

4) I'm not understanding a lot of things in your story. First, you meet her in a gym. Then on your date you said she didn't look like that in school. Was it the school's gym? How old are you both? Then she works in another city..which is something you haven't mentioned before. When you met her, what city was that in? Her city? Your city? I am getting a bit confused with your story.

Maybe she was waiting for you to ask for her? Maybe leaving her a note if she wanted to do something after work to give you a call?
Ehhhh

You strike me as very insecure.

You went out with this chick, everything went well.

Still you found way to read it all into something negative.

Other than her not making it to that dinner ...she didn't blow you off. She told you she couldn't make it.

Now this.

Seriously get a grip on your assumptions.

I'm willing to bet you never asked her if you could meet her up at her place of employment.

"Hey, I'm in your city and I have some spare time 🙂. Can I come visit you at work or are you busy?"

I'm pretty sure you went with "I'm going to visit you cuz I'm in town". Or straight up just showed up.

Damnata you get a grip don't talk to me like you know me. Im asking for advice not your twisted tongue and just tell me what girl in there mind would be otherwise "mad" if a guy showed up to see her. Didn't stop her response and actions last time did it. Oh I didn't mention that but it did. And yeah I straight up said I was just going to stop by because I was in town. Is there a problem. The town she works in is my old hometown. When I go out, there is where I go. Yes I was alone. And yes i have the right to assume because on a busy night which I stopped in before she found time to talk. tonight wasn't even half that. Meanwhile 4 other servers are sitting around chatting like I've never seen them before. And no weeds I didn't leave her a note. I live 40 minutes away from my hometown and I don't like staying out late especially there because something always happens. She gets off of work 6 in the am anyway so there's no arranging anything lol. I need to be respectful on that end. And I never said she had to sit and talk but at least have the respect to acknowledge somehow has stopped in to see you. And she can chat with people. She did it with me before and she told me it was ok she wouldn't get in trouble. Asked her all of this in advance. No insecurities over here. She said things are fine though.

Posted by handsome101
Damnata you get a grip don't talk to me like you know me. Im asking for advice

Don't go demanding advice on a board and then get bratty with posters. And ofc I don't know you in real life, genius.

Posted by handsome101
And yeah I straight up said I was just going to stop by because I was in town. Is there a problem.

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Yeah, there is one. When we work, we get into a zone. If the other colleagues were chatting, who was serving the people in that place? Also, it's not necessarily that she had a problem with dropping by but it took her by surprise. People have off days too. You give me the impression you need a lot of attention lavished on you and when I work..even if friends drop by I keep it really short. We generally have good ethics.

Well maybe that's you but your advice is fairly off. Thanks but no thanks. No longer want you on this thread. Thank you.

And your making accuses, maybe for your certain level of incompetence. Maybe you don't realize your faults lol.

Posted by handsome101
And yes i have the right to assume because on a busy night which I stopped in before she found time to talk.

That was the first time you did it. Make it a routine and you will see her straight up ignoring you.

You have no room for assumptions when it comes to someone's place of employment. You don't know her boss, you don't know the dynamics, you pretty much just show up as if this is party. Her responsibility at work is to work, not to entertain you.

Wanna meet her? Keep talking to her and ask her out. Dates went well so far.

Posted by handsome101
No longer want you on this thread

Sorry, I don't budge to Scorpio control issues. You're on the Virgo board so if you can't take it, go post on your board.

No Leo lol . Actually more Virgo and Capricorn than anything.

Of course lol

I'm curious about the chart.

Anyway Scorpio, take some breaths, stop focusing on insulting me and being defiant just for the sake of it.

It's actually going well if you can stop and chill. CHILL, arachnid.

I understand now. Thank you for nicely putting it that way it makes sense lol. Epiphany. So

I totally respect that with her.