Scorpiogrlll
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I don't know what this Virgo guy wants to get out of our 'relationship'
Posted by starwars
I wouldn't trust someone who doesn't respect the boundaries.
To be fair I wasn't exactly reinforcing it either sigh
He told you explicitly what he wanted, believe him.
If that is not what you want, be firm about it.
He keeps coming back to test your boundaries and your limits.
They will write you or keep writing to you because they can, especially if they are not taken and not invested.
If you decide to respond and give him an ego boost in turn, why would he not return and do so, over and over again. He responds and writes because he is aware that you would still give him the time of day.
Once they know you will not, they will stop and disappear.
If that is not what you want, be firm about it.
He keeps coming back to test your boundaries and your limits.
They will write you or keep writing to you because they can, especially if they are not taken and not invested.
If you decide to respond and give him an ego boost in turn, why would he not return and do so, over and over again. He responds and writes because he is aware that you would still give him the time of day.
Once they know you will not, they will stop and disappear.
Yeah you're all right, I just keep getting played cos he does really nice and thoughtful things. It sucks and I didn't want to give up cos he's the first guy I actually feel comfortable and at ease around and it sucked like crazy every time he didn't text.
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