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I hate my job and have second thoughts about my career
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What about a merchandiser?
Posted by FoxI don't know... maybe it's just me being depressed right now, but I want to work alone and not be bothered by people at all 😢
what about working as a lecturer?
Posted by AriesIntrovert16Not sure, I don't want to deal too much with people.
What about a merchandiser?
Posted by jpxAn accountant?Posted by AriesIntrovert16Not sure, I don't want to deal too much with people.
What about a merchandiser?click to expand
You'll always have to work for/with someone, unless you want to be an entrepreneur, and even then you'll still have to sell stuff to other people.
Posted by AriesIntrovert16Yeah, sorry, don't have any problem at all working "with" or "for" somebody. I just don't want to be at the forefront and have to face hundreds of people everyday :/Posted by jpxAn accountant?Posted by AriesIntrovert16Not sure, I don't want to deal too much with people.
What about a merchandiser?
You'll always have to work for/with someone, unless you want to be an entrepreneur, and even then you'll still have to sell stuff to other people.click to expand
Posted by FoxThanks! At first I thought it was just the places I worked at, so I did quit.
There are so many possibilities out there, don't ever confine yourself. Start looking at other career options. I'd say still look at the root of the problem and see if there are any ways you can handle it in any way first.
Then I changed my role a bit, I worked with all ages, and I've worked both for private schools and municipal, and now I work as a special education teacher.
The feeling remains the same, I can only come to the conclusion that this job is not for me 😢
Posted by jpxUnderstandable. Look up jobs for an introvert. How about a court reporter? You'd be like a fly on the wall.Posted by AriesIntrovert16Yeah, sorry, don't have any problem at all working "with" or "for" somebody. I just don't want to be at the forefront and have to face hundreds of people everyday :/Posted by jpxAn accountant?Posted by AriesIntrovert16Not sure, I don't want to deal too much with people.
What about a merchandiser?
You'll always have to work for/with someone, unless you want to be an entrepreneur, and even then you'll still have to sell stuff to other people.click to expand
I'm just taking random shots in the dark. Ultimately, only you, and maybe those closest to you, would know what you'd really like to do and or be good at.
Posted by FoxThank you, you are absolutely right.Posted by jpxPosted by FoxI don't know... maybe it's just me being depressed right now, but I want to work alone and not be bothered by people at all 😢
what about working as a lecturer?
Hmm working as a lecturer - you have more flexibility as a teacher imo. You'll have time to yourself to work. It also wouldn't be a 9-5 job lecturing everyday. I think you should have a think about it! as you work in an educational field already. Again - so many possibilities out there in the world. 1 stage of your life isn't permanent.click to expand
As it is right now, I feel confined and like there is no way out, it's hard to find a job that isn't about working with people where I live, basically because nobody wants to do it because of the poor working conditions. It's a vicious circle, but I know I need to find a way out of it.
I would need to go back to university for that though.
I am already going back to school to study languages for a few months, I'm curious about maybe working as a translator, but not sure yet.
Posted by starloverThank you! I completely agree with that, it's just such a shame that money always seem to get in the way.
...and despite what people say, it is okay to change your career as many times as you wish
We don't start to grow up until after the Saturn return (around 30, give or take).....so how can we know who we are and what we want to do?
I have a strong need to feel "prepared" and secure, so I tend to get a bit worried about money and finances. I have a bit of money saved up so I'll be alright for the next couple of months, I get some cash from studying as well, but not nearly enough, so I'm going to need to get another job real soon while I study..
It has to be something not distracting me too much from my studies..
Posted by AriesIntrovert16Never thought about that one! Thanks, I'll look it up 🙂Posted by jpxUnderstandable. Look up jobs for an introvert. How about a court reporter? You'd be like a fly on the wall.Posted by AriesIntrovert16Yeah, sorry, don't have any problem at all working "with" or "for" somebody. I just don't want to be at the forefront and have to face hundreds of people everyday :/Posted by jpxAn accountant?Posted by AriesIntrovert16Not sure, I don't want to deal too much with people.
What about a merchandiser?
You'll always have to work for/with someone, unless you want to be an entrepreneur, and even then you'll still have to sell stuff to other people.click to expand
Posted by SensitiveBluesWould love to work more in that field, but.. as it seems, the studies that those jobs require are not for me 😢
Data scientist
Posted by SensitiveBluesSorry, didn't know I was "bothering" people really.. I was just looking for suggestions.
Well then figure what is for you!
Why are you bothering us?
Yeah, accounting would be a fine idea, thanks!
Posted by jpxSo, you spend 4 years of your time and money to secure a job working so closely with people that you came to a forum to talk about how much you hate.
It stresses me out completely to work so closely with people
I don't like working with people
jfc .... how brainless
Posted by P-AngelWell, no, not really, there are aspects of it that I really do like, which is why I decided to it in the first place.
Posted by jpxSo, you spend 4 years of your time and money to secure a job working so closely with people that you came to a forum to talk about how much you hate.
It stresses me out completely to work so closely with people
I don't like working with people
jfc .... how brainlessclick to expand
The situation is quite specific in my country and in my town as well, I am open to the idea of still working in the same field, maybe somewhere completely different, but I have tried switching both roles at work and switching work place, didn't work..
So yeah, in a sense you're very harsh but right. I should have known better, but since there's a major shortage of certified teachers where I live, I'll always be able to get a job and have an income, so I'm safe like that, I suppose. I just don't feel right doing it.
Yeah, you should have known better ..... you can chalk that up to being brainless
Posted by P-AngelLOL, thanks! 😛
Yeah, you should have known better ..... you can chalk that up to being brainless
You're not helpless. You've made this thread, and have taken the attitude to display to us your completely helpless.
How ridiculous it is of you to come in here and ask total strangers what you should do for a living ... as if anyone in here knows your talents, skills and knowledge.
You intentionally choose a vocation that you know you'll hate, because you already know you can't handle the people ... but, you do it anyway, just to pout about how much you hate it.
Acting helpless, when you're not .. isn't cute. And it certainly doesn't help to improve the Virgo image in here where people already think they are thoughtless people.
Posted by jpxI 100% understand. Sounds like you're an introverf for sure. One of my friends status the exact same thing to me. "You'll always have to work with some people!!" Well, yes, of course.. she shouldn't undertake that for me there is a massive difference between working with what feels to me like zillions of people everyday versus with just a few and occasional other interactions here and there.Posted by AriesIntrovert16Yeah, sorry, don't have any problem at all working "with" or "for" somebody. I just don't want to be at the forefront and have to face hundreds of people everyday :/Posted by jpxAn accountant?Posted by AriesIntrovert16Not sure, I don't want to deal too much with people.
What about a merchandiser?
You'll always have to work for/with someone, unless you want to be an entrepreneur, and even then you'll still have to sell stuff to other people.click to expand
Posted by P-AngelNo, I'm not helpess.
You're not helpless. You've made this thread, and have taken the attitude to display to us your completely helpless.
How ridiculous it is of you to come in here and ask total strangers what you should do for a living ... as if anyone in here knows your talents, skills and knowledge.
You intentionally choose a vocation that you know you'll hate, because you already know you can't handle the people ... but, you do it anyway, just to pout about how much you hate it.
Acting helpless, when you're not .. isn't cute. And it certainly doesn't help to improve the Virgo image in here where people already think they are thoughtless people.
I'm going back to university this monday.
I just wanted a discussion about it. You don't have to participate in it at all if it's that brainless to you, I am sure you have better things to do. That to me, after all, sounds pretty brainless.
Posted by duchesslibroThank you, there's a huge difference for me working with other people and to take on the development of others and having to be patient, feeling, compassionate and incredibly flexible to others every day which is what I have to be as a teacher.Posted by jpxI 100% understand. Sounds like you're an introverf for sure. One of my friends status the exact same thing to me. "You'll already have to work with some people!!" Well, yes, of course.. she shouldn't undertake that for me there is a massive difference between working with what feels to me like zillions of people everyday versus with just a few and occasional other interactions here and there.Posted by AriesIntrovert16Yeah, sorry, don't have any problem at all working "with" or "for" somebody. I just don't want to be at the forefront and have to face hundreds of people everyday :/Posted by jpxAn accountant?Posted by AriesIntrovert16Not sure, I don't want to deal too much with people.
What about a merchandiser?
You'll always have to work for/with someone, unless you want to be an entrepreneur, and even then you'll still have to sell stuff to other people.click to expand
Also, I am completely drained from experiences in my personal life, and I didn't know those things would happen to me when I started studying to become a teacher either.
Things have changed for me since I was 20, as they do. I might have been able and more suited for this job if those events never happened, but they did.
What is it you want to discuss? You said you wanted to have a discussion ....
So, what is it?
You want people to discuss with you what kind of a job you should get? .... as in, you have no clue that random people on a forum don't know you?
Ok, so what do you want to discuss?
You want to talk about how much you hate?
Posted by jpx
there's a huge difference for me working with other people and to take on the development of others and having to be patient, feeling, compassionate and incredibly flexible to others every day which is what I have to be as a teacher.
Also, I am completely drained from experiences in my personal life, and I didn't know those things would happen to me when I started studying to become a teacher either.
Things have changed for me since I was 20, as they do. I might have been able and more suited for this job if those events never happened, but they did.
Oh, so you are just looking for a place to go wa, wa, wa, wa
Become "specialized" in some way through your teaching background where you can act as a consultant or deal with people -- one on one
Posted by aquapiscescuspYeah, that's a good idea! Thanks! 🙂
Become "specialized" in some way through your teaching background where you can act as a consultant or deal with people -- one on one
You can ignore P-Angel if you'd rather OP. She likely means well but will probably just piss you off.
As if you don't already feel like a failure for spending time and money to secure a career you hate.
She doesn't need help to know it was bad choice P. She knows.
As if you don't already feel like a failure for spending time and money to secure a career you hate.
She doesn't need help to know it was bad choice P. She knows.
Posted by jpxno problem, use what you already have built to take you further 🙂Posted by aquapiscescuspYeah, that's a good idea! Thanks! 🙂
Become "specialized" in some way through your teaching background where you can act as a consultant or deal with people -- one on oneclick to expand
Oh, so you are just looking for a place to go wa, wa, wa, wa
So, you weren't looking for a discussion .... take the libra for example, as soon as she said she understands, you then cry about how awful your job is.
That's not opening this thread for discussion .. .it's opening it up so you have a place to wallow in self pity.
You don't want a discussion ... you're not discussion anything ..... you're moaning because you made bad choices
Posted by duchesslibro
She doesn't need help to know it was bad choice P. She knows.
I'll tell you what ... you use your approach and I'll use mine.
You don't know what she knows. Don't be stupid.
Posted by jpxPosted by aquapiscescuspYeah, that's a good idea! Thanks! 🙂
Become "specialized" in some way through your teaching background where you can act as a consultant or deal with people -- one on oneclick to expand
It was a good idea to NOT spend 4 years of time and money on a career that you knew you'd fail in ..... but, you didn't even listen to your own goddam self.
Posted by duchesslibroWe all make bad choices. There are parts of it that works for me, obviously, but I mostly made the choice as a strategic one, to have that security.
You can ignore P-Angel if you'd rather OP. She likely means well but will probably just piss you off.
As if you don't already feel like a failure for spending time and money to secure a career you hate.
She doesn't need help to know it was bad choice P. She knows.
And people do change.
The discussion is simply just, what options are there?
I'm going back to university next week already, doing something I enjoy, which is studying languages. There is a slight plan to become a translator, but I haven't decided yet.
I guess I just wanted to hear from people that have been in sort of the same situation, or if anyone had any idea based on my chart what would be suitable.
If I wanted to wallow in self pity, I wouldn't have quit my job today and I wouldn't have already made plans for new studies. I just wanted to explain my situation.
I love the title, you say you're having second thoughts.
really? seconds thoughts NOW .. after you've already used up 4 years?
So, you had no clue up to this point where second thoughts begin to creep in .. you didn't know until then that you couldn't manage dealing with people?
where have you been living? .... under a rock?
OP, if you had to change careers it's also possible. I worked for a woman who was a teacher for years and then in her forties became a lawyer (more on the consulting side) and made a fortune.
It's never too late to change anything, it's when you procrastinate and feel miserable that it doesn't help you.
It's never too late to change anything, it's when you procrastinate and feel miserable that it doesn't help you.
Posted by P-AngelWell, from a professional point of view, the problem is quite the opposite. I've done well in my career.Posted by jpxPosted by aquapiscescuspYeah, that's a good idea! Thanks! 🙂
Become "specialized" in some way through your teaching background where you can act as a consultant or deal with people -- one on one
It was a good idea to NOT spend 4 years of time and money on a career that you knew you'd fail in ..... but, you didn't even listen to your own goddam self.
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But emotionally, you're right, I'm not happy.
Things in my society changed since 2006 (when I started the training) and things in my private life changed.
Posted by P-AngelNo, those thoughts came creeping already 2 years ago.
I love the title, you say you're having second thoughts.
really? seconds thoughts NOW .. after you've already used up 4 years?
So, you had no clue up to this point where second thoughts begin to creep in .. you didn't know until then that you couldn't manage dealing with people?
where have you been living? .... under a rock?
That's why I've switched work places and tried on different roles within my line of career.
I can manage dealing with people to an extent, but like I said, things have changed for people in my line of work, trust me when I say I'm not the only one who feels this.
Posted by aquapiscescuspYup, you're right, and I don't plan to do that, I want to try something completely new.
OP, if you had to change careers it's also possible. I worked for a woman who was a teacher for years and then in her forties became a lawyer (more on the consulting side) and made a fortune.
It's never too late to change anything, it's when you procrastinate and feel miserable that it doesn't help you.
I was thinking of law as well, last year I had plans to start studying to become a paralegal but it would require full time studies for two years and me having to travel for quite a bit each day to get there. It seemed too much trouble then, and I resorted to try another role in my current profession. Didn't work out, but it was worth a chance, I guess.
Posted by jpx
I wouldn't have quit my job today and I wouldn't have already made plans for new studies. I just wanted to explain my situation.
So, you just quit your job? What was the point in moaning about how much you hate it, if you quit?
Or, are you lying to save face? Because it seems awfully odd how one breath you're crying about what are you going to do, and then the next breath you say you don't even work there.
Why do you feel the need to get validation from people on forum? ... why would you think you need to explain your situation to strangers?
YOu cannot even keep yourself straight in here, and talk out of both sides of your mouth. Because if you didn't work there, then you wouldn't have to say you hate your job.
So, on top of you being a ridiculous role model for yourself .... you're a liar./
I remember when I was 15, all I wanted to pursue was arts and design. almost 10 years later whilst studying everything related to it I chose not to pursue the field even after being successful at it.
Funny enough I picked my cafe/bar work back up, throughout all the years of studying I found out that I quite enjoy the job and now years later again I find myself still enjoying it and tackling it from the top. It's weird how I thought being able to work alone and do whatever I want would make me happy, turns out being around people and making them happy makes me happy lol.
There was a transition where I freelanced before moving almost full time in hospitality and even now I enjoy doing the few odd jobs. Maybe start tutoring, I suppose 1on1 setting would be much easier than a whole crowd and less draining?
Look for careers that you feel would do well going solo. Teaching could be mentoring, through other means, perhaps study something you're passionate about and teach others the same passions so you enjoy both worlds.
Funny enough I picked my cafe/bar work back up, throughout all the years of studying I found out that I quite enjoy the job and now years later again I find myself still enjoying it and tackling it from the top. It's weird how I thought being able to work alone and do whatever I want would make me happy, turns out being around people and making them happy makes me happy lol.
There was a transition where I freelanced before moving almost full time in hospitality and even now I enjoy doing the few odd jobs. Maybe start tutoring, I suppose 1on1 setting would be much easier than a whole crowd and less draining?
Look for careers that you feel would do well going solo. Teaching could be mentoring, through other means, perhaps study something you're passionate about and teach others the same passions so you enjoy both worlds.
Virgos are so brainless, sometimes.
So, you just quit your job ... and don't even have anything lined up.
The course could be full and you cannot take what you want for months, for alls you know ... even when you try to defend yourself in trying to convince me you're not brainless ..... you prove you are.
So, you have an inkling of what you want to do, you like languages ... and without even knowing if you can take courses, nor how long the courses would take to complete, nor what kind of job you could secure afterwards ... you just up and quit your job, and you think that is suppose to make yourself look unfoolish?
Posted by P-AngelI know how long it will take, of course I looked that up, why are you making assumptions like this?
Virgos are so brainless, sometimes.
So, you just quit your job ... and don't even have anything lined up.
The course could be full and you cannot take what you want for months, for alls you know ... even when you try to defend yourself in trying to convince me you're not brainless ..... you prove you are.
So, you have an inkling of what you want to do, you like languages ... and without even knowing if you can take courses, nor how long the courses would take to complete, nor what kind of job you could secure afterwards ... you just up and quit your job, and you think that is suppose to make yourself look unfoolish?
I also know what sort of jobs they will lead to, I have to study languages to become a translator and that's the plan right now.
The course is not full, what are you talking about? I start on monday, I've known about this for two months.
I have money saved up and I can get another job in my profession in a heartbeat.
Things ARE planned out, but I want to work while studying.
Posted by aquasnozThank you, exactly the kind of advice I was looking for.
I remember when I was 15, all I wanted to pursue was arts and design. almost 10 years later whilst studying everything related to it I chose not to pursue the field even after being successful at it.
Funny enough I picked my cafe/bar work back up, throughout all the years of studying I found out that I quite enjoy the job and now years later again I find myself still enjoying it and tackling it from the top. It's weird how I thought being able to work alone and do whatever I want would make me happy, turns out being around people and making them happy makes me happy lol.
There was a transition where I freelanced before moving almost full time in hospitality and even now I enjoy doing the few odd jobs. Maybe start tutoring, I suppose 1on1 setting would be much easier than a whole crowd and less draining?
Look for careers that you feel would do well going solo. Teaching could be mentoring, through other means, perhaps study something you're passionate about and teach others the same passions so you enjoy both worlds.
Very inspiring!
I've only really had two jobs, so I feel I need to get out there and try different things, but where I live, this is not an easy task at all.
The only jobs available here are basically the field I am already in. Everything else would require studies :/
Definitely some sacrifices along the way but I feel like it's worth it in the long run.
I remember studying full time while working - pretty sure I was a walking zombie half the time. PS caffeine pills don't work!
Have you thought about studying online?
I remember studying full time while working - pretty sure I was a walking zombie half the time. PS caffeine pills don't work!
Have you thought about studying online?
Posted by aquasnozYeah, the course I'm taking now until summer is 100% online, which is great. Next one is also online.
Definitely some sacrifices along the way but I feel like it's worth it in the long run.
I remember studying full time while working - pretty sure I was a walking zombie half the time. PS caffeine pills don't work!
Have you thought about studying online?
I need to work part time while doing this though, I have money saved up to get me by for a while, and if things get tough, I can always go back to my profession, no difficulty getting a job there but I would really like to try something different, if you know what I mean.
kquote>Posted by jpx
I don't know what to do.
What should I do?
And what should I do for a living?
I like to know exactly what I am supposed to do and how much time I have.
Posted by jpx
I know how long it will take, of course I looked that up, why are you making assumptions like this?
The course is not full, what are you talking about?
I start on monday, I've known about this for two months.
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It looks like lies fall out of your mouth with ease.
You can say one thing, and then turn around and say the complete opposite ... and be so dense that you have no idea that the people around you can actually put two and two together.
what the likely scenario is, considering you're not very bright ... is that the school wants to get rid of you because you can't manage to remember what you lied about, and they cannot have you influencing the children.
Posted by P-AngelOh my God, haha. This is certainly not the case, you wouldn't be more way off than this, haha. Where do you get all these things from?
It looks like lies fall out of your mouth with ease.
You can say one thing, and then turn around and say the complete opposite ... and be so dense that you have no idea that the people around you can actually put two and two together.
what the likely scenario is, considering you're not very bright ... is that the school wants to get rid of you because you can't manage to remember what you lied about, and they cannot have you influencing the children.
Posted by P-AngelOf course I'm not SURE of what to do.
Posted by jpx
I don't know what to do.
What should I do?
And what should I do for a living?
I like to know exactly what I am supposed to do and how much time I have.
Posted by jpx
I know how long it will take, of course I looked that up, why are you making assumptions like this?
The course is not full, what are you talking about?
I start on monday, I've known about this for two months.
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I have a plan, but I'm not SURE it's what I want to do.
I'm going to TRY, but who knows if it will work out?
I'm still open to suggestions and ideas, that's what I mean. Don't turn it into something else and accuse me of things.
Posted by jpxI think you'll do fine 🙂 you mentioned you relate to the Aquarius Rising, part of being one is embracing the change and just go with it. I feel like perhaps it's the virgoness analyzing this too much and wanting second opinions? 😛Posted by aquasnozYeah, the course I'm taking now until summer is 100% online, which is great. Next one is also online.
Definitely some sacrifices along the way but I feel like it's worth it in the long run.
I remember studying full time while working - pretty sure I was a walking zombie half the time. PS caffeine pills don't work!
Have you thought about studying online?
I need to work part time while doing this though, I have money saved up to get me by for a while, and if things get tough, I can always go back to my profession, no difficulty getting a job there but I would really like to try something different, if you know what I mean.click to expand
If it doesn't work out I offer another view: choose something not work related that'll make you happy or as alien as it sounds to some out there, just so something your happy and eventually the money may just come your way.
I understand your struggle. I think you might be better off considering I have been an educator for 8 school years and I feel like I am in the same spot that I was in 8 years ago. My job doesn't pay well and the administration doesn't show any appreciation whatsoever but my kids make me appreciate my job more than anything. I want to change careers and I have done every career test possible. I started applying to positions within schools that don't require actual teaching. Some careers that have come up in my search have been operations, counseling, virtual tutoring, and professional development trainer. Wish you the best!
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I'm now a fully certified teacher in five different subjects and I've been working since 2011. First two years were fine, since then it has been a constant battle for me.
It stresses me out completely to work so closely with people, to have people around me all day along.
I will literally be so tired when I get home that I can't talk to anyone or be around anyone.
Without getting into further detail, being a teacher in my country is among the most stressful and underappreciated jobs you can possibly have.
I don't know what to do. I ask everyone around me and they can all see that I'm unhappy but that the decision is mine.
Is there any help for me here?
What should I do?
And what should I do for a living?
I already know I need a clear structure. I like structure, I learn things pretty fast, I like to know exactly what I am supposed to do and how much time I have.
I can have unorthodox solutions and ways of getting there, but I always get things done.
I prefer working by myself and with clearly structured assignments, I don't like working with people.
I want to work with organizing things, I like helping, being somebody's right hand.
This is my chart:
Sun Virgo 16°40' Ascendant Capricorn 15°01'
Moon Scorpio 24°44' II Aries 1°53'
Mercury Virgo 20°14' III Taurus 12°41'
Venus Scorpio 1°55' IV Gemini 2°56'
Mars Capricorn 16°37' V Gemini 17°03'
Jupiter Pisces 18°02' R VI Gemini 29°48'
Saturn Sagittarius 3°58' VII Cancer 15°01'
Uranus Sagittarius 18°26' VIII Libra 1°53'
Neptune Capricorn 3°03' R IX Scorpio 12°41'
Pluto Scorpio 5°25' Midheaven Sagittarius 2°56'
Lilith Gemini 21°44' XI Sagittarius 17°03'
Asc node Aries 21°05' XII Sagittarius 29°48'
(though I have in other places been told my rising sign is Aquarius? Whenever reading about it, I feel more at home with that placement)
Aspects:
Planet Aspect Planet Orb Orb/Value
Sun Conjunction Mercury 3°34' 695
Sun Trine Mars 0°03' 207
Sun Opposition Jupiter 1°22' -382
Sun Square Uranus 1°46' -92
Sun Trine Ascendant 1°39' 79
Moon Sextile Mercury 4°29' 26
Moon Trine Jupiter 6°42' 17
Moon Conjunction Saturn 9°14' 3
Mercury Trine Mars 3°37' 150
Mercury Opposition Jupiter 2°12' -442
Mercury Square Uranus 1°49' -115
Mercury Trine Ascendant 5°14' 42
Venus Sextile Neptune 1°08' 97
Venus Conjunction Pluto 3°30' 218
Mars Sextile Jupiter 1°25' 308
Mars Conjunction Ascendant 1°37' 262
Jupiter Square Uranus 0°24' -112
Jupiter Sextile Ascendant 3°01' 59
Neptune Sextile Pluto 2°22