I keep falling for virgo moons? Please help?!

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So I've been on dating apps lately and have been on a couple dates with different guys. However, I keep finding myself getting attracted to virgo moons again and again. These are the two virgo moons (that I know of) I've met in the span of 5 months.

The first guy was a cancer sun, virgo moon, cancer venus, taurus mars; he was sweet and good at sex but way too sensitive and insecure (no matter how much I tried to reassure him!). We went on some great dates on which he would always talk about the future but then he would not text me for days so I dumped him.

Second guy is a sag sun, virgo moon, aquarius venus, sag mars; he is gentlemanly, considerate but also really fun to be around. We went on one date which was really great. I felt a stronger connection with him than cancer guy. He pursued me hard before the date but now he says he's really busy with work and turned into an awful texter. I would normally dump him but asked him to be friends since he seems fun to hang around. He's agreed and texts me a bit more now. But idk.

Anyway so there's a lack of virgo in my birthchart which might explain why I'm so drawn to them. But if I am doomed for a virgo moon men purgatory... I might as well ask... to all virgo moon out there... What was your favourite characteristics of ex or current partners? What is your love language? How do you act when you are into someone? What about in love? 🙂 Are you awful texters naturally? Do you normally get in trouble with loved ones because you are so busy you seem absent? If yes, why do you do that? Please let me know. 🙂
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virgo love language = acts of service

Yes I figured its what they like to do for others. Is it also what they want to receive? I feel like they are soooo particular its hard to do stuff for them hahahaha. Virgos.... what do yall like?

im not a virgo but i know a virgo sun very intimately & have a lot friends w/ virgo moons.

ime, the best way to show appreciation is by mirroring back their acts of service. i often find they are adept at figuring out what i need to make things more efficient in my life & do it without me asking. in return, i pay attention to the things they say/complain about & try to make things run easier for them too. i guess, using your intuition is best.

also, i am a gift giver. i like to give small things to show i am thinking about the person. they seem to like that. i find that if i verbalize too much how i appreciate them, they get flustered & embarrassed. a small gift shows them appreciation w/ out putting them in the spotlight.
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Ok. Great advice. The sag sun gave me an amazing 30 min massage on our first date and I told him I'd return the favor (which he still insists on), so I guess I was on the right track. 😂

I express my love language through quality time, words, and gifts. I have had virgo sun as friends before but thinking back, I think they appreciated me listening and giving advice the most (feels sooo satisfying to have virgo take your advice). However virgo moon men are like a brick wall lol. Their emotions are either 'fine' or 'busy' lol. Obviously, both guys I dated were overwhelmed (cancersun with family stuff and sag sun with work stuff) but they don't want to talk about it so... 🤷 If I stick around do they open up? I don't want to be too available and understanding either...
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i always complain about not getting enough texts from this virgo moon i'm obsessed with but often i don't even reply to people for hours. sometimes i'd even put it on read and not reply.


Lol how does he respond to your complaining? I want to complain too but I'm afraid to come off clingy hahaha. But yes the virgo suns i was friends with are also notoriously bad texters. Which weird for a mercury ruled sign but yeah.
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i always complain about not getting enough texts from this virgo moon i'm obsessed with but often i don't even reply to people for hours. sometimes i'd even put it on read and not reply.

Lol how does he respond to your complaining? I want to complain too but I'm afraid to come off clingy hahaha. But yes the virgo suns i was friends with are also notoriously bad texters. Which weird for a mercury ruled sign but yeah.
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i passive-aggressively delete texts that he puts on read
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i always complain about not getting enough texts from this virgo moon i'm obsessed with but often i don't even reply to people for hours. sometimes i'd even put it on read and not reply.

Lol how does he respond to your complaining? I want to complain too but I'm afraid to come off clingy hahaha. But yes the virgo suns i was friends with are also notoriously bad texters. Which weird for a mercury ruled sign but yeah.

i passive-aggressively delete texts that he puts on read
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Hahahah ok im a leo mars so this just doesn't work for me. 😂😂😂 But the cancer sun was super shady/cunning and had disabled read receipts. 🙄 He was just.... something.
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if this is any help, recently virgo sun had an appointment w/ a therapist & i asked him to keep in the loop w/ how it went.

he texted about how the appt went but didnt mention how he felt about it. so, i told him “i am interested in hearing about how you felt about the meeting, if you feel moved to share.” he opened right up about how he felt.

if he cares, a gentle yet firm request to know more, should work.


Wow, that's really good advice. Keeping this one for all the virgo, cap, aqua, & gem moons I will encounter in the future. 😂😂 Also this why I loove water signs lol. They're always reminding me to communicate feelings.

And yeah I think I'm finally figuring out that virgos require a looot of patience. Lol
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i always complain about not getting enough texts from this virgo moon i'm obsessed with but often i don't even reply to people for hours. sometimes i'd even put it on read and not reply.

Lol how does he respond to your complaining? I want to complain too but I'm afraid to come off clingy hahaha. But yes the virgo suns i was friends with are also notoriously bad texters. Which weird for a mercury ruled sign but yeah.

i passive-aggressively delete texts that he puts on read

You got to stop doing that, with anyone. It makes you look unstable. I'm not saying you are unstable, I am just saying that he is already read it so deleting it looks weird. I have a lot of anxiety so I try to delete things before people see them, but afterwards all bets are off.
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i've only done it once with him
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Virgo suns & venus and people who dated virgo moons, please also add input. 🙂


Interesting I notice you are an aqua moon. So am I. Had an amazing relationship with a Virgo sun but pre internet/texting. I have had an off & on again relationship with a Cap sun, Virgo moon. He has admitted to me that when he doesn’t know what to say,, he just doesn’t say anything. He does way better on the phone & even better in person. He is insecure and hides when he’s upset. Communication can be a problem. It’s taken us three years to figure out some majorly important things.. however when he’s happy he texts consistently, but pretty rarely while either of us is working. He respects work lol. He does make the effort though when it’s important.. right now he says he wants to break down his huge walls.. and work on his insecurities. But truth is in the action.

Trying to understand them goes a long ways. Letting them be them, have their choices and coming towards you instead of making demands. Being kind and acts of service too. It took him a long time to realize I’m for real, sweet and kind and it’s a good thing not fake. He comes back cuz he’s never met anyone quite like me.. 🤷‍♀️ And I’m good for him and well there are the feelings 🙃
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Posted by peaceandtranquility_96

WHY, HELLO THERE : )! I'm a virgo moon lady!!

What was your favourite characteristics of ex or current partners: I like partners who are dependable, loyal, honest, communicators, good morals, funny, and family-men. I like a partner who is mooshy gooshy and likes lots of love and kisses. I tend to go for more introverted partners and I do tend to get jealous easily.

Love language: Acts of Service, Quality Time, and Physical Touch

How do you act when you are into someone: I can't get them out of my mind. Eventually, I'll end up just straight up telling them I am into them. If they don't feel the same way, I'll just distance myself and move on

Are you awful texters naturally: OHH! 100 % yes! I am the worst texter in the world Ask any of my friends and family!! Any virgo I've ever met has been a super bad texter!

Do you normally get in trouble with loved ones because you are so busy you seem absent: Uhm, no! I actually love hanging out with my family. Sometimes, I get so distracted by the comfort of loved one's and family that I don't get my stuff done. I think It's my cancer sun though!

If yes, why do you do that: I love family! They are my everything! We all will die some day and it's important to take advantage of everyone while they're still here. I tend to get side tracked and am never the best at finishing a project. Like I said, definitely not my virgo moon. I think it's my geminian placements or my cancer sun.


Hmmmm this sounds VERY familiar!

“I can’t get them out of my mind” have you ever distanced yourself, tried to move on but then can’t.. and someone won’t get out of your mind & you miss them terribly? So go back to them?
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Posted by peaceandtranquility_96

Are you awful texters naturally: OHH! 100 % yes! I am the worst texter in the world Ask any of my friends and family!! Any virgo I've ever met has been a super bad texter!

but are you in those chat groups? like the one in snapchat or whatsap? I know a virgo moon guy, he's not a good texter, even when he kinda tries sometimes, but he's always online til late, getting snaps all day and that stuff

I don't get it, he cant be the one leading a convo, no way jose, I keep wondering what's the dynamic with him there 😅