possiblymaybe
@possiblymaybe
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I think I scared my Virgo
Ahah you're a cancer too. Almost in the same situation as me... Well one thing I learnt from Virgo boys. They take time to analyze things. I have no idea if the boy I love will contact me again since its been over a week now but for you maybe the best would be if you tell him from the heart what you meant and obviously if he won't give you a reason to be jealous for then he doesn't has to worry about you being overly jealous. Just tell him what would make you jealous and what wouldn't then see how he reacts but knowing them that will take time too :/
A: be patient and let him come to a conclustion
B: be impatient and move on.
B: be impatient and move on.
I provided my explanation already when we had the jealousy topic last week and i explained it once again yesterday, but he seems so suspicious and frankly, i hate such behaviour. I am just gonna lay low for a while🙂
Weeds, i am not impatient, but I do not like to direct my life based on somebody else's decision. But i really like him, too🙂 Geez...
Posted by possiblymaybeThat is the problem.. thats everyones problem
Weeds, i am not impatient, but I do not like to direct my life based on somebody else's decision. But i really like him, too🙂 Geez...
Well I guess then everything is in his hand unless meanwhile he is analysing too much you just decide to give up on him :/ I wish I could understand why they make such big deals about things that are normal. Their expectations are way too high....
It's normal to get jealous in love. He shouldn't have made it a big deal when he too can get jealous.
He seems mysterious. Leave him alone and find someone else.
He seems mysterious. Leave him alone and find someone else.
It's only been three weeks keep your options open let love come find you.
y!
Posted by WeedsPosted by possiblymaybeThat is the problem.. thats everyones problem
Weeds, i am not impatient, but I do not like to direct my life based on somebody else's decision. But i really like him, too🙂 Geez...click to expand
I am not planning to initiate any kind of communication.
Posted by Tanya Jones
It's normal to get jealous in love. He shouldn't have made it a big deal when he too can get jealous.
He seems mysterious. Leave him alone and find someone else.
Saying that he can get jealous too (considering the fact that he is scorpio rising), I think there is something going in behind the scene. I haven't even created any drama. So i found his reaction a bit extreme.
Posted by Tanya Jones
It's normal to get jealous in love. He shouldn't have made it a big deal when he too can get jealous.
He seems mysterious. Leave him alone and find someone else.
Posted by possiblymaybeYa that will be great. If you ignore him for a while he will definitely come for you. But i feel you deserve better.
I am not planning to initiate any kind of communication.
Posted by Tanya Jones
It's normal to get jealous in love. He shouldn't have made it a big deal when he too can get jealous.
He seems mysterious. Leave him alone and find someone else.click to expand
Posted by Tanya JonesThanks!🙂Posted by possiblymaybeYa that will be great. If you ignore him for a while he will definitely come for you. But i feel you deserve better.
I am not planning to initiate any kind of communication.
Posted by Tanya Jones
It's normal to get jealous in love. He shouldn't have made it a big deal when he too can get jealous.
He seems mysterious. Leave him alone and find someone else.click to expand
Cancers play so many games, that they cannot even comprehend the very manipulations they do.
You keeping blubbering bullshit about how he is misunderstanding you when in reality, he realized that you're full of shit.
Posted by possiblymaybe
I asked him about his friends including his girlfriends and stated that I may get jealous really if I do not know or haven't met the girls.
You come in here and pretend to be ignorant, in maintaining that his views about you are unjustified, when the reality is ... you told him the above with intentions of getting the reaction you are getting so you can play in mind fucks.
because every person with a smidgeon of common sense can recognize that by the very sentence above (that you are pretending doesn't exist), coupled with your acting surprised that he picked up on it ..... a game you're playing.
Cancers are really fucked up. Mostly because they think that nobody is smart enough to realize that they are manipulating situations. They really believe that they are getting over on others. They're really that dumb.
And the come in here with their games over and over and again.
Posted by WeedsThis is a perfect analysis. Relationships are like baking a cake. If you keep opening the oven door to check on the progress it will fall flat as a pancake. You need to take a chill pill and make him less a priority. Besides you're in the "getting to know you" phase and regardless of how things seem to start off, there are no guarantees. So keep some eggs in your basket. Don't put them all in his.
A: be patient and let him come to a conclustion
B: be impatient and move on.
That may be it, too, especially now Venus is retrograde. Thanks, Kalin.
Posted by kalin
Just go quiet and he will come back to you.
Also, it's possible an old flame came back so he was just making an excuse to be distant and buy himself sometime to figure things out with her first.
for the constructive criticism you spilled over here.
Posted by P-Angel
Cancers play so many games, that they cannot even comprehend the very manipulations they do.
You keeping blubbering bullshit about how he is misunderstanding you when in reality, he realized that you're full of shit.
Posted by possiblymaybe
I asked him about his friends including his girlfriends and stated that I may get jealous really if I do not know or haven't met the girls.
You come in here and pretend to be ignorant, in maintaining that his views about you are unjustified, when the reality is ... you told him the above with intentions of getting the reaction you are getting so you can play in mind fucks.
because every person with a smidgeon of common sense can recognize that by the very sentence above (that you are pretending doesn't exist), coupled with your acting surprised that he picked up on it ..... a game you're playing.
Cancers are really fucked up. Mostly because they think that nobody is smart enough to realize that they are manipulating situations. They really believe that they are getting over on others. They're really that dumb.
And the come in here with their games over and over and again.click to expand
You say you "spend three weeks with a Virgo"
Then as you go on, I take it you haven't met him person.
Which one is it?
Then as you go on, I take it you haven't met him person.
Which one is it?
*spent
I met him twice in person, so most of the conversations were over chat. I have known him for a total of 4 years.
Posted by LetltB
You say you "spend three weeks with a Virgo"
Then as you go on, I take it you haven't met him person.
Which one is it?
Posted by possiblymaybeOk..so c'mon now let's be realistic here. Over a a time span of four years, you've only gotten closer in the last three weeks and met him twice in person. You can't discuss stuff like this with him until you've actually physically shared the space throughout the last three weeks face to face. Not to mention, you aren't even in a relationship with him to dictate what females he speaks with.
I met him twice in person, so most of the conversations were over chat. I have known him for a total of 4 years.
Hell, with long distance relationships, it's said that in order for something like that to survive you have to be with each other at least 3-4 times a month and even then chances are great it won't work. How far does he live from you?
s mutually discussed, it wasn't me bitching and I haven't bitched🙂 However, I made my point that when I do not know his friends, I may get suspicious. He stated under what circumstances he can get jealous.
Btw, we live in the same city now🙂
Posted by LetltBPosted by possiblymaybeOk..so c'mon now let's be realistic here. Over a a time span of four years, you've only gotten closer in the last three weeks and met him twice in person. You can't discuss stuff like this with him until you've actually physically shared the space throughout the last three weeks face to face. Not to mention, you aren't even in a relationship with him to dictate what females he speaks with.
I met him twice in person, so most of the conversations were over chat. I have known him for a total of 4 years.
Hell, with long distance relationships, it's said that in order for something like that to survive you have to be with each other at least 3-4 times a month and even then chances are great it won't work. How far does he live from you?
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Haha this (sorta) sounds like me. I like when my partner is jealous , not overly so that it ends the relationship. But seeing you caring, like.. you care if you get jealous right? I think for him, he wanted things to get like more close, like.. more into the relationship before you already began to show jealous/mention it. Lol mention yeah i might get jealous playfully~. Once things are warmed up and or hot, and you're serious into the relationship, showing jealousy now and then, I think its sweet, its reassuring that you still have passion, zest, love in the relationship, enough that will make you jealous of some other little girl? Oh, how sweet s that? If you can talk to him ask him to go eat, and then just act like things are normal.
If he brings up the `jealousy thing` be like, its no big deal, and yo weren't all that serious. Virgo are quick to judge a persons character. When you came off immediately jealous, I can see what he was worried about but silly enough it wasn't a big deal despite how he `made it out to be`.
If he brings up the `jealousy thing` be like, its no big deal, and yo weren't all that serious. Virgo are quick to judge a persons character. When you came off immediately jealous, I can see what he was worried about but silly enough it wasn't a big deal despite how he `made it out to be`.
You got it!
What I don't understand is why he doesn't listen. I explain myself and he's like "ok, yeaah, but I am wired that day", meaning that he's great at creating scenarious in his head and believing in them. I am just wondering how he handled his past relationships.
He's all quiet now, not that he doesn't talk when I initiate a conversation, but he never starts a conversation. Thus, I keep my quiet now, too. And frankly, I am getting bored of this behavior. If he liked me enough to initiate every single conversation for three weeks, he shouldn't have given up in the blink of an eye🙂
What I don't understand is why he doesn't listen. I explain myself and he's like "ok, yeaah, but I am wired that day", meaning that he's great at creating scenarious in his head and believing in them. I am just wondering how he handled his past relationships.
He's all quiet now, not that he doesn't talk when I initiate a conversation, but he never starts a conversation. Thus, I keep my quiet now, too. And frankly, I am getting bored of this behavior. If he liked me enough to initiate every single conversation for three weeks, he shouldn't have given up in the blink of an eye🙂
Posted by whitedream
Haha this (sorta) sounds like me. I like when my partner is jealous , not overly so that it ends the relationship. But seeing you caring, like.. you care if you get jealous right? I think for him, he wanted things to get like more close, like.. more into the relationship before you already began to show jealous/mention it. Lol mention yeah i might get jealous playfully~. Once things are warmed up and or hot, and you're serious into the relationship, showing jealousy now and then, I think its sweet, its reassuring that you still have passion, zest, love in the relationship, enough that will make you jealous of some other little girl? Oh, how sweet s that? If you can talk to him ask him to go eat, and then just act like things are normal.
If he brings up the `jealousy thing` be like, its no big deal, and yo weren't all that serious. Virgo are quick to judge a persons character. When you came off immediately jealous, I can see what he was worried about but silly enough it wasn't a big deal despite how he `made it out to be`.
Things explode in our head. We can make something we had a passing thought about turn into a big scenario. Lol. We convince ourself what you feel before we even know you at all 😆
He probably had a lot of jealous exes, and they were extreme. So he might be scared history to repeat itself. So he backed off a little, things can warm back up with us Virgo. I don't blame you for keeping your quiet. were you guys involved, dating or just texting? It might be easier for him to make up scenarios than it would be to put things back together. As far as girls go, I would see this worth the effort. But for a guy, Im not sure. Theyre a bit different, probably more lazy when it comes to that..
If you really want things to work with him, give him a heads up and say you're wanting to go out somewhere, and invite him, give him a schedule like, don't surprise him that day. We do not care for surprises. So its better to make plans first. If he goes just try to have fun and see where things lead. Don't act jealous at all, and probably, he will be wanting you to if he sees you in person Lol. be surprised that you don't ahahaha.
He probably had a lot of jealous exes, and they were extreme. So he might be scared history to repeat itself. So he backed off a little, things can warm back up with us Virgo. I don't blame you for keeping your quiet. were you guys involved, dating or just texting? It might be easier for him to make up scenarios than it would be to put things back together. As far as girls go, I would see this worth the effort. But for a guy, Im not sure. Theyre a bit different, probably more lazy when it comes to that..
If you really want things to work with him, give him a heads up and say you're wanting to go out somewhere, and invite him, give him a schedule like, don't surprise him that day. We do not care for surprises. So its better to make plans first. If he goes just try to have fun and see where things lead. Don't act jealous at all, and probably, he will be wanting you to if he sees you in person Lol. be surprised that you don't ahahaha.
For the past week, I initiated all the conversations, so I am through with that. He would have at least said "hi" if he was interested🙂
Posted by whitedream
Things explode in our head. We can make something we had a passing thought about turn into a big scenario. Lol. We convince ourself what you feel before we even know you at all 😆
He probably had a lot of jealous exes, and they were extreme. So he might be scared history to repeat itself. So he backed off a little, things can warm back up with us Virgo. I don't blame you for keeping your quiet. were you guys involved, dating or just texting? It might be easier for him to make up scenarios than it would be to put things back together. As far as girls go, I would see this worth the effort. But for a guy, Im not sure. Theyre a bit different, probably more lazy when it comes to that..
If you really want things to work with him, give him a heads up and say you're wanting to go out somewhere, and invite him, give him a schedule like, don't surprise him that day. We do not care for surprises. So its better to make plans first. If he goes just try to have fun and see where things lead. Don't act jealous at all, and probably, he will be wanting you to if he sees you in person Lol. be surprised that you don't ahahaha.
well, if you want to keep him on with things, it depends on how much you like him. Because as a girl. I can cut ties if there are no real attachments yet. But once its been like 6 months or so things start to get a bit deeper for me (this is after starting to date and all).. He may come back, though. depends on how you want to go about it 😛
Hahaha, it'd be nice if he came back back. We could see and evaluate how to go about it together🙂 However, I highly doubt it🙂
Posted by whitedream
well, if you want to keep him on with things, it depends on how much you like him. Because as a girl. I can cut ties if there are no real attachments yet. But once its been like 6 months or so things start to get a bit deeper for me (this is after starting to date and all).. He may come back, though. depends on how you want to go about it 😛
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