IS VIRGO GUY BEING INTROVERT OR NOT INTERESTED?

HELLO!

DO virgo guys take advantage of others? I mean I texted this guy after I caught him looking at me several times when we were at college together. after graduation he got a job at the same place I work at. So I texted him saying hi I know you are new here. So I am just checking on you. and since then he texted me twice, and in both times, he was asking me to do something for him. the first one was really easy, he could call the workplace and get the answer easily. the second time he wanted me to cover his place as he was sick.....and otherwise he replies with very short answers. but when we met once, he was a nice person trying to talk, though he couldn't maintain eye contact with me. and during college days, I caught him several times looking at me, and when I catch him, he disappears.

is it worth anything?

Thank you

Lmao oh what it was to be young

If a guy is interested, you’ll know without a doubt!

5 years ago actually 😢

If he hasn’t stepped forth in 5 years, he’s clearly not interested.

Answer to your question, It’s worth nothing.

Well I mean, in a professional context letting him know you’re around- available “just checking in” as he’s new sounds like an offer on your part and logically anyone would then utilise that contact until they were more comfortable in their role.

I don’t see it as taking advantage, unless you were emotionally invested for no foreseeable reason and reading more into this than feasible.

Yes, I believe that, I see that it's okay for him to ask me as I was friendly to him. I believe he is a shy guy, watching him for 5 years at college, he wasn't that outgoing person with many friends. So, being only 1 months at work, it's possible that he hasn't established a connection with other people, especially that most of our work is online.

But when I tell anyone about what happened, they blame me for offering help or helping him. they tell me that he found out my love for him, and just uses it.