Is Virgo man interested in Pisces woman?

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TruePisces5
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Met off of a website. We're 2 mnths in. The first time we met he was affectionate; caressing my arms and hands (telling me how soft they were). Anyway, it didn't take long before we were intimate in which I had felt bad about because intimacy wasn't something that I've engaged in so quickly and since my last break up. I guess it was amazing because he had wanted more the nxt day. This through me off where I proceeded to tell him that I was more interested in building a friendship than a FWB. He said ok, then told me he'd call me back and didn't. I patiently waited with no intentions of contacting him until he reached out asking to see me again. We were intimate a 2nd time and again I told him I'd want more down the line, he agreed. Communication continued as normal then lessened to the point where for 2wks I heard nothing from him, but would see him on the site. I sent a message telling him that if he wasn't interested as I expected, he could've said that because I'm strong enough to handle anything thrown at me (no reply). He finally called. I called back the next day asking him "why he'd called me?" He seemed baffled at first then told me a story about his sis being in the hospital for surgery and how he was srry for being so distant. I said I understand but a call/text letting someone know you're ok would've been nice. We then arranged to see each other again. This time at his house. We watched movies, laughed, and talked until he tried being affectionate. Me being a sensitive Pisces could not help but to stand my ground for I was hurt. He wasn't fond of that. I called him later where he refused to talk but would text me, telling me he's not interested in seeing me anytime soon because of how I treated him. I apologized after a week of distance and eventually gave in where we were intimate again. Communication continued then lessened for this time a whole month. Before reading into Virgo men I had given up and started dating again. He later messaged me on the site asking if i didn't love him anymore where I responded with, "lol, love is a strong word. How are you though?" He replied with "oh please, you've moved on I see". I later called him asking him if he had really expected me to wait for him. He sat quietly then asked why haven't I called him in over a mnth, have I've been sleeping with anyone, etc? I played it cool and laughed telling him I've been dating and enjoying life. He asked "how's that going?" and I said well. He then asked to see me and
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I declined at first telling him I didn't want to see him right now. He got so upset. Telling me he's over me and would move on. Saying he's going to see someone else who wants his company and I said that's cool, drive safely. He then called me telling me to stop acting like I cared. (I did care) then he hung up saying he's done but then kept texting me, asking if I had changed my mind lol. The nxt day he asked if he could see me, I said ok. He stood me up which made me feel a way but I stood my ground and made no contact as if I didn't care. He called the nxt day asking to see me again where I said no. He through a fit telling me I'm always rejecting him, thinking he just wants sex when that's not the case and how he could get it elsewhere if he wanted to. I said that's cool. Then he textes me saying he was locked out of his house and had to sleep in his car. Me being a caring Pisces couldn't let that happen and invited him over. He came and I showed no interest at first. I played on my phone where he made smart remarks asking if that was my bf upset with the fact that he was there lol. It was only after laying in his arms where he held onto me firmly while he slept where I had came to the conclusion that he was testing me. The chemistry got stronger when he awakened during my follow ups on scandal where he tried caressing me but I pushed him away saying he doesn't get rewarded when he acts out. He then surrendered and began kissing me for the first time. He felt so passionate. 🙂 so what do you guys think? Is he interested or playing along for the sex? What should my next move be now that I'm onto him?
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Posted by TruePisces5
I declined at first telling him I didn't want to see him right now. He got so upset. Telling me he's over me and would move on. Saying he's going to see someone else who wants his company and I said that's cool, drive safely. He then called me telling me to stop acting like I cared. (I did care) then he hung up saying he's done but then kept texting me, asking if I had changed my mind lol. The nxt day he asked if he could see me, I said ok. He stood me up which made me feel a way but I stood my ground and made no contact as if I didn't care. He called the nxt day asking to see me again where I said no. He through a fit telling me I'm always rejecting him, thinking he just wants sex when that's not the case and how he could get it elsewhere if he wanted to. I said that's cool. Then he textes me saying he was locked out of his house and had to sleep in his car. Me being a caring Pisces couldn't let that happen and invited him over. He came and I showed no interest at first. I played on my phone where he made smart remarks asking if that was my bf upset with the fact that he was there lol. It was only after laying in his arms where he held onto me firmly while he slept where I had came to the conclusion that he was testing me. The chemistry got stronger when he awakened during my follow ups on scandal where he tried caressing me but I pushed him away saying he doesn't get rewarded when he acts out. He then surrendered and began kissing me for the first time. He felt so passionate. 🙂 so what do you guys think? Is he interested or playing along for the sex? What should my next move be now that I'm onto him?



I missed this post. Ok, he's definitely playing you. You're both playing a game. He said he was over you and would move on, he hung up on you then began texting you. You didn't respond so he pulled out the "I'm in distress" card by probably lying to you that he was locked out of his house. My instinct tells me he wanted to see if you would give into him and you did. If you there's not much more to the story, then it seems to me that he isn't really interested in something serious. Even if he says he's a homebody, people need to get out when dating. YOu need to know how people are, in and outside of social interaction. He "may" also be hiding something from you.
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I declined at first telling him I didn't want to see him right now. He got so upset. Telling me he's over me and would move on. Saying he's going to see someone else who wants his company and I said that's cool, drive safely. He then called me telling me to stop acting like I cared. (I did care) then he hung up saying he's done but then kept texting me, asking if I had changed my mind lol. The nxt day he asked if he could see me, I said ok. He stood me up which made me feel a way but I stood my ground and made no contact as if I didn't care. He called the nxt day asking to see me again where I said no. He through a fit telling me I'm always rejecting him, thinking he just wants sex when that's not the case and how he could get it elsewhere if he wanted to. I said that's cool. Then he textes me saying he was locked out of his house and had to sleep in his car. Me being a caring Pisces couldn't let that happen and invited him over. He came and I showed no interest at first. I played on my phone where he made smart remarks asking if that was my bf upset with the fact that he was there lol. It was only after laying in his arms where he held onto me firmly while he slept where I had came to the conclusion that he was testing me. The chemistry got stronger when he awakened during my follow ups on scandal where he tried caressing me but I pushed him away saying he doesn't get rewarded when he acts out. He then surrendered and began kissing me for the first time. He felt so passionate. 🙂 so what do you guys think? Is he interested or playing along for the sex? What should my next move be now that I'm onto him?
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I missed this post. Ok, he's definitely playing you. You're both playing a game. He said he was over you and would move on, he hung up on you then began texting you. You didn't respond so he pulled out the "I'm in distress" card by probably lying to you that he was locked out of his house. My instinct tells me he wanted to see if you would give into him and you did. If you there's not much more to the story, then it seems to me that he isn't really interested in something serious. Even if he says he's a homebody, people need to get out when dating. YOu need to know how people are, in and outside of social interaction. He "may" also be hiding somethin
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I missed this post. Ok, he's definitely playing you. You're both playing a game. He said he was over you and would move on, he hung up on you then began texting you. You didn't respond so he pulled out the "I'm in distress" card by probably lying to you that he was locked out of his house. My instinct tells me he wanted to see if you would give into him and you did. If you there's not much more to the story, then it seems to me that he isn't really interested in something serious. Even if he says he's a homebody, people need to get out when dating. YOu need to know how people are, in and outside of social interaction. He "may" also be hiding something from you.



I felt this way but thought I could turn the tables if I ignored him but I've realized I gave in too soon. Do you think I still have a shot at turning the tables?
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TruePisces5
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TruePisces never try to trick a man into loving you. If he's interested and wants to be with you, then you don't have to play these games because he will meet you half way. And it takes two people to make a relationship work. If you're the only person fighting to make the relationship work, then he's just not that into you. Let it go. A man who's invested in you will move mountains to make it work, not go no contact.



Thank you for your helpful advice. I will certainly take this into consideration.
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LittlePisces
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13 Years

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That happened to me. Stop it. Message me. He told me his aunt passed away. I don't know anymore. Guess what, he found a girl from my girl group and added her on facebook. I asked her and she told me they met online and he wanted to go out with her. LOrd and behold it was the same time when he disappeared and grieved for his aunt. after I found out I did not confront him. Instead I stayed around and wait for things to get better. Things didn't get better and not gonna get better. He's just not a human being who appreciates people who love him. I am a Pisces. too simple too naive.
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Posted by TruePisces5
I'm far from stupid. I don't do much of the calling or texting unless he reaches out to me and I've played my part in being unavailable for the most part. What now?



Your first mistake was making your twat available immediately and playing that part. Not his fault. You let him know you were easy as pie, and that is the standard you set for yourself. How' that feel? I cannot believe how EASY men have it to simply get laid. You and so many other females are a fucking embarassment. Wanna feel good about yourself next time you do this? CHARGE MONEY BEFORE YOU SPREAD.
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Posted by TruePisces5

I felt this way but thought I could turn the tables if I ignored him but I've realized I gave in too soon. Do you think I still have a shot at turning the tables?




lol...yes, you have a shot at turning the tables..get on all fours.
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Lets not get beside ourselves. It is 2014, it doesn't matter how long you make a man wait. I've done the whole 3 month rule and have found that men who wait that long are just as full of butter as the ones who don't. It's not like I've done this with every man I've encountered. My last relationship prior to my encounter with Virguy lasted 3 years with a Cap before I ended it and we got intimate within only 1 month of dating so spare me the fatuous comments. I'm a fish that doesn't dwell on things I can't change and have already moved on from this situation, you should do the same!
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Posted by TruePisces5

Lets not get beside ourselves. It is 2014, it doesn't matter how long you make a man wait. I've done the whole 3 month rule and have found that men who wait that long are just as full of butter as the ones who don't. It's not like I've done this with every man I've encountered. My last relationship prior to my encounter with Virguy lasted 3 years with a Cap before I ended it and we got intimate within only 1 month of dating so spare me the fatuous comments. I'm a fish that doesn't dwell on things I can't change and have already moved on from this situation, you should do the same!




No thanks. I'll stick with patience and class. Desperation does not exist in my vocabulary.