IT IS OVER... (Page 2)

Ok tanya...imagine yourself as a scales.....stretch out your hands....into one hand I blow a ton of feathers.....and in the other.....a ton of giggles....now throw the feathers up into the air and then the giggles and fall back and rest in them as they descend:-) upon you.........balance is a-coming slowly and surely:-)

A x

Oh so ........ Tan


Ax

I am on my way out of town with my Virgo man. I will find out if it is over or not? 😛

You all have a great weekend! 😉

Good luck......We await with bated breath Escorpiona:-)

A x

So Escorpiona...what happened on your weekend away?

Well, the verdict is not out yet, nor do I think it will be out in a looooooooong time...

My weekend with my Virgo man went well. We stayed out of town for 2 nights instead of the one night only we had originally planned. We arrived Sunday at noon and went to his parents for the usual Sunday get together Mexican meal. All his family was very nice to me. I had meet his parents in New Year's eve and again they were very friendly and easy going... He dropped me off at my house at 2:00 pm.

In retrospect now to my weekend, we did not talk about exclusivity nor relationship and just went with the flow as he had asked, but I realized few things. I enjoy his company, sex was good, but I sure was expecting longer and more variety sessions. He drinks too much, but can handle his alcohol well. He even told me, on our way back home, about a lady he dated last summer for 4 months, and he said she complained of such, I did not say anything to him about his drinking, he just said they were looking for different things out of life. She was too serious and not in the same page as him, yes he has told me the page thing to me before, but this weekend I tried to be on the same page as him. Also after all our conversations this weekend and knowing him now for 4 months, I know he takes forever to make any decisions. Just as an example, he has been thinking about buying a corvette for 2 years now. He had one bought last week, with all the paper work done and singed on the dotted line but then called the dealer and said to put it on hold. He is now saying next year maybe he will buy it.

More samples, he accepted a new job on Friday he wanted real bad, and was after for the last 3 weeks, but this weekend he was saying that maybe he will stay at his old job if they give him the change he has been looking for. So I know that if he takes so long to make decisions as to cars, jobs and what have you, he will do the same or even take more time, yes a Virgo trait, to decide if he is in the relationship with me long term or not.

I do not know if I want to wait that long, and I am wondering if we are compatible, specially sexually. As a Scorpio I am very sexual and I do not take forever to make important decisions. Anyway, that is where I am at now, with my Virgo man.

Oh yes, he invited me to a live band concert for next Tuesday and this morning he sent me a message saying "good morning baby, thinking of u" I have not responded yet. I will call him later though.

So ther

So there you have it, he may be more into me, even if in a slow mode, than I am into him, after all. I just don't know...

I dunno.

I've read through the whole thread (o-*kay*, I'm right before the start of my cycle and feeling very hormonal...sheesh!)...

And I really think this is a nice, sweet Virguy....

It's only been three months, and men move much slower than women.

I think this is an okay relationship -- not great, but better than nothing. I would give it some time....

Just MHO!

Last nite my Virgo man, my almost 14 yrs old daughter and I went to dinner. I invited him, via text mssg with only few hrs notice, to a sushi restaurant and Italian gelato afterwards. Before we left the house my kid (she had met my Virgo man very casually at my other kid's house that one time I took him to a party a month ago) said that "oh mom, he is so boring" lol

Anyway we met at the restaurant and I paid, then went next door to the ice cream parlor and they both had ice cream and I paid. He made no gesture not even to pay for the gelato even though it was only $ 6.00. I know I invited him but gosh at least he should have pretended he wanted to pay the ice cream, which in reality I would had said no. By the way, the weekend trip, since we stayed in 2 different hotels I paid the second nite and we paid evenly for most of the stuff, not the gasoline though, but he was going to go to the trip anyway, even if I had not accompanied him.

Back to last night, on our way back home, my kid said "mom he is not boring, he is just shy, but I do not think he is your type." Even my kid sensed he is not the man for me.

Last night, before I went to bed, I pondered about my last 4 months with my Virgo man and why I have stuck to the relationship all this time and I concluded that I REALLY like my Virgo man, and since I learned (on this site) that these men are so slow as to anything and everything, I had the hope that maybe if I gave him sufficient time, things would take a turn for the better and even though it has improved a bit it is not enough for me... My Virgo man, bottom line, even though there are few things I am not content with, he is a nice person, but not the guy for me. I see no long term future with him.

Continues...

Continuation...

Those things that are posing a concern to me in regards to my Virgo man (drinks too much, sex not mind blowing, not so giving with his money or affection, his lack of regular contact with me, his pace as to take actions in even in the most simple stuff) are not matters that I can over look. In the long term I will definitively end up regretting them and that it is not what I want to happen since I am looking for the greatest love of my life with lots of chemistry and compatibility and my Virgo man is not it.

I am not settling for less than I want and I am not desperate to be in a relationship (I have been alone most of the 10 yrs that I have been divorced and I will keep waiting for the right man to appear) thus I will continue to casually date my Virgo man and since we are not in an exclusive relationship, nor do I want to be any longer, I am leaving my doors open to meet the one for me. I think we have very few chapters left to be together. I sense my Virgo man knows it too and we are just going with the flow as he has asked on numerous time...

Yesterday afternoon I posted a new ad on a personal site. And that is all folks!

Soon it will be NEXXT! 😛

Well, for gosh sakes, you never *mentioned* he was boring!

I don't do boring either! Eject, eject!

Oh well..at least you made a decision...and am glad you had the opportunity to find out etc..I think Scorpio women are quite fiery and need that kind of man as well to be honest. Thats not to say all virgo men are boring..Its whether we have the patience to wait around...Escorpiona you have a Leo moon..maybe you need to seek out a Leo..LOL..

And Roxi, what is sooo wrong with Aries men? apart from the power struggles..

P.s boring is fine with me...at times I can be a real bore..(usually when I am feeling non-social)

😛

Oh dear...really?

boing

I knew it had to be the smart P-Angel to bring my threads up... Thank you dear!

Bump!

Ya know, Escorp...I'm gonna criticize you...in what I hope is a nice, very helpful way....

You solicit others' opinions on this man far too much! I think he is an okay man. Granted, less emotional than you, more matter of fact...but he genuinely cares.

Trust your intuitions more...you keep going back to him...that means something!