Leo guy rejected me but still wants to be friends

So I’ve been having feelings for this leo guy. Since we both like art and music and make each other laugh.

Even though I have been giving him hints that I like him. With flirty comments and conversations. He never responded back and I thought it bothered him or made him uncomfortable. That I backed off for a bit.

Till I finally had enough of trying and it was hurting me. That I unfollowed him and tried to block him on social media. But the system was was loading very slow for me to do the full deed. He caught me during the moment and confronted me. Why I unfollowed him and tried to block him.

I told him I didn’t want to bother him anymore and make him uncomfortable by my flirtation. He was confused and said he enjoys our conversation. That I finally opened up to him and expressed my feelings for him.

That this came as a shock to him. He needed a minute to think about this. Till he told me, he doesn’t feel the same way for me. But he still wants to remain friends since he enjoys our chats.

I’m a Virgo, it’s very hard to open myself up like this and be rejected.

That now, I’m just healing and it’s going to be a long process for me to get back to normal.

I don’t know why he wants me around if he doesn’t like me the way I do.

Because he enjoys you fawning over him.

Same reason why my Leo ex won't take a hint and doesn't believe that I'm completely over him. I dumped him almost a year ago.

Worst thing you can do to him is pretend he doesn't exist. As a Virgo mooner myself, I'm excellent at icing people out. And he cannot stand it. At least once a week he'll try to initiate a conversation and he'll use anything. Even my recently departed mother.

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So I’ve been having feelings for this leo guy. Since we both like art and music and make each other laugh.

Even though I have been giving him hints that I like him. With flirty comments and conversations. He never responded back and I thought it bothered him or made him uncomfortable. That I backed off for a bit.

Till I finally had enough of trying and it was hurting me. That I unfollowed him and tried to block him on social media. But the system was was loading very slow for me to do the full deed. He caught me during the moment and confronted me. Why I unfollowed him and tried to block him.

I told him I didn’t want to bother him anymore and make him uncomfortable by my flirtation. He was confused and said he enjoys our conversation. That I finally opened up to him and expressed my feelings for him.

That this came as a shock to him. He needed a minute to think about this. Till he told me, he doesn’t feel the same way for me. But he still wants to remain friends since he enjoys our chats.

I’m a Virgo, it’s very hard to open myself up like this and be rejected.

That now, I’m just healing and it’s going to be a long process for me to get back to normal.

I don’t know why he wants me around if he doesn’t like me the way I do.

First off, I'm going to keep this plain for all the Virgo Gang... Do not remain friends with anyone who rejects you. It's like being put on a shelf for a rainy day. Peopled will go out and live out wild fantasies with lascivious people and return attempting to establish something great with a person with values. Don't be that person. Values are what separate us all. Do yourself a favor and focus all that energy on pursuing something you really enjoy or want to do. Live your life to the fullest and know that whatever is yours in this life will always be yours. It will find it's way to you as long as you continue to vibrate at a higher level. Never settle and take no offense to his actions.

Us Virgos will always be the prize because we try diligently to continuously vibrate at the highest loving level. Someone better is out there looking for you. Trust that... VIrgo Gang...

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Because he enjoys you fawning over him.

Same reason why my Leo ex won't take a hint and doesn't believe that I'm completely over him.

Worst thing you can do to him is pretend he doesn't exist.

Agreed, they do enjoy having a bit of a harem.

But if they never had any feelings for you, they won't care if you acknowledge their existence. Lions can quickly rebuild their harem without any effort.

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Hmm. I guess in my past life I was a Leo and it has possessed my current life, because I'm the heartless one with the harem and he's the one playing the role of the sad puppy who's lost his best friend.



Tough titties said the kitty.

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Because he enjoys you fawning over him.

Same reason why my Leo ex won't take a hint and doesn't believe that I'm completely over him.

Worst thing you can do to him is pretend he doesn't exist.

Agreed, they do enjoy having a bit of a harem.

But if they never had any feelings for you, they won't care if you acknowledge their existence. Lions can quickly rebuild their harem without any effort.

Hmm. I guess in my past life I was a Leo and it has possessed my current life, because I'm the heartless one with the harem and he's the one playing the role of the sad puppy who's lost his best friend.



Tough titties said the kitty.

Heart breaker over there!

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He never loved me, not the way I loved him. He was incapable of that. He loved having the ground he walked on worshipped, he loved receiving praise and compliments 24/7, he loved having someone around who would risk his life for him. But he didn't love ME. So there's nothing to break in that respect.

And taking a Pisces for granted is a capital offense. So even if he loved me platonically because I'm awesum, I'm all out of fucks to give. Now my personal life is a lot less complicated. No headaches or stress of the heart. All I care about is sins of the flesh.



And almost a year later, he's the one still slapping himself for ruining the best thing that will ever happen to him. That's why he won't bugger the hell off. Us Fishies leave behind quite the large void...🎵 cuz you don't know what you've got, until it's GOOOOOOOOOONE!!! 🎵

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Because he enjoys you fawning over him.

Same reason why my Leo ex won't take a hint and doesn't believe that I'm completely over him.

Worst thing you can do to him is pretend he doesn't exist.

Agreed, they do enjoy having a bit of a harem.

But if they never had any feelings for you, they won't care if you acknowledge their existence. Lions can quickly rebuild their harem without any effort.

Hmm. I guess in my past life I was a Leo and it has possessed my current life, because I'm the heartless one with the harem and he's the one playing the role of the sad puppy who's lost his best friend.



Tough titties said the kitty.

Heart breaker over there!

He never loved me, not the way I loved him. He was incapable of that. He loved having the ground he walked on worshipped, he loved receiving praise and compliments 24/7, he loved having someone around who would risk his life for him. But he didn't love ME. So there's nothing to break in that respect.

And taking a Pisces for granted is a capital offense. So even if he loved me platonically because I'm awesum, I'm all out of fucks to give. Now my personal life is a lot less complicated. No headaches or stress of the heart. All I care about is sins of the flesh.



And almost a year later, he's the one still slapping himself for ruining the best thing that will ever happen to him. That's why he won't bugger the hell off. Us Fishies leave behind quite the large void...🎵 cuz you don't know what you've got, until it's GOOOOOOOOOONE!!! 🎵

We'll you definitely don't deserve that! And I never recommend investing time in someone that won't love you the way you love them. You did the right thing and it's too bad for him!! I was just calling you a heart breaker cause of the harem you mentioned having 😛 haha

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According to my estimation, only one of them has the potential to get attached. Cancer mooner Leo lol.

#2 Virgo mooner Scorp is bisexual and bounces between me and other girls.

#3 Gem mooner Aries is also seeing other guys, and

#4 Leo mooner Scorp has his own mess to deal with, along with a boyfriend he's separated from because he puts too much pressure on him.

#5 Scorp mooner Aqua, haven't seen him in a lil while.

#6 Gem mooner Scorp.....meh can't really count him. He had potential, I even start getting attached a lil bit, but he admitted he's not monoamorous. Ain't doing that again...

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So I’ve been having feelings for this leo guy. Since we both like art and music and make each other laugh.

Even though I have been giving him hints that I like him. With flirty comments and conversations. He never responded back and I thought it bothered him or made him uncomfortable. That I backed off for a bit.

Till I finally had enough of trying and it was hurting me. That I unfollowed him and tried to block him on social media. But the system was was loading very slow for me to do the full deed. He caught me during the moment and confronted me. Why I unfollowed him and tried to block him.

I told him I didn’t want to bother him anymore and make him uncomfortable by my flirtation. He was confused and said he enjoys our conversation. That I finally opened up to him and expressed my feelings for him.

That this came as a shock to him. He needed a minute to think about this. Till he told me, he doesn’t feel the same way for me. But he still wants to remain friends since he enjoys our chats.

I’m a Virgo, it’s very hard to open myself up like this and be rejected.

That now, I’m just healing and it’s going to be a long process for me to get back to normal.

I don’t know why he wants me around if he doesn’t like me the way I do.

You've been friendzoned. Deal with it.

Posted by LoveablePlants

So I’ve been having feelings for this leo guy. Since we both like art and music and make each other laugh.

Even though I have been giving him hints that I like him. With flirty comments and conversations. He never responded back and I thought it bothered him or made him uncomfortable. That I backed off for a bit.

Till I finally had enough of trying and it was hurting me. That I unfollowed him and tried to block him on social media. But the system was was loading very slow for me to do the full deed. He caught me during the moment and confronted me. Why I unfollowed him and tried to block him.

I told him I didn’t want to bother him anymore and make him uncomfortable by my flirtation. He was confused and said he enjoys our conversation. That I finally opened up to him and expressed my feelings for him.

That this came as a shock to him. He needed a minute to think about this. Till he told me, he doesn’t feel the same way for me. But he still wants to remain friends since he enjoys our chats.

I’m a Virgo, it’s very hard to open myself up like this and be rejected.

That now, I’m just healing and it’s going to be a long process for me to get back to normal.

I don’t know why he wants me around if he doesn’t like me the way I do.

You've been friendzoned. Deal with it.

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Because he enjoys you fawning over him.

Same reason why my Leo ex won't take a hint and doesn't believe that I'm completely over him.

Worst thing you can do to him is pretend he doesn't exist.

Agreed, they do enjoy having a bit of a harem.

But if they never had any feelings for you, they won't care if you acknowledge their existence. Lions can quickly rebuild their harem without any effort.

Hmm. I guess in my past life I was a Leo and it has possessed my current life, because I'm the heartless one with the harem and he's the one playing the role of the sad puppy who's lost his best friend.



Tough titties said the kitty.

Heart breaker over there!

He never loved me, not the way I loved him. He was incapable of that. He loved having the ground he walked on worshipped, he loved receiving praise and compliments 24/7, he loved having someone around who would risk his life for him. But he didn't love ME. So there's nothing to break in that respect.

And taking a Pisces for granted is a capital offense. So even if he loved me platonically because I'm awesum, I'm all out of fucks to give. Now my personal life is a lot less complicated. No headaches or stress of the heart. All I care about is sins of the flesh.



And almost a year later, he's the one still slapping himself for ruining the best thing that will ever happen to him. That's why he won't bugger the hell off. Us Fishies leave behind quite the large void...🎵 cuz you don't know what you've got, until it's GOOOOOOOOOONE!!! 🎵

We'll you definitely don't deserve that! And I never recommend investing time in someone that won't love you the way you love them. You did the right thing and it's too bad for him!! I was just calling you a heart breaker cause of the harem you mentioned having 😛 haha

According to my estimation, only one of them has the potential to get attached. Cancer mooner Leo lol.

#2 Virgo mooner Scorp is bisexual and bounces between me and other girls.

#3 Gem mooner Aries is also seeing other guys, and

#4 Leo mooner Scorp has his own mess to deal with, along with a boyfriend he's separated from because he puts too much pressure on him.

#5 Scorp mooner Aqua, haven't seen him in a lil while.

#6 Gem mooner Scorp.....meh can't really count him. He had potential, I even start getting attached a lil bit, but he admitted he's not monoamorous. Ain't doing that again...

Daymn boy, talk about a harem!! Lol

How does one keep that many potential mates at a time? That would do my head in 😆

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⚡ Set clear boundaries.

Make sure every single one of them knows that you're not interested in anything serious, and this is all just healthy fun. No commitment, no promises, no strings.

It's even better news when they bring it up first and set this rule all on their own.

⚡ Pick and choose your doodles + don't rush into anything.

Don't just take home every stray that crosses your path. It's good to know them for a lil bit beforehand, so you can assess if they're gonna play by the rules or get needy.

⚡ Don't be available all the time.

Don't answer every call/text + don't accept every invitation to hang out. This lets them know they're not a priority. This might keep the needier ones from getting too ahead of themselves.

⚡ No booty calls.

Ok once in a while they're acceptable, especially if you're in the mood. But don't let them make a habit of turning up unannounced. Boundaries. They need to remember YOU are in charge.

⚡ Watch your mouth.

It's easier said than done if you're a smooth talker like me, but try to avoid saying anything encouraging or deep to them if you can help it. Last thing you want is them catching feelz.

That's gotten me in trouble before...yikes.

⚡ Wash your ass.

Literally. In the case of a booty call, last thing you want is a smelly coochie or a willie getting in the way of some sucky-sucky.

In case you wonder, I shower daily.

⚡ Pace yourself.

Make plenty of time for yourself. Don't be a revolving penile door. Spread them out and give your pleasure system a chance to recover and recharge before diving back in. The last thing you want is to become a sex addict.

⚡ Be emotionally unavailable.

If you've recently experienced a breakup/heartbreak, do NOT jump back into a casual setting unless you can be around people without getting attached.

Don't let yourself get hooked or you just might experience another heartbreak. Train your brain (lol it rhymes) to recognize the patterns of early attachments (in both yourself and your fucky-fucky buddy/ies), so you can nip them in the bud before they even start.

It might be hard if you're a naturally caring person, but be careful if one of them is having a really hard time and tries to lean on you for comfort. If you're gonna do it, make sure your time spent together is 100% platonic. NO kinky stuff or tender moments. You don't want them misinterpreting anything during those vulnerable periods.

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Because he enjoys you fawning over him.

Same reason why my Leo ex won't take a hint and doesn't believe that I'm completely over him.

Worst thing you can do to him is pretend he doesn't exist.

Agreed, they do enjoy having a bit of a harem.

But if they never had any feelings for you, they won't care if you acknowledge their existence. Lions can quickly rebuild their harem without any effort.

Hmm. I guess in my past life I was a Leo and it has possessed my current life, because I'm the heartless one with the harem and he's the one playing the role of the sad puppy who's lost his best friend.



Tough titties said the kitty.

Heart breaker over there!

He never loved me, not the way I loved him. He was incapable of that. He loved having the ground he walked on worshipped, he loved receiving praise and compliments 24/7, he loved having someone around who would risk his life for him. But he didn't love ME. So there's nothing to break in that respect.

And taking a Pisces for granted is a capital offense. So even if he loved me platonically because I'm awesum, I'm all out of fucks to give. Now my personal life is a lot less complicated. No headaches or stress of the heart. All I care about is sins of the flesh.



And almost a year later, he's the one still slapping himself for ruining the best thing that will ever happen to him. That's why he won't bugger the hell off. Us Fishies leave behind quite the large void...🎵 cuz you don't know what you've got, until it's GOOOOOOOOOONE!!! 🎵

We'll you definitely don't deserve that! And I never recommend investing time in someone that won't love you the way you love them. You did the right thing and it's too bad for him!! I was just calling you a heart breaker cause of the harem you mentioned having 😛 haha

According to my estimation, only one of them has the potential to get attached. Cancer mooner Leo lol.

#2 Virgo mooner Scorp is bisexual and bounces between me and other girls.

#3 Gem mooner Aries is also seeing other guys, and

#4 Leo mooner Scorp has his own mess to deal with, along with a boyfriend he's separated from because he puts too much pressure on him.

#5 Scorp mooner Aqua, haven't seen him in a lil while.

#6 Gem mooner Scorp.....meh can't really count him. He had potential, I even start getting attached a lil bit, but he admitted he's not monoamorous. Ain't doing that again...

Daymn boy, talk about a harem!! Lol

How does one keep that many potential mates at a time? That would do my head in 😆

⚡ Set clear boundaries.

Make sure every single one of them knows that you're not interested in anything serious, and this is all just healthy fun. No commitment, no promises, no strings.

It's even better news when they bring it up first and set this rule all on their own.

⚡ Pick and choose your doodles + don't rush into anything.

Don't just take home every stray that crosses your path. It's good to know them for a lil bit beforehand, so you can assess if they're gonna play by the rules or get needy.

⚡ Don't be available all the time.

Don't answer every call/text + don't accept every invitation to hang out. This lets them know they're not a priority. This might keep the needier ones from getting too ahead of themselves.

⚡ No booty calls.

Ok once in a while they're acceptable, especially if you're in the mood. But don't let them make a habit of turning up unannounced. Boundaries. They need to remember YOU are in charge.

⚡ Watch your mouth.

It's easier said than done if you're a smooth talker like me, but try to avoid saying anything encouraging or deep to them if you can help it. Last thing you want is them catching feelz.

That's gotten me in trouble before...yikes.

⚡ Wash your ass.

Literally. In the case of a booty call, last thing you want is a smelly coochie or a willie getting in the way of some sucky-sucky.

In case you wonder, I shower daily.

⚡ Pace yourself.

Make plenty of time for yourself. Don't be a revolving penile door. Spread them out and give your pleasure system a chance to recover and recharge before diving back in. The last thing you want is to become a sex addict.

⚡ Be emotionally unavailable.

If you've recently experienced a breakup/heartbreak, do NOT jump back into a casual setting unless you can be around people without getting attached.

Don't let yourself get hooked or you just might experience another heartbreak. Train your brain (lol it rhymes) to recognize the patterns of early attachments (in both yourself and your fucky-fucky buddy/ies), so you can nip them in the bud before they even start.

It might be hard if you're a naturally caring person, but be careful if one of them is having a really hard time and tries to lean on you for comfort. If you're gonna do it, make sure your time spent together is 100% platonic. NO kinky stuff or tender moments. You don't want them misinterpreting anything during those vulnerable periods.

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I legit thought you were a dude until I read some of your posts, but I still think you have a larger johnson than me.

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Because he enjoys you fawning over him.

Same reason why my Leo ex won't take a hint and doesn't believe that I'm completely over him.

Worst thing you can do to him is pretend he doesn't exist.

Agreed, they do enjoy having a bit of a harem.

But if they never had any feelings for you, they won't care if you acknowledge their existence. Lions can quickly rebuild their harem without any effort.

Hmm. I guess in my past life I was a Leo and it has possessed my current life, because I'm the heartless one with the harem and he's the one playing the role of the sad puppy who's lost his best friend.



Tough titties said the kitty.

Heart breaker over there!

He never loved me, not the way I loved him. He was incapable of that. He loved having the ground he walked on worshipped, he loved receiving praise and compliments 24/7, he loved having someone around who would risk his life for him. But he didn't love ME. So there's nothing to break in that respect.

And taking a Pisces for granted is a capital offense. So even if he loved me platonically because I'm awesum, I'm all out of fucks to give. Now my personal life is a lot less complicated. No headaches or stress of the heart. All I care about is sins of the flesh.



And almost a year later, he's the one still slapping himself for ruining the best thing that will ever happen to him. That's why he won't bugger the hell off. Us Fishies leave behind quite the large void...🎵 cuz you don't know what you've got, until it's GOOOOOOOOOONE!!! 🎵

We'll you definitely don't deserve that! And I never recommend investing time in someone that won't love you the way you love them. You did the right thing and it's too bad for him!! I was just calling you a heart breaker cause of the harem you mentioned having 😛 haha

According to my estimation, only one of them has the potential to get attached. Cancer mooner Leo lol.

#2 Virgo mooner Scorp is bisexual and bounces between me and other girls.

#3 Gem mooner Aries is also seeing other guys, and

#4 Leo mooner Scorp has his own mess to deal with, along with a boyfriend he's separated from because he puts too much pressure on him.

#5 Scorp mooner Aqua, haven't seen him in a lil while.

#6 Gem mooner Scorp.....meh can't really count him. He had potential, I even start getting attached a lil bit, but he admitted he's not monoamorous. Ain't doing that again...

Daymn boy, talk about a harem!! Lol

How does one keep that many potential mates at a time? That would do my head in 😆

⚡ Set clear boundaries.

Make sure every single one of them knows that you're not interested in anything serious, and this is all just healthy fun. No commitment, no promises, no strings.

It's even better news when they bring it up first and set this rule all on their own.

⚡ Pick and choose your doodles + don't rush into anything.

Don't just take home every stray that crosses your path. It's good to know them for a lil bit beforehand, so you can assess if they're gonna play by the rules or get needy.

⚡ Don't be available all the time.

Don't answer every call/text + don't accept every invitation to hang out. This lets them know they're not a priority. This might keep the needier ones from getting too ahead of themselves.

⚡ No booty calls.

Ok once in a while they're acceptable, especially if you're in the mood. But don't let them make a habit of turning up unannounced. Boundaries. They need to remember YOU are in charge.

⚡ Watch your mouth.

It's easier said than done if you're a smooth talker like me, but try to avoid saying anything encouraging or deep to them if you can help it. Last thing you want is them catching feelz.

That's gotten me in trouble before...yikes.

⚡ Wash your ass.

Literally. In the case of a booty call, last thing you want is a smelly coochie or a willie getting in the way of some sucky-sucky.

In case you wonder, I shower daily.

⚡ Pace yourself.

Make plenty of time for yourself. Don't be a revolving penile door. Spread them out and give your pleasure system a chance to recover and recharge before diving back in. The last thing you want is to become a sex addict.

⚡ Be emotionally unavailable.

If you've recently experienced a breakup/heartbreak, do NOT jump back into a casual setting unless you can be around people without getting attached.

Don't let yourself get hooked or you just might experience another heartbreak. Train your brain (lol it rhymes) to recognize the patterns of early attachments (in both yourself and your fucky-fucky buddy/ies), so you can nip them in the bud before they even start.

It might be hard if you're a naturally caring person, but be careful if one of them is having a really hard time and tries to lean on you for comfort. If you're gonna do it, make sure your time spent together is 100% platonic. NO kinky stuff or tender moments. You don't want them misinterpreting anything during those vulnerable periods.

I legit thought you were a dude until I read some of your posts, but I still think you have a larger johnson than me.

He is a dude..

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He posts some wild shit then. Talking about getting raped after a night of drinking and shit like that.

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Because he enjoys you fawning over him.

Same reason why my Leo ex won't take a hint and doesn't believe that I'm completely over him.

Worst thing you can do to him is pretend he doesn't exist.

Agreed, they do enjoy having a bit of a harem.

But if they never had any feelings for you, they won't care if you acknowledge their existence. Lions can quickly rebuild their harem without any effort.

Hmm. I guess in my past life I was a Leo and it has possessed my current life, because I'm the heartless one with the harem and he's the one playing the role of the sad puppy who's lost his best friend.



Tough titties said the kitty.

Heart breaker over there!

He never loved me, not the way I loved him. He was incapable of that. He loved having the ground he walked on worshipped, he loved receiving praise and compliments 24/7, he loved having someone around who would risk his life for him. But he didn't love ME. So there's nothing to break in that respect.

And taking a Pisces for granted is a capital offense. So even if he loved me platonically because I'm awesum, I'm all out of fucks to give. Now my personal life is a lot less complicated. No headaches or stress of the heart. All I care about is sins of the flesh.



And almost a year later, he's the one still slapping himself for ruining the best thing that will ever happen to him. That's why he won't bugger the hell off. Us Fishies leave behind quite the large void...🎵 cuz you don't know what you've got, until it's GOOOOOOOOOONE!!! 🎵

We'll you definitely don't deserve that! And I never recommend investing time in someone that won't love you the way you love them. You did the right thing and it's too bad for him!! I was just calling you a heart breaker cause of the harem you mentioned having 😛 haha

According to my estimation, only one of them has the potential to get attached. Cancer mooner Leo lol.

#2 Virgo mooner Scorp is bisexual and bounces between me and other girls.

#3 Gem mooner Aries is also seeing other guys, and

#4 Leo mooner Scorp has his own mess to deal with, along with a boyfriend he's separated from because he puts too much pressure on him.

#5 Scorp mooner Aqua, haven't seen him in a lil while.

#6 Gem mooner Scorp.....meh can't really count him. He had potential, I even start getting attached a lil bit, but he admitted he's not monoamorous. Ain't doing that again...

Daymn boy, talk about a harem!! Lol

How does one keep that many potential mates at a time? That would do my head in 😆

⚡ Set clear boundaries.

Make sure every single one of them knows that you're not interested in anything serious, and this is all just healthy fun. No commitment, no promises, no strings.

It's even better news when they bring it up first and set this rule all on their own.

⚡ Pick and choose your doodles + don't rush into anything.

Don't just take home every stray that crosses your path. It's good to know them for a lil bit beforehand, so you can assess if they're gonna play by the rules or get needy.

⚡ Don't be available all the time.

Don't answer every call/text + don't accept every invitation to hang out. This lets them know they're not a priority. This might keep the needier ones from getting too ahead of themselves.

⚡ No booty calls.

Ok once in a while they're acceptable, especially if you're in the mood. But don't let them make a habit of turning up unannounced. Boundaries. They need to remember YOU are in charge.

⚡ Watch your mouth.

It's easier said than done if you're a smooth talker like me, but try to avoid saying anything encouraging or deep to them if you can help it. Last thing you want is them catching feelz.

That's gotten me in trouble before...yikes.

⚡ Wash your ass.

Literally. In the case of a booty call, last thing you want is a smelly coochie or a willie getting in the way of some sucky-sucky.

In case you wonder, I shower daily.

⚡ Pace yourself.

Make plenty of time for yourself. Don't be a revolving penile door. Spread them out and give your pleasure system a chance to recover and recharge before diving back in. The last thing you want is to become a sex addict.

⚡ Be emotionally unavailable.

If you've recently experienced a breakup/heartbreak, do NOT jump back into a casual setting unless you can be around people without getting attached.

Don't let yourself get hooked or you just might experience another heartbreak. Train your brain (lol it rhymes) to recognize the patterns of early attachments (in both yourself and your fucky-fucky buddy/ies), so you can nip them in the bud before they even start.

It might be hard if you're a naturally caring person, but be careful if one of them is having a really hard time and tries to lean on you for comfort. If you're gonna do it, make sure your time spent together is 100% platonic. NO kinky stuff or tender moments. You don't want them misinterpreting anything during those vulnerable periods.

I legit thought you were a dude until I read some of your posts, but I still think you have a larger johnson than me.

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That's because I DO have a johnson. A pretty magic one.

Posted by LoveablePlants

I don’t know why he wants me around if he doesn’t like me the way I do.

He told you exactly why: "he enjoys your chats".

Sounds like you need to develop thicker skin. I am sure he/this situation will not be the last time you experience rejection. This is life. Running from the uneasy feelings of rejection only reinforces the idea that you're too delicate to handle it and you're not. If you're still breathing, you can find another Leo to crush on, so you're good. Shake it off and stop grasping at straws as to "what it all means". It means what the man said it means.

You think people should be able to read your mind, and when they don’t you punish them.

Good luck with your cat lady life.

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Posted by LoveablePlants

I don’t know why he wants me around if he doesn’t like me the way I do.

He told you exactly why: "he enjoys your chats".

Sounds like you need to develop thicker skin. I am sure he/this situation will not be the last time you experience rejection. This is life. Running from the uneasy feelings of rejection only reinforces the idea that you're too delicate to handle it and you're not. If you're still breathing, you can find another Leo to crush on, so you're good. Shake it off and stop grasping at straws as to "what it all means". It means what the man said it means.

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This is good.

She needs to be taught before she learns manipulation tactics for ego games.

Posted by LoveablePlants

So I’ve been having feelings for this leo guy. Since we both like art and music and make each other laugh.

Even though I have been giving him hints that I like him. With flirty comments and conversations. He never responded back and I thought it bothered him or made him uncomfortable. That I backed off for a bit.

Till I finally had enough of trying and it was hurting me. That I unfollowed him and tried to block him on social media. But the system was was loading very slow for me to do the full deed. He caught me during the moment and confronted me. Why I unfollowed him and tried to block him.

I told him I didn’t want to bother him anymore and make him uncomfortable by my flirtation. He was confused and said he enjoys our conversation. That I finally opened up to him and expressed my feelings for him.

That this came as a shock to him. He needed a minute to think about this. Till he told me, he doesn’t feel the same way for me. But he still wants to remain friends since he enjoys our chats.

I’m a Virgo, it’s very hard to open myself up like this and be rejected.

That now, I’m just healing and it’s going to be a long process for me to get back to normal.

I don’t know why he wants me around if he doesn’t like me the way I do.

Move on.

You’ll get over it.

Going forward Don’t over complicate it, it’s actually very simple. You made yourself too available. Any lion wants to hunt, you may have been catch worthy of a chase. But you took the fun out of it. Flirt, push back, flirt, ignore ignore ignore. Flirt then he’ll walk over too you and ask you out.

Flirt with your eyes, a smile, a wave. And ignore with the same. I swear to goodness the dating game is so easy it’s ridiculous.