BarcaTau30
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Me and my big mouth :-(
That's a tough one no matter what sign - if you guys flake on each other over simply a mixed up conversation. Nobody is perfect period - much less in their day to day communication and of course emotions and anxieties play into the convo. It sounds to me like she will be back but then what ? it sounds like this kink may just happen naturally again and the cycle will continue. You can't be expected to walk on thin ice never knowing when you will plunge.
Do i just leave it be and continue forward and just forget about her? do i text her a couple of days before christmas to let her know im thinking of her? what do i do?
Taurus man(Scorpio Rising, Sag Moon if that means anything here).
PM me, please, I wrote my response, got busy at work, fighting with a certain DXP "Butt-in-skie" and lost my message.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Taurus man(Scorpio Rising, Sag Moon if that means anything here).
PM me, please, I wrote my response, got busy at work, fighting with a certain DXP "Butt-in-skie" and lost my message.
🤗 cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
Posted by bittercupcakei didnt say try....i said i wanted to, within time...as did she.
Honestly it just sounds more like a lustlful and rebound situation. You said you were trying to fall for her? You shouldn’t really have to try when it’s natural.
and its everything but lust or rebound. thats what the entire backstory of us being in college and always keeping in touch was about...but thanks i guess
Posted by BarcaTau30I think if you give it some time she'll come back around.
I need help...from Virgo women mainly but advice is always taken. This is sort of complex(as it always seems to be with me) but here goes...
I've recently separated from a wife of 8 years. I married pretty young and to be honest, we both made some bad decisions but there was love and a lot of learning in the process. I grew as a man, in a lot of ways. Towards the end, a Virgo organically came back into my life. We liked each other in college and sort of tried to figure it out but it just never worked. A few years ago, whilst married, we were just good friends and would talk all the time. I've always thought that she was supremely gorgeous and infinitely sexy but never tried anything as I valued friendship more than a fuckup. We'd have the occasional dust up with each other but I just always viewed it as her being fiery and passionate(which I love about her). The first two times(college and while i was married) our contact with other just ended abruptly. I left college and we stopped even seeing each other. 2nd time, we got into an argument and she said some things that pissed me off and I stopped talking to her for 3 years. She resent me a friend request on facebook within the past year and I felt so oddly drawn to her. It was one of the strongest attractions i think i've ever felt. I accepted her friend request and mulled over sending her a message and eventually did. By this time, my wife and I are separated but obviously, I was dealing with a ton of emotions. I sent Virgo a message on Facebook and literally within seconds she replied back. A day later we were talking as if nothing had ever happened. A week later we were skyping almost every single night. This went on for 2-3 months. Things were feeling great. I'm in entertainment, and when conversing with her, i felt more encouraged and empowered than ever. I'd send her things that i was working on and her feedback were so poignant, it was as if she was in the room while i was working on them. Our convos were great. She mentioned feeling a connection and i was soooo shocked to hear her say it because i had been thinking it..........And then hurricane Irma hit. The wife that I separated from was in the direct path and it scared me. to. death. I went through hurricane katrina head on so i knew exactly what this was about. For a week, i maintained contact with her to make sure that her and her family were ok. I got so incredibly nervous and while I loved the time i spent back building with Virgo, the situation became so incredibly overwhelming. I was panicking on one end and loved that the time spent with Virgo took my mind off of all negativity and was really pushing me into a positive light. The night before the hurricane was projected to hit florida, Virgo and I got into an argument and it was totally my fault. I completely disrespected her time and space. I wanted to talk to her/hear from her and when it didnt come in a timely fashion that suited my liking, i got upset. the convo reached argument super quick and i ended up bringing up the past and why we stopped talking the first time and it disappointed her. I knew immediately that i shouldnt have done it......but i had been so overwhelmed with different emotions for so long that i just couldnt help myself. in hindsight, i would have taken 2 or 3 days by myself and talked to no one and reconvened with her....but i didnt and my mistake pushed her away. She was super upset that I let it get there, and I was upset with myself that I let it go there. The past 8 years of marriage taught me patience, compromise, and other things that i just didnt have in my character before and years of practice went down the drain. I apologized to her for 2 weeks but she wasnt having any of it and ultimately cut me off. over the span of a month, she told me that i hurt her and I told her that I wanted to fall for her, over time, but i needed time and it was an honest mistake. I asked for her forgiveness and tried to explain what I was going through, emotionally. And to be completely honest with you guys on dxpnet, separating from a woman of 8 years in the way that it happened was basically the lowest i'd felt in my life...owning failure and hardship is not easy......and i felt that Virgo reappearing in my life the way that she did, was the Universe giving me somebody to catch me from falling. Virgo didnt wanna hear it. We've not talked for almost 4 months and for 3.5 of those months, I took the mistake like a man, acknowledged my fault, and took the consequences as they were. but the past 2 or so weeks ive just had the strongest urges to wanna contact her and ive fought them off. I visualize her. I dream of her...vividly. i daydream of her. and all of this after I worked on getting over that brief time spent and just working on myself. i never really felt like twin flame was a real thing and i actually think the term is thrown around far too loosely....but the connection i've felt with her was real. shit sounds cheesy but whats a guy to do.
Do i just leave it be and continue forward and just forget about her? do i text her a couple of days before christmas to let her know im thinking of her? what do i do?
Taurus man(Scorpio Rising, Sag Moon if that means anything here).
Posted by tctaoive struggled back and forth about this. Like i know that no one is perfect so I allow room for mistakes as long as one acknowledges and is willing to atone for said mistakes. i think we both have always seriously liked each other but it never panned out because of timing or whatever the case may have been. but when we've spent the time, it was always great...but when we argue, it has always sucked. In the past i was unwilling to budge on my stance on anything and was always, always willing to go above and beyond to prove i was right about whatever it was. but i've since learned that winning sometimes comes at a cost, so i shed that quirk. she was the same way but it seems as though she's not shed that side of her. i do not want to be on thin ice always because i wont be allowed to be me and it isnt fair. but a simple conversation about things would clear the air about this, which she is unwilling to have at the moment.
That's a tough one no matter what sign - if you guys flake on each other over simply a mixed up conversation. Nobody is perfect period - much less in their day to day communication and of course emotions and anxieties play into the convo. It sounds to me like she will be back but then what ? it sounds like this kink may just happen naturally again and the cycle will continue. You can't be expected to walk on thin ice never knowing when you will plunge.
Posted by BarcaTau30wow - it's hard to believe but you both sound very stubborn - like you both have to be right - but hey, at least you recognize ... I hate arguing and me and my Libra do not argue - at all - first time for me to see that but we both came in hating to argue so we just don't - we'll see what happens with that in the future but back to you and the Virgo - when I was with my ex husband who was a Pisces one of our biggest arguments was because he thought I HAD TO adopt his opinion. NO I don't. Everyone can have a different opinion and just agree to disagree - no one has to be right. and I felt I was perfectly in the right to have that outlook. and I knew he was in the wrong to try to shove his opinions down my throat until I finally accepted them which I didn't. I tried to tell him over and over that I understood his perspective and that I was listening but that I didn't necessarily agree. He used to get so mad I thought his head was going to implode. I'm not sure why that is so difficult for people. We don't have to agree, it's ok ...Posted by tctaoive struggled back and forth about this. Like i know that no one is perfect so I allow room for mistakes as long as one acknowledges and is willing to atone for said mistakes. i think we both have always seriously liked each other but it never panned out because of timing or whatever the case may have been. but when we've spent the time, it was always great...but when we argue, it has always sucked. In the past i was unwilling to budge on my stance on anything and was always, always willing to go above and beyond to prove i was right about whatever it was. but i've since learned that winning sometimes comes at a cost, so i shed that quirk. she was the same way but it seems as though she's not shed that side of her. i do not want to be on thin ice always because i wont be allowed to be me and it isnt fair. but a simple conversation about things would clear the air about this, which she is unwilling to have at the moment.
That's a tough one no matter what sign - if you guys flake on each other over simply a mixed up conversation. Nobody is perfect period - much less in their day to day communication and of course emotions and anxieties play into the convo. It sounds to me like she will be back but then what ? it sounds like this kink may just happen naturally again and the cycle will continue. You can't be expected to walk on thin ice never knowing when you will plunge.
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Posted by tctaoyeah im not gonna lie. i can be super super stubborn...especially if its something that i believe in or that i just know to be true/right. but ive just become very passive about projecting that energy. i know she's stubborn but she thinks she isnt haha. and to be honest its cute. part of me believes that we want to start over from scratch and I'd love to go in with the exact same philosophy as you've stated......coming in hating to argue so just dont. i don't know though. its tough out here lolPosted by BarcaTau30wow - it's hard to believe but you both sound very stubborn - like you both have to be right - but hey, at least you recognize ... I hate arguing and me and my Libra do not argue - at all - first time for me to see that but we both came in hating to argue so we just don't - we'll see what happens with that in the future but back to you and the Virgo - when I was with my ex husband who was a Pisces one of our biggest arguments was because he thought I HAD TO adopt his opinion. NO I don't. Everyone can have a different opinion and just agree to disagree - no one has to be right. and I felt I was perfectly in the right to have that outlook. and I knew he was in the wrong to try to shove his opinions down my throat until I finally accepted them which I didn't. I tried to tell him over and over that I understood his perspective and that I was listening but that I didn't necessarily agree. He used to get so mad I thought his head was going to implode. I'm not sure why that is so difficult for people. We don't have to agree, it's ok ...Posted by tctaoive struggled back and forth about this. Like i know that no one is perfect so I allow room for mistakes as long as one acknowledges and is willing to atone for said mistakes. i think we both have always seriously liked each other but it never panned out because of timing or whatever the case may have been. but when we've spent the time, it was always great...but when we argue, it has always sucked. In the past i was unwilling to budge on my stance on anything and was always, always willing to go above and beyond to prove i was right about whatever it was. but i've since learned that winning sometimes comes at a cost, so i shed that quirk. she was the same way but it seems as though she's not shed that side of her. i do not want to be on thin ice always because i wont be allowed to be me and it isnt fair. but a simple conversation about things would clear the air about this, which she is unwilling to have at the moment.
That's a tough one no matter what sign - if you guys flake on each other over simply a mixed up conversation. Nobody is perfect period - much less in their day to day communication and of course emotions and anxieties play into the convo. It sounds to me like she will be back but then what ? it sounds like this kink may just happen naturally again and the cycle will continue. You can't be expected to walk on thin ice never knowing when you will plunge.
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maybe she feels like you want different things?
idk let her throw stuff at you maybe shed feel better and forgive you
idk let her throw stuff at you maybe shed feel better and forgive you
I’m sorry this happened ):
I don’t really have any advice than to give her time. Ultimately you know her wayyyy better than any of us on dxp do, so even with “Virgo” advice, it’s all irrelevant.
Just give her time.
What was your wife’s sign ?
I don’t really have any advice than to give her time. Ultimately you know her wayyyy better than any of us on dxp do, so even with “Virgo” advice, it’s all irrelevant.
Just give her time.
What was your wife’s sign ?
The description of what transpired is kinda vague to me.
What did you say and do exactly? What did she saw when she blew at you?
What did you say and do exactly? What did she saw when she blew at you?
Posted by startwarsshe threw things at me. i didnt really throw anything at her. i let her know the exact reason i was upset with her when we stopped speaking for so long the first time and it was a truth that she was uncomfortable with. but i was out of place for bringing it up. she went on a tirade for like 2 weeks after lol. she had a chance to get things off of her chest. some were very low-blowish but because i was wrong to begin with, i didnt hold them against her.
maybe she feels like you want different things?
idk let her throw stuff at you maybe shed feel better and forgive you
Posted by Sunsetvirgo
I’m sorry this happened ):
I don’t really have any advice than to give her time. Ultimately you know her wayyyy better than any of us on dxp do, so even with “Virgo” advice, it’s all irrelevant.
Just give her time.
What was your wife’s sign ?
She was an Aries. Didn't really work out in the end at all.
Posted by BarcaTau30omg i could see why shes upset i wanna throw things at you too! why are you justifying your own actions and making it seem like you're the rational bigger person who will let things go (yet bring them up)Posted by startwarsshe threw things at me. i didnt really throw anything at her. i let her know the exact reason i was upset with her when we stopped speaking for so long the first time and it was a truth that she was uncomfortable with. but i was out of place for bringing it up. she went on a tirade for like 2 weeks after lol. she had a chance to get things off of her chest. some were very low-blowish but because i was wrong to begin with, i didnt hold them against her.
maybe she feels like you want different things?
idk let her throw stuff at you maybe shed feel better and forgive you
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Posted by startwarsPosted by BarcaTau30omg i could see why shes upset i wanna throw things at you too! why are you justifying your own actions and making it seem like you're the rational bigger person who will let things go (yet bring them up)Posted by startwarsshe threw things at me. i didnt really throw anything at her. i let her know the exact reason i was upset with her when we stopped speaking for so long the first time and it was a truth that she was uncomfortable with. but i was out of place for bringing it up. she went on a tirade for like 2 weeks after lol. she had a chance to get things off of her chest. some were very low-blowish but because i was wrong to begin with, i didnt hold them against her.
maybe she feels like you want different things?
idk let her throw stuff at you maybe shed feel better and forgive you
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dude what are you talking about lol. im not justifying anything. i owned my faults and said it was wrong and i knew it was wrong immediately. and i also said that i understand why she came with low-blows.
remove emotional response and talk to me rationally and logically please and thanks
Posted by Impulsvi told her that something that she did, i felt that she was above. I told her i judged her years ago and i was wrong for it but it did piss me off. bringing up the scenario pissed her off more than my intentions though and she's been mad ever since. i talked to a friend about it all and he thought nothing i did warranted her reaction either but im in the minority when i believe that you cant police feelings. she expressed herself and she was within her right. im just upset that she refused to see my side and/or talk to me about it after.Posted by startwarsPosted by BarcaTau30omg i could see why shes upset i wanna throw things at you too! why are you justifying your own actions and making it seem like you're the rational bigger person who will let things go (yet bring them up)Posted by startwarsshe threw things at me. i didnt really throw anything at her. i let her know the exact reason i was upset with her when we stopped speaking for so long the first time and it was a truth that she was uncomfortable with. but i was out of place for bringing it up. she went on a tirade for like 2 weeks after lol. she had a chance to get things off of her chest. some were very low-blowish but because i was wrong to begin with, i didnt hold them against her.
maybe she feels like you want different things?
idk let her throw stuff at you maybe shed feel better and forgive you
YOU WRE not wrong at all !! Not out of place to bring anything up
She is in the wrong at becoming violent
What did u tell her exactly about that past incident? Sh ghosted so the way I see it you are owed an explanation
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Posted by edgelordi'm not above doing the work if the person is worth it. i think she is. but im no longer willing to over-compromise as i've had to do in the past with others.Posted by Sunsetvirgoi read the wall of text. seriously. no paragraphs? 😐
I’m sorry this happened ):
I don’t really have any advice than to give her time. Ultimately you know her wayyyy better than any of us on dxp do, so even with “Virgo” advice, it’s all irrelevant.
Just give her time.
What was your wife’s sign ?
this kind of shit is why it's hard for fixed signs and mutable signs to be together long term. and trust me i love mutables so much. but it requires WORK and to be humble. it's not for everyone.click to expand
Posted by edgelord😐 I’m quite aware of the type of mutables you like HMPHPosted by Sunsetvirgoi read the wall of text. seriously. no paragraphs? 😐
I’m sorry this happened ):
I don’t really have any advice than to give her time. Ultimately you know her wayyyy better than any of us on dxp do, so even with “Virgo” advice, it’s all irrelevant.
Just give her time.
What was your wife’s sign ?
this kind of shit is why it's hard for fixed signs and mutable signs to be together long term. and trust me i love mutables so much. but it requires WORK and to be humble. it's not for everyone.click to expand
Humility on both parts. No it’s not for everyone..
But I hope this Taurus and his Virgal work out, bc I do like this pairing.
Posted by BarcaTau30I understand. But I hope it works out (:Posted by Sunsetvirgo
I’m sorry this happened ):
I don’t really have any advice than to give her time. Ultimately you know her wayyyy better than any of us on dxp do, so even with “Virgo” advice, it’s all irrelevant.
Just give her time.
What was your wife’s sign ?
She was an Aries. Didn't really work out in the end at all.click to expand
Posted by SunsetvirgoPosted by edgelord😐 I’m quite aware of the type of mutables you like HMPHPosted by Sunsetvirgoi read the wall of text. seriously. no paragraphs? 😐
I’m sorry this happened ):
I don’t really have any advice than to give her time. Ultimately you know her wayyyy better than any of us on dxp do, so even with “Virgo” advice, it’s all irrelevant.
Just give her time.
What was your wife’s sign ?
this kind of shit is why it's hard for fixed signs and mutable signs to be together long term. and trust me i love mutables so much. but it requires WORK and to be humble. it's not for everyone.
Humility on both parts. No it’s not for everyone..
But I hope this Taurus and his Virgal work out, bc I do like this pairing.click to expand
with no exaggerations....strongest energy/chemistry/connection ive ever felt with anybody. and she knew it as well. thats why i couldnt understand being so willing to toss that away for a mistake.
Posted by edgelordSmh you wouldn’t be arguing with the Virgo bc all the Virgo would be trying to do is love you and y’all love to be stubborn and push us away and cheat on us with Pisces 🤧 but that’s okay HMPHPosted by Sunsetvirgoi love them al. once i win the lottery i will have a harem of all 4 and alternate. though i will probably spend most of my time arguing withe virgo about basic things like what kind of plates to use at christmas. 😐Posted by edgelord😐 I’m quite aware of the type of mutables you like HMPHPosted by Sunsetvirgoi read the wall of text. seriously. no paragraphs? 😐
I’m sorry this happened ):
I don’t really have any advice than to give her time. Ultimately you know her wayyyy better than any of us on dxp do, so even with “Virgo” advice, it’s all irrelevant.
Just give her time.
What was your wife’s sign ?
this kind of shit is why it's hard for fixed signs and mutable signs to be together long term. and trust me i love mutables so much. but it requires WORK and to be humble. it's not for everyone.
Humility on both parts. No it’s not for everyone..
But I hope this Taurus and his Virgal work out, bc I do like this pairing.
and yes. i hope it works out for him too. i am always happy when i see taurus/virgo pairings. it's even better when they're working out.
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Posted by BarcaTau30It may be a conglomerate of a lot of things and it was just triggered by the mistake you made. Kinda like a final straw thing. Also you said that you brought up the past... big mistake. Considering she was so forgiving and willing to forget the past when you two reconnected after you iced her out, she may see this as a “why even bother anymore” scenario.Posted by SunsetvirgoPosted by edgelord😐 I’m quite aware of the type of mutables you like HMPHPosted by Sunsetvirgoi read the wall of text. seriously. no paragraphs? 😐
I’m sorry this happened ):
I don’t really have any advice than to give her time. Ultimately you know her wayyyy better than any of us on dxp do, so even with “Virgo” advice, it’s all irrelevant.
Just give her time.
What was your wife’s sign ?
this kind of shit is why it's hard for fixed signs and mutable signs to be together long term. and trust me i love mutables so much. but it requires WORK and to be humble. it's not for everyone.
Humility on both parts. No it’s not for everyone..
But I hope this Taurus and his Virgal work out, bc I do like this pairing.
with no exaggerations....strongest energy/chemistry/connection ive ever felt with anybody. and she knew it as well. thats why i couldnt understand being so willing to toss that away for a mistake.click to expand
But this is all hypotheticals and assumptions and such. As I said, you know her better than anyone,
And the best advice I can give you is to give her time.
Posted by SunsetvirgoPosted by edgelordSmh you wouldn’t be arguing with the Virgo bc all the Virgo would be trying to do is love you and y’all love to be stubborn and push us away.Posted by Sunsetvirgoi love them al. once i win the lottery i will have a harem of all 4 and alternate. though i will probably spend most of my time arguing withe virgo about basic things like what kind of plates to use at christmas. 😐Posted by edgelord😐 I’m quite aware of the type of mutables you like HMPHPosted by Sunsetvirgoi read the wall of text. seriously. no paragraphs? 😐
I’m sorry this happened ):
I don’t really have any advice than to give her time. Ultimately you know her wayyyy better than any of us on dxp do, so even with “Virgo” advice, it’s all irrelevant.
Just give her time.
What was your wife’s sign ?
this kind of shit is why it's hard for fixed signs and mutable signs to be together long term. and trust me i love mutables so much. but it requires WORK and to be humble. it's not for everyone.
Humility on both parts. No it’s not for everyone..
But I hope this Taurus and his Virgal work out, bc I do like this pairing.
and yes. i hope it works out for him too. i am always happy when i see taurus/virgo pairings. it's even better when they're working out.
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^^^I know this isn't directed towards me but I have to say this is very true 😭.
Posted by edgelordSo WHAT are you trying to say here HMM Taurus ? Idk bout any other Virgo but we don’t share, maybe Pisces. You can’t have your cake and eat it too. Which is why the Virgo will most likely vanish. And will leave you with the Pisces.Posted by Sunsetvirgothere would be no cheating. the pisces would be married to me the same as the virgo would be. i'm still undecided if they would be married to each other. -.- i'm a jealous bull. but fair is fair. though i would be loving the virgo too but y'all nag. like a muthafucka.Posted by edgelordSmh you wouldn’t be arguing with the Virgo bc all the Virgo would be trying to do is love you and y’all love to be stubborn and push us away and cheat on us with Pisces 🤧 but that’s okay HMPHPosted by Sunsetvirgoi love them al. once i win the lottery i will have a harem of all 4 and alternate. though i will probably spend most of my time arguing withe virgo about basic things like what kind of plates to use at christmas. 😐Posted by edgelord😐 I’m quite aware of the type of mutables you like HMPHPosted by Sunsetvirgoi read the wall of text. seriously. no paragraphs? 😐
I’m sorry this happened ):
I don’t really have any advice than to give her time. Ultimately you know her wayyyy better than any of us on dxp do, so even with “Virgo” advice, it’s all irrelevant.
Just give her time.
What was your wife’s sign ?
this kind of shit is why it's hard for fixed signs and mutable signs to be together long term. and trust me i love mutables so much. but it requires WORK and to be humble. it's not for everyone.
Humility on both parts. No it’s not for everyone..
But I hope this Taurus and his Virgal work out, bc I do like this pairing.
and yes. i hope it works out for him too. i am always happy when i see taurus/virgo pairings. it's even better when they're working out.
not you specifically. but virgo women.
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Posted by LentoBull91@edgelordPosted by SunsetvirgoPosted by edgelordSmh you wouldn’t be arguing with the Virgo bc all the Virgo would be trying to do is love you and y’all love to be stubborn and push us away.Posted by Sunsetvirgoi love them al. once i win the lottery i will have a harem of all 4 and alternate. though i will probably spend most of my time arguing withe virgo about basic things like what kind of plates to use at christmas. 😐Posted by edgelord😐 I’m quite aware of the type of mutables you like HMPHPosted by Sunsetvirgoi read the wall of text. seriously. no paragraphs? 😐
I’m sorry this happened ):
I don’t really have any advice than to give her time. Ultimately you know her wayyyy better than any of us on dxp do, so even with “Virgo” advice, it’s all irrelevant.
Just give her time.
What was your wife’s sign ?
this kind of shit is why it's hard for fixed signs and mutable signs to be together long term. and trust me i love mutables so much. but it requires WORK and to be humble. it's not for everyone.
Humility on both parts. No it’s not for everyone..
But I hope this Taurus and his Virgal work out, bc I do like this pairing.
and yes. i hope it works out for him too. i am always happy when i see taurus/virgo pairings. it's even better when they're working out.
^^^I know this isn't directed towards me but I have to say this is very true 😭.
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Even THIS bull knows these are facts smh all we TRYNNA do is relax you and take a moment to look at the stars instead of finances but that’s fine Virgo will just vanish ✌🏽👌🏽
Posted by edgelordMaannnnn smh I’m actually out here asking for taurus attention 🤢 this isn’t me I’m 🤢🤢🤢🤢Posted by Sunsetvirgoi will find a poly virgo and prove you wrong!!!! got damn monogamous ass virgos when i'm trying to have a fantasy moment. 😐Posted by edgelordSo WHAT are you trying to say here HMM Taurus ? Idk bout any other Virgo but we don’t share, maybe Pisces. You can’t have your cake and eat it too. Which is why the Virgo will most likely vanish. And will leave you with the Pisces.Posted by Sunsetvirgothere would be no cheating. the pisces would be married to me the same as the virgo would be. i'm still undecided if they would be married to each other. -.- i'm a jealous bull. but fair is fair. though i would be loving the virgo too but y'all nag. like a muthafucka.Posted by edgelordSmh you wouldn’t be arguing with the Virgo bc all the Virgo would be trying to do is love you and y’all love to be stubborn and push us away and cheat on us with Pisces 🤧 but that’s okay HMPHPosted by Sunsetvirgoi love them al. once i win the lottery i will have a harem of all 4 and alternate. though i will probably spend most of my time arguing withe virgo about basic things like what kind of plates to use at christmas. 😐Posted by edgelord😐 I’m quite aware of the type of mutables you like HMPHPosted by Sunsetvirgoi read the wall of text. seriously. no paragraphs? 😐
I’m sorry this happened ):
I don’t really have any advice than to give her time. Ultimately you know her wayyyy better than any of us on dxp do, so even with “Virgo” advice, it’s all irrelevant.
Just give her time.
What was your wife’s sign ?
this kind of shit is why it's hard for fixed signs and mutable signs to be together long term. and trust me i love mutables so much. but it requires WORK and to be humble. it's not for everyone.
Humility on both parts. No it’s not for everyone..
But I hope this Taurus and his Virgal work out, bc I do like this pairing.
and yes. i hope it works out for him too. i am always happy when i see taurus/virgo pairings. it's even better when they're working out.
not you specifically. but virgo women.
it's okay sunsetvirgo i'll give the virgo the most attention and even pretend to appreciate the nagging and critical stuff. ^.^
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That’s fine taurus, I’m not going to say anymore about this clear disrespek on virgos name by choosing Pisces over us 🤐
Posted by edgelordPosted by SunsetvirgoPosted by LentoBull91@edgelordPosted by SunsetvirgoPosted by edgelordSmh you wouldn’t be arguing with the Virgo bc all the Virgo would be trying to do is love you and y’all love to be stubborn and push us away.Posted by Sunsetvirgoi love them al. once i win the lottery i will have a harem of all 4 and alternate. though i will probably spend most of my time arguing withe virgo about basic things like what kind of plates to use at christmas. 😐Posted by edgelord😐 I’m quite aware of the type of mutables you like HMPHPosted by Sunsetvirgoi read the wall of text. seriously. no paragraphs? 😐
I’m sorry this happened ):
I don’t really have any advice than to give her time. Ultimately you know her wayyyy better than any of us on dxp do, so even with “Virgo” advice, it’s all irrelevant.
Just give her time.
What was your wife’s sign ?
this kind of shit is why it's hard for fixed signs and mutable signs to be together long term. and trust me i love mutables so much. but it requires WORK and to be humble. it's not for everyone.
Humility on both parts. No it’s not for everyone..
But I hope this Taurus and his Virgal work out, bc I do like this pairing.
and yes. i hope it works out for him too. i am always happy when i see taurus/virgo pairings. it's even better when they're working out.
^^^I know this isn't directed towards me but I have to say this is very true 😭.
Even THIS bull knows these are facts smh all we TRYNNA do is relax you and take a moment to look at the stars instead of finances but that’s fine Virgo will just vanish ✌🏽👌🏽
virgos love to disappear on me sunsetvirgo. i'm like hello virgo nice eve- *vanish*
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🤷🏽♀️ Maybe we wouldn’t if you weren’t cheating on us with Pisces but I’ll say no more
Posted by edgelordPosted by Sunsetvirgodo you go to the pisces board very often? i'm literally like never there. but i'm on the virgo board every day giving the virgos positive attention.Posted by edgelordMaannnnn smh I’m actually out here asking for taurus attention 🤢 this isn’t me I’m 🤢🤢🤢🤢Posted by Sunsetvirgoi will find a poly virgo and prove you wrong!!!! got damn monogamous ass virgos when i'm trying to have a fantasy moment. 😐Posted by edgelordSo WHAT are you trying to say here HMM Taurus ? Idk bout any other Virgo but we don’t share, maybe Pisces. You can’t have your cake and eat it too. Which is why the Virgo will most likely vanish. And will leave you with the Pisces.Posted by Sunsetvirgothere would be no cheating. the pisces would be married to me the same as the virgo would be. i'm still undecided if they would be married to each other. -.- i'm a jealous bull. but fair is fair. though i would be loving the virgo too but y'all nag. like a muthafucka.Posted by edgelordSmh you wouldn’t be arguing with the Virgo bc all the Virgo would be trying to do is love you and y’all love to be stubborn and push us away and cheat on us with Pisces 🤧 but that’s okay HMPHPosted by Sunsetvirgoi love them al. once i win the lottery i will have a harem of all 4 and alternate. though i will probably spend most of my time arguing withe virgo about basic things like what kind of plates to use at christmas. 😐Posted by edgelord😐 I’m quite aware of the type of mutables you like HMPHPosted by Sunsetvirgoi read the wall of text. seriously. no paragraphs? 😐
I’m sorry this happened ):
I don’t really have any advice than to give her time. Ultimately you know her wayyyy better than any of us on dxp do, so even with “Virgo” advice, it’s all irrelevant.
Just give her time.
What was your wife’s sign ?
this kind of shit is why it's hard for fixed signs and mutable signs to be together long term. and trust me i love mutables so much. but it requires WORK and to be humble. it's not for everyone.
Humility on both parts. No it’s not for everyone..
But I hope this Taurus and his Virgal work out, bc I do like this pairing.
and yes. i hope it works out for him too. i am always happy when i see taurus/virgo pairings. it's even better when they're working out.
not you specifically. but virgo women.
it's okay sunsetvirgo i'll give the virgo the most attention and even pretend to appreciate the nagging and critical stuff. ^.^
That’s fine taurus, I’m not going to say anymore about this clear disrespek on virgos name by choosing Pisces over us 🤐
i'm not choosing pisces over virgo. not really.
i banter with you more than anyone other than shaymaci who also happens to be a VIRGO lady.
#srs
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Posted by edgelordNo matter 🤷🏽♀️ Do as you wishPosted by SunsetvirgoPosted by edgelordPosted by SunsetvirgoPosted by LentoBull91@edgelordPosted by SunsetvirgoPosted by edgelordSmh you wouldn’t be arguing with the Virgo bc all the Virgo would be trying to do is love you and y’all love to be stubborn and push us away.Posted by Sunsetvirgoi love them al. once i win the lottery i will have a harem of all 4 and alternate. though i will probably spend most of my time arguing withe virgo about basic things like what kind of plates to use at christmas. 😐Posted by edgelord😐 I’m quite aware of the type of mutables you like HMPHPosted by Sunsetvirgoi read the wall of text. seriously. no paragraphs? 😐
I’m sorry this happened ):
I don’t really have any advice than to give her time. Ultimately you know her wayyyy better than any of us on dxp do, so even with “Virgo” advice, it’s all irrelevant.
Just give her time.
What was your wife’s sign ?
this kind of shit is why it's hard for fixed signs and mutable signs to be together long term. and trust me i love mutables so much. but it requires WORK and to be humble. it's not for everyone.
Humility on both parts. No it’s not for everyone..
But I hope this Taurus and his Virgal work out, bc I do like this pairing.
and yes. i hope it works out for him too. i am always happy when i see taurus/virgo pairings. it's even better when they're working out.
^^^I know this isn't directed towards me but I have to say this is very true 😭.
Even THIS bull knows these are facts smh all we TRYNNA do is relax you and take a moment to look at the stars instead of finances but that’s fine Virgo will just vanish ✌🏽👌🏽
virgos love to disappear on me sunsetvirgo. i'm like hello virgo nice eve- *vanish*
😢
🤷🏽♀️ Maybe we wouldn’t if you weren’t cheating on us with Pisces but I’ll say no more
if i ever get a virgo girlfriend i'm sending you a WALL OF TEXT pm professing my love for her with a pic of the two of us smiling happily with the caption "earth sign luv"
maybe then you'll believe me. lmao
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Posted by edgelordAs platonic as our friendship is, my Leo Venus won’t have any infidelity. But she is a fellow Virgo so 💖Posted by Sunsetvirgowait. now am i cheating on you with shaymaci? i can never tell with you jealous virgos!Posted by edgelordPosted by Sunsetvirgodo you go to the pisces board very often? i'm literally like never there. but i'm on the virgo board every day giving the virgos positive attention.Posted by edgelordMaannnnn smh I’m actually out here asking for taurus attention 🤢 this isn’t me I’m 🤢🤢🤢🤢Posted by Sunsetvirgoi will find a poly virgo and prove you wrong!!!! got damn monogamous ass virgos when i'm trying to have a fantasy moment. 😐Posted by edgelordSo WHAT are you trying to say here HMM Taurus ? Idk bout any other Virgo but we don’t share, maybe Pisces. You can’t have your cake and eat it too. Which is why the Virgo will most likely vanish. And will leave you with the Pisces.Posted by Sunsetvirgothere would be no cheating. the pisces would be married to me the same as the virgo would be. i'm still undecided if they would be married to each other. -.- i'm a jealous bull. but fair is fair. though i would be loving the virgo too but y'all nag. like a muthafucka.Posted by edgelordSmh you wouldn’t be arguing with the Virgo bc all the Virgo would be trying to do is love you and y’all love to be stubborn and push us away and cheat on us with Pisces 🤧 but that’s okay HMPHPosted by Sunsetvirgoi love them al. once i win the lottery i will have a harem of all 4 and alternate. though i will probably spend most of my time arguing withe virgo about basic things like what kind of plates to use at christmas. 😐Posted by edgelord😐 I’m quite aware of the type of mutables you like HMPHPosted by Sunsetvirgoi read the wall of text. seriously. no paragraphs? 😐
I’m sorry this happened ):
I don’t really have any advice than to give her time. Ultimately you know her wayyyy better than any of us on dxp do, so even with “Virgo” advice, it’s all irrelevant.
Just give her time.
What was your wife’s sign ?
this kind of shit is why it's hard for fixed signs and mutable signs to be together long term. and trust me i love mutables so much. but it requires WORK and to be humble. it's not for everyone.
Humility on both parts. No it’s not for everyone..
But I hope this Taurus and his Virgal work out, bc I do like this pairing.
and yes. i hope it works out for him too. i am always happy when i see taurus/virgo pairings. it's even better when they're working out.
not you specifically. but virgo women.
it's okay sunsetvirgo i'll give the virgo the most attention and even pretend to appreciate the nagging and critical stuff. ^.^
That’s fine taurus, I’m not going to say anymore about this clear disrespek on virgos name by choosing Pisces over us 🤐
i'm not choosing pisces over virgo. not really.
i banter with you more than anyone other than shaymaci who also happens to be a VIRGO lady.
#srs
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Posted by edgelordMy Leo Venus is squinting and tutting at your Aries Venus smh for SHAMEPosted by Sunsetvirgoof course platonic. i didn't mean romantic cheating. lmao. just like how you think i cheat on virgos with pisces. when obviously i should friends place both signs and marry a cactus. 😐Posted by edgelordAs platonic as our friendship is, my Leo Venus won’t have any infidelity. But she is a fellow Virgo so 💖Posted by Sunsetvirgowait. now am i cheating on you with shaymaci? i can never tell with you jealous virgos!Posted by edgelordPosted by Sunsetvirgodo you go to the pisces board very often? i'm literally like never there. but i'm on the virgo board every day giving the virgos positive attention.Posted by edgelordMaannnnn smh I’m actually out here asking for taurus attention 🤢 this isn’t me I’m 🤢🤢🤢🤢Posted by Sunsetvirgoi will find a poly virgo and prove you wrong!!!! got damn monogamous ass virgos when i'm trying to have a fantasy moment. 😐Posted by edgelordSo WHAT are you trying to say here HMM Taurus ? Idk bout any other Virgo but we don’t share, maybe Pisces. You can’t have your cake and eat it too. Which is why the Virgo will most likely vanish. And will leave you with the Pisces.Posted by Sunsetvirgothere would be no cheating. the pisces would be married to me the same as the virgo would be. i'm still undecided if they would be married to each other. -.- i'm a jealous bull. but fair is fair. though i would be loving the virgo too but y'all nag. like a muthafucka.Posted by edgelordSmh you wouldn’t be arguing with the Virgo bc all the Virgo would be trying to do is love you and y’all love to be stubborn and push us away and cheat on us with Pisces 🤧 but that’s okay HMPHPosted by Sunsetvirgoi love them al. once i win the lottery i will have a harem of all 4 and alternate. though i will probably spend most of my time arguing withe virgo about basic things like what kind of plates to use at christmas. 😐Posted by edgelord😐 I’m quite aware of the type of mutables you like HMPHPosted by Sunsetvirgoi read the wall of text. seriously. no paragraphs? 😐
I’m sorry this happened ):
I don’t really have any advice than to give her time. Ultimately you know her wayyyy better than any of us on dxp do, so even with “Virgo” advice, it’s all irrelevant.
Just give her time.
What was your wife’s sign ?
this kind of shit is why it's hard for fixed signs and mutable signs to be together long term. and trust me i love mutables so much. but it requires WORK and to be humble. it's not for everyone.
Humility on both parts. No it’s not for everyone..
But I hope this Taurus and his Virgal work out, bc I do like this pairing.
and yes. i hope it works out for him too. i am always happy when i see taurus/virgo pairings. it's even better when they're working out.
not you specifically. but virgo women.
it's okay sunsetvirgo i'll give the virgo the most attention and even pretend to appreciate the nagging and critical stuff. ^.^
That’s fine taurus, I’m not going to say anymore about this clear disrespek on virgos name by choosing Pisces over us 🤐
i'm not choosing pisces over virgo. not really.
i banter with you more than anyone other than shaymaci who also happens to be a VIRGO lady.
#srs
😛
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Posted by Sunsetvirgolol. im the one that was forgiving of the past. she pissed me off and i stopped talking to her but we were both wrong in our approach.Posted by BarcaTau30It may be a conglomerate of a lot of things and it was just triggered by the mistake you made. Kinda like a final straw thing. Also you said that you brought up the past... big mistake. Considering she was so forgiving and willing to forget the past when you two reconnected after you iced her out, she may see this as a “why even bother anymore” scenario.Posted by SunsetvirgoPosted by edgelord😐 I’m quite aware of the type of mutables you like HMPHPosted by Sunsetvirgoi read the wall of text. seriously. no paragraphs? 😐
I’m sorry this happened ):
I don’t really have any advice than to give her time. Ultimately you know her wayyyy better than any of us on dxp do, so even with “Virgo” advice, it’s all irrelevant.
Just give her time.
What was your wife’s sign ?
this kind of shit is why it's hard for fixed signs and mutable signs to be together long term. and trust me i love mutables so much. but it requires WORK and to be humble. it's not for everyone.
Humility on both parts. No it’s not for everyone..
But I hope this Taurus and his Virgal work out, bc I do like this pairing.
with no exaggerations....strongest energy/chemistry/connection ive ever felt with anybody. and she knew it as well. thats why i couldnt understand being so willing to toss that away for a mistake.
But this is all hypotheticals and assumptions and such. As I said, you know her better than anyone,
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and yeah i'm just gonna push forward with things ive been working on to just take my mind off of it all. i've just been so hard up thinking about her for the past 2 weeks. wanted to text her so bad but decided against it. was probably the best move
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