Mixed Feelings About this Virgo Male

Hey there! I have some mixed feelings about this VM I'm been dating for 2 months. 1st month was almost with great conversation. He called me everyday, text in the mornings, etc. He wanted to know about 2 weeks in if we were boyfriend/girlfriend. I said yes of course. He came over about 3-4 nights a week then. He also said he was falling so bad for me one time. I thought is was crazy fast.

Now....he still calls everyday and text me in this mornings. He is under a lot if stress at work and works 6 days a week now. He also has 2 kids and an ex that he hates. We see each other 2 nights a week or so. He doesn't open up about his past and ex. I met his kids 2 weeks ago also. He still does the sweet things like he did when we first started dating.

I feel like the honeymoon is over. Do you think I should be worried that things are going south? Is he hiding his feelings for me now? Should I talked to him about how I feel?

Typo. 1st month was awesome.

It's not going south the honeymoon is over. when infactuation is over real love begins.

Take your time and give him time to open up. 🙂

I think most of the Virgos who read your post are going to be confused. It makes no sense.

Not making sense is anti Virgo.


Did you forget to include vital information like ?

11/9 you posted this:

Hey there! Going on 2 months of our relationship with a Virgo and me being a Gemini, I've noticed he is spending less time with me.

We text about 2 weeks before our first date. On our first date we had dinner, went to see a band and had sex. Yes I should have held out. At first he came over about 4 night a week and we stayed up all night. He text me every morning with Good Morning. Had great conversations over the phone since he's not really into texting. He used to say things like "I'm falling for you so bad" and brings me flowers from time to time. He's a real catch.

Now he still calls me every night and sends me a good morning text but doesn't seem to coming over as often. We talk on the phone for usually over an hour if he's not over at my house. We works hard and has some drama in his life from previous relationship/kids however doesn't open up to me. He has also invited me to hang out with him and his kids from time to time but I make excuses not to. I kind of want to avoid the issues. I also don't initially call and text him first.

What do you think is going on? Is it just the honeymoon phase over in the relationship. Should I be worried? What should I do or say?


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Everyone told you that since you did not spend time with him and his children he was backing away...Has he come back and things have changed or are they the same?

This is relatively a new relationship. Your doing more rushing than I see him. Have some patience and just live your life. If this man wants you he will come get you. If not then you have a life to continue.