My date with Mr Virgo. Started out good... (Page 2)

Posted by P-Angel

Posted by MsLovelyLibra

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Posted by MsLovelyLibra

What part are you not understanding that it doesnt bother me because ....

1. It should bother you to tease a man's cock .. and the fact that it doesn't speaks volumes of you

2. If it didn't bother you then this thread wouldn't exist.



You might want to try reality on, then a relationship.

Its really comical to me how people ASSume they know EVERYTHING about you through words via the internet. The simple fact is, you dont. You havent READ jack that Ive wrote. Have an awesome day P-Angel.

Is exaggeration something that is primarily a late summer to fall born person? Because you have "everything" in caps .. and a Virgo said "entire life" .. when meaning one incident.

Do you think you are driving a valid point across that I don't know everything about you, in which if you didn't say that then nobody in here would be able to know it if you didn't tell them?

Do you think that because I am looking at this from a different angle in which you intended that it equals not reading jack?

What is it with exaggerations?

What were saying about ASSuming again?

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Game over - You win

It's not a game, and I'm not trying to win ... I'm trying to get you to realize that you cannot sit on this man, and then expect him not to get a hard-on.

You say you aren't naive .. then that means you tease his cock on purpose.

You continue to say that you aren't doing it on purpose ... then do it.


If by me telling you this, along with other people in here .. and you responding in denial of this reality, while making the claim you are of sound judgement .... then that in itself makes you look like you're trying to get his cock hard, only to turn him away ..

.. are you enjoying that attention?


You are setting yourself up to get raped by this man ... and then just blow that reality off, as if there is no seriousness to it.

So, it's really not your virtue you are concerned about, is it? Your concern is in how to make him love you ..... afterall, like you have told him, you will only have sex with a man to whom you are in love with and then go sit on his lap while he's laying on the floor.


I'm not winning ...... you are losing, though .. and think it's some kind of game.

Wow this post has taken off since I last was on.

"Ive made banana pudding before using instant pudding and while good, the taste of my banana pudding made from scratch taste far better and leaves you speechless cause its that good. It takes a little longer to make but its worth it in the end"

That statement is teasing...This is the kind of stuff I'm talking about online or offline, stop sitting in his lap, stop doing anything and/or saying anything that will sexually arouse this man if you have no intentions going to go there sexually, he's shown some self restraint but how long can he do that without ending up raping you or at the minimum exploding with anger and rage. You have been married before, you are not a child so dump the childish attitude.

I believe you made a choice to become abstinent but you had no idea how this would effect your dating life and you didn't give it much thought about how you were going to manage yourself around men. You went into this abstinent mindset half ass and your behaving half ass around men.

I totally agree with DY get out while your ahead and maybe take some time to learn how to live a real true abstinent life style . Develop some strong boundaries inside and out and start over again.

He's been around you for more than a few weeks/months right? So exactly how long is he suppose to wait and what exactly are you looking for once you have sex with him? A longterm relationship? And is he aware of what you want? Or are you just hoping he succumbs to giving you a real relationship at some point?

I am pro-abstinence, I believe in it 100% yet on the other hand I feel the lack of preparation on how to live an abstain life style around men on your part is creating a potentially bad ending for you and all the potential relationships you will develop in the future unless you stop being lazy and figure things out for yourself.

"He does NOT pressure me into trying to have sex which some of you seem to be thinking he is doing."




That was said in a PM to me .... excuses.

You pardon his behaviour and you continue to refuse to see that just because you spend a few hours with him before you to decide to snog .. that it justifies you turning him down once he gets an erection.


I'm finished with you .. my tolerance for ignorance is zero .. and I can't see any resemblence of facing reality in you.

Instead ... I will just will you prosperity in your hell.

Posted by P-Angel
"He does NOT pressure me into trying to have sex which some of you seem to be thinking he is doing."




That was said in a PM to me .... excuses.

You pardon his behaviour and you continue to refuse to see that just because you spend a few hours with him before you to decide to snog .. that it justifies you turning him down once he gets an erection.


I'm finished with you .. my tolerance for ignorance is zero .. and I can't see any resemblence of facing reality in you.

Instead ... I will just will you prosperity in your hell.

THEN STFU and GTFO my thread

Posted by tiki33
Wow this post has taken off since I last was on.

"Ive made banana pudding before using instant pudding and while good, the taste of my banana pudding made from scratch taste far better and leaves you speechless cause its that good. It takes a little longer to make but its worth it in the end"

That statement is teasing...This is the kind of stuff I'm talking about online or offline, stop sitting in his lap, stop doing anything and/or saying anything that will sexually arouse this man if you have no intentions going to go there sexually, he's shown some self restraint but how long can he do that without ending up raping you or at the minimum exploding with anger and rage. You have been married before, you are not a child so dump the childish attitude.

I believe you made a choice to become abstinent but you had no idea how this would effect your dating life and you didn't give it much thought about how you were going to manage yourself around men. You went into this abstinent mindset half ass and your behaving half ass around men.

I totally agree with DY get out while your ahead and maybe take some time to learn how to live a real true abstinent life style . Develop some strong boundaries inside and out and start over again.

He's been around you for more than a few weeks/months right? So exactly how long is he suppose to wait and what exactly are you looking for once you have sex with him? A longterm relationship? And is he aware of what you want? Or are you just hoping he succumbs to giving you a real relationship at some point?

Tiki, I have said over and over again, that I take FULL responsibility for MY actions where all of this is concerned. He is behaving the way he is because Ive been allowing it to happen instead of removing myself from the situation the moment it gets heated. And since the last time you and I have spoken, I think its been 5 months or so. I have dated off and on and never allowed things to get to the point that it has with Mr Virgo. The sexual attraction with him is there. No denying that and I need to decide if I can handle being around him and if I do, IF I can do so without any physical contact so it doesnt get to this point.

And what I wrote to him via text last night, had nothing to do with sex/me flirting but yeah, I can see how someone would interpret it to be.

We've been talking for months but only met face

Continued....

We've been talking for months but only met face to face about 2 months ago. He has been a hard case to crack. He is always wanting to know about me but is/was reluctant to talk about himself. The other night when we were together, he started opening up a little. Talking about his life, his family, hobbies, likes and dislikes. I want(ed) to take things slowly with him so we could get to know each other. As I told P-Angel in that message, Im at his house for a good 6 hrs and the first 4 hrs or so, we are good but then our eyes meet, we start kissing and it gets heated. I catch myself and stop. I dont go over to his house with the intentions for us to be bumping and grinding.

I get what yall have been saying which has had me realize that his actions are the result of my actions and I need to stop what Ive been doing.

Yeah no more 6 hours at a man's house...I mean what do you expect being over a man's home that long? LOL

I can understand you wanting to get to know him and understand him, that's all good and a great way to start off in a potential relationship but you definitely have to show some self restraint, the mixed messages is annoying, if your abstinent then abstain and that means showing a level of self control around not just men you aren't all that attracted to but particularly around men you are attracted to, if you don't show a level of restraint around a man your attracted to then you just come off as a manipulator and a tease and I know that is not how you want to be perceived.

The jealousy scenerio crossed my mind but I was apprehensive and just didn't want to touch it b/c I didn't sense jealousy but maybe she did feel a bit threatened by that call...I dunno

Posted by ellessque
I'm going to make this simple for everyone.

She was pissed about the phone call from the FB woman and knew full well what she was doing. Whether she wants to admit it or not is her issue. Her other story is more entertaining I suppose.

You made your bed, now lay it in toots.

This is not me being sarcastic. It SCREAMS Passive Aggressive Jealousy.

Can you all not hear it—??!!!!!!!

I'm very sorry for your loss. I mean that with all sincerity. If you are going to be abstinate then you need to make conscious decisions to not put yourself in that scenerio. You also need to be a big girl and not use your sexuality to get someone all excited because you are jealous.

Jealous? Really? With my having as many male friends as I have. Aint no way in hell Id be jealous if a man that aint my man, gets a phone call from a woman. Even if he were my man, I wouldnt be jealous because men are entitled to have female friends. When I write, I put in all the details which is why him receiving the phone call was mentioned.

Posted by tiki33
Yeah no more 6 hours at a man's house...I mean what do you expect being over a man's home that long? LOL

I can understand you wanting to get to know him and understand him, that's all good and a great way to start off in a potential relationship but you definitely have to show some self restraint, the mixed messages is annoying, if your abstinent then abstain and that means showing a level of self control around not just men you aren't all that attracted to but particularly around men you are attracted to, if you don't show a level of restraint around a man your attracted to then you just come off as a manipulator and a tease and I know that is not how you want to be perceived.

This is exactly why there are only certain people I will listen to or take heed to their advice. Youre one of them Tiki and I dont care what anyone says about you..youre cool with me.

Posted by 25thDecan
Yet...points made about "conflation" and virgos somehow leaves the FISHRAT off the hook too? BEWLSHEED! 99% ....p-angel...YOU DON'T KNOW ENOUGH VIRGOS TO MAKE SUCH A GENERALIZATION....much less know how much of contradictory POS YOU are, you fuckin pisces wench.

And I'm gonna make this plain and simple...even in the midst ofv arguing.....rape is RAPE. It is not "brought on"...it is rape. Period. You cannot "entice someone" to commit a crime...you can influence someone to commit their mind to commit a crime, but they must make that conscious decision. Woman gets raped walking alone at night....people say "she invited it"....you lying sack of shit. No one invites rape. Period.

Does the affection need to stop? Yes. Resolved.
Are they incompatible? Yes. Resolved.
Can a virgo NOT conflate sex and love? Yes....so can many people.
Can a virgo conflate sex and love? Yes...so can many people. Stop allowing people like the FISHRAT to use logical fallacies as if she knows WTF SHE'S TALKING ABOUT. And then the bitch claims "women like you get raped"...how dare you, you cynical, evil, dirty piece of the muddiest mud under a victim's shoe.

I think we may be incompatible relationship wise. Other then whats happened with the affection getting out of hand. We have a great time together. Im more of a homebody then a social butterfly and a lot of things I like to do, he likes to as well. He is not from my hometown and things here have gotten out of control, crime wise, so he is home all the time, especially since he works late and he is a single father.

We have a "date" to go fishing if it warms up soon. The weather here has been crazy.

Okay so no jealousy...I thought it but wasn't sure, LS brought it up so I opened up about it, It was more of a question mark type thing for me and you cleared it up.

I think your compatible on so many levels, a few tweaks with your boundaries and things may take off and progress between the 2 of you, there is mutual attraction and you can actually spend 6 hours together without any hiccups. Be patient, and lean back on the sexual attraction until your absolutely ready to explore and go there, there is potential to go somewhere in this situation.

Posted by P-Angel

Posted by MsLovelyLibra

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Posted by MsLovelyLibra

What part are you not understanding that it doesnt bother me because ....

1. It should bother you to tease a man's cock .. and the fact that it doesn't speaks volumes of you

2. If it didn't bother you then this thread wouldn't exist.



You might want to try reality on, then a relationship.

Its really comical to me how people ASSume they know EVERYTHING about you through words via the internet. The simple fact is, you dont. You havent READ jack that Ive wrote. Have an awesome day P-Angel.

Is exaggeration something that is primarily a late summer to fall born person? Because you have "everything" in caps .. and a Virgo said "entire life" .. when meaning one incident.

Do you think you are driving a valid point across that I don't know everything about you, in which if you didn't say that then nobody in here would be able to know it if you didn't tell them?

Do you think that because I am looking at this from a different angle in which you intended that it equals not reading jack?

What is it with exaggerations?

What were saying about ASSuming again?

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I think the real question here is why are you taking the obvious and blatant exaggerations so literally?

Posted by P-Angel
Women like you get raped.

You must be kidding RIGHT? so if you dont give it up its ok the man rapes you.. you are fucked up!

@msLOVELYlibra... do what you feel like and f.. what everybody else says about you having sex or not, its your choise. I think its cool that you got your principles..

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Posted by P-Angel
Women like you get raped.

You must be kidding RIGHT? so if you dont give it up its ok the man rapes you.. you are fucked up!

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You must have been out in the woods smoking dope when your teacher went over Reading Comprehension .. you should try real heard to learn how to get what you read.


while you're at it, you can learn how to spell.

My date with Mr Virgo. Started out good...

ended with it blah...




I agree with you about the phone call, LS .. there is no reason for the inclusion of this detail unless it is important.

The title suggests that the date was good, it started out good ... then it ended with blah, the first paragraph of the blah that it ended with consists of him talking to a woman, and then her immediately questioning him about his involvement.

What I really find curious about this whole scenero is that a male Virgo is usually pretty good at judging whether a woman is decent, or not.

We all know, because there have been hundreds of threads in here through the years from women making testimony to it, that these men study the female to value her worth. Once they think they have found a woman of substance, is when we see the pulling away from her to analyze his feelings for her and whether she is worthy of him to open up to her.

So, in knowing that ^^^^^^^^^ is fact ..... I find it odd that he is treating her like a piece of ass. Shouldn't he be able to tell that she is the decent woman she claims to be who is concerned about her morals and virtue?

He treats her like a cum bucket ..... yet, she claims to be the opposite ..... and that just doesn't reason in my mind because I know that a Virgo male who is a manslut wouldn't even bother with her ... if he's treating her like that .....


... then it means she is inviting it

Indeed 🙂

I mean with any guy, if you're not giving up the kitty, you can't sit in his lap and suck on his face and think he's going to be all fine and dandy. He's being an ass because because you won't give him ass, but it's like you're dangling your vagina in front of his face and saying, "Come here and get it; oh wait, you can't." Holding on to your morals is one thing; holding on to your morals while playing a game is another (not saying you're doing this on purpose here), but I have to agree with P and LS that you're just bringing this all in. He's not going to stop either until he's over it; and more than likely, he's getting to that point. He's being honest about what he wants, but you're not. You have to lay it down like you mean it. There is nothing wrong with what you want, but there is something wrong with how you're going about it.

Posted by Candeh15
but it's like you're dangling your vagina in front of his face and saying, "Come here and get it; oh wait, you can't."

LOL reminds me of Borat

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Posted by P-Angel
Women like you get raped.

You must be kidding RIGHT? so if you dont give it up its ok the man rapes you.. you are fucked up!

You must have been out in the woods smoking dope when your teacher went over Reading Comprehension .. you should try real heard to learn how to get what you read.


while you're at it, you can learn how to spell.

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I WAS out smoking dope but what you are saying is still wrong.. nomatter how a woman acts, she doesnt deserve to get raped, even if she walks around naked and wont give it to him..

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Posted by P-Angel
Women like you get raped.

You must be kidding RIGHT? so if you dont give it up its ok the man rapes you.. you are fucked up!

You must have been out in the woods smoking dope when your teacher went over Reading Comprehension .. you should try real heard to learn how to get what you read.


while you're at it, you can learn how to spell.

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I COULD learn how to spell english, but damn its hard when I speak 7 languages :-) How many languages do you speak you negative old B**CH ?

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1) I get that I need to show some self restraint being around him because the sexual/physical attraction is there. There is something that happens the moment our eyes meet and thats all she wrote from that point on.

2) It is and NEVER will be intentional for me to get a man all worked up and then walk away. I dont play those types of games because guess what?!? I have been raped before and it wasnt at the hands of a stranger but by my ex husband.

3) If I felt that I was just a piece of ass to him, he would have been long gone. Trust me.

4) I know why he is so emotionally detached. Found out a bit about that when he opened up a bit on Sat. Some of what I know he's going through with his ex wife, especially revolving around his their son, is enough to make most men think twice about being with a woman.

5) My intuition about people are never wrong. My intuition tells me to hang in there with him, even if its just on a friendship level.

6) Him getting that phone call didnt bother me. Again, when I write, I tell all the details because thats MY writing style .

Posted by DyTryin

P-Angel: I find it odd that he is treating her like a piece of ass.

I don't. Been there, done that.

Libra Women send conflicting signals, because often they really don't know their own minds, or what they really want to do.

AND

Virgo Men are Men.

Plenty of casual fucking during my single years - though I never once deceived a woman to get laid. Never once faked "love" to get her panties off.

You missed my point.

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Posted by P-Angel

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Posted by P-Angel
Women like you get raped.

You must be kidding RIGHT? so if you dont give it up its ok the man rapes you.. you are fucked up!

You must have been out in the woods smoking dope when your teacher went over Reading Comprehension .. you should try real heard to learn how to get what you read.


while you're at it, you can learn how to spell.

I WAS out smoking dope but what you are saying is still wrong.. nomatter how a woman acts, she doesnt deserve to get raped, even if she walks around naked and wont give it to him..

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Does a person have to break down the sentence one word at a time for you to actually "get" what the sentence means?

Posted by MsLovelyLibra
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1) I get that I need to show some self restraint being around him because the sexual/physical attraction is there. There is something that happens the moment our eyes meet and thats all she wrote from that point on.

2) It is and NEVER will be intentional for me to get a man all worked up and then walk away. I dont play those types of games because guess what?!? I have been raped before and it wasnt at the hands of a stranger but by my ex husband.

3) If I felt that I was just a piece of ass to him, he would have been long gone. Trust me.

4) I know why he is so emotionally detached. Found out a bit about that when he opened up a bit on Sat. Some of what I know he's going through with his ex wife, especially revolving around his their son, is enough to make most men think twice about being with a woman.

5) My intuition about people are never wrong. My intuition tells me to hang in there with him, even if its just on a friendship level.

6) Him getting that phone call didnt bother me. Again, when I write, I tell all the details because thats MY writing style .

You haven't heard a word anyone said to you. You go on about how you percieve your actions based off of your intentions rather than how you are actually behaving .. like the two are disconnected. You cannot comprehend any of what we've said from our perspective.

If you aren't going to open yourself up to other points of view, then why bother to ask?

Here, let me clarify myself for that other Libra, since she is struggling to grasp it ..



It wasn't about deserving to get raped ... it was a warning to her, so she could protect herself.



*** waits for the light to go off in her head ***

MissLL .... thus far, all I can get from you is that you have a vague sense of what you need to do, but, there doesnt' seem to be the connection that is needed for you to realize that you actually have to do what you think.

1. You realize that you must use caution when in his presence .... then the next breath, you talk about how once your eyes meet, that's all she wrote.

You actually HAVE to put two and two together here. to just be aware of it doesn't majically fix anything .. you cannot let yourself be in a situation where you fall into being a helpless victim of your own circumstances and then expect anyone to be sympathetic to you.

If you think you are mentally and emotionally stable, then you have to actually be it.


2. You say it isn't intentional to play the game .. then you play it. It has to do with number #1 above .. because you leave yourself open to victimize yourself, and thinks it's not your responsbility to control yourself.

The reality of it, as we've all told here ... you put YOURSELF into the situation. So, you cannot say it is not your intention, then turn around and do it.

It's like the man who rapes his wife, then says he's sorry, he didn't mean to do ... I mean, seriously here, you need to get a grip on your reality here. If it's not your intention .. then don't fucking do it to him.

3. This one cracks me up because you said "I".

"If I felt that I was just a piece of ass to him, he would have been long gone. Trust me."

I dont' trust you, and you shouldn't trust you either, so long as you're experiencing a mental block when it comes to your intentions not matching your actions.

You cannot reason this #3 out when how YOU think of how he assess you, because you believe you are innocent, based off of your intentions .. which again, don't match your actions.

A guy is NOT going to bail on a woman who gives him signals that she's ready to give him the good, and that he only has to play along for awhile to get it .. that this game is the foreplay. On the Contrary ... they guy is going to do things like ...

.. ring you up and when you tell him you are cooking, he is going to make sexual references about the creme, as it is relative to cum.


It's like the the connection is missing between the two hemispheres in your brain .. you can acknowledge this shit on one side, but, you have no realization that you actually have to apply it for it to have any credit.

4) What?

Listen ... again ..... his treatment of you has to do with how YOU act. It has absolutely nothing to do with an ex and his child. He doesnt' care about your feelings because ...

..... you give him the signals to proceed with the sex, while giving him an additional signal that for him to try and unwrap the goods is the foreplay.

Why can't you make the connection here? If you look into his eyes, and that's all she wrote from that point on ... then what you are telling him is that you are helplessly fallen in his presence and he can have you.

Why can't you get that? ^^^^


5. Intuition? Is this a joke? You mean the intuition that is telling you he respects you? And you only have to wait it out with these mixed signals and not have to really give him any sound/solid signal .. you only have to wait for him to sort you for you?

6. We'll see how much that phone didn't bother you when you realize he's getting laid.

Posted by DyTryin

P-Angel: You missed my point.

No... I provided a simpler explanation to the OP.

Let me be even more concise: Libra & Virgo don't work.

There have been LOTS of Libra Women on this Board over the years with very similar stories to this one.

Play the odds if you want to waste your time.

Nothing new here... kindly move along.

Dy, read it again .. I wasn't saying that I dont' get it to even need an explanation.

It was rhetoric .... you thought I needed clarification.

What I'm not getting is how a person can't see their actions/intentions not matching and you thought I was asking a question of man/woman.

Posted by DyTryin

P-Angel: I find it odd that he is treating her like a piece of ass.

I don't. Been there, done that.

Libra Women send conflicting signals, because often they really don't know their own minds, or what they really want to do.

AND

Virgo Men are Men.

Plenty of casual fucking during my single years - though I never once deceived a woman to get laid. Never once faked "love" to get her panties off.

And that ^^^^^ isnt' addressing the OP, it is answering me.

The only thing you've done is talk about your relationship and how this doesnt' work .... then there is a woman here that needs to get it.

Nice that we know about you, though .. thank you 🙂

There's no earth to me reason for talking like that. I tell you something, and you act like I'm trying to argue with you.


I am talking to this woman, trying to get her to realize what she is doing .. and you tell me I'm wasting my time, based off of what you know.

We all know you know alot .. so, does this mean that if it involves a Libra woman then it's worth you .. based off of your ex-wife?

That that the very same concept that you mad at me for because I lump virgo's together based on my husand?

If you have a principal, then it must be honest, or it's just a random opinion.

.. so, does this mean that if it involves a Libra woman then it's worth you .. based off of your ex-wife?



*not .. not worth you

What I am saying to this woman is valid and she needs to hear it .... by you thinking I'm arguing with YOU, draws the attention away from what she needs to hear.


Or, do you do that on purpose?




I'm talking to her ... I'm saying to her that I don't understand how she can make the conclusion that he doesnt' want her for a piece of ass, while treating her that way?

And you try to clarify for me why a man will take the goods and walk away.



Water to Wayne ......

Dy, I don't get you.

do you really think everybody is so stupid that they only get what you tell them?

You're a smart man .. so why act dumb, is what I don't get.



You commented on what I said, and misunderstood my meaning. I told you that you misunderstood and explained to you what I mean ... and for some reason you seem to not be able to handle that, and I don't know why.


Everybody who can read, and comprehend knows that you were addressing me, for you put me in quotes, for Pete's Sake.

For years women have been coming in here having problems with communicating with their Virgo man ... and it's obvious that you guys are the ones making it hard to communicate with.


About a year ago, you came to me, and asked for a truce .. I forgot about the battle within moments of it happening .. it took you two years to come that realization. I told you then, and I tell you know .. but, even after seeking me out and wanting me to oblige you with your wish to remain cordial with me .. you continue to try and bait me with your snobbery.


If alls you wanted was to trick me into talking to you again .. then sobeit .. I can wait another year for you to seek out my forgiveness again .. hopefully that time you will be true.

And then you continue to try and bait me with your snobbery, which makes you untrue to that gesture.



I won't allow it.


You may address as much as you like from this point forward, and I will refuse to acknowledge you just like the rest of your kind who get ignorance from me.

The day you Virgos learn to be true to your words .. the day I will acknowledge you again.


goodbye Wayne 🙂

Posted by QuietSt0rm
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lmfao

WTF?? Is all this really necessary? This thread has run its course.

Posted by QuietSt0rm
I don't think the thread is yours anymore they hijacked it.

Tis entertaining though...

MissLibra resorted to PMing me ... so, she just threw that in to "look" good .. you know how Libras are with appearances and all 😛

Posted by P-Angel

Posted by QuietSt0rm
I don't think the thread is yours anymore they hijacked it.

Tis entertaining though...

MissLibra resorted to PMing me ... so, she just threw that in to "look" good .. you know how Libras are with appearances and all 😛

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Chile boo..Better yet..

This was my PM to P-Angel on the 29th and today is the whaaat?

Im not going to keep cyber arguing with you
from MsLovelyLibra sent on 11/29/2010 at 2:56:59 PM
I GET what you have been saying but it doesnt seem like you get what I have been saying. Mr Virgo is behaving the way he is because of MY behavior. I take responsibility for that which I said time and time again in that thread. Why do I give him the time of day? Because I know things that Im sure he thinks I know nothing about. I know he has issues concerning women steming from issues with his ex wife. (1) IF I see him again, I have to stop the physical contact. (2) I need to decide if Im willing to stick it out with him considering what he is dealing with at the moment.

You made it seem as though Id go to his house and just start bumping and grinding on him. That is not the case. Im usually at his house for about 6 hrs and for the first 4 hrs or so, we are good but then we'd start kissing, which would lead to the 'dry humping', Id gather my senses, tell him we need to stop and thats when he'd get frustrated. He is a man, so of course he is going to do what he does (sexually) if Im responding to what it is he is doing.

I am not naive on what could be going on here with him which is why Im not really bothered by it because (1) I havent invested my heart where he is concerned. (2) If I remove myself from the situation the moment it gets heated, Im sure I will have a better guage on him (3) He does NOT pressure me into trying to have sex which some of you seem to be thinking he is doing.

As of TONIGHT - Im done responding to this thread.

11/29/2010 1:05:19 PM


At that time is when I warned you that those kind of actions done to a man will get you raped ... and I'm glad you posted that openly, so the time can be seen.

My point was .... careful what you say, if you plan on lying, because people keep track.

Posted by 25thDecan
See, Dy....these are the points I make CONSISTENTLY about the fish/rat, and others. Many of these relationships STARTED OUT headed for disaster. Some of these women come here believing that the "virgo did it"...when often enough, the woman did everything and NEVER observed or legitimately cared anything about their beaux's personality....

Im going to respond to you cause I like you and youre cute :-)

I do agree. I dont place any blame on him because this was my doing. Plain and simple. Him and I have a great time when we're together, its the issue of sex that keeps coming up and if I see him again, its me that needs to have boundaries in place and to stick to it.

Even when people say, I guess because they actually think that they believe it to be true ....


... that they don't care about what I say or think .... they constantly address me or reference me in responses. Even if this addressing is to defy ... it's still a representation of regard on some level.



Forgive them Father for they know not what they do .... they have no comprehension in the slightest form that they're bitterness fucks them up, yo

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