Normal Virgo behavior after breakup?

Hi All,

So I just ended a wonderful relationship with an Aqua guy I still care for. He had too much drama in his life and also broke my trust - This being the reason why I broke things off with him.

So usually after a breakup, I am anxious to have a 'cleanse' Since I smoke, I decided to quit cold turkey, and in the mindset of dedicating myself to losing weight and getting 'hot'... Mostly for a healthy body and mind, but also so when I come across my ex, they can wish they hadn't lost "this"

Looking back at my dating life, I have never gone back to an ex of mine (Unless it was a recent breakup and they pulled out all the stops to keep me)... But if time had passed and I'm completely over it - I wont go back.

I've done these kind of things several times before after a breakup (Both as a male Virgo and now a female Virgo)... Does this sound like normal Virgo behavior?

I'm no virgo. But I think you're on the right path 🙂

Posted by DepthAndDeath
I'm no virgo. But I think you're on the right path 🙂

Thank you! I think so too :-)

Posted by rekt
you're already hot though. lmao.

though quitting smoking will have some good health benefits for you that extend beyond your looks. so it's good you're gonna quit. good luck with that. 🙂

Haha! Well thank you! I'm confident in my own skin now as a thicker than average girl - I just know my potential.

"I've done these kind of things several times before after a breakup (Both as a male Virgo and now a female Virgo)... Does this sound like normal Virgo behavior?

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Are you transgender? I've read a couple of your posts and sometimes I get confused because of your grammar. I'm not being rude or anything.

Posted by Leoqueen21
"I've done these kind of things several times before after a breakup (Both as a male Virgo and now a female Virgo)... Does this sound like normal Virgo behavior?

Are you transgender? I've read a couple of your posts and sometimes I get confused because of your grammar. I'm not being rude or anything.

Yes, I am transgender

Except for one, who is my Aqua ex, I never went back to an ex. I had an on/off relationship with the Aqua, but at the time I was deeply in love. Unless there was something worthwhile or a long term investment, returning to an ex was never in my mind. I’m not one to easily give up. However, once I’ve checked out of a relationship it’s rather high I’m looking for an exit and if I reach that stage then that means I’ll no longer return.

Posted by Virgorean
Except for one, who is my Aqua ex, I never went back to an ex. I had an on/off relationship with the Aqua, but at the time I was deeply in love. Unless there was something worthwhile or a long term investment, returning to an ex was never in my mind. I’m not one to easily give up. However, once I’ve checked out of a relationship it’s rather high I’m looking for an exit and if I reach that stage then that means I’ll no longer return.

Yes, my Aqua guy is the only one I've went back to... and I know, if he came back for me, I would probably give in.

So I wasnt expecting it - but I just shed my first tears about the break off since I had initially done it. Crud, I hate this part!

^Then you can let the healing process begin. Focus on a more refined you so you're at your best when you do meet someone new.

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Posted by Virgorean
Except for one, who is my Aqua ex, I never went back to an ex. I had an on/off relationship with the Aqua, but at the time I was deeply in love. Unless there was something worthwhile or a long term investment, returning to an ex was never in my mind. I’m not one to easily give up. However, once I’ve checked out of a relationship it’s rather high I’m looking for an exit and if I reach that stage then that means I’ll no longer return.

@MilaniKisses

What is it about Aquarius that makes you reconsider though?

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Well the Aqua guy I was seeing was very charming and gave me affection that I absolutely loved. We had wonderful conversation and connected well. He is the second Aquarius that I've became friends with, first one being a female co-worker... So far, I've always had a great relationship (friends or lovers) with Aquarius'.

Posted by CheVirgo
Hermit stage.

Now, I have no clue what stage I'm at... I came to realization that I was "the rebound" and ended up blocking his number and telling him off.

Posted by MilaniKisses
So I wasnt expecting it - but I just shed my first tears about the break off since I had initially done it. Crud, I hate this part!

This soon shall pass 🙂 All the best with the healing process. Im not a Virgo but I think a lot of people aim for self development and improvement after a break up. Mine took me 4 years!

Posted by Sagg101

Posted by MilaniKisses
So I wasnt expecting it - but I just shed my first tears about the break off since I had initially done it. Crud, I hate this part!

This soon shall pass 🙂 All the best with the healing process. Im not a Virgo but I think a lot of people aim for self development and improvement after a break up. Mine took me 4 years!

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Thank you Sagg101!

Sounds Virgo .

This is how it goes for me. I go through I very painful phase of laying in bed and cry , not motivated to do anything if I love the guy. It's really damaging , I hate this phase.

Then..

I analyze my situation and where I could possibly have been at fault

Then I put it down into a mental note as something to work on for my future husband

Then I start my gym going routine where I workout to stop thinking and focus on myself . With every lift and stride I'm working toward something for me.

Sometime I wish more people broke my heart . I would have an amazing body by now . I wouldn't be able to deal with the initial break up phase though .

But in your case, you made the decision to let go, most Virgo are sure of their decision when they make one, I'm just a very emotional Virgo

I too find myself on the path of self improvement after a break-up, regardless if I want to get back together aith my ex or not. I don't know why, probably it also has to do with me thinking what went wrong in the relationship, and it helps me focus in the future rather than wallow in regrets from the past heartache.

Very virgo. I'm was a serial dater before I met my Taurus moon hubby :''D lol and in those past relationships I had, I always had a cleanse after. Either I changed something about myself like my hair or did my make up differently.. it was always something had to change. One time I had to change my curtains just because I needed something new. I think its just a way of making ourselves feel better by cleaning ourselves up from being a crying mess on the floor. 🙂

I am a Virgo. Virgos usually verbally beat the crap out of the break-up guy and move on. Keep walking.