Should I continue to pursue Virgo woman, or is it (Page 3)

Soooo. Saw her today for the 1st time in 2 weeks. She looked incredible (of course). So we talked for a couple minutes about her trip as nd what not, laughs a little, had a couple of silent stares (I get lost in her eyes sometimes and have to remember to keep talking). She also tol sd me that she's planning on moving out of state. DUN DUN DUNNNN. So.....yea.....Im feeling kinda sick.

Posted by Joshmoe
Ok. Yea...u pretty much answered all my questions. ??= I do realize that everybody/situation are different, but I do see similarities. U know.

🙂

So she's planning on moving...was there any mention of keeping in touch?

Nope. Didnt talk aboot that.

Well that ain't helpful.Sorry to hear that.

Having one of my infamous shutdown moments. Trying to figure out what to do. feeling kind of stupid. Im trying to back off for a minute.

Thanks Vulcan :-p.

Wont loose my cool. That would be insane. Think I need to back off for a while. Maybe for good. The day she told me she was moving, I asked if she would feel like talking later. She said yea, so I called her later. No answer. She said her best friend showed up and was going through some things. That was tuesday. So wednesday and thursday I kept my distance, no facebook messages or anything. So I asked her again today (after keeping my distance a good amount of the day) if she'd like to talk later. She said her friend was still gonna be there, so basically it sounds like she's telling me no, just in a nice way. At this point, I feel like I'm playing myself. And if I continue i'm just gonna look insane (its how I feel by the way, I fee like a crazy person), so in order to not feel like this (it suckz pretty bad) I think Im gonna chill. She knows how I feel. I've done all I can at this point. Im exhausted. If anythings gonna happen from here on out, it'll be because she made an effort.

That stinks.I was rooting for ya!You plan sounds spot on.Anymore involvement might lead to something new=a restraining order.(lol).Too soon,sorry.Anyway, your little people need their dad.Bring your heart to be healed to them.They will give you love and joy back.Nothing like sticky kisses,important stories from their day and warm little arms around your neck.

A restraining order..lol...yea, a little soon :-)

The thing is though, I'd rather she just str8 up told me to chill. I even asked her if I was being annoying.

Vulcanlass-thanks by the way. Im actually watching my daughters now. They always make me feel better. =)

Saurry.Maybe she knew she was planning on leaving awhile ago.Who knows.At least she told you that she was going.It's sweet to have a guy sputtering over us,may be that why she didn't tell you to back up.May be she could see the strain of separating from them in your eyes and didn't want to make you choose.

Think of it this way,now you don't have to choose to leave your little ladies behind or having to worry about coming back to see them.Keep being the stand up guy that you are,the girls need you as a role model.It has been proven that alot of women marry a guy like their father on some level.In their eyes,you are creating the future for them.Good Luck.

Vulcanlass-Thanks. We never talked about my daughters or my divorce, but your right, they come before anything. Leaving them isnt an option. Thanks for the compliments as well.

Hey your welcome!Credit where credit is do.

So, here's an update on my lovely situation. After the whole moving and phone call thing, I decided to back off, which I was pretty good at. ( I think). I would speak to her casually (how are u ,yadda yadda yadda) and after about 2 days of keeping my distance( No compliments or anything), she approached me. Nothing really extraordinary happened. She told me she was going on a weekend getaway type of deal and asked what I thought about the dress she was thinking about getting and wanted advice n wut not (Last time she was doing this I found a dress for her and she got it......and looked incredible) . So the next 2 days we had a couple of conversations. She smiled alot ( I tried to stay away, I swear). I hadnt left her any facebook messages in a while, but I broke ( I tried) and told her that something in her eyes drove me insane. Its hard to stay away, when she's coming at me. I know only time will tell, but in the meantime......what do u think ladies?