@truecap
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Social Gatherings?
I AM AWESOME.
I make a great hostess. I love love organizing and entertaining everybody. No one is allowed to stay in a corner and sulk.
My Virgo is well-rounded in that all of the above he can do with ease.
In a small crowd or large ... whether he's the guest or the host ... he's fine with all roles. By nature, he is double-natured when it comes to the company of other people .... he can be by himself for hours on end, or the life of a party. To wear many hats is something he does well.
Of course, there are events he doesn't want to attend, so the exception to the rule applies.
Mine has no problem whatsoever initiating contact with people he doesn't know yet. He can enter a bar and within an hour know everyone there.
Virgo moon here. I'm pretty shy when it comes to social gatherings and like sticking to small groups, even better if I know them. Meeting new people is a challenge for me. I really really try to be more outgoing in that aspect but geez I just clam up! A lil wine helps me ease up though 😛
Posted by Damnata
I AM AWESOME.I make a great hostess. I love love organizing and entertaining everybody. No one is allowed to stay in a corner and sulk.
So you'd rather have a "job" to do? Me too. Hosting is natural for me.
I kind of figured virgos were well rounded and could give or take either way. That's the impression I get anyway.
Posted by peaceloveandhappiness
Virgo moon here. I'm pretty shy when it comes to social gatherings and like sticking to small groups, even better if I know them. Meeting new people is a challenge for me. I really really try to be more outgoing in that aspect but geez I just clam up! A lil wine helps me ease up though 😛
My guy has virgo moon and he is that way. He just prefers a very small group and likes manning the grill to keep busy.
Mine has no problem whatsoever initiating contact with people he doesn't know yet. He can enter a bar and within an hour know everyone there.
I like being around people like that.
Scorpio moon here and I enjoy social gathering especially with people I don't know. I love play acting till I know I can trust new people. BUT if someone doesn't like me, they better be up front with me. I can't and I won't stand passive aggressive behavior unless those come from my mother.
Another tendency of mine is I got bore a lot and I change mid stream. Say for example, I've been to social gathering four months in a row for example, I would then change and become anti-social. I hate this tendency of mine but I can't fight it.
Posted by VirgoDragirl
Scorpio moon here and I enjoy social gathering especially with people I don't know. I love play acting till I know I can trust new people. BUT if someone doesn't like me, they better be up front with me. I can't and I won't stand passive aggressive behavior unless those come from my mother.Another tendency of mine is I got bore a lot and I change mid stream. Say for example, I've been to social gathering four months in a row for example, I would then change and become anti-social. I hate this tendency of mine but I can't fight it.
What do you mean by play acting?
Posted by truecap
Virgos, how are you at social gatherings? Would you rather have a "job" to do to keep busy? Would you rather participate in small talk? Would you prefer a large group or a small one? Do you like meeting new people or would you prefer to just hang with people you already know? Would you prefer to go to a social event or would you just prefer to stay at home?Etc.
Just curious as a fellow earth sign.
Im awkward in social gatherings #mercretroproblems.
I dont mind helping out if need be.
HATE small talk!
small group
I like hanging with people I already know...Im leery of new people.
depends on my mood...but most likely staying home would win lol
Mine has no problem whatsoever initiating contact with people he doesn't know yet. He can enter a bar and within an hour know everyone there.
+1000
Posted by Damnata
I AM AWESOME.I make a great hostess. I love love organizing and entertaining everybody. No one is allowed to stay in a corner and sulk.
So you'd rather have a "job" to do? Me too. Hosting is natural for me.
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I will chat up anyone and everyone and will make sure people are enjoying themselves.
I try not to come across as too..overbearing? It's just that I'm excited like a child when meeting new people, new subjects for me to probe into their minds 😄
I'm a Libra-Virgo cusper and I'm mostly antisocial. I'm more talkative in small intimate settings and 1-on-1s, and I'd rather stay indoors and play board games with a close group of friends than to attend a party where I don't know half the people.
Pretending to be something I'm not just to try it on to see if I enjoy it and see how others behave. This can only last a short while then I got bored. I like changing environment, changing crowds and changing scene. This doesn't mean I have tons of friends. Most of what I have is acquaintances. But if I got invited to a gathering or I host a gathering, I will make it my goal to know everybody there, even when it is not in my nature to do so. There will be pictures, I collect emails and will send them these pictures on their birthday or as an invite for the next gathering, etc, etc, etc.
Communications with others is like an outlet for me to de-stress.
Posted by CluelessCancer
Damn Damnata sounds like an AZZCLOWN, i'd hate to be around your chatty self.anyways it depends on my moods. My people skills are remarkable when i want them to be.
Probably why I have awesome friends 🙂
Posted by CluelessCancer
Damn Damnata sounds like an AZZCLOWN, i'd hate to be around your chatty self.anyways it depends on my moods. My people skills are remarkable when i want them to be.
Well, I, for one, think Damnata would be a blast to hang out with!
Posted by CluelessCancer
Damn Damnata sounds like an AZZCLOWN, i'd hate to be around your chatty self.anyways it depends on my moods. My people skills are remarkable when i want them to be.
Well, I, for one, think Damnata would be a blast to hang out with!
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I am so coming to Texas 😄
You know I was checking the map of the US and trying to pin places of people I'd like to meet but you folks are all over the fucking place! lol
I can chop wood and chicken's heads off, truecap.
If that doesn't render me endearing to you, nothing will 😄
Posted by CluelessCancer
Was that a compliment i didn't mean to DISH. I take that back.
Oh man..
I was jumping up and down "CC CALLED ME A SUPERSTAR"
Why did you have to take that away from me? 😭
Posted by Damnata
I can chop wood and chicken's heads off, truecap.If that doesn't render me endearing to you, nothing will 😄
You're such an arse kisser. Mouh. Mouh. Mouh
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LET'S BE BEST FRIENDS FOREVER!
(it's called humor, grumpers. and i do know how to do what i said i did)
My Virgo is well-rounded in that all of the above he can do with ease.
In a small crowd or large ... whether he's the guest or the host ... he's fine with all roles. By nature, he is double-natured when it comes to the company of other people .... he can be by himself for hours on end, or the life of a party. To wear many hats is something he does well.
Of course, there are events he doesn't want to attend, so the exception to the rule applies.
This is me, to a T! Only Im way crazier
Posted by CluelessCancer
Was that a compliment i didn't mean to DISH. I take that back.Oh man..
I was jumping up and down "CC CALLED ME A SUPERSTAR"
Why did you have to take that away from me? 😭
click to expandSurely if you've managed to get a hater by just being yourself, you must be doing something right.😛
I'd rather not be there. But if it's important I'll succumb and at least be friendly.
If the mood of the gathering isn't amiable however, I'll find a way to get out of it.
Posted by CluelessCancer
Damn Damnata sounds like an AZZCLOWN, i'd hate to be around your chatty self.anyways it depends on my moods. My people skills are remarkable when i want them to be.
Well, I, for one, think Damnata would be a blast to hang out with!
Well you're a boring Capricorn. There's only room for one Superstar in my relationships. Me.
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Your Leo parts are showing!! lol!!
And for some reason, I pictured the movie "Superstar" with Molly Shannon. Yikes!
Posted by Damnata
I can chop wood and chicken's heads off, truecap.If that doesn't render me endearing to you, nothing will 😄
Lol!!
Come on out here! We'll build a fire and check out your chicken roasting skills. 😄
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Virgos, how are you at social gatherings? Would you rather have a "job" to do to keep busy? Would you rather participate in small talk? Would you prefer a large group or a small one? Do you like meeting new people or would you prefer to just hang with people you already know? Would you prefer to go to a social event or would you just prefer to stay at home?
Etc.
Just curious as a fellow earth sign.