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This article is spot on! I wonder if all virgos are narcissists or its just mine LOL
6. Entitlement. Narcissists often expect preferential treatment from others. They expect others to cater (often instantly) to their needs, without being considerate in return. In their mindset, the world revolves around them.
7. Charmer. Narcissists can be very charismatic and persuasive. When they’re interested in you (for their own gratification), they make you feel very special and wanted. However, once they lose interest in you (most likely after they’ve gotten what they want, or became bored), they may drop you without a second thought. A narcissist can be very engaging and sociable, as long as you’re fulfilling what she desires, and giving her all of your attention.
8. Grandiose Personality. Thinking of oneself as a hero or heroine, a prince or princess, or one of a kind special person. Some narcissists have an exaggerated sense of self-importance, believing that others cannot live or survive without his or her magnificent contributions.
“I’m looking for a man who will treat my daughter and me like princesses”
”• Anonymous singles ad
“Once again I saved the day—without me, they’re nothing”
”• Anonymous
9. Negative Emotions. Many narcissists enjoy spreading and arousing negative emotions to gain attention, feel powerful, and keep you insecure and off-balance. They are easily upset at any real or perceived slights or inattentiveness. They may throw a tantrum if you disagree with their views, or fail to meet their expectations. They are extremely sensitive to criticism, and typically respond with heated argument (fight) or cold detachment (flight). On the other hand, narcissists are often quick to judge, criticize, ridicule, and blame you. Some narcissists are emotionally abusive. By making you feel inferior, they boost their fragile ego, and feel better about themselves.
“Some people try to be tall by cutting off the heads of others”
— Paramhansa Yogananda
10. Manipulation: Using Others as an Extension of Self. Making decisions for others to suit one’s own needs. The narcissist may use his or her romantic partner, child, friend, or colleague to meet unreasonable self-serving needs, fulfill unrealized dreams, or cover up self-perceived inadequacies and flaws.
“If my son doesn’t grow up to be a professional baseball player, I’ll disown him”
”• Anonymous father
“Aren’t you beautiful? Aren’t you beautiful? You’re going to be just as pretty as mommy”
”• Anonymous mother
Another way narcissists manipulate is through guilt, such as proclaiming, “I’ve given you so much, and you’re so ungrateful,” or, “I’m a victim—you must help me or you’re not a good person.” They hijack your emotions, and beguile you to make unreasonable sacrifices.
7. Charmer. Narcissists can be very charismatic and persuasive. When they’re interested in you (for their own gratification), they make you feel very special and wanted. However, once they lose interest in you (most likely after they’ve gotten what they want, or became bored), they may drop you without a second thought. A narcissist can be very engaging and sociable, as long as you’re fulfilling what she desires, and giving her all of your attention.
8. Grandiose Personality. Thinking of oneself as a hero or heroine, a prince or princess, or one of a kind special person. Some narcissists have an exaggerated sense of self-importance, believing that others cannot live or survive without his or her magnificent contributions.
“I’m looking for a man who will treat my daughter and me like princesses”
”• Anonymous singles ad
“Once again I saved the day—without me, they’re nothing”
”• Anonymous
9. Negative Emotions. Many narcissists enjoy spreading and arousing negative emotions to gain attention, feel powerful, and keep you insecure and off-balance. They are easily upset at any real or perceived slights or inattentiveness. They may throw a tantrum if you disagree with their views, or fail to meet their expectations. They are extremely sensitive to criticism, and typically respond with heated argument (fight) or cold detachment (flight). On the other hand, narcissists are often quick to judge, criticize, ridicule, and blame you. Some narcissists are emotionally abusive. By making you feel inferior, they boost their fragile ego, and feel better about themselves.
“Some people try to be tall by cutting off the heads of others”
— Paramhansa Yogananda
10. Manipulation: Using Others as an Extension of Self. Making decisions for others to suit one’s own needs. The narcissist may use his or her romantic partner, child, friend, or colleague to meet unreasonable self-serving needs, fulfill unrealized dreams, or cover up self-perceived inadequacies and flaws.
“If my son doesn’t grow up to be a professional baseball player, I’ll disown him”
”• Anonymous father
“Aren’t you beautiful? Aren’t you beautiful? You’re going to be just as pretty as mommy”
”• Anonymous mother
Another way narcissists manipulate is through guilt, such as proclaiming, “I’ve given you so much, and you’re so ungrateful,” or, “I’m a victim—you must help me or you’re not a good person.” They hijack your emotions, and beguile you to make unreasonable sacrifices.
I think it's all of us.
Ouch! 😄
Well I havent come across many like this but all of this fits my virguy lol .. poor me!!
1. the exact opposite. Typically, the Virgo is a very good listener, and is quite content to use It's keen powers of observation rather than talk over top of the other.
2. the exact opposite. Typically, the Virgo is extremely service oriented, and It's main goal is to focus on you, so to understand what you need, so that they can provide it to you.
3. the exact opposite. Typically, the Virgo is very comfortable with order. They are the ones wanting to make rules, wanting to sort out the chaos of ........
.... you know what, everything you've posted here is wrong, so there's no point in continuing with the list. Instead of being a grown up to understand that people come and people go, and your job is to let it pass ... you apparently cannot handle that you play a part at fault, so you've come here in typical douchebag fashion, to attempt to throw him under the bus.
Virgos are nothing like you are trying desperately to convince people ... and all of us know they aren't ... so, what can we do except laugh at you.
Until you grow some big girl panties .. you're a joke with what you posting, since the source is coming from your hurt butt.
Posted by DamnataUuuhhh no ma'am.
I think it's all of us.
Posted by Magenta_AzureAll of us Virgos.Posted by DamnataUuuhhh no ma'am.
I think it's all of us.click to expand
I mean might as well tell the delusional people what they want to hear.
Posted by Magenta_AzureRespectfully...I was thinking the same thing...uhhh...not everyone.Posted by DamnataUuuhhh no ma'am.
I think it's all of us.click to expand
@p-angel - LOL .. you make me laugh seriously. I dont understand your problem, just because you have 'd some good experience with virgos does not mean you can speak for all. And the above article isnt written by me. I read it on the internet and thought i ll share it with you guys, since all of this is true in my case. My virgo no doubt is a good listener but he only listens to things he want to - and if i were his hater i wouldnt come here look for solutions to be able to put up with him
Yeah ofcourse not every virgo is alike - I m sure there are positive ones, its probably about the ones living on the negative spectrum ..
oh and by the way i have been raised by a virgo dad and a pisces mom so i can tell a lot from my experiences ...
Posted by leonaWell, for starters, she has a Virgo that she knows and Loves, as do many here (me included). You asked a (stupid) question, and you got an answer that you didn't like (because saying that there are amazing Virgos out there would mean it's you with the problem, not us, and you couldn't handle that). You want to pretend you didn't see the other 5011 threads suggesting the same shit, then you also want to pretend that you don't understand how this nonsense could be considered irritating to some of us?
@p-angel - LOL .. you make me laugh seriously. I dont understand your problem, just because you have 'd some good experience with virgos does not mean you can speak for all.
Posted by leonaYet you posted that idiotic thread title anyway. The only answer that would suit you is the one you'd get by talking to yourself in the mirror...
Yeah ofcourse not every virgo is alike - I m sure there are positive ones, its probably about the ones living on the negative spectrum ..click to expand
@TaureanVirgo - I m not here to attack all virgos, i m here lookin for solutions, just like you all - and i dont mean to offend any of you in anyway neither i know any of you personally. I just find it v irritating when some of you just dont understand the fuck people are going through and start defending virgo, and now you have jumped into this out of nowhere . Kindly if you cant advice then please stop throwing your negative sarcasm. And i m glad that p- angel happens to be the lucky one to have worked with her virgo without any complications but a happy one wouldnt be here wastin his/her energy over somethin that doesnt make sense. Please stop picking on my threads if you find them stupid you shouldnt bother reading them.
@TaureanVirgo - and by the way for your information i didnt ask any stoopid idiotic qs, I only shared an article that fits my virgo guy to figure out if all these are common virgo traits or it only happened in my case and a lot of you are already strugling with the narcissist ones.
@TaureanVirgo - and if you just check above and look carefully u would see that i wrote in my first comment that i havnt come across many like that, it only happens to be true in my virgo case. So DONT TAKE IT PERSONALLY!
@TaureanVirgo - and if you just check above and look carefully u would see that i wrote in my first comment that i havnt come across many like that, it only happens to be true in my virgo case. So DONT TAKE IT PERSONALLY!
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