Virgo date completely disappeared without a word..

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"I've known her for 2 weeks but the emotional and physical connection has been strong."



Maybe you scared her off?

Said something?

Or sent certain pics?


Well we were having a conversation, she was criticizing herself again how she's not perfect. How her ex was always putting her down for not being religious... I told her she's perfect in her own little way. A few texts after that she disappeared.

I can't think of anything that mightve scared her off.

We have shared that many pics either, only selfies
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She found someone new she's commiting herself too? Or she was keeping you on the side line while she was hoping for another man she was interested in and finally got him.

My bestfriend was like this ✌


If that's the case then she should've told me.

But I met her right after she broke up with her boyfriend/partner.

She was going through a very tough time with the Gemini guy and she wanted to get rid of him and he is also her boss.

it was using her for money and sex and All that kind of stuff

She said that the connection that she had with me was very emotional it was very physical and she was a lot more attracted to me than him.

She always compared to a relationship with me to him so I really don't think there is another person out there....



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"I've known her for 2 weeks but the emotional and physical connection has been strong."



Maybe you scared her off?

Said something?

Or sent certain pics?


Well we were having a conversation, she was criticizing herself again how she's not perfect. How her ex was always putting her down for not being religious... I told her she's perfect in her own little way. A few texts after that she disappeared.

I can't think of anything that mightve scared her off.

We have shared that many pics either, only selfies
Maybe she thinks she's got to work on herself first?
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You hit the goddamn jackpot on this one!

Thing is she's a Venus/ Capricorn moon, Venus in Virgo, Mars in Leo.



I'm an Aries sun/Aries moon, Venus in Gemini and Mars in Aries.

I'm just so attracted to her... I know she's attracted to me too. Just yesterday we kissed and cuddle for a good hour.

She wanted to meet me next week so I can take her drifting in the mountains after it rains.
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But I met her right after she broke up with her boyfriend/partner.






You were a rebound and she's probably back with the ex.
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She kept on telling me on how much I was better than him and how the emotional connection with me allowed her to have a good time when we did it.

She talks so much shit about him like how he used to for money and sex and how he threatened her ans her and her children .
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"I've known her for 2 weeks but the emotional and physical connection has been strong."



Maybe you scared her off?

Said something?

Or sent certain pics?


Well we were having a conversation, she was criticizing herself again how she's not perfect. How her ex was always putting her down for not being religious... I told her she's perfect in her own little way. A few texts after that she disappeared.

I can't think of anything that mightve scared her off.

We have shared that many pics either, only selfies
Maybe she thinks she's got to work on herself first?


You hit the goddamn jackpot on this one!

Thing is she's a Venus/ Capricorn moon, Venus in Virgo, Mars in Leo.



I'm an Aries sun/Aries moon, Venus in Gemini and Mars in Aries.

I'm just so attracted to her... I know she's attracted to me too. Just yesterday we kissed and cuddle for a good hour.

She wanted to meet me next week so I can take her drifting in the mountains after it rains.


So she wants to meet you next week to go the mountains. You have her contact I'm sure so what's the problem?

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Out of the blue she blocked me.. my whatsapp messages are one ticks and my texts are green. We both have iPhones I don't wanna call her and seem desparate, She left the conversation without even saying good night which she usually does so this is highly unusual of her
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I'm going to have to take that bet too. The ex came calling again for some great break-up sex.


She told me she blocked the Ex yesterday morning over the phone when we spoke, he's jealous of me she said when she told him about me.

He wanted my name and number and all that she didn't give it to him...
There's always two sides to each story. You have to wonder why he even knew about your presence in her life in the first place. Only she could have told him.
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I'm wondering too. My intuition was to make him jealous because he is her boss and he went on a vacation thing with another coworker...

Fuck I feel used now.
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How long was the breakup date to the date you met her? Virgos are clingy af to their exes like they're clinging for dear life.

My 1st virgo ex took 6 months to get over our break up, my 2nd virgo ex took 2 full years although he was fully aware that I was already w/ someone else.

My virgo bestfriend is also like this, dated few men while still begging for her ex, once she got her ex back, she dropped all men she dated.


She broke up with him a day before we met. She said he was becoming a danger to continue being in her life because he threatened her if she left him. She also said all he used her for was sex and money, paid his ass $ 300 a week!

As far as I'm concerned he's a lucky man! ?
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I'm going to have to take that bet too. The ex came calling again for some great break-up sex.


She told me she blocked the Ex yesterday morning over the phone when we spoke, he's jealous of me she said when she told him about me.

He wanted my name and number and all that she didn't give it to him...
There's always two sides to each story. You have to wonder why he even knew about your presence in her life in the first place. Only she could have told him.


I'm wondering too. My intuition was to make him jealous because he is her boss and he went on a vacation thing with another coworker...

Fuck I feel used now.


why not tell the whole story so people could actually help you?
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If I said the whole story you'd all either be confused or think I'm a troll which neither is what I want
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"I've known her for 2 weeks but the emotional and physical connection has been strong."



Maybe you scared her off?

Said something?

Or sent certain pics?


Well we were having a conversation, she was criticizing herself again how she's not perfect. How her ex was always putting her down for not being religious... I told her she's perfect in her own little way. A few texts after that she disappeared.

I can't think of anything that mightve scared her off.

We have shared that many pics either, only selfies
Maybe she thinks she's got to work on herself first?


You hit the goddamn jackpot on this one!

Thing is she's a Venus/ Capricorn moon, Venus in Virgo, Mars in Leo.



I'm an Aries sun/Aries moon, Venus in Gemini and Mars in Aries.

I'm just so attracted to her... I know she's attracted to me too. Just yesterday we kissed and cuddle for a good hour.

She wanted to meet me next week so I can take her drifting in the mountains after it rains.


So she wants to meet you next week to go the mountains. You have her contact I'm sure so what's the problem?




Out of the blue she blocked me.. my whatsapp messages are one ticks and my texts are green. We both have iPhones I don't wanna call her and seem desparate, She left the conversation without even saying good night which she usually does so this is highly unusual of her
She's cut you off.

We Virgos tend to do that.

You should start dating other people.

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I can care less I'm still trying to revive my relationship with my ex...
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You met her the day after she broke up with her supposed ex.

You were together a mere two weeks, which does not amount to much in the grander scheme of things.

There is no way any individual is ready for another healthy committed relationship in such a short span of time.

You were a rebound or a temporary bandaid to soothe her break up pains.

She most likely had unfinished business with the supposed ex, and now she has gone back to deal with it.

It is best you move on and stop asking questions.

It was only a 'relationship' of two weeks, there were no heavy investments made.

Be glad, let go, and find yourself another lady who is available for a committed relationship.
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But I met her right after she broke up with her boyfriend/partner.






You were a rebound and she's probably back with the ex.


She kept on telling me on how much I was better than him and how the emotional connection with me allowed her to have a good time when we did it.

She talks so much shit about him like how he used to for money and sex and how he threatened her ans her and her children .
She was angry at him when she told you how much better you are than him. She probably thought everyone and their dog was better than him.

The ex probably

A) Promised to change

or

B) Threatened her and her kids and you until she came back. That's why she blocked you.

or

C) a combination of both
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What your saying makes a lot a lot of sense. I mean a lot of sense I'm not scared of him cause I know he's a wuss. He bragged about how he went to jail for killing 2 people but it was over something else.



She told me she really wanted to get away from that dude haha only to be blocked after 2 weeks I'm still wondering if she will text me tomorrow this is all day one of being blocked.



What should I do if she comes around the corner?
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"I've known her for 2 weeks but the emotional and physical connection has been strong."



Maybe you scared her off?

Said something?

Or sent certain pics?


Well we were having a conversation, she was criticizing herself again how she's not perfect. How her ex was always putting her down for not being religious... I told her she's perfect in her own little way. A few texts after that she disappeared.

I can't think of anything that mightve scared her off.

We have shared that many pics either, only selfies
Maybe she thinks she's got to work on herself first?


You hit the goddamn jackpot on this one!

Thing is she's a Venus/ Capricorn moon, Venus in Virgo, Mars in Leo.



I'm an Aries sun/Aries moon, Venus in Gemini and Mars in Aries.

I'm just so attracted to her... I know she's attracted to me too. Just yesterday we kissed and cuddle for a good hour.

She wanted to meet me next week so I can take her drifting in the mountains after it rains.

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*sigh*

😭

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"I've known her for 2 weeks but the emotional and physical connection has been strong."



Maybe you scared her off?

Said something?

Or sent certain pics?


Well we were having a conversation, she was criticizing herself again how she's not perfect. How her ex was always putting her down for not being religious... I told her she's perfect in her own little way. A few texts after that she disappeared.

I can't think of anything that mightve scared her off.

We have shared that many pics either, only selfies
Maybe she thinks she's got to work on herself first?


You hit the goddamn jackpot on this one!

Thing is she's a Venus/ Capricorn moon, Venus in Virgo, Mars in Leo.



I'm an Aries sun/Aries moon, Venus in Gemini and Mars in Aries.

I'm just so attracted to her... I know she's attracted to me too. Just yesterday we kissed and cuddle for a good hour.

She wanted to meet me next week so I can take her drifting in the mountains after it rains.


*sigh*

😭

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—? Welcome to the fucking mess my dumbass has created.... I always have to meet the messed up women lol
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"I've known her for 2 weeks but the emotional and physical connection has been strong."



Maybe you scared her off?

Said something?

Or sent certain pics?


Well we were having a conversation, she was criticizing herself again how she's not perfect. How her ex was always putting her down for not being religious... I told her she's perfect in her own little way. A few texts after that she disappeared.

I can't think of anything that mightve scared her off.

We have shared that many pics either, only selfies
Maybe she thinks she's got to work on herself first?


You hit the goddamn jackpot on this one!

Thing is she's a Venus/ Capricorn moon, Venus in Virgo, Mars in Leo.



I'm an Aries sun/Aries moon, Venus in Gemini and Mars in Aries.

I'm just so attracted to her... I know she's attracted to me too. Just yesterday we kissed and cuddle for a good hour.

She wanted to meet me next week so I can take her drifting in the mountains after it rains.


So she wants to meet you next week to go the mountains. You have her contact I'm sure so what's the problem?




Out of the blue she blocked me.. my whatsapp messages are one ticks and my texts are green. We both have iPhones I don't wanna call her and seem desparate, She left the conversation without even saying good night which she usually does so this is highly unusual of her
She's cut you off.

We Virgos tend to do that.

You should start dating other people.




I can care less I'm still trying to revive my relationship with my ex...
You made a thread.

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I wanted her as my side chick.... lol
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How long was the breakup date to the date you met her? Virgos are clingy af to their exes like they're clinging for dear life.

My 1st virgo ex took 6 months to get over our break up, my 2nd virgo ex took 2 full years although he was fully aware that I was already w/ someone else.

My virgo bestfriend is also like this, dated few men while still begging for her ex, once she got her ex back, she dropped all men she dated.


And to me she wanted to get rid of him so badly
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"I've known her for 2 weeks but the emotional and physical connection has been strong."



Maybe you scared her off?

Said something?

Or sent certain pics?


Well we were having a conversation, she was criticizing herself again how she's not perfect. How her ex was always putting her down for not being religious... I told her she's perfect in her own little way. A few texts after that she disappeared.

I can't think of anything that mightve scared her off.

We have shared that many pics either, only selfies
Maybe she thinks she's got to work on herself first?


You hit the goddamn jackpot on this one!

Thing is she's a Venus/ Capricorn moon, Venus in Virgo, Mars in Leo.



I'm an Aries sun/Aries moon, Venus in Gemini and Mars in Aries.

I'm just so attracted to her... I know she's attracted to me too. Just yesterday we kissed and cuddle for a good hour.

She wanted to meet me next week so I can take her drifting in the mountains after it rains.


*sigh*

😭




—? Welcome to the fucking mess my dumbass has created.... I always have to meet the messed up women lol

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We need to kiss a lot of warty frogs before we get to Kermit.
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I'm going to have to take that bet too. The ex came calling again for some great break-up sex.


She told me he sucked in bed but I was better. I'm like how? She said I was more passionate. She said she hated being with him.. apparently he'd drop his pants and have her do all the work
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"She told me"

"She said"

"She said"

You're too focused on the past.

Focus on the present. That being she's cut you off. Now pick up your big boy boxers and go out with other people. Stop wasting your time thinking about the fantastic connection you had with her. It's in the past. And as it turns out, it wasn't that fantastic after all, was it? Forget her.
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To the OP, so you are trying to revive your relationship with your ex and at the same time you want this Virgal as your side chick.

Well bloody hell, serves you right that she cut you out of her life completely so.

If she did go back to her ex and all that you have shared is true.

Then you are both equally as dreadful human beings.

What a waste of a thread, are you sure you are not a troll?
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I'm going to have to take that bet too. The ex came calling again for some great break-up sex.


She told me he sucked in bed but I was better. I'm like how? She said I was more passionate. She said she hated being with him.. apparently he'd drop his pants and have her do all the work
"She told me"

"She said"

"She said"

You're too focused on the past.

Focus on the present. That being she's cut you off. Now pick up your big boy boxers and go out with other people. Stop wasting your time thinking about the fantastic connection you had with her. It's in the past. And as it turns out, it wasn't that fantastic after all, was it? Forget her.
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I just wanted her to have some decency and tell me to my face that she didn't wanna be together. She disappeared from the middle of a conversation and just went forth to blocking me...
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I'm going to have to take that bet too. The ex came calling again for some great break-up sex.


She told me he sucked in bed but I was better. I'm like how? She said I was more passionate. She said she hated being with him.. apparently he'd drop his pants and have her do all the work
"She told me"

"She said"

"She said"

You're too focused on the past.

Focus on the present. That being she's cut you off. Now pick up your big boy boxers and go out with other people. Stop wasting your time thinking about the fantastic connection you had with her. It's in the past. And as it turns out, it wasn't that fantastic after all, was it? Forget her.
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You said it like how it is! I need to take this advice up! If she comes back around then I'm gonna need your help to make her my side chick tho!
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I'm going to have to take that bet too. The ex came calling again for some great break-up sex.


She told me he sucked in bed but I was better. I'm like how? She said I was more passionate. She said she hated being with him.. apparently he'd drop his pants and have her do all the work
"She told me"

"She said"

"She said"

You're too focused on the past.

Focus on the present. That being she's cut you off. Now pick up your big boy boxers and go out with other people. Stop wasting your time thinking about the fantastic connection you had with her. It's in the past. And as it turns out, it wasn't that fantastic after all, was it? Forget her.


I just wanted her to have some decency and tell me to my face that she didn't wanna be together. She disappeared from the middle of a conversation and just went forth to blocking me...
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Considering you want her for a side chick, I can assure you that she won't be back.
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To the OP, so you are trying to revive your relationship with your ex and at the same time you want this Virgal as your side chick.

Well bloody hell, serves you right that she cut you out of her life completely so.

If she did go back to her ex and all that you have shared is true.

Then you are both equally as dreadful human beings.

What a waste of a thread, are you sure you are not a troll?


I'm butt hurt! That's what serves me right! I'm

Aries you think I like rejection? Especially when she blocked me? Fuck that bro
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I'm going to have to take that bet too. The ex came calling again for some great break-up sex.


She told me he sucked in bed but I was better. I'm like how? She said I was more passionate. She said she hated being with him.. apparently he'd drop his pants and have her do all the work
"She told me"

"She said"

"She said"

You're too focused on the past.

Focus on the present. That being she's cut you off. Now pick up your big boy boxers and go out with other people. Stop wasting your time thinking about the fantastic connection you had with her. It's in the past. And as it turns out, it wasn't that fantastic after all, was it? Forget her.


I just wanted her to have some decency and tell me to my face that she didn't wanna be together. She disappeared from the middle of a conversation and just went forth to blocking me...
Considering you want her for a side chick, I can assure you that she won't be back.
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She wanted me as her side man too... worked both ways guys
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virgos can get scared if someone shows too much interest too fast, because it is hard to believe for them. you have to take it slow and steady with a virgo. like doing little things for her, practical little things. remembering things she's told you, her likes etc. will win her trust more than only words. even if she feels strongly her logical mind will make her think that how can someone she just met love her. so she will resist accepting anything till time shows her that you are consistent and your interest is genuine. but also in your case, since she almost is still involved with the gemini, she maybe got scared that you were getting very serious.
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To the OP, so you are trying to revive your relationship with your ex and at the same time you want this Virgal as your side chick.

Well bloody hell, serves you right that she cut you out of her life completely so.

If she did go back to her ex and all that you have shared is true.

Then you are both equally as dreadful human beings.

What a waste of a thread, are you sure you are not a troll?


I'm butt hurt! That's what serves me right! I'm

Aries you think I like rejection? Especially when she blocked me? Fuck that bro

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Bro? Last time I checked I own a kitty down below.

Well, allow me to shove a few more sticks up your arse and light a bonfire at one end of it so I could fire you out of this thread.

On to better things for you Ram because this is all a waste of time.
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I'm going to have to take that bet too. The ex came calling again for some great break-up sex.


She told me he sucked in bed but I was better. I'm like how? She said I was more passionate. She said she hated being with him.. apparently he'd drop his pants and have her do all the work
"She told me"

"She said"

"She said"

You're too focused on the past.

Focus on the present. That being she's cut you off. Now pick up your big boy boxers and go out with other people. Stop wasting your time thinking about the fantastic connection you had with her. It's in the past. And as it turns out, it wasn't that fantastic after all, was it? Forget her.


I just wanted her to have some decency and tell me to my face that she didn't wanna be together. She disappeared from the middle of a conversation and just went forth to blocking me...
Considering you want her for a side chick, I can assure you that she won't be back.


She wanted me as her side man too... worked both ways guys

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Well congratulations, you have been downgraded to - Side Trash.

Move on.
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Posted by Caplove
This was just a transitional relationship/rebound/bandaid (as some others have said). Just let her go. She has unresolved issues with her ex that she has to work out on her own. Sorry it didn't work out, but at least you know about it. I think many people are very good at hiding these things and it sometimes doesn't come up until much later in the relationship when something is triggered. By then, you could have been knee deep in it and very invested.


Ya I'm ok with being rebound because I still wanna fix things with my ex gf. I was too controlling gonna go to therapy with her in 2 months
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Alright, I get you ok, fire sign? ?

One of our weaknesses is that we tend to get swayed by words so much because it feed our ego, true?

"You're better, you're the man, you're perfect, you bring more passion, etc.." it feels good for your ego, true?

Now here's the thing, if you say you are into someone will your action match your words?

Me, hell yeah! I'll come in hard and full force.

But this also applies to everyone. If they're interested in you, they'll keep you, they put on efforts. It's not the rule of the game, it's just plain logic.

Now I know your ego has been bruised, and you can't accept that. But don't you think by you pursuing this person when it's clear she wants you gone wouldnt hurt your ego more? I prefer to keep my dignity intact if I were you.

There are people who have the courage to give you a proper closure and there are people who just can't. Her blocking you is already a closure, you should be glad she did that rather than leading you on and keeping you on the backburner for God knows how long.

Time to stop thinking of all "what ifs" and start accepting "what is" buddy..

You reminiscing all the connection you had will just send you spiralling down to the bottom of the cave. Don't be afraid to let go and thinking "what if I can never find someone better than her?" But what if you can? What if you can find someone with even stronger connection than both of you shared and never leaves you out hanging in the cold?

If you want her as a sidechick then it's ok. but right now I dont think that's your intention, buddy.. it's either you can't let go or you want revenge ✌












She turned off her phone last night when we spoke because she didn't want her ex-husband to ask who it was over the phone .



I swear to god she literally texted me to cuddle and we ended up having sex so no she's not ditching me yet Which is a good thing
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To the OP, so you are trying to revive your relationship with your ex and at the same time you want this Virgal as your side chick.

Well bloody hell, serves you right that she cut you out of her life completely so.

If she did go back to her ex and all that you have shared is true.

Then you are both equally as dreadful human beings.

What a waste of a thread, are you sure you are not a troll?


I'm butt hurt! That's what serves me right! I'm

Aries you think I like rejection? Especially when she blocked me? Fuck that bro




Bro? Last time I checked I own a kitty down below.

Well, allow me to shove a few more sticks up your arse and light a bonfire at one end of it so I could fire you out of this thread.

On to better things for you Ram because this is all a waste of time.

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Hahaha I'm cracking up!
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EVERYBODY SHE TEXTED ME AFTER IGNORING ME FOR 12 HOURS THAT SHE WANTS TO CUDDLE.



I DONT FUCKING GET THIS WOMAN!

TOO MUCH PUSH AND PULL FOR MY ARIES ASS
LMFAOOOOOOO . This isn't funny but it kind of is. Did you ask her why she went cold on you?
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Her ex-husband who is an Aquarius is very nosy and her phone vibrates a lot when we text back-and-forth which is why she went cold and disappeared for like 12 hours.



She said she turned off her phone when he got home



I was so happy I felt like a guide and then we meet up because she wanted to cuddle and we ended up having sex hot steamy sex Aries style



I still don't get this woman!!!
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P.S. I FORGOT TO SAY THIS, SHE IS MY REBOUND AS WELL, CURRENTLY IM TAKING A BREAK FROM MY RELATIONSHIP WITH MY GIRLFRIEND, AND I REALLY WISH TO MARRY HER AND HAVE MY OWN FAMILY.

i'm an Aries sun/Aries moon,Venus in Gemini Mars in Aries

My girlfriend that I'm taking a break with is

Leo sun/Capricorn moon, Venus in Virgo, mars in Gemini



This Virgo chick is simply a rebound so I can go through my personal time in peacetime allowing my Leo fiancé to heal from the issues that we've had the past six months .

Please do not take my situation offensive God bless you all
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"I've known her for 2 weeks but the emotional and physical connection has been strong."



Maybe you scared her off?

Said something?

Or sent certain pics?


Well we were having a conversation, she was criticizing herself again how she's not perfect. How her ex was always putting her down for not being religious... I told her she's perfect in her own little way. A few texts after that she disappeared.

I can't think of anything that mightve scared her off.

We have shared that many pics either, only selfies
Maybe she thinks she's got to work on herself first?
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YES. this is one of the reasons I disappear
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Posted by Mark-23
P.S. I FORGOT TO SAY THIS, SHE IS MY REBOUND AS WELL, CURRENTLY IM TAKING A BREAK FROM MY RELATIONSHIP WITH MY GIRLFRIEND, AND I REALLY WISH TO MARRY HER AND HAVE MY OWN FAMILY.

i'm an Aries sun/Aries moon,Venus in Gemini Mars in Aries

My girlfriend that I'm taking a break with is

Leo sun/Capricorn moon, Venus in Virgo, mars in Gemini



This Virgo chick is simply a rebound so I can go through my personal time in peacetime allowing my Leo fiancé to heal from the issues that we've had the past six months .

Please do not take my situation offensive God bless you all

Hell no, why do you need a rebound, you don't take anyone as a rebound. No one wants to be second.

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Alright, I get you ok, fire sign? ?

One of our weaknesses is that we tend to get swayed by words so much because it feed our ego, true?

"You're better, you're the man, you're perfect, you bring more passion, etc.." it feels good for your ego, true?

Now here's the thing, if you say you are into someone will your action match your words?

Me, hell yeah! I'll come in hard and full force.

But this also applies to everyone. If they're interested in you, they'll keep you, they put on efforts. It's not the rule of the game, it's just plain logic.

Now I know your ego has been bruised, and you can't accept that. But don't you think by you pursuing this person when it's clear she wants you gone wouldnt hurt your ego more? I prefer to keep my dignity intact if I were you.

There are people who have the courage to give you a proper closure and there are people who just can't. Her blocking you is already a closure, you should be glad she did that rather than leading you on and keeping you on the backburner for God knows how long.

Time to stop thinking of all "what ifs" and start accepting "what is" buddy..

You reminiscing all the connection you had will just send you spiralling down to the bottom of the cave. Don't be afraid to let go and thinking "what if I can never find someone better than her?" But what if you can? What if you can find someone with even stronger connection than both of you shared and never leaves you out hanging in the cold?

If you want her as a sidechick then it's ok. but right now I dont think that's your intention, buddy.. it's either you can't let go or you want revenge ✌












She turned off her phone last night when we spoke because she didn't want her ex-husband to ask who it was over the phone .



I swear to god she literally texted me to cuddle and we ended up having sex so no she's not ditching me yet Which is a good thing

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Wait I'm not sure if you know or even answered this before, but do you know her ex husbands sign?
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P.S. I FORGOT TO SAY THIS, SHE IS MY REBOUND AS WELL, CURRENTLY IM TAKING A BREAK FROM MY RELATIONSHIP WITH MY GIRLFRIEND, AND I REALLY WISH TO MARRY HER AND HAVE MY OWN FAMILY.

i'm an Aries sun/Aries moon,Venus in Gemini Mars in Aries

My girlfriend that I'm taking a break with is

Leo sun/Capricorn moon, Venus in Virgo, mars in Gemini



This Virgo chick is simply a rebound so I can go through my personal time in peacetime allowing my Leo fiancé to heal from the issues that we've had the past six months .

Please do not take my situation offensive God bless you all
Wait so this Virgo girl doesn't mean anything to you then right ?
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P.S. I FORGOT TO SAY THIS, SHE IS MY REBOUND AS WELL, CURRENTLY IM TAKING A BREAK FROM MY RELATIONSHIP WITH MY GIRLFRIEND, AND I REALLY WISH TO MARRY HER AND HAVE MY OWN FAMILY.

i'm an Aries sun/Aries moon,Venus in Gemini Mars in Aries

My girlfriend that I'm taking a break with is

Leo sun/Capricorn moon, Venus in Virgo, mars in Gemini



This Virgo chick is simply a rebound so I can go through my personal time in peacetime allowing my Leo fiancé to heal from the issues that we've had the past six months .

Please do not take my situation offensive God bless you all
Wait so this Virgo girl doesn't mean anything to you then right ?

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No she does I mean I'm the rebound for her and she's the rebound for me so it doesn't really matter but then it does though you know it kind of does in a lot of ways and I hate to say that
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I'm also a little pissed off nowadays because I come through for her on a lot of the things that she needs me to do example she wants to meet up on certain locations certain times she wants me to go out of my schedule out of my way to meet her needs but she won't reciprocate that to me



I mean truth be told she hasn't done shit for me



I need Virgos with Scorpios in their chart to give me any advice on how to approach the situation

Or basically anyone that's knowledgeable of this woman's chart
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I'm also a little pissed off nowadays because I come through for her on a lot of the things that she needs me to do example she wants to meet up on certain locations certain times she wants me to go out of my schedule out of my way to meet her needs but she won't reciprocate that to me



I mean truth be told she hasn't done shit for me



I need Virgos with Scorpios in their chart to give me any advice on how to approach the situation

Or basically anyone that's knowledgeable of this woman's chart
that's my ex dude, completely selfish user.



get a grip and some balls and move on or take it for the kitty
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Honestly I told her just a few minutes before I came on DXP,

"U gotta learn wat sacrifice means, Thanx for hurtin my feelings, Infact I think you should go back to Marlon -( her other boyfriend that she hates apparently and apparently I'm much better than him too that's the funny part)- because these days men like him get what they want men like me we finish last"

I'm not gonna talk to this bitch for a few days I mean you're right she's a selfish cunt and she only cares about herself talks about herself everything is about her and I don't even get to talk 4-5 minutes about myself and she's already back to talking about herself and how her life is a struggle and how her life is this and that and it's funny because her husband that she is cheating on is a rich fucking lawyer