Mark David
@Mark-23
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Posted by yupvirgo
"I've known her for 2 weeks but the emotional and physical connection has been strong."
Maybe you scared her off?
Said something?
Or sent certain pics?
Posted by Sagsagsags
She found someone new she's commiting herself too? Or she was keeping you on the side line while she was hoping for another man she was interested in and finally got him.
My bestfriend was like this ✌
Posted by yupvirgoPosted by Mark-23Maybe she thinks she's got to work on herself first?Posted by yupvirgo
"I've known her for 2 weeks but the emotional and physical connection has been strong."
Maybe you scared her off?
Said something?
Or sent certain pics?
Well we were having a conversation, she was criticizing herself again how she's not perfect. How her ex was always putting her down for not being religious... I told her she's perfect in her own little way. A few texts after that she disappeared.
I can't think of anything that mightve scared her off.
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Posted by AliensusedourbogrollPosted by Mark-23You were a rebound and she's probably back with the ex.
But I met her right after she broke up with her boyfriend/partner.
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Posted by tiziani
I'm going to have to take that bet too. The ex came calling again for some great break-up sex.
Posted by yupvirgoPosted by Mark-23So she wants to meet you next week to go the mountains. You have her contact I'm sure so what's the problem?Posted by yupvirgoPosted by Mark-23Maybe she thinks she's got to work on herself first?Posted by yupvirgo
"I've known her for 2 weeks but the emotional and physical connection has been strong."
Maybe you scared her off?
Said something?
Or sent certain pics?
Well we were having a conversation, she was criticizing herself again how she's not perfect. How her ex was always putting her down for not being religious... I told her she's perfect in her own little way. A few texts after that she disappeared.
I can't think of anything that mightve scared her off.
We have shared that many pics either, only selfies
You hit the goddamn jackpot on this one!
Thing is she's a Venus/ Capricorn moon, Venus in Virgo, Mars in Leo.
I'm an Aries sun/Aries moon, Venus in Gemini and Mars in Aries.
I'm just so attracted to her... I know she's attracted to me too. Just yesterday we kissed and cuddle for a good hour.
She wanted to meet me next week so I can take her drifting in the mountains after it rains.
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Posted by tizianiPosted by Mark-23There's always two sides to each story. You have to wonder why he even knew about your presence in her life in the first place. Only she could have told him.Posted by tiziani
I'm going to have to take that bet too. The ex came calling again for some great break-up sex.
She told me she blocked the Ex yesterday morning over the phone when we spoke, he's jealous of me she said when she told him about me.
He wanted my name and number and all that she didn't give it to him...click to expand
Posted by Sagsagsags
@Mark-23
How long was the breakup date to the date you met her? Virgos are clingy af to their exes like they're clinging for dear life.
My 1st virgo ex took 6 months to get over our break up, my 2nd virgo ex took 2 full years although he was fully aware that I was already w/ someone else.
My virgo bestfriend is also like this, dated few men while still begging for her ex, once she got her ex back, she dropped all men she dated.
Posted by starwarsPosted by Mark-23why not tell the whole story so people could actually help you?Posted by tizianiPosted by Mark-23There's always two sides to each story. You have to wonder why he even knew about your presence in her life in the first place. Only she could have told him.Posted by tiziani
I'm going to have to take that bet too. The ex came calling again for some great break-up sex.
She told me she blocked the Ex yesterday morning over the phone when we spoke, he's jealous of me she said when she told him about me.
He wanted my name and number and all that she didn't give it to him...
I'm wondering too. My intuition was to make him jealous because he is her boss and he went on a vacation thing with another coworker...
Fuck I feel used now.
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Posted by yupvirgoPosted by Mark-23She's cut you off.Posted by yupvirgoPosted by Mark-23So she wants to meet you next week to go the mountains. You have her contact I'm sure so what's the problem?Posted by yupvirgoPosted by Mark-23Maybe she thinks she's got to work on herself first?Posted by yupvirgo
"I've known her for 2 weeks but the emotional and physical connection has been strong."
Maybe you scared her off?
Said something?
Or sent certain pics?
Well we were having a conversation, she was criticizing herself again how she's not perfect. How her ex was always putting her down for not being religious... I told her she's perfect in her own little way. A few texts after that she disappeared.
I can't think of anything that mightve scared her off.
We have shared that many pics either, only selfies
You hit the goddamn jackpot on this one!
Thing is she's a Venus/ Capricorn moon, Venus in Virgo, Mars in Leo.
I'm an Aries sun/Aries moon, Venus in Gemini and Mars in Aries.
I'm just so attracted to her... I know she's attracted to me too. Just yesterday we kissed and cuddle for a good hour.
She wanted to meet me next week so I can take her drifting in the mountains after it rains.
Out of the blue she blocked me.. my whatsapp messages are one ticks and my texts are green. We both have iPhones I don't wanna call her and seem desparate, She left the conversation without even saying good night which she usually does so this is highly unusual of her
We Virgos tend to do that.
You should start dating other people.
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Posted by AliensusedourbogrollPosted by Mark-23She was angry at him when she told you how much better you are than him. She probably thought everyone and their dog was better than him.Posted by AliensusedourbogrollPosted by Mark-23You were a rebound and she's probably back with the ex.
But I met her right after she broke up with her boyfriend/partner.
She kept on telling me on how much I was better than him and how the emotional connection with me allowed her to have a good time when we did it.
She talks so much shit about him like how he used to for money and sex and how he threatened her ans her and her children .
The ex probably
A) Promised to change
or
B) Threatened her and her kids and you until she came back. That's why she blocked you.
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Posted by Mark-23*sigh*Posted by yupvirgoPosted by Mark-23Maybe she thinks she's got to work on herself first?Posted by yupvirgo
"I've known her for 2 weeks but the emotional and physical connection has been strong."
Maybe you scared her off?
Said something?
Or sent certain pics?
Well we were having a conversation, she was criticizing herself again how she's not perfect. How her ex was always putting her down for not being religious... I told her she's perfect in her own little way. A few texts after that she disappeared.
I can't think of anything that mightve scared her off.
We have shared that many pics either, only selfies
You hit the goddamn jackpot on this one!
Thing is she's a Venus/ Capricorn moon, Venus in Virgo, Mars in Leo.
I'm an Aries sun/Aries moon, Venus in Gemini and Mars in Aries.
I'm just so attracted to her... I know she's attracted to me too. Just yesterday we kissed and cuddle for a good hour.
She wanted to meet me next week so I can take her drifting in the mountains after it rains.
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Posted by yupvirgo
"I've known her for 2 weeks but the emotional and physical connection has been strong."
Maybe you scared her off?
Said something?
Or sent certain pics?

Posted by Ram416Posted by Mark-23*sigh*Posted by yupvirgoPosted by Mark-23Maybe she thinks she's got to work on herself first?Posted by yupvirgo
"I've known her for 2 weeks but the emotional and physical connection has been strong."
Maybe you scared her off?
Said something?
Or sent certain pics?
Well we were having a conversation, she was criticizing herself again how she's not perfect. How her ex was always putting her down for not being religious... I told her she's perfect in her own little way. A few texts after that she disappeared.
I can't think of anything that mightve scared her off.
We have shared that many pics either, only selfies
You hit the goddamn jackpot on this one!
Thing is she's a Venus/ Capricorn moon, Venus in Virgo, Mars in Leo.
I'm an Aries sun/Aries moon, Venus in Gemini and Mars in Aries.
I'm just so attracted to her... I know she's attracted to me too. Just yesterday we kissed and cuddle for a good hour.
She wanted to meet me next week so I can take her drifting in the mountains after it rains.
😭
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Posted by yupvirgoPosted by Mark-23You made a thread.Posted by yupvirgoPosted by Mark-23She's cut you off.Posted by yupvirgoPosted by Mark-23So she wants to meet you next week to go the mountains. You have her contact I'm sure so what's the problem?Posted by yupvirgoPosted by Mark-23Maybe she thinks she's got to work on herself first?Posted by yupvirgo
"I've known her for 2 weeks but the emotional and physical connection has been strong."
Maybe you scared her off?
Said something?
Or sent certain pics?
Well we were having a conversation, she was criticizing herself again how she's not perfect. How her ex was always putting her down for not being religious... I told her she's perfect in her own little way. A few texts after that she disappeared.
I can't think of anything that mightve scared her off.
We have shared that many pics either, only selfies
You hit the goddamn jackpot on this one!
Thing is she's a Venus/ Capricorn moon, Venus in Virgo, Mars in Leo.
I'm an Aries sun/Aries moon, Venus in Gemini and Mars in Aries.
I'm just so attracted to her... I know she's attracted to me too. Just yesterday we kissed and cuddle for a good hour.
She wanted to meet me next week so I can take her drifting in the mountains after it rains.
Out of the blue she blocked me.. my whatsapp messages are one ticks and my texts are green. We both have iPhones I don't wanna call her and seem desparate, She left the conversation without even saying good night which she usually does so this is highly unusual of her
We Virgos tend to do that.
You should start dating other people.
I can care less I'm still trying to revive my relationship with my ex...
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Posted by Sagsagsags
@Mark-23
How long was the breakup date to the date you met her? Virgos are clingy af to their exes like they're clinging for dear life.
My 1st virgo ex took 6 months to get over our break up, my 2nd virgo ex took 2 full years although he was fully aware that I was already w/ someone else.
My virgo bestfriend is also like this, dated few men while still begging for her ex, once she got her ex back, she dropped all men she dated.

Posted by Mark-23We need to kiss a lot of warty frogs before we get to Kermit.Posted by Ram416Posted by Mark-23*sigh*Posted by yupvirgoPosted by Mark-23Maybe she thinks she's got to work on herself first?Posted by yupvirgo
"I've known her for 2 weeks but the emotional and physical connection has been strong."
Maybe you scared her off?
Said something?
Or sent certain pics?
Well we were having a conversation, she was criticizing herself again how she's not perfect. How her ex was always putting her down for not being religious... I told her she's perfect in her own little way. A few texts after that she disappeared.
I can't think of anything that mightve scared her off.
We have shared that many pics either, only selfies
You hit the goddamn jackpot on this one!
Thing is she's a Venus/ Capricorn moon, Venus in Virgo, Mars in Leo.
I'm an Aries sun/Aries moon, Venus in Gemini and Mars in Aries.
I'm just so attracted to her... I know she's attracted to me too. Just yesterday we kissed and cuddle for a good hour.
She wanted to meet me next week so I can take her drifting in the mountains after it rains.
😭
—? Welcome to the fucking mess my dumbass has created.... I always have to meet the messed up women lol
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Posted by tiziani
I'm going to have to take that bet too. The ex came calling again for some great break-up sex.

Posted by Mark-23"She told me"Posted by tiziani
I'm going to have to take that bet too. The ex came calling again for some great break-up sex.
She told me he sucked in bed but I was better. I'm like how? She said I was more passionate. She said she hated being with him.. apparently he'd drop his pants and have her do all the workclick to expand

Posted by Ram416Posted by Mark-23"She told me"Posted by tiziani
I'm going to have to take that bet too. The ex came calling again for some great break-up sex.
She told me he sucked in bed but I was better. I'm like how? She said I was more passionate. She said she hated being with him.. apparently he'd drop his pants and have her do all the work
"She said"
"She said"
You're too focused on the past.
Focus on the present. That being she's cut you off. Now pick up your big boy boxers and go out with other people. Stop wasting your time thinking about the fantastic connection you had with her. It's in the past. And as it turns out, it wasn't that fantastic after all, was it? Forget her.click to expand
Posted by Ram416Posted by Mark-23"She told me"Posted by tiziani
I'm going to have to take that bet too. The ex came calling again for some great break-up sex.
She told me he sucked in bed but I was better. I'm like how? She said I was more passionate. She said she hated being with him.. apparently he'd drop his pants and have her do all the work
"She said"
"She said"
You're too focused on the past.
Focus on the present. That being she's cut you off. Now pick up your big boy boxers and go out with other people. Stop wasting your time thinking about the fantastic connection you had with her. It's in the past. And as it turns out, it wasn't that fantastic after all, was it? Forget her.click to expand

Posted by Mark-23Considering you want her for a side chick, I can assure you that she won't be back.Posted by Ram416Posted by Mark-23"She told me"Posted by tiziani
I'm going to have to take that bet too. The ex came calling again for some great break-up sex.
She told me he sucked in bed but I was better. I'm like how? She said I was more passionate. She said she hated being with him.. apparently he'd drop his pants and have her do all the work
"She said"
"She said"
You're too focused on the past.
Focus on the present. That being she's cut you off. Now pick up your big boy boxers and go out with other people. Stop wasting your time thinking about the fantastic connection you had with her. It's in the past. And as it turns out, it wasn't that fantastic after all, was it? Forget her.
I just wanted her to have some decency and tell me to my face that she didn't wanna be together. She disappeared from the middle of a conversation and just went forth to blocking me...click to expand
Posted by TheLadyScorpio
To the OP, so you are trying to revive your relationship with your ex and at the same time you want this Virgal as your side chick.
Well bloody hell, serves you right that she cut you out of her life completely so.
If she did go back to her ex and all that you have shared is true.
Then you are both equally as dreadful human beings.
What a waste of a thread, are you sure you are not a troll?
Posted by Ram416Posted by Mark-23Considering you want her for a side chick, I can assure you that she won't be back.Posted by Ram416Posted by Mark-23"She told me"Posted by tiziani
I'm going to have to take that bet too. The ex came calling again for some great break-up sex.
She told me he sucked in bed but I was better. I'm like how? She said I was more passionate. She said she hated being with him.. apparently he'd drop his pants and have her do all the work
"She said"
"She said"
You're too focused on the past.
Focus on the present. That being she's cut you off. Now pick up your big boy boxers and go out with other people. Stop wasting your time thinking about the fantastic connection you had with her. It's in the past. And as it turns out, it wasn't that fantastic after all, was it? Forget her.
I just wanted her to have some decency and tell me to my face that she didn't wanna be together. She disappeared from the middle of a conversation and just went forth to blocking me...click to expand


Posted by Mark-23Posted by TheLadyScorpio
To the OP, so you are trying to revive your relationship with your ex and at the same time you want this Virgal as your side chick.
Well bloody hell, serves you right that she cut you out of her life completely so.
If she did go back to her ex and all that you have shared is true.
Then you are both equally as dreadful human beings.
What a waste of a thread, are you sure you are not a troll?
I'm butt hurt! That's what serves me right! I'm
Aries you think I like rejection? Especially when she blocked me? Fuck that bro
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Posted by Mark-23Posted by Ram416Posted by Mark-23Considering you want her for a side chick, I can assure you that she won't be back.Posted by Ram416Posted by Mark-23"She told me"Posted by tiziani
I'm going to have to take that bet too. The ex came calling again for some great break-up sex.
She told me he sucked in bed but I was better. I'm like how? She said I was more passionate. She said she hated being with him.. apparently he'd drop his pants and have her do all the work
"She said"
"She said"
You're too focused on the past.
Focus on the present. That being she's cut you off. Now pick up your big boy boxers and go out with other people. Stop wasting your time thinking about the fantastic connection you had with her. It's in the past. And as it turns out, it wasn't that fantastic after all, was it? Forget her.
I just wanted her to have some decency and tell me to my face that she didn't wanna be together. She disappeared from the middle of a conversation and just went forth to blocking me...
She wanted me as her side man too... worked both ways guys
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Posted by yupvirgo
Why would you feel used?
She probably genuinely tried to give you guys a chance to have a relationship.
But something happened to her- to her emotions and or thoughts.
Posted by Caplove
This was just a transitional relationship/rebound/bandaid (as some others have said). Just let her go. She has unresolved issues with her ex that she has to work out on her own. Sorry it didn't work out, but at least you know about it. I think many people are very good at hiding these things and it sometimes doesn't come up until much later in the relationship when something is triggered. By then, you could have been knee deep in it and very invested.

Posted by Mark-23LMFAOOOOOOO . This isn't funny but it kind of is. Did you ask her why she went cold on you?
EVERYBODY SHE TEXTED ME AFTER IGNORING ME FOR 12 HOURS THAT SHE WANTS TO CUDDLE.
I DONT FUCKING GET THIS WOMAN!
TOO MUCH PUSH AND PULL FOR MY ARIES ASS
Posted by Sagsagsags
@Mark-23
Alright, I get you ok, fire sign? ?
One of our weaknesses is that we tend to get swayed by words so much because it feed our ego, true?
"You're better, you're the man, you're perfect, you bring more passion, etc.." it feels good for your ego, true?
Now here's the thing, if you say you are into someone will your action match your words?
Me, hell yeah! I'll come in hard and full force.
But this also applies to everyone. If they're interested in you, they'll keep you, they put on efforts. It's not the rule of the game, it's just plain logic.
Now I know your ego has been bruised, and you can't accept that. But don't you think by you pursuing this person when it's clear she wants you gone wouldnt hurt your ego more? I prefer to keep my dignity intact if I were you.
There are people who have the courage to give you a proper closure and there are people who just can't. Her blocking you is already a closure, you should be glad she did that rather than leading you on and keeping you on the backburner for God knows how long.
Time to stop thinking of all "what ifs" and start accepting "what is" buddy..
You reminiscing all the connection you had will just send you spiralling down to the bottom of the cave. Don't be afraid to let go and thinking "what if I can never find someone better than her?" But what if you can? What if you can find someone with even stronger connection than both of you shared and never leaves you out hanging in the cold?
If you want her as a sidechick then it's ok. but right now I dont think that's your intention, buddy.. it's either you can't let go or you want revenge ✌
Posted by TheLadyScorpioPosted by Mark-23Posted by TheLadyScorpio
To the OP, so you are trying to revive your relationship with your ex and at the same time you want this Virgal as your side chick.
Well bloody hell, serves you right that she cut you out of her life completely so.
If she did go back to her ex and all that you have shared is true.
Then you are both equally as dreadful human beings.
What a waste of a thread, are you sure you are not a troll?
I'm butt hurt! That's what serves me right! I'm
Aries you think I like rejection? Especially when she blocked me? Fuck that bro
Bro? Last time I checked I own a kitty down below.
Well, allow me to shove a few more sticks up your arse and light a bonfire at one end of it so I could fire you out of this thread.
On to better things for you Ram because this is all a waste of time.
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Posted by SunsetvirgoPosted by Mark-23LMFAOOOOOOO . This isn't funny but it kind of is. Did you ask her why she went cold on you?
EVERYBODY SHE TEXTED ME AFTER IGNORING ME FOR 12 HOURS THAT SHE WANTS TO CUDDLE.
I DONT FUCKING GET THIS WOMAN!
TOO MUCH PUSH AND PULL FOR MY ARIES ASSclick to expand
Posted by yupvirgoYES. this is one of the reasons I disappearPosted by Mark-23Maybe she thinks she's got to work on herself first?Posted by yupvirgo
"I've known her for 2 weeks but the emotional and physical connection has been strong."
Maybe you scared her off?
Said something?
Or sent certain pics?
Well we were having a conversation, she was criticizing herself again how she's not perfect. How her ex was always putting her down for not being religious... I told her she's perfect in her own little way. A few texts after that she disappeared.
I can't think of anything that mightve scared her off.
We have shared that many pics either, only selfiesclick to expand
Posted by Mark-23
P.S. I FORGOT TO SAY THIS, SHE IS MY REBOUND AS WELL, CURRENTLY IM TAKING A BREAK FROM MY RELATIONSHIP WITH MY GIRLFRIEND, AND I REALLY WISH TO MARRY HER AND HAVE MY OWN FAMILY.
i'm an Aries sun/Aries moon,Venus in Gemini Mars in Aries
My girlfriend that I'm taking a break with is
Leo sun/Capricorn moon, Venus in Virgo, mars in Gemini
This Virgo chick is simply a rebound so I can go through my personal time in peacetime allowing my Leo fiancé to heal from the issues that we've had the past six months .
Please do not take my situation offensive God bless you all

Posted by Mark-23Wait I'm not sure if you know or even answered this before, but do you know her ex husbands sign?Posted by Sagsagsags
@Mark-23
Alright, I get you ok, fire sign? ?
One of our weaknesses is that we tend to get swayed by words so much because it feed our ego, true?
"You're better, you're the man, you're perfect, you bring more passion, etc.." it feels good for your ego, true?
Now here's the thing, if you say you are into someone will your action match your words?
Me, hell yeah! I'll come in hard and full force.
But this also applies to everyone. If they're interested in you, they'll keep you, they put on efforts. It's not the rule of the game, it's just plain logic.
Now I know your ego has been bruised, and you can't accept that. But don't you think by you pursuing this person when it's clear she wants you gone wouldnt hurt your ego more? I prefer to keep my dignity intact if I were you.
There are people who have the courage to give you a proper closure and there are people who just can't. Her blocking you is already a closure, you should be glad she did that rather than leading you on and keeping you on the backburner for God knows how long.
Time to stop thinking of all "what ifs" and start accepting "what is" buddy..
You reminiscing all the connection you had will just send you spiralling down to the bottom of the cave. Don't be afraid to let go and thinking "what if I can never find someone better than her?" But what if you can? What if you can find someone with even stronger connection than both of you shared and never leaves you out hanging in the cold?
If you want her as a sidechick then it's ok. but right now I dont think that's your intention, buddy.. it's either you can't let go or you want revenge ✌
She turned off her phone last night when we spoke because she didn't want her ex-husband to ask who it was over the phone .
I swear to god she literally texted me to cuddle and we ended up having sex so no she's not ditching me yet Which is a good thing
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Posted by Mark-23Wait so this Virgo girl doesn't mean anything to you then right ?
P.S. I FORGOT TO SAY THIS, SHE IS MY REBOUND AS WELL, CURRENTLY IM TAKING A BREAK FROM MY RELATIONSHIP WITH MY GIRLFRIEND, AND I REALLY WISH TO MARRY HER AND HAVE MY OWN FAMILY.
i'm an Aries sun/Aries moon,Venus in Gemini Mars in Aries
My girlfriend that I'm taking a break with is
Leo sun/Capricorn moon, Venus in Virgo, mars in Gemini
This Virgo chick is simply a rebound so I can go through my personal time in peacetime allowing my Leo fiancé to heal from the issues that we've had the past six months .
Please do not take my situation offensive God bless you all
Posted by SunsetvirgoPosted by Mark-23Wait so this Virgo girl doesn't mean anything to you then right ?
P.S. I FORGOT TO SAY THIS, SHE IS MY REBOUND AS WELL, CURRENTLY IM TAKING A BREAK FROM MY RELATIONSHIP WITH MY GIRLFRIEND, AND I REALLY WISH TO MARRY HER AND HAVE MY OWN FAMILY.
i'm an Aries sun/Aries moon,Venus in Gemini Mars in Aries
My girlfriend that I'm taking a break with is
Leo sun/Capricorn moon, Venus in Virgo, mars in Gemini
This Virgo chick is simply a rebound so I can go through my personal time in peacetime allowing my Leo fiancé to heal from the issues that we've had the past six months .
Please do not take my situation offensive God bless you all
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Posted by DivaCanLeoPosted by Mark-23that's my ex dude, completely selfish user.
I'm also a little pissed off nowadays because I come through for her on a lot of the things that she needs me to do example she wants to meet up on certain locations certain times she wants me to go out of my schedule out of my way to meet her needs but she won't reciprocate that to me
I mean truth be told she hasn't done shit for me
I need Virgos with Scorpios in their chart to give me any advice on how to approach the situation
Or basically anyone that's knowledgeable of this woman's chart
get a grip and some balls and move on or take it for the kittyclick to expand
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I don't wanna look clingy so I need some advice on her, I've known her for 2 weeks but the emotional and physical connection has been strong. So why did she disappear?