what are virgo like in bed

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by sugarplumeow on Sunday, September 11, 2016 and has 28 replies.

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@Season
10 Years1,000+ Posts

In my experience they are selfish and unwilling to please a female partner. As long as they're satisfied that's all they car about. Foreplay is fine. They're gentle consider lovers at that point. The actual act of intimacy can be a let down. They're traditionalists. Not ones to appreciate or initiate experimentation.

Let them know what you want and like. Virgos can be um, educated.

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@Queenofsag
9 Years

Posted by Season
In my experience they are selfish and unwilling to please a female partner. As long as they're satisfied that's all they car about. Foreplay is fine. They're gentle consider lovers at that point. The actual act of intimacy can be a let down. They're traditionalists. Not ones to appreciate or initiate experimentation.

Let them know what you want and like. Virgos can be um, educated.

I don't agree with that. My Virgo FWB gave me the best sex ever. He tried so hard to please me, just like what I read from other website.

Although we only slept together for few times only but he still blow my mind away every single time.

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@P-Angel
21 Years25,000+ PostsPisces

Posted by Queenofsag

I don't agree with that. My Virgo FWB gave me the best sex ever. He tried so hard to please me, just like what I read from other website.

Although we only slept together for few times only but he still blow my mind away every single time.

That's because he's still new to you.

Virgo is looking for the end result. His focus will be on the big O, and nothing more.

Once a path is found to reach O-town, that same road will be plodded down every time.

When the day comes that you want spontaneity, that you want it to be about the experience, rather than just the orgasm, your opinion will drastically change .... once you realize that this proven path, in the same moves is all he is about.

yes, he can master the course of this path to perfection .... but, it's always for the same result ....

it's only for the purpose of orgasm ...... and never for the purpose of pleasuring the experience.

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@LadyNeptune
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Posted by P-Angel
Posted by Queenofsag

I don't agree with that. My Virgo FWB gave me the best sex ever. He tried so hard to please me, just like what I read from other website.

Although we only slept together for few times only but he still blow my mind away every single time.

That's because he's still new to you.

Virgo is looking for the end result. His focus will be on the big O, and nothing more.

Once a path is found to reach O-town, that same road will be plodded down every time.

When the day comes that you want spontaneity, that you want it to be about the experience, rather than just the orgasm, your opinion will drastically change .... once you realize that this proven path, in the same moves is all he is about.

yes, he can master the course of this path to perfection .... but, it's always for the same result ....

it's only for the purpose of orgasm ...... and never for the purpose of pleasuring the experience.

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End game mentality instead of enjoying the experience.

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@AbbyNormal
12 Years5,000+ PostsTaurus

They are the servants so they like to give ;-P if you know his Venus and Mars that helps too but generally just go with the flow and give subtle direction as to what you'd like from him. Too much thought and words can throw them off tho. Take a shower and get smelling nice beforehand or together! Also clean sheets and organized environment are usually preferred with maybe a pleasant candle burning? Enjoy!

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@MyStarsShine
9 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by AbbyNormal
They are the servants so they like to give ;-P if you know his Venus and Mars that helps too but generally just go with the flow and give subtle direction as to what you'd like from him. Too much thought and words can throw them off tho. Take a shower and get smelling nice beforehand or together! Also clean sheets and organized environment are usually preferred with maybe a pleasant candle burning? Enjoy!

Yes, that was my experience too

Very giving and considerate of the other person's needs and pleasures

Virgos, in my experience, do not put themselves first

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@AbbyNormal
12 Years5,000+ PostsTaurus

Posted by MyStarsShine
I only went with one.....My ex husband

Sensual and considerate but not particularly overly passionate ...

I agree with this. My current SO is very eager to pleAse which helps a lot. Maybe it's bc he has Venus in Libra and Mars in Sag but mine is not like a lot of these descriptions given above.

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@TaurusBull1977
16 Years1,000+ Posts

Hello Sugarplumeow,

From my experience...

They're people-pleasers, the goal is to figure out what you like, and MASTER it in bedroom.

But keep in mind, they mirror their partners, the end results 'start' and 'end' with your own contributions as well.

I am a Venusian sign, therefore I am sensual, slow, and love ro relish in the moment, like indulging in chocolate.

This awakens their emotional wells and combats any other insecurities they may have in the bedroom.

Just "being in the moment" with them can be just as erotic as the end goal.

Virgos can be flexible in that area depending on your own approach to lovemaking.

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@Librasaurusrex
11 Years500+ Posts

My Virgo's main concern is my O(s.)

In the beginning he was experimental but that's attributed to Aqua Mars placement, not Virgo. Once settled in together he became more traditional which I prefer as well. We are more interested in sensuality and connection than excitement.

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@capvirgo
20 YearsCapricorn

Ask yourself why Sagittarius Jay-Z would STILL cheat on Virgo Beyonce and the answer is quite clear. You may as well be having sex with a robot, that's NOT an exaggeration.

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@Librasaurusrex
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Posted by capvirgo
Ask yourself why Sagittarius Jay-Z would STILL cheat on Virgo Beyonce and the answer is quite clear. You may as well be having sex with a robot, that's NOT an exaggeration.

.....cheating is a reflection of the cheater, not the person being cheated on.

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@heartlocket
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Mine always says, "I want to please YOU." And he does, he tries everything he can to make me feel good.

Sex is very painful for me, but he's patient and takes it slow which I love love love. He has a taurus moon and he always moans when I kiss his neck, haha

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@GeminiGuy76
9 Years

Posted by sugarplumeow
me and this guy want to have sex and I'm curious what Virgos are like in bed.

I think what you should really look at is his Mars placement. My former significant other and I had wonderful sun sign placements, but when it came to the bedroom, other placements (such as her Mars in Virgo) really complicated matters.