I’m a Gemini (woman) and really into this Virgo (also a woman...idk the rest of her chart). I’ve been single for almost 3 years now and kind of gave up on dating until she grabbed my attention HARD. It’s a really complex relationship because she works with my boss and she’s also my current realtor. When we see each other in person, she lights up and the connection is definitely there along with smiles and intense eye contact. A lot of what we talk about is business related but we also talk about personal things. The first time we went to lunch with a bunch of coworkers (second time we met), she really only focused on me, asking me questions about my exes, my family, my religion, kids. She somehow already knew I was gay, but my appearance is also obvious, haha. She talked about herself too and showed me lots of Facebook pictures. There was a pretty big gap in between seeing/talking to her until I decided it was time to buy my first house and I contacted her. No matter what area I told her I wanted to look in, she only sent me listings from the area she lived in. She even made the comment that I would be closer to her if I did. I found a house that I couldn’t pass up given the price and condition, so I’ll be moving to that area. We’ve been in this home buying process for 2 months and are forced to talk to each other almost every day. One day while signing papers, she asked about when I was married to a man and about the divorce and when I dated my first girlfriend. I asked her if she was seeing anyone and she said no and that she wasn’t ready until she got her own firm off the ground (she has since then). I’ve asked her to lunch twice but she’s been too busy and asked for a rain check. Some days I’m very confident that she’s into me, other days I’m confident that she hates me haha. Unfortunately I base a lot of it on the way that she texts and the tone in her voice when she calls. It’s been hard to keep her in a text conversation at all, she more than often left me on read or gave me very short replies. But it’s been easy to talk on the phone longer and about more than we were supposed to talk about. I’ve gone back and forth in my head if I should tell her or not because I’m afraid of messing up our friendship/business relationship and future business relationship when I get my contractor’s license (we would make a kick ass team). If I’m going to, I planned on telling her after my closing date (next week) when we aren’t in the realtor/home buyer relationship. However this past week something changed and she started acting completely different. Sending me texts calling me “sweet girl” and “love” and using words and lots of emojis that she never did before. We texted back and forth about personal stuff until late one night which has never happened before. So I was firm on the decision of telling her. I saw her twice briefly the other day. The second time was an accident when I walked up to my boss’ car and saw that she was inside instead of coming out to see me. I didn’t react because she can do what she wants but I did wonder why. After that, she stopped replying to my personal texts and when I texted her about business, she replied but they were very short almost one worded so I’ve been giving her a few days of space. I know that I’m waaaaay overthinking this but my curious Gemini mind is going crazy. As my closing date is coming up, I’m now up in the air about whether or not I should say something or to just keep quiet to prevent making her uncomfortable or anything weird. Astrologists please help me figure this out haha.
