Virgo girl confusing - advice

Hi Virgos

I m a male Taurus, I like this virgo girl, I'm 96% sure she likes me. We work in the same company, but not in the same dipartment.

The attraction has been going on a long time, and I found out she fancied me about 6 months ago. We did speak about going on a date, but last minute she pull out as she felt weird about the work thing. She was also new at the time.

Time moved on and i think we both dated other people.

She then added me on Instagram. And Recently I started noticing her noticing me again, lots of i eye contact across rooms etc. She comment on, and like a few social media pics, and will always compliment me, she's also been a lot more open speaking about family stuff, showing interests asking a lot more questions. She even tease me quite heavily the other day, I teased her back and there was this huge smile on her face (it made my day).

It's an odd one, on Friday we where talking and she ask what I was up too on the weekend. I told her I was out and if she was too to txt me and maybe we could meet up, with friends etc.. she said yeah she would. Anyway I txted her that evening, and she didn't get back to me till 2:30am saying sorry, how's was your evening etc. All thats fine, but the next day I replied and mention I'd be out Christmas shopping, and that she should join if she was free and we could grab a drink after. Then no response, nothing back.

I've dated a lot of girls and can usually work out if someone is into me or not. Plus with her a few times when we spoke, it's that feeling you get when your both actually into each other. the feeling I've had before when i ve met other girlfriends. I wouldn't bother if I didn't feel it was mutual

She's generally takes her time replying to texts, it's taken a few days in the past. Even though I've never experienced that before, I m fine with it, as I have a life to get on with. It just seams like there's every sign and connection that she likes me. But every time I try to step it up or ask her out, she backs off.

If you guys had any advice, should I txt her, give her space, be more flirty or friendly.

I heard Virgos can get scared of their emotions and sometimes need space to figure them out?

Do Virgo's play hard to get, or can they be very flirty?

I do get the feeling that because of the work thing, its making her extra cautious, and even though she likes me and wants to open up. She needs to be sure its something real first.

Like I mentioned in any other situation I'd be sure she's into me, and would trust my instinct and ask the girl out. It's confusing as hell, hot and cold, like there could be something special and then aloofness.

I like her i don't mind being patient and just want to play my cards right and not push her away!

Thanks in advance

We can get scared of our emotions. She’s probably clueless as to what to do now. It’s all fun and games to flirt and pay attention to someone we like until that person starts paying attention to us and flirting back.

We can play coy. Playing hard to get and flirting are the same in a virgos book. In mine anyway.

Show her it’s something real and that your feelings aren’t just friendly. Idk about her but I like a blunt guy

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Posted by Sunsetvirgo
We can get scared of our emotions. She’s probably clueless as to what to do now. It’s all fun and games to flirt and pay attention to someone we like until that person starts paying attention to us and flirting back.

We can play coy. Playing hard to get and flirting are the same in a virgos book. In mine anyway.

Show her it’s something real and that your feelings aren’t just friendly. Idk about her but I like a blunt guy

"We can play coy. Playing hard to get and flirting are the same in a virgos book. In mine anyway."

devil virgos. 😐

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🤷🏽‍♀️ Oops

Anyways forgiv my Leo Venus. I get jealous sometimes when anyone I believe is my person doesn’t give me attention 😡

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Posted by Sunsetvirgo

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Posted by Sunsetvirgo
We can get scared of our emotions. She’s probably clueless as to what to do now. It’s all fun and games to flirt and pay attention to someone we like until that person starts paying attention to us and flirting back.

We can play coy. Playing hard to get and flirting are the same in a virgos book. In mine anyway.

Show her it’s something real and that your feelings aren’t just friendly. Idk about her but I like a blunt guy

"We can play coy. Playing hard to get and flirting are the same in a virgos book. In mine anyway."

devil virgos. 😐

🤷🏽‍♀️ Oops

Anyways forgiv my Leo Venus. I get jealous sometimes when anyone I believe is my person doesn’t give me attention 😡

i understand, sunsetvirgo. y'all leo veen are jealous AF. but it's usually not from a bad place.

did i tell you that i had an on again off again thing with a leo veen virgo for most of my adult life? getting past that i imagine is like getting off crack for a taurus with an aries venus. 😆

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Wot can I say. It’s something I’m trying to contain but my sag placements make me very petty when I’m not getting that attention

DO YOU LIVE IN NAPLES—?

Thanks for all your comments, very helpful : )

Ill give her time and space, be obvious about my intentions and let her come too me!

The coyness and pulling back can really mess with your head....but my gut tells me not to give up

I get the feeling as soon as she is sure and comfortable with her emotions, she'll open up like a beautiful flower : )

I hope so anyway

thats easy, just act like you dont like her anymore, go talk to another girl, that would get her soo jealous that she will start to think maybe i do like him?

giving a virgo your full attention especially in the beginning is not a good idea, she will deff play like shes not interested and she will think you're needy and start criticizing you. Shrug her off and she will text you more i promise.

So another strange twist.

We where out last night at our office xmas party. Everyone was dress up and having fun, the evening started off great we tip drinks at each other with a coy smile across the room, then a few other cheeky glances with a smile. She then half grab, poked, stroke me on the sly when walking past, she did this 2/3 times. As you would expect i was thinking great now i m sure she's into me!

We then got chatting, lots of smiles eye contact, flicking her hair, light touching each other as we where having fun.....basically obvious signals and flirting! this continues on and off through out the evening. a few people even commented on how we work well togther and make sense as a couple

She then said she was leaving, and as it wasnt to late and things where going well i suggested we should go grab a drink at another bar just the 2 of us!

Thats when she drops the bomb, and says she can't she has a boyfriend, she got back with her ex a little while ago! As you can imagine i was suprises, and tried to play it cool, i told it was a bit of a shock as we'd been flirting, the eye contact etc . She then said it wouldnt work out because of work and she'd heard i had a reputation dating girls from work (i had one long term relationship with a girl from the office, it was discreet, with no drama) but i guess girls talk (its also 80% females in my office). but it ended well we hug and i said good night

i was really dissapointed, and probably a little stupidly i txted her on the way home saying i could tell she was into me and not to trust reputations. She replied but didnt comment on what i said, she just said to respect she had a byfriend. i replied that i wasnt blind to the way she is towards me but of course i respected that, as i have no intention of being a dickhead about it.

Anyway confusing as hell, and by the end of the night everyone had had quite a bit to drink.

i felt un easy about it this morning, so i txted her just kind of explaining my self, saying that if i d known in the first place this could have been avoided, that i still thought she was great and if it didnt work out with her ex let me know. Told her that it was fun hanging out and hopeffully we can do it again what ever the situation.

Its funny after last night one side of me is even more certain she's into me

the fact we'd been flirting and she's known i like her for a wile, most people wuld just say they have a BF. i never heard of him or seen any pics on social media ( i know it doesnt meaning anything) but she posts a lot

some of the distance does makes more sense

i m going away on holiday for a few weeks and will disconnect. I guess there's not much i can do after, apart from date other girls and just see what happens

what do you guys think ?

still very confused !

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Posted by MoonshineLeo
thats easy, just act like you dont like her anymore, go talk to another girl, that would get her soo jealous that she will start to think maybe i do like him?

giving a virgo your full attention especially in the beginning is not a good idea, she will deff play like shes not interested and she will think you're needy and start criticizing you. Shrug her off and she will text you more i promise.

No thats Virgo men. Do that to a Virgo woman and we will forget you.

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Yes lol.

Posted by naples3000
So another strange twist.

We where out last night at our office xmas party. Everyone was dress up and having fun, the evening started off great we tip drinks at each other with a coy smile across the room, then a few other cheeky glances with a smile. She then half grab, poked, stroke me on the sly when walking past, she did this 2/3 times. As you would expect i was thinking great now i m sure she's into me!

We then got chatting, lots of smiles eye contact, flicking her hair, light touching each other as we where having fun.....basically obvious signals and flirting! this continues on and off through out the evening. a few people even commented on how we work well togther and make sense as a couple

She then said she was leaving, and as it wasnt to late and things where going well i suggested we should go grab a drink at another bar just the 2 of us!

Thats when she drops the bomb, and says she can't she has a boyfriend, she got back with her ex a little while ago! As you can imagine i was suprises, and tried to play it cool, i told it was a bit of a shock as we'd been flirting, the eye contact etc . She then said it wouldnt work out because of work and she'd heard i had a reputation dating girls from work (i had one long term relationship with a girl from the office, it was discreet, with no drama) but i guess girls talk (its also 80% females in my office). but it ended well we hug and i said good night

i was really dissapointed, and probably a little stupidly i txted her on the way home saying i could tell she was into me and not to trust reputations. She replied but didnt comment on what i said, she just said to respect she had a byfriend. i replied that i wasnt blind to the way she is towards me but of course i respected that, as i have no intention of being a dickhead about it.

Anyway confusing as hell, and by the end of the night everyone had had quite a bit to drink.

i felt un easy about it this morning, so i txted her just kind of explaining my self, saying that if i d known in the first place this could have been avoided, that i still thought she was great and if it didnt work out with her ex let me know. Told her that it was fun hanging out and hopeffully we can do it again what ever the situation.

Its funny after last night one side of me is even more certain she's into me

the fact we'd been flirting and she's known i like her for a wile, most people wuld just say they have a BF. i never heard of him or seen any pics on social media ( i know it doesnt meaning anything) but she posts a lot

some of the distance does makes more sense

i m going away on holiday for a few weeks and will disconnect. I guess there's not much i can do after, apart from date other girls and just see what happens

what do you guys think ?

still very confused !

I'm thinking you are putting yourself in a position to be played here.

Walk away.

Dude just drop her like hot coal. She has a boyfriend but kept flrting with you. And you are not awkward around girls, so you can have other women.

A: She has a boyfriend but kept on playing you. Do you want a relationship with that kind of a girl?





B: Anything like texting, explaining yourself etc. makes you look weak and insecure. Forget her immediately and date other women.Dont even see what happens, forget it. totally. This thread souldnt exist in the first place

She doesn’t want to date someone she works with. Not much you can do besides finding another job 🤷‍♀️