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She??ll nurse you like an angel when you??re ill, and she won't embarrass you by flirting with your best friend. She??ll dress neatly and be able to talk with you about something besides diapers and beauty parlor gossip. You??ll get every ounce of loyalty and devotion you deserve. She won't throw emotional scenes of jealousy or throw your money away foolishly. She??ll keep your secrets in her heart, help you organize your work, and probably won't get wrinkled in middle age. Now really, isn't all that worth minding your manners and keeping your fingernails clean? Her eyes are cool pools of pure love, and when she smiles, she can light up a whole room with her radiance. Better keep her. You may never get so lucky again."
^^^If you are *IT*, you will experience all of this from me.
She??ll nurse you like an angel when you??re ill, and she won't embarrass you by flirting with your best friend. She??ll dress neatly and be able to talk with you about something besides diapers and beauty parlor gossip. You??ll get every ounce of loyalty and devotion you deserve. She won't throw emotional scenes of jealousy or throw your money away foolishly. She??ll keep your secrets in her heart, help you organize your work, and probably won't get wrinkled in middle age. Now really, isn't all that worth minding your manners and keeping your fingernails clean? Her eyes are cool pools of pure love, and when she smiles, she can light up a whole room with her radiance. Better keep her. You may never get so lucky again."
^^^If you are *IT*, you will experience all of this from me.
Virgo Men:
"He's not the type to serenade you beneath your boudoir window. You'll have a long, lonely wait on your moonlit balcony until he starts climbing the rose trellis (or the fire escape, if you live in a walk-up)."
"The kind of love which displays itself in dramatic emotions, sentimental promises, tearful declarations and mushy affection, not only leaves a Virgo man cold, it can frighten him into catching the nearest bus or train out of town. (Planes are too fast and too expensive for him, unless he's really desperate.) But he can be melted if the temperature is just right, even though he seems to be made of a combination of steel and ice."
"There are definitely ways to the Virgo heart. Secret ways. Aggressive pursuit is not one of them. Neither is coquetry nor sexuality, as many a flirtatious vamp and slinky siren has learned, to her surprise and disappointment.Virgos seek quality rather than quantity in romance."
"It has to burn with a white heat to produce real passion in a Virgo."
"He'll take his own precious time about finding a love object, because he's as critical and painstaking in the selection of a woman as he is in his eating, grooming, health and work habits. Don't try to fool him or lie to him. Your virgo lover holds no illusions. He wants a decent, honest and genuine relationship. He knows very well how small his chances are of finding it, but it's useless to expect him to accept anything less. If circumstances ever do involve him in a sordid affair, you can be certain he won't remain in its clutches for long."
"He is a difficult man to stir emotionally. He can go for a long time without feeling any burning need for a permanent mate. It's enough to make you cry. You'll wonder if he's made of marble or if he was born without a heart. No, he isn't made of marble and yes, he does have a heart. Be patient. To her who waits comes eventual success."
"When he's on the threshold of submission, he'll cover his true feelings with elaborate casualness. There is more than a spark of subdued, but extremely refined acting talent in Virgo. He will pretend to be disinterested as cleverly as he pretends to be ill when he's not enjoying himself at a party. Don't expect him to respond with any great display of ecstatic surrender even after he's committed, and while he's still deciding if you're really the one for whom he'll forsake his single state, he'll play it mighty cool, indeed."
"He's not the type to serenade you beneath your boudoir window. You'll have a long, lonely wait on your moonlit balcony until he starts climbing the rose trellis (or the fire escape, if you live in a walk-up)."
"The kind of love which displays itself in dramatic emotions, sentimental promises, tearful declarations and mushy affection, not only leaves a Virgo man cold, it can frighten him into catching the nearest bus or train out of town. (Planes are too fast and too expensive for him, unless he's really desperate.) But he can be melted if the temperature is just right, even though he seems to be made of a combination of steel and ice."
"There are definitely ways to the Virgo heart. Secret ways. Aggressive pursuit is not one of them. Neither is coquetry nor sexuality, as many a flirtatious vamp and slinky siren has learned, to her surprise and disappointment.Virgos seek quality rather than quantity in romance."
"It has to burn with a white heat to produce real passion in a Virgo."
"He'll take his own precious time about finding a love object, because he's as critical and painstaking in the selection of a woman as he is in his eating, grooming, health and work habits. Don't try to fool him or lie to him. Your virgo lover holds no illusions. He wants a decent, honest and genuine relationship. He knows very well how small his chances are of finding it, but it's useless to expect him to accept anything less. If circumstances ever do involve him in a sordid affair, you can be certain he won't remain in its clutches for long."
"He is a difficult man to stir emotionally. He can go for a long time without feeling any burning need for a permanent mate. It's enough to make you cry. You'll wonder if he's made of marble or if he was born without a heart. No, he isn't made of marble and yes, he does have a heart. Be patient. To her who waits comes eventual success."
"When he's on the threshold of submission, he'll cover his true feelings with elaborate casualness. There is more than a spark of subdued, but extremely refined acting talent in Virgo. He will pretend to be disinterested as cleverly as he pretends to be ill when he's not enjoying himself at a party. Don't expect him to respond with any great display of ecstatic surrender even after he's committed, and while he's still deciding if you're really the one for whom he'll forsake his single state, he'll play it mighty cool, indeed."
"Once he's decided it's for real, however, he'll declare himself with touching simplicity. His love will burn with a steady flame, never fluctuating like the love of other Sun signs, and it will give warmth over the years with wonderful dependability. Is that so bad? The one quality of fairy tale romance about Virgo is that, if he's genuinely in love, he will wait for years to claim his true mate, or travel over a thousand mountains to bring her home to his hearth. He's capable of enormous sacrifice in the pursuit of that one dainty foot he's discovered will fit the glass slipper. There's no denying that the flame is strong, once it's been kindled. It's almost impossible to extinguish it. You'll be as eternally adored as Cinderella herself. The trick, I suppose, is in the ??original kindling. It's a rare foot that fits his glass slipper. Virgo is enormously particular.
After you've caught him, hell seldom if ever invite your jealousy, and he'll be determined to overcome any rough spots caused by financial problems, relatives or outside interference. He'll show incredible strength through emotional and material hardships, as long as you remain by his side. You couldn't ask for a more tender, gentle companion when your heart is broken for any reason by a cruel world or when you're physically ill. He won't shower you with money, but you'll be well supplied with necessities, and he will shower you with consideration.
"A pleasure-seeking, selfish, mentally lazy woman will never make it with a Virgo male, even if
she's fairly oozing with sex appeal. This is the very last man in the world you can expect to find running off with a topless Go-Go girl, though he might loan her his sweater if she's chilly. When it comes right down to the nitty gritty, he's looking for a wife-not a mistress in any sense of the word."
"Now that you know what you're in for, if you're still in love with that Virgo man, you can look forward io a pretty contented future. You'll have a husband who's alert and well-informed, who won't expect you to wait on him hand and foot or expect you to run around looking sexy all the time with a dab of perfume behind each ear and a rose in your teeth. (Although he may expect you to go around with a cake of soap in each hand.)"
After you've caught him, hell seldom if ever invite your jealousy, and he'll be determined to overcome any rough spots caused by financial problems, relatives or outside interference. He'll show incredible strength through emotional and material hardships, as long as you remain by his side. You couldn't ask for a more tender, gentle companion when your heart is broken for any reason by a cruel world or when you're physically ill. He won't shower you with money, but you'll be well supplied with necessities, and he will shower you with consideration.
"A pleasure-seeking, selfish, mentally lazy woman will never make it with a Virgo male, even if
she's fairly oozing with sex appeal. This is the very last man in the world you can expect to find running off with a topless Go-Go girl, though he might loan her his sweater if she's chilly. When it comes right down to the nitty gritty, he's looking for a wife-not a mistress in any sense of the word."
"Now that you know what you're in for, if you're still in love with that Virgo man, you can look forward io a pretty contented future. You'll have a husband who's alert and well-informed, who won't expect you to wait on him hand and foot or expect you to run around looking sexy all the time with a dab of perfume behind each ear and a rose in your teeth. (Although he may expect you to go around with a cake of soap in each hand.)"
"After all, how many women are married to a hardworking, handsome man who's neat and tidy around the house, who remembers anniversaries and performs miracles with the checkbook? How many wives have a smart husband who dresses well, seldom goes out with the boys or makes passes at other women, and is usually gentle and considerate? Look closely again. Is that just the reflection of the street lights around his head, or could it be . . . ? No, it couldn't possibly be a halo. Not after the way he snapped at you when you spilled the buttered popcorn in his lap at the theater tonight. Of course not. That cranky character? Still, there is a kind of an aura. And when he smiles-and you can see yourself in his clear eyes-well, he'll do until someone with real wings comes along."
^^^^Knowing my father, I also stand behind that, 1000%
^^^^Knowing my father, I also stand behind that, 1000%
Virgo love in general:
"The Virginian has very few illusions about life and people, even when he's in love. Male
or female, romance never clouds Virgo's eyes with a thick enough film to blind him to any existing flaws and shortcomings in either the relationship or in the loved one. To use the idiom of the day, Virgo always "knows where it's at," though the slang-hating Virgos will shrink in distaste from that phrase."
"Virgos like cats, birds and small, helpless creatures. They also like truth, punctuality, economy, prudence and discreet selectivity. They hate gushy sentiment, dirt, vulgarity, sloppiness and idleness. Theirs is a practical nature, with excessive discrimination-the true individualists, whose keen perception keeps their desires clear of muddy, wishful thinking. A fresh breeze blows through the dream of a Virgo, sweeping it free of wisps of wild, inaccurate fancies. Once he's learned to master life's complicated details, instead of letting details master him, he can shape his own destiny with more certainty than any other Sun sign."
"Underneath his serious manner lies the alluring aura of the Virgin-purity of thought and purpose, symbolized by the Virgo hyacinth. Once you've known the fragrance of this Easter flower, you're never quite free of its spell. It returns each spring to haunt the memory. Virgo has its own, secret way of making the heart remember."
"The Virginian has very few illusions about life and people, even when he's in love. Male
or female, romance never clouds Virgo's eyes with a thick enough film to blind him to any existing flaws and shortcomings in either the relationship or in the loved one. To use the idiom of the day, Virgo always "knows where it's at," though the slang-hating Virgos will shrink in distaste from that phrase."
"Virgos like cats, birds and small, helpless creatures. They also like truth, punctuality, economy, prudence and discreet selectivity. They hate gushy sentiment, dirt, vulgarity, sloppiness and idleness. Theirs is a practical nature, with excessive discrimination-the true individualists, whose keen perception keeps their desires clear of muddy, wishful thinking. A fresh breeze blows through the dream of a Virgo, sweeping it free of wisps of wild, inaccurate fancies. Once he's learned to master life's complicated details, instead of letting details master him, he can shape his own destiny with more certainty than any other Sun sign."
"Underneath his serious manner lies the alluring aura of the Virgin-purity of thought and purpose, symbolized by the Virgo hyacinth. Once you've known the fragrance of this Easter flower, you're never quite free of its spell. It returns each spring to haunt the memory. Virgo has its own, secret way of making the heart remember."
Posted by tizianiPosted by Damnata
"Ordinarily, if she really loves you, you??d be safe to trust the typical Virginian woman with the sexiest man you know on a desert island for a month. For two months? Well, Virgos are human, you know.
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Bonnie, you're confused.
You have to read the Virgo Man Love to understand me 😐
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Can't help it, I need to help people 😢
Can't help it, I need to help people 😢
@D...Linda Goodman's description you share on Virgo Male is pretty accurate.
The following snippets happens to be an old dxp gentlemen that KNOWS about Virgo men. Every female from dxp came to this guy for advice and loved him. (well most..anyway) He IS a Virgo male and a sweet friend from the past. He's missed sorely...
THE VIRGO MALE
Message posted by: dyrstr8z on 4/5/2006 9:57:44 PM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.237
[2] His Moods
Contrary to popular belief, the quiet, reserved, stoic Virgo male has emotions. Don't believe me: Then ask the parents of a teenaged Virgo son. You'll know them by the frazzled hair (if they haven't pulled it all out!), bloodshot eyes, and "jumpy" battlefield reactions to the slightest noise. Exaggerating a little here, but not by much. Their "sweet boy" who was so good through the 6th grade does a Dr. Jekyll & Mr. Hyde around his 13th birthday. Having gone through the adolescent hormone roller-coaster many years ago, I'm having to rely on dusty memory, but I do recall never feeling so out of control - like I had multiple warring personalities "duking" it out in my cranium!
But take heart: With LOTS of parental TLC, and LOTS of physical labor (to expend the excess energy that's causing the turmoil), the Virgo boy will emerge into young manhood with an intact psyche, and such a sense of relief that he will do WHATEVER IT TAKES to avoid another psychotic outbreak!
In short: Virgo boy is like an episode of "The Andy Griffith Show" and Virgo teen is like the last 23 minutes of "Apocalypse Now"!
As Virgo man gets older, and has more years of success over the demons of his youth, he becomes a very pleasant guy indeed. But, he will have (usually short) relapses into what can only be described as a dark as midnight foul-ass funk. It will not come on like an earthquake, there will be WARNING SIGNS of the approaching storm: he eats less (if at all), talks less, and avoids you more. If you're living with him, he'll find reasons to be in another part of the house / yard / neighborhood. If you're living apart, you may not see these signs, and wonder why the schmuck suddenly stopped calling, e-mailing, stopping for you when you're standing in front of his car (okay, he WILL stop, or at least SWERVE around you!).
The following snippets happens to be an old dxp gentlemen that KNOWS about Virgo men. Every female from dxp came to this guy for advice and loved him. (well most..anyway) He IS a Virgo male and a sweet friend from the past. He's missed sorely...
THE VIRGO MALE
Message posted by: dyrstr8z on 4/5/2006 9:57:44 PM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.237
[2] His Moods
Contrary to popular belief, the quiet, reserved, stoic Virgo male has emotions. Don't believe me: Then ask the parents of a teenaged Virgo son. You'll know them by the frazzled hair (if they haven't pulled it all out!), bloodshot eyes, and "jumpy" battlefield reactions to the slightest noise. Exaggerating a little here, but not by much. Their "sweet boy" who was so good through the 6th grade does a Dr. Jekyll & Mr. Hyde around his 13th birthday. Having gone through the adolescent hormone roller-coaster many years ago, I'm having to rely on dusty memory, but I do recall never feeling so out of control - like I had multiple warring personalities "duking" it out in my cranium!
But take heart: With LOTS of parental TLC, and LOTS of physical labor (to expend the excess energy that's causing the turmoil), the Virgo boy will emerge into young manhood with an intact psyche, and such a sense of relief that he will do WHATEVER IT TAKES to avoid another psychotic outbreak!
In short: Virgo boy is like an episode of "The Andy Griffith Show" and Virgo teen is like the last 23 minutes of "Apocalypse Now"!
As Virgo man gets older, and has more years of success over the demons of his youth, he becomes a very pleasant guy indeed. But, he will have (usually short) relapses into what can only be described as a dark as midnight foul-ass funk. It will not come on like an earthquake, there will be WARNING SIGNS of the approaching storm: he eats less (if at all), talks less, and avoids you more. If you're living with him, he'll find reasons to be in another part of the house / yard / neighborhood. If you're living apart, you may not see these signs, and wonder why the schmuck suddenly stopped calling, e-mailing, stopping for you when you're standing in front of his car (okay, he WILL stop, or at least SWERVE around you!).
~continued~
Try not to take this as an offense, because if he loves you, he's really trying to spare you from a few days to a few weeks of lashing-out, sarcastic, touchy as hell, ultra-ultra-ultra sensitivity to EVERY DAMN THING HE COMES IN CONTACT WITH!! He could win the Super Duper Lotto, and would gripe & carry-on about the taxes he'll have to pay just to support a bunch of worthless welfare queens who have bigger houses and better cars than he has and have more sex because they have so much time on their hands than he has because he's got to adjust his with-holding to take the new $ 260,000,000.00 into account before he gets his ass audited... See what I mean?
But aside from these infrequent "Nutty Professor" dyptherias, mature (and Healthy!) Virgo man is incredibly easy to get along with. He's generally an optimist, or at least a glass-about-40% -full kinda guy, who justs wants to get things done. If you love him, and want him to be happy, LET HIM DO AT LEAST A FEW THINGS FOR YOU. He has "nervous energy" that MUST BE CHANNELED. He is always looking for PRACTICAL ways to burn up that energy. Even if you're independent, and don't like the "little lady" door-opening treatment, find a thing or two he can do for you, and you'll both be in harmony...
As for the moods of the Hardened Virgo... who cares? If your smart, you'll avoid him LIKE EVERYBODY ELSE DOES!
Message posted by: dyrstr8z on 4/9/2006 4:25:40 PM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.245
Try not to take this as an offense, because if he loves you, he's really trying to spare you from a few days to a few weeks of lashing-out, sarcastic, touchy as hell, ultra-ultra-ultra sensitivity to EVERY DAMN THING HE COMES IN CONTACT WITH!! He could win the Super Duper Lotto, and would gripe & carry-on about the taxes he'll have to pay just to support a bunch of worthless welfare queens who have bigger houses and better cars than he has and have more sex because they have so much time on their hands than he has because he's got to adjust his with-holding to take the new $ 260,000,000.00 into account before he gets his ass audited... See what I mean?
But aside from these infrequent "Nutty Professor" dyptherias, mature (and Healthy!) Virgo man is incredibly easy to get along with. He's generally an optimist, or at least a glass-about-40% -full kinda guy, who justs wants to get things done. If you love him, and want him to be happy, LET HIM DO AT LEAST A FEW THINGS FOR YOU. He has "nervous energy" that MUST BE CHANNELED. He is always looking for PRACTICAL ways to burn up that energy. Even if you're independent, and don't like the "little lady" door-opening treatment, find a thing or two he can do for you, and you'll both be in harmony...
As for the moods of the Hardened Virgo... who cares? If your smart, you'll avoid him LIKE EVERYBODY ELSE DOES!
Message posted by: dyrstr8z on 4/9/2006 4:25:40 PM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.245
~continued~
[3] His Sexuality
First, contrary to popular belief, Virgo male is rarely a
Virgin in the sexual meaning of the word. Unfortunately, his
guarded nature, general reticence, and discreetness make him
less likely than guys in other signs to "screw and brag" -
though he may be tempted at times to set the record straight.
He respects the woman he loves too much to get points with his
buddies at her expense, and is also uncomfortable with her
yakking about his prowess with her girlfriends - even if she's
giving glowing praise. Another factor is his tendency and
preference for monogamy; healthy Virgo man will sow his wild
oats, but even these juvenile romps will be less frequent and
more serious than those of his peers - quantity over quality!
Add to this the fact that "nice guys" are often in short supply,
and it's no surprise that Healthy Virgo guys tend to marry at
a young (< 30) age - and then stay married. To sum up: Virgo
man tends not to screw everything in sight, and even if he does,
he doesn't plaster it all over the Sunday papers!
Second, before Virgo man gets totally uninhibited (yeah, I mean
UNINHIBITED!) with his lady, he's gotta have LTR - no, not Long
Term Relationship (although that is his objective) - I mean
Love + Trust + Respect. Other guys in other signs may have
similar needs, but for Virgo man LTR is the central platform
that precedes and is essential to the ultimate one night stand,
or 30+ years of monogamous bliss. It's a tripod, so each leg
must be equal, or it will become unstable - and eventually
topple (though Virgo man will try to keep the balance for a
long time!).
As for the other LTR: On the freeway of love, Virgo man is like
the Volvo, while guys in other signs may be more like a Corvette.
If you're planning for a cross-country trip, which car are you
gonna choose? You probably want durable, safe, and reliable.
Don't have time for that, or you just wanna dash across town in
head-turning style , then go with the Vette! As for the cross-
country: the Libra exwife and I had to drive 2800 miles in 5 days.
We mated 3-4 times a day, because we had nothing else to do but
drive and shag - stayed in hotels, ate in restaurants, so I had
nothing domestic to fret about...
1. What's the best, easiest, fool-proof way to get a Virgo man to bed?
[3] His Sexuality
First, contrary to popular belief, Virgo male is rarely a
Virgin in the sexual meaning of the word. Unfortunately, his
guarded nature, general reticence, and discreetness make him
less likely than guys in other signs to "screw and brag" -
though he may be tempted at times to set the record straight.
He respects the woman he loves too much to get points with his
buddies at her expense, and is also uncomfortable with her
yakking about his prowess with her girlfriends - even if she's
giving glowing praise. Another factor is his tendency and
preference for monogamy; healthy Virgo man will sow his wild
oats, but even these juvenile romps will be less frequent and
more serious than those of his peers - quantity over quality!
Add to this the fact that "nice guys" are often in short supply,
and it's no surprise that Healthy Virgo guys tend to marry at
a young (< 30) age - and then stay married. To sum up: Virgo
man tends not to screw everything in sight, and even if he does,
he doesn't plaster it all over the Sunday papers!
Second, before Virgo man gets totally uninhibited (yeah, I mean
UNINHIBITED!) with his lady, he's gotta have LTR - no, not Long
Term Relationship (although that is his objective) - I mean
Love + Trust + Respect. Other guys in other signs may have
similar needs, but for Virgo man LTR is the central platform
that precedes and is essential to the ultimate one night stand,
or 30+ years of monogamous bliss. It's a tripod, so each leg
must be equal, or it will become unstable - and eventually
topple (though Virgo man will try to keep the balance for a
long time!).
As for the other LTR: On the freeway of love, Virgo man is like
the Volvo, while guys in other signs may be more like a Corvette.
If you're planning for a cross-country trip, which car are you
gonna choose? You probably want durable, safe, and reliable.
Don't have time for that, or you just wanna dash across town in
head-turning style , then go with the Vette! As for the cross-
country: the Libra exwife and I had to drive 2800 miles in 5 days.
We mated 3-4 times a day, because we had nothing else to do but
drive and shag - stayed in hotels, ate in restaurants, so I had
nothing domestic to fret about...
1. What's the best, easiest, fool-proof way to get a Virgo man to bed?
~continued~
Depends... Romance or Romp? If it's romance, better stick with the
L+T+R, or he's not gonna take you SERIOUSLY - and that's a dead-end
road... If it's a quick-fix, you're gonna have to be assertive, but
not necessarily aggressive - stroke versus grab, kiss versus suck -
to get things going. Lots of casual, non-threatening body contact
lets him know you're ready to go - get him on the dance floor, or,
out on that "nature" hike (just had one of those myself!), or any
venue where you can show him what you've got without SHOWING HIM
EVERYTHING! Remember, he's "mental", so to get him in the groove
you gotta stimulate his imagination before anything else will get
stimulated!
2. Do they really prefer for the woman to be the aggressor? Is this
occasional or all the time?
Once in a great while, I'll take the back seat, but I definitely
prefer to have the wheel - and the accelerator! We're not control
freaks, but we are skilled laborers, who take the TIME to learn the
CRAFT, and we like to display our skills with that one special lady!
However, we do like strong decisive women, and if she wants to be the
"instigator" (say, for a late-night / early-morning session), we're
generally not insulted or threatened by it - just remember: she can
be assertive, but shouldn't be aggressive...
3. Are they really completely emotionally detached from the sex act and
see it more as a physical release/regular duty to be had?
Hell, no! This is definitely a case of anti-Virgo crap! We are probably
the most 100% 'ers in the Zodiac - and that really applies in the bedroom!
Not bragging, not exaggerating, but I go for the gold medal with my
woman, and from what I hear from my brethren, this is the rule, and not
the exception!
4. Are Virgos really as well-endowed as they're said to be, along with
the other Earth-element men?
I haven't taken a tape measure into a locker room, and
I don't plan on it either - I like to keep my good looks! I can say that
in my case, I'm not in the male porn star category, but I'm somewhat
larger than the textbook average - way "broader in the beam" if you know
what I mean. I have, on occasion, caused some pain and/or discomfort -
mostly during the one-nighter (and yes, alcohol was usually a factor!);
it's not a turn-on for me, so I work extra hard to get the lady ready
for the bumpy ride...
Depends... Romance or Romp? If it's romance, better stick with the
L+T+R, or he's not gonna take you SERIOUSLY - and that's a dead-end
road... If it's a quick-fix, you're gonna have to be assertive, but
not necessarily aggressive - stroke versus grab, kiss versus suck -
to get things going. Lots of casual, non-threatening body contact
lets him know you're ready to go - get him on the dance floor, or,
out on that "nature" hike (just had one of those myself!), or any
venue where you can show him what you've got without SHOWING HIM
EVERYTHING! Remember, he's "mental", so to get him in the groove
you gotta stimulate his imagination before anything else will get
stimulated!
2. Do they really prefer for the woman to be the aggressor? Is this
occasional or all the time?
Once in a great while, I'll take the back seat, but I definitely
prefer to have the wheel - and the accelerator! We're not control
freaks, but we are skilled laborers, who take the TIME to learn the
CRAFT, and we like to display our skills with that one special lady!
However, we do like strong decisive women, and if she wants to be the
"instigator" (say, for a late-night / early-morning session), we're
generally not insulted or threatened by it - just remember: she can
be assertive, but shouldn't be aggressive...
3. Are they really completely emotionally detached from the sex act and
see it more as a physical release/regular duty to be had?
Hell, no! This is definitely a case of anti-Virgo crap! We are probably
the most 100% 'ers in the Zodiac - and that really applies in the bedroom!
Not bragging, not exaggerating, but I go for the gold medal with my
woman, and from what I hear from my brethren, this is the rule, and not
the exception!
4. Are Virgos really as well-endowed as they're said to be, along with
the other Earth-element men?
I haven't taken a tape measure into a locker room, and
I don't plan on it either - I like to keep my good looks! I can say that
in my case, I'm not in the male porn star category, but I'm somewhat
larger than the textbook average - way "broader in the beam" if you know
what I mean. I have, on occasion, caused some pain and/or discomfort -
mostly during the one-nighter (and yes, alcohol was usually a factor!);
it's not a turn-on for me, so I work extra hard to get the lady ready
for the bumpy ride...
~continued~
5. Are Virgo men unimaginative and "clumsy" (as the books say) when it
comes to satisfying a woman, or are the other websites correct: that
they are great lovers resting on a wealth of hidden, volcanic passions
that need only be ignited for his true flame to burn?
I suspect that Virgo young man is as hormone-driven and clumsy as about
any other guy. But, mature Virgo man takes the subject SERIOUSLY, and will
study for that PhD with all the energy and tenacity that he applies to
other vital areas of his life... By his mid-20s, he surges ahead of the
guys from the other signs, and I don't think they every catch up! Add to
that the fact that he will note everything you like and dislike, and you're
gonna be hard-pressed (yep, meant that one!) to find his equal...
6. I read his "tummy" is a major errogenous zone and I read elsewhere
that it's his buttocks. Where to, gentlemen?
Start at the belly, move up to the chest, before you slide to the root
of all joy...
7. Is it true that--if the Virgo dude is tuned in to his lover--he can
make it seem that everytime is "like the first time"?
It will be his goal - he aims to please EVERYTIME!
8. True that they like a lot of eye contact and "talking" during
love-making?
Yes! I prefer the light on, so I can SEE what effect I'm having on you.
Lights out - TELL ME where I'm at... Don't need a play-by-play, but
err on the side of noise versus the sound of silence...
9. Well, uhhhh, errrr, hmmmmmm .... ARE they the kinkiest lovers in the
zodiac?
No... We don't get KINKY with the one we love, we just do whatever it takes
to make her happy. I draw the line at pain - giving or receiving - but I've
shagged in a WIDE VARIETY of places, positions, and with all sorts of
inanimate objects - but no barnyard animals! As for multiple partners -
ONLY if they're all of the opposite gender!
Don't know too much about the other signs, but Virgo guys are "handymen" in EVERY sense of the word - we like to use them on the job (whatever and wherever the JOB might be!)... Let me say from personal experience: If a woman doesn't want me to use my mouth, no problem! I'll just ply my trade the conventional & tactile way - again, whatever it takes to make the earth move up under her --- uh, feet!!
5. Are Virgo men unimaginative and "clumsy" (as the books say) when it
comes to satisfying a woman, or are the other websites correct: that
they are great lovers resting on a wealth of hidden, volcanic passions
that need only be ignited for his true flame to burn?
I suspect that Virgo young man is as hormone-driven and clumsy as about
any other guy. But, mature Virgo man takes the subject SERIOUSLY, and will
study for that PhD with all the energy and tenacity that he applies to
other vital areas of his life... By his mid-20s, he surges ahead of the
guys from the other signs, and I don't think they every catch up! Add to
that the fact that he will note everything you like and dislike, and you're
gonna be hard-pressed (yep, meant that one!) to find his equal...
6. I read his "tummy" is a major errogenous zone and I read elsewhere
that it's his buttocks. Where to, gentlemen?
Start at the belly, move up to the chest, before you slide to the root
of all joy...
7. Is it true that--if the Virgo dude is tuned in to his lover--he can
make it seem that everytime is "like the first time"?
It will be his goal - he aims to please EVERYTIME!
8. True that they like a lot of eye contact and "talking" during
love-making?
Yes! I prefer the light on, so I can SEE what effect I'm having on you.
Lights out - TELL ME where I'm at... Don't need a play-by-play, but
err on the side of noise versus the sound of silence...
9. Well, uhhhh, errrr, hmmmmmm .... ARE they the kinkiest lovers in the
zodiac?
No... We don't get KINKY with the one we love, we just do whatever it takes
to make her happy. I draw the line at pain - giving or receiving - but I've
shagged in a WIDE VARIETY of places, positions, and with all sorts of
inanimate objects - but no barnyard animals! As for multiple partners -
ONLY if they're all of the opposite gender!
Don't know too much about the other signs, but Virgo guys are "handymen" in EVERY sense of the word - we like to use them on the job (whatever and wherever the JOB might be!)... Let me say from personal experience: If a woman doesn't want me to use my mouth, no problem! I'll just ply my trade the conventional & tactile way - again, whatever it takes to make the earth move up under her --- uh, feet!!
~continued~
Message posted by: dyrstr8z on 4/9/2006 6:28:52 PM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.245
Beguiling: "Are Virgos comfortable with providing lots of ear candy during lovemaking?"
Oh, mama-mia! If you aren't talking, we will be! Lots of positive reinforcement - usually whispered, or in low tones that make you get closer to hear them... Always works for this Virgo guy...
Message posted by: dyrstr8z on 4/9/2006 6:28:52 PM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.245
Beguiling: "Are Virgos comfortable with providing lots of ear candy during lovemaking?"
Oh, mama-mia! If you aren't talking, we will be! Lots of positive reinforcement - usually whispered, or in low tones that make you get closer to hear them... Always works for this Virgo guy...
Classic shit right there^^although it's from over 8 years ago here, the majority of Virgo males I know have a similar mindset.
As you see some of that was from females asking him detailed questions...same reaction, some respected it other's trashed it. When my Screenname was Virgogotme, he made it clear who he understood as women who loved Virgo men...the numbers were added throughout the thread..and the "skank ho-bags" joined in. Was quite the thread...
DyarStra??_e
12/13/2007 4:55:04 PM | More
Virgo Men & The DXP Women Who Love Them
OK ladies, enough negativity! Those of you who are honest, virtuous, and true will add your name to the following list -- the rest of you skanks and ho-bags can stuff it!
The List Of DXP Women Who Love Virgo Men
1. Virgogotme
2. Scorp-In-Law
3. Archer
4. P-Angel (I guess?!)
As you see some of that was from females asking him detailed questions...same reaction, some respected it other's trashed it. When my Screenname was Virgogotme, he made it clear who he understood as women who loved Virgo men...the numbers were added throughout the thread..and the "skank ho-bags" joined in. Was quite the thread...
DyarStra??_e
12/13/2007 4:55:04 PM | More
Virgo Men & The DXP Women Who Love Them
OK ladies, enough negativity! Those of you who are honest, virtuous, and true will add your name to the following list -- the rest of you skanks and ho-bags can stuff it!
The List Of DXP Women Who Love Virgo Men
1. Virgogotme
2. Scorp-In-Law
3. Archer
4. P-Angel (I guess?!)
Posted by LetltB
As Virgo man gets older, and has more years of success over the demons of his youth, he becomes a very pleasant guy indeed. But, he will have (usually short) relapses into what can only be described as a dark as midnight foul-ass funk. It will not come on like an earthquake, there will be WARNING SIGNS of the approaching storm: he eats less (if at all), talks less, and avoids you more. If you're living with him, he'll find reasons to be in another part of the house / yard / neighborhood. If you're living apart, you may not see these signs, and wonder why the schmuck suddenly stopped calling, e-mailing, stopping for you when you're standing in front of his car (okay, he WILL stop, or at least SWERVE around you!).
Yes, this is what happened. I will buckle my seatbelt for the next time. I really needed to see this.
This is all accurate.
I can attest to both LIB's and Damnata's posts... as a wife of a Virgo male.
I can see very clearly why he chose me. He investigated me before he even met me and I always wondered what he was told that made him choose me.
I also have two Virgo brothers.
I can attest to both LIB's and Damnata's posts... as a wife of a Virgo male.
I can see very clearly why he chose me. He investigated me before he even met me and I always wondered what he was told that made him choose me.
I also have two Virgo brothers.
This month is my 9 year anniversary w/ DXP. 🙂 I've seen many assholes, many liars, many trolls/sockpuppets and I have to tell you, I STILL enjoy putting them in their place where they belong. I'm not here to make friends, I have trustful ones in the real world,and for the most part enjoy giving common sense, logical in your face advice. Although it's not the real world here..I remain as real as it gets from an integrity perspective, which is good enough for me.
My new line for DXP and MY OWN QUOTE for life...
I ~think~, therefore I may sometimes be seen as an enemy by those who don't.
My new line for DXP and MY OWN QUOTE for life...
I ~think~, therefore I may sometimes be seen as an enemy by those who don't.
Posted by VenusAquarius
This is all accurate.
I can attest to both LIB's and Damnata's posts... as a wife of a Virgo male.
I can see very clearly why he chose me. He investigated me before he even met me and I always wondered what he was told that made him choose me.
I also have two Virgo brothers.
This guy was the bomb...even the Virg guys from back in the day loved him. I miss Dyr A LOT...we met here in DXP. He came here looking for advice on a Scorpio woman who had an eye on him and he on her with some questions. I gave him in your face advice, told him to go after her...and he did. Within 4 years, he not only married her in his late 40's but they had twin scorpio daughters. Then some nut job from dxp weaseled her way into his private life and he had to delete. Not once, not twice..but three times. Hence my profile disclaimer...........DO NOT GIVE ANYONE (even your birth info) YOUR PRIVATE INFORMATION!!!!!!!! I don't care WHO they say they are. We even had the nut job come back here claiming they were Dy (lol) until I asked what the initials of my real name was..That took a shit real quick. Noone can replace him.
Dy..if you are reading this..I hope you and your family are well.. xo 😉
I remember Dyr LIB..I've been lurking here forever.
I was thinking of going on a lot of past topics and picking up quotes by virgo men/women about how we love. Players need not apply.
I was thinking of going on a lot of past topics and picking up quotes by virgo men/women about how we love. Players need not apply.
Oh, by Virgo partners also..the good and the bad.
We have flaws and I will attest this with my sign over and over again but we do love deeply.
We have flaws and I will attest this with my sign over and over again but we do love deeply.
Posted by Damnata
Oh, by Virgo partners also..the good and the bad.
We have flaws and I will attest this with my sign over and over again but we do love deeply.
One thing you will remember..Dy always pointed out Virgo's aren't perfect. Nobody is.
Yup. We do tend to come across as perfectionists and self-righteous a lot.
I'm here to poke fun at how serious we take ourselves at times. Also struggling with getting a dose of criticism our way.
It also applies to me so I read carefully when people have a problem with us because they might have a point.
I'm here to poke fun at how serious we take ourselves at times. Also struggling with getting a dose of criticism our way.
It also applies to me so I read carefully when people have a problem with us because they might have a point.
Posted by LetltBPosted by VenusAquarius
This is all accurate.
I can attest to both LIB's and Damnata's posts... as a wife of a Virgo male.
I can see very clearly why he chose me. He investigated me before he even met me and I always wondered what he was told that made him choose me.
I also have two Virgo brothers.
This guy was the bomb...even the Virg guys from back in the day loved him. I miss Dyr A LOT...we met here in DXP. He came here looking for advice on a Scorpio woman who had an eye on him and he on her with some questions. I gave him in your face advice, told him to go after her...and he did. Within 4 years, he not only married her in his late 40's but they had twin scorpio daughters. Then some nut job from dxp weaseled her way into his private life and he had to delete. Not once, not twice..but three times. Hence my profile disclaimer...........DO NOT GIVE ANYONE (even your birth info) YOUR PRIVATE INFORMATION!!!!!!!! I don't care WHO they say they are. We even had the nut job come back here claiming they were Dy (lol) until I asked what the initials of my real name was..That took a shit real quick. Noone can replace him.
Dy..if you are reading this..I hope you and your family are well.. xo 😉click to expand
this topic and LiB's post above are good reads/good warnings.
well i only know my father in law (virgo) and my sis's man (also virgo) and there's our aries uncle who married a virgo woman. Also, ironically, Gemini step mother's daughter is also a virgo, so is her son....no wonder she married a virgo man. lol she probably "gets" them very well. Also, two of my uncles are virgos (they are so quiet, they seem to be in the background but they always married well, and have good wives -- one of them is my father's favourite brother) this is all very true, and that's all info i am gonna give on them, except maybe there maybe differences with generations too. Virgo father in law is an information highway computer that's for sure. He's so damn smart.
I never realize how many virgos we have in our lives.
I never realize how many virgos we have in our lives.
@Damnata: My husband read and agreed on your thread about the virgo women. He said to me "Yep, this is all describe how you are to me."
It was once said "it's not easy being green.." well I hear to tell you that being a Virgo male isn't easy either.
This post describes us or me to that matter to almost like someone was following me around.
Virgo men are by far tough to crack but when we are committed we are committed.
we are often rejected but if we do the rejecting it would seem hard for the rejected to feel that we see no future with them.
Because we work so hard on everything some people could take it as a slap in the face when we go a separate way.
But if you are the rare one we do find enchanting then it could be world happily ever afters.
Sorry to those rejected...
This post describes us or me to that matter to almost like someone was following me around.
Virgo men are by far tough to crack but when we are committed we are committed.
we are often rejected but if we do the rejecting it would seem hard for the rejected to feel that we see no future with them.
Because we work so hard on everything some people could take it as a slap in the face when we go a separate way.
But if you are the rare one we do find enchanting then it could be world happily ever afters.
Sorry to those rejected...
The fundamental characteristics of Virgo are founded upon the productive creativity and practicality of the earth element, stimulated by the intellectual ingenuity and rapid movement of the sign's planetary ruler, Mercury. Both element and ruler characterise the sign as 'cool and dry', as does the calendrical association with autumn, when nature - having borne its fruit - recedes into conservation.
As a temporal humour 'dryness' inhibits emotional receptivity and many sun-sign profiles refer to Virgo's reputation for impassionate reactions and cool responses as a character-flaw, failing to appreciate that the ability to hold sentiment in check is the requisite of the intellectual clarity that sets this sign apart. Clear reason can only emerge when disentangled from the conflicting ties of emotional attachment; yet although it has a just reputation for control over passions, Virgo is not an unsympathetic or insensitive sign. Essentially gentle and thoughtful, consideration to others is a pronounced trait and figures strongly on their limited list of expectations and demands. Neither is Virgo lacking in intuitive recognition. Unlike the water signs, which pick up easily on psychic impressions, often absorbing moods that are poorly comprehended by reason, Virgo forms reliable instinctive impressions through a powerful gut-reaction, (their energy is seated in the gut), aided by their ready ability to analyse complexities and penetrate superficial presentations. The result is a talent for forming good judgement quickly and applying it to practical affairs. Having a sense for simplicity and harmony, Virgos move through their environment effortlessly rearranging, organising, and bringing order to chaos. From the Virgoan housewife who passes through a room picking up the clutter as she goes, to the business analyst skilled in recognising where communication flow becomes knotted, Virgos are adept at sorting out the 'little things' which, unattended, collect together to create big problems.
As a temporal humour 'dryness' inhibits emotional receptivity and many sun-sign profiles refer to Virgo's reputation for impassionate reactions and cool responses as a character-flaw, failing to appreciate that the ability to hold sentiment in check is the requisite of the intellectual clarity that sets this sign apart. Clear reason can only emerge when disentangled from the conflicting ties of emotional attachment; yet although it has a just reputation for control over passions, Virgo is not an unsympathetic or insensitive sign. Essentially gentle and thoughtful, consideration to others is a pronounced trait and figures strongly on their limited list of expectations and demands. Neither is Virgo lacking in intuitive recognition. Unlike the water signs, which pick up easily on psychic impressions, often absorbing moods that are poorly comprehended by reason, Virgo forms reliable instinctive impressions through a powerful gut-reaction, (their energy is seated in the gut), aided by their ready ability to analyse complexities and penetrate superficial presentations. The result is a talent for forming good judgement quickly and applying it to practical affairs. Having a sense for simplicity and harmony, Virgos move through their environment effortlessly rearranging, organising, and bringing order to chaos. From the Virgoan housewife who passes through a room picking up the clutter as she goes, to the business analyst skilled in recognising where communication flow becomes knotted, Virgos are adept at sorting out the 'little things' which, unattended, collect together to create big problems.
Coolness as a humour brings passivity and fixidity. This is less of a problem for Virgo than the other earth signs because of the stirring Mercurial influence which lightens movement, adds mental flexibility and allows a sharper reaction than can be expected from her Taurean and Capricornian colleagues. Grounded by the earthy qualities of practicality and realism, Virgos have little interest in abstract theories that defy application; nor do they strive towards the unrealistic levels of perfection that many accuse them of. As an earth sign Virgo is ultimately a realist not an idealist, and if they have acquired a reputation for being a perfectionist it is simply because of their proclivity for diligence and consistency. Virgos are unhappy with slack standards and being predisposed to working long and hard themselves it is to be expected that they will urge others likewise. However, the sign would not have the reputation for good judgement that it does were it not for the ability to balance ideals against available time and resources. In this Virgos are particularly gifted and can be relied upon to identify the most satisfactory expectations under any given set of circumstances, and to plan efficiently and work appropriately towards fulfilling them.
With such perceptive insight, enviable application and diplomatic expression, we might consider this sign exceptionally well equipped for manoeuvring into authoritative positions and gaining an abundance of material success. Yet they are rarely driven by the accumulation of power or wealth and for the most part take full satisfaction in providing the wind beneath the wings of other high-fliers. The dry disposition which feeds their talent for analysis rejects public attention and seeks to avoid centre-stage at all costs. They adhere to responsibility but do not like to assume it. Being of a modest nature they are apt to underestimate their own abilities, are too cautious to engage in the gambles and 'devil may care' risks required of the entrepreneurial spirit, and cling to convention, preferring to operate within established frameworks where they can evaluate themselves against predetermined criteria. Too often dismissed as ideal 'secretarial material', Virgos can and do excel in managerial positions, but usually within the directives of a large corporate identity where there are established procedures and a higher level of authority to defer to. It's not that Virgos seek out positions of support but placed
With such perceptive insight, enviable application and diplomatic expression, we might consider this sign exceptionally well equipped for manoeuvring into authoritative positions and gaining an abundance of material success. Yet they are rarely driven by the accumulation of power or wealth and for the most part take full satisfaction in providing the wind beneath the wings of other high-fliers. The dry disposition which feeds their talent for analysis rejects public attention and seeks to avoid centre-stage at all costs. They adhere to responsibility but do not like to assume it. Being of a modest nature they are apt to underestimate their own abilities, are too cautious to engage in the gambles and 'devil may care' risks required of the entrepreneurial spirit, and cling to convention, preferring to operate within established frameworks where they can evaluate themselves against predetermined criteria. Too often dismissed as ideal 'secretarial material', Virgos can and do excel in managerial positions, but usually within the directives of a large corporate identity where there are established procedures and a higher level of authority to defer to. It's not that Virgos seek out positions of support but placed
It's not that Virgos seek out positions of support but placed within them they find contentment and they can gather great pride and self-respect in offering themselves to the service of something that appears to play an important role in society. For some this will be a marriage vow; for others the principles of parenthood; or it might be an industry, institution, charity, religion, political cause, or area of study. Even the most outstanding Virgo individuals can be seen to express this trait, a classic example being Queen Elizabeth I who achieved great personal glory and held the highest position of command, but drew her strength from the Virgoan aspiration of honouring her responsibilities and serving the needs of her country.
"SO IT IS WITH LOVE". It is often claimed that Virgo's cool ardour is the result of such impossibly high romantic ideals that few are able to rouse the sign to heights of passion. Certainly this is not a sign to 'put it about' and their natural discrimination can leave them unimpressed by false personas that elsewhere gather a lot of attention, but given the right conditions Virgo can be as passionate and romantic as any other sign of the zodiac. The problem is that Virgo is decidedly uncomfortable in love affairs that challenge the practicality of their everyday life and responsibilities. Temptations may be strong and sincere, and painful broken-hearts may be involved, but of all the signs Virgos are least likely to give up everything that defines the structure of their life in the hope of emotional fulfilment with the partner of their dreams. Like Celia Johnson in the romantic drama Brief Encounter, Virgos decline self-indulgence where it conflicts with the duties that they hold in good conscience. And lacking the will to take inappropriate pleasure where another will take discomfort, they will settle for the practical solution that is most acceding to the needs of everyone involved, usually accepting the burden of self-restraint rather than the distress they would feel pursuing self-centred interests. Other signs may be persuaded that we only live once and we must put out own needs first, but not Virgo. The realisation of being integrally bound to everything around them anchors them, for better and for worse.
In many ways this is the true beauty of the sign. Virgos are blessed with a natural sense of harmony and that could hardly be expressed without an inner motivation towards synchronization. Such recognition inclines them to pursuits that call for integration between the mind and the body, fostering a particularly well suited interest in astrology (where creative intelligence and the cycles of nature are married in the study of heaven and earth), herbalism, natural therapies and many forms of complimentary medicine. With the urge to 'do' and 'make' as forceful as their urge to 'think' and 'analyse', Virgos in fact delight in all crafts where they can create something useful or beautiful out of raw materials and the application of ingenuity. The sign has a deep connection with the produce of the earth and taken as the herald of the harvest Virgo expresses the principle of gathering in and organising the fruits of labour. From the zodiac's origin as a device to record seasonal activity, the Virgo month is symbolically attached to the activities that centre around taking stock of resources and planning for the season ahead based upon the knowledge of what is available and the expectation that there is 'no or little more to come'. Consequently, although the sign abounds in expressed creativity, its essence is to put to good use what is currently accessible rather than the expectation of increase. Thus we understand the otherwise contradictory element of Virgo's definition as a 'barren' sign, which is used in decumbiture as an indication of infertility. Virgo is a conservative energy and conservatism is a word that can be applied to every level of a Virgo's self-expression. The concern with methodical categorisation is merely a manifest aspect of this, acutely observed by traditional authors who listed objects and places of storage as one of the sign's mayor themes of signification. Planets Dignifed in Virgo:
Mercury as sign and exaltation ruler
Venus as day-time triplicity ruler. (Although Venus gains some strength in day-time charts, it is still heavily debilitated in Virgo, the sign where it experiences its fall.)
Moon as night-time triplicity ruler
Planets Debilitated in Virgo:
Jupiter by detriment
Venus by fall
Mercury as sign and exaltation ruler
Venus as day-time triplicity ruler. (Although Venus gains some strength in day-time charts, it is still heavily debilitated in Virgo, the sign where it experiences its fall.)
Moon as night-time triplicity ruler
Planets Debilitated in Virgo:
Jupiter by detriment
Venus by fall
Link for the above for credit where credit is due...
http://www.skyscript.co.uk/virgo.html
http://www.skyscript.co.uk/virgo.html
YES! YOU FOUND IT.. ONE OF THE BEST DEscriptION ABOUT VIRGO SIGN
love this thread. Thanks LetitB or bringing his stuff to this thread. We need more of this on the forum, its refreshing to read, so thanks those that added to it🙂
I'm still wary after the Fake Dy thing that happened.
That time may have scarred me...
That time may have scarred me...
Posted by Damnata
"rdinarily, if she really loves you, you??d be safe to trust the typical Virginian woman with the sexiest man you know on a desert island for a month. For two months? Well, Virgos are human, you know.
I've always been fond of likening us to volcanoes. Calm and quiet on the surface, moving at the speed of dirt. But when it's time to blow... everything catches fire.
Or at least that's how it would be if Virgos had feelings. Which, you know, we don't of course.
😛
Posted by TMVPosted by Damnata
"rdinarily, if she really loves you, you??d be safe to trust the typical Virginian woman with the sexiest man you know on a desert island for a month. For two months? Well, Virgos are human, you know.
I've always been fond of likening us to volcanoes. Calm and quiet on the surface, moving at the speed of dirt. But when it's time to blow... everything catches fire.
Or at least that's how it would be if Virgos had feelings. Which, you know, we don't of course.
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Yeah. It's a nice fantasy..us having feelings and shit.
You know TMV, maybe that's why we scored high on that brain test..we have plenty of fantasies to make up for the lack of feelings.
Posted by Damnata
You know TMV, maybe that's why we scored high on that brain test..we have plenty of fantasies to make up for the lack of feelings.
Lol, could very well be. 🙂
Posted by Amandus
I'm still wary after the Fake Dy thing that happened.
That time may have scarred me...
There's been at least one more time, maybe two more pretenders who attempted to pull that off.
Dyr's been permanently banned ... if anyone is talking to him in here, then it's another imposter.
Posted by LetltB
Then some nut job from dxp weaseled her way into his private life and .....
It was bad, really, really wrong ... she sent his wife an actual letter, if memory serves me correctly.
He deserved it though .... a fool is as a fool does, and the fool has to pay his own consequences. If a person in here gives out their personal information online ... then it's their duty to suffer their own consequences, and nobody is pardoned from that.
He also hacked onto my computer.
So, though he was versatile and wise ... he was also deserved his own pains. Dyr has been permanently banned from dxp, and he should be.
Posted by Damnata
.... but we do love deeply.
That doesn't really mean anything, though ... if the Virgo doesn't express this to the partner.
When people come in here and complain about the Virgo not having feelings ... it's because their Virgo never shared with them that they have feelings .. so naturally, since a person didn't experience this with the Virgo - they were left to believe the emotions didn't exist.
To reiterate a verbal declaration doesn't mean squat ... if the actions aren't there to back the words up.
It reminds me of religion .... preach, and preach and preach that god is loving.
yet, there's no action on god's part to match those words. In fact, his children are at odds with each other over him, and he appears (by virtue of his ignorance) to condone fighting/killing.
This is the same concept here ..... like god, the Virgo expects to be taken seriously, without being arsed to lift a finger in reciprocity. And then get their panties wadded up their ass when people point out to them that the Virgo doesn't have feelings.
If you aren't going to share your feelings with someone ... then stfu about your little feelings because if you aren't going to treat your partner equal, then you aren't deserving of equality, yourself.
Posted by P-AngelPosted by Damnata
.... but we do love deeply.
That doesn't really mean anything, though ... if the Virgo doesn't express this to the partner.
When people come in here and complain about the Virgo not having feelings ... it's because their Virgo never shared with them that they have feelings .. so naturally, since a person didn't experience this with the Virgo - they were left to believe the emotions didn't exist.
To reiterate a verbal declaration doesn't mean squat ... if the actions aren't there to back the words up.
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Yup, I say it and back it up with actions. It's weird because I've run into people who would choose the words over the actions.
This is a Virgo thing you mentioned, as long as we don't share ourselves, it's selfish to expect people to mind read..even if they did it, even if in their mind they'd *get* we love them, without loving actions, they won't *feel* it. People attach on what they feel is there and not on what they might think it is. It's been a struggle with self expression for me and I still see it in my father, for the life of him he doesn't understand why people don't get it.
It's bad enough we repress that but it causes an issue with the people we care for deeply and when they lash out..the Virgo is offended because it feels like it came from nowhere. We cannot hold against them our position of "oh well you should just know". I am beyond obvious in this regard but when I started dating there was always this..coldness I sensed from my partners and it wasn't their doing, they were reflecting it back to me.
Posted by Damnata
It's been a struggle with self expression for me and I still see it in my father, for the life of him he doesn't understand why people don't get it.
..the Virgo is offended because it feels like it came from nowhere.
My Virgo is clueless that he isn't emotionally expressive ... he thinks he is. And like your father, he cannot fathom why others don't grasp how deep his feelings run.
Very bizarre Virgo trait.
It's the reason why so many women come in here bitching .... they fall for the guy, and then realize that he doesn't walk his talk.
It's the Virgo curse as to why they are always alone ... and they are clueless to it, for the most part. You realize it ... but, most are completely ignorant.
Actually .... turn that backwards ....
It's not no actions ... or no walk.
It's all walk and no talk.
Posted by P-Angel
It's all walk and no talk.
Well then mute Virgos is the way to go 😄.
They'd walk the walk and..there'd be no talk.
I somehow feel women would still bitch about their inability to talk.
Posted by VenusAquariusPosted by LetltB
As Virgo man gets older, and has more years of success over the demons of his youth, he becomes a very pleasant guy indeed. But, he will have (usually short) relapses into what can only be described as a dark as midnight foul-ass funk. It will not come on like an earthquake, there will be WARNING SIGNS of the approaching storm: he eats less (if at all), talks less, and avoids you more. If you're living with him, he'll find reasons to be in another part of the house / yard / neighborhood. If you're living apart, you may not see these signs, and wonder why the schmuck suddenly stopped calling, e-mailing, stopping for you when you're standing in front of his car (okay, he WILL stop, or at least SWERVE around you!).
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