virgo man a little confusing (libra woman)

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9 Years

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i am seeing this virgo guy for 6 months now (we are not dating yet, he hasnt asked me out yet) and recently i made him meet my friends. They dint like him cus they dint like his attitude, he appeared very cold and indifferent and that he was not at all interested in me for something more than something casual . But as much as i know him personally ( he doesnt like meeting new people, crowds, he doesnt express that much etc) for me it went really well, i expected him to be more awkward and quite. But he did crack a few jokes, talk about himself etc.

But generally, his demeanor is different when he is with me alone and when he is in front of people. His body language changes and becomes softer and more affectionate and touchy when he is with me alone and in front of people he is more of a ' i am so cool, i dont care" type of a behavior, or quite and a little stuck up playboy type of a behavior.

So what is the guys deal? Do virgo men behave differently in front of the person they like and other people or strangers etc. Because i dont know if i should take the word of my friends blindly and i dont want to take the wrong decision about my life with him.

Do virgo men have two faces or more than one personality that they show to different people? if he acted indifferent towards me without any affection etc in front of my friends mean that he doesnt want the world to know what we have, he doesnt wanna take that stand or its really casual for him. Dont virgo men try to impress their girl's friends and family?

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He dint even look at me that much and was a very awkward. They both thought that he is just so casual about you, but on the other hand when i am alone with him he is so caring. i dont know which personality i am to believe, the one alone with me or the one in front of the world with me. He never talks about his feelings to me. He talks about everything but us together. he doesnt talk about us together in the future or even that he is considering of having a relationship with me. Im afraid my insecurity about him will eat me up and i myt say something that will throw him in his shell.

I try to be very understanding, when he comes to me with problems, i try to solve them, he asks me for advice i give him an honest one, when he freaks out i try my best to console him. I wanna be a part of his life. But he never talks to me about what he feels for me. He used to in the beginning when he was wooing me, but now he doesnt, does it mean that he is just trying to drag whatever we have because i am not giving him a reason to stop seeing me?

Virgo men are so confused, why is he taking so long to decide whether he wants a relationship with me? i dont want to wait and wait and wait and get my self respect walked over and keep on waiting and he goes to explore other options. because he hasnt committed to me in any way.
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8 Years

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Hi Dear,i am also a Libra woman n a Virgo man said he dated me.so i guess we dated for a month untill i left him two days ago.I actually really like him n getting deeper.but he acted exactly like your Virgo man.he acted different in public n when he was with me alone.i really lobe to be alone with h bcz he cud be somebody who was sweet,funny,crazy n treated me so special.But when we were apart,he acted so cold.Rarely texted me even just checked me out,if i texted him first its always took long time for him to answer n only with short texts..i am libra and i love to talk with somebody i like.but he seemed didnt want to.So most of the times i had to wait for him to contact me first to talk or wanted to meet up.I oftem felt dissapointed bcz i cudnt always reach him.i told him twice about how i feel about this situation but he got upset he said he was busy working n he didnt like tesxting.but i saw him always been online on whatsaap or others but he didnt text me even once.Its so hard for me to understand his behavior...so in the end i just cudnt get it anymore..i told him once more n he only answered "i feel sorry".thats it.i expected him to say something more but he didnt.we havent talked since two days ago.i really missing him.but i guess he judt disnt have same feeling as me.i dont know..for me Virgo man is kinda complicated for libra...they kinda unemotional person n we are full of emotions..but i wish u the best for ur dating with ur Virgo man xx
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Yoctapra
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Yeah i agree with u.He always reassured me that he only dated me n treated me so sweet n called me with cute names but then i found out he called another woman exactly with same names n he responsed that woman exactly like the way he did to me.I think he just wanted to keep me as a woman who he wud contact whenever he needed me so he still texted me sometimes so i wud not go anywhere.its like a trap! Now im suferring from the feeling i have for him n i had to stop seeing n contacting him bcz i dont wanna be used anymore.yeahh my advice better u find another guy.
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9 Years

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i met him lately and we happened to talk about the meeting. he expressed that he dint like one of my friends and he dint like the way he was making fun of me all the time. He said that he was trying to be nice to that friend but it was getting very irritating. He said that my friend was unnecessarily taking my case a lot and it wasnt required and he did not like it at all.

He also called me to his house. his parents were away and he called me even when he was very tired, he showed me his stuff, his cubboard, how he keeps his clothes, his fragrances etc. We got comfortable in his bed too, i am a little hesitant about sex because i am a virgin, but he dint force me. We really made out a lot.He was very comfortable around me in general. Even when we were talking generally, he mentioned that his work right now is very important for him at the moment.

He thanked me for coming all the way to his place ( as he lives a little far)

I have a feeling he is going through a lot pressures in his life in general and is very aggitated. How can i make him feel better and cared for. Because i am not very very close to him yet, and he doesnt express very easily. It makes me insecure at times so i want him to feel good about himself and i want him to know that i value him.