Virgo Man and Virgo Woman

Any Virgos experience a relationship with our own kind? If so, how was/is it? I've read that no other sign really gets a Virgo except for another Virgo. Is this true?

I have two Virgo friends who are dating each other. Started off dramatically and then it gelled. They are hilarious and there are times where the relationship seems a bit rough around the edges, but they are a funny couple. They have a witty back and forth with each other constantly.

Yes, I used to work with a lady who her and her husband were both Virgos. They have been together for 10+ years... Sadly I lost contact with her, so I cant ask these questions.

Have a Virgo (m) friend who has offered himself up as a fwb. We could talk for hours but we're opposite on everything from religion to politics. He was rather full of himself about his "skills" in bed and wasn't able to deliver. We still talk as "friends" but nothing more as far as I'm concerned. I seriously doubt I would ever find myself in a relationship with another Virgo. Just as friends, yes.

I was in a relationship with a virgo. There were great aspects and bad ones. Great ones involve intellectual connection, amazing sexual chemistry, space, taking things slow etc. We were very different yet there was something in common. I broke up with him because he has a drug use problem and the relationship became toxic, he would make impulsive decisions while on drugs and regret them and its so tiring. He really hurt my feelings. I feel bad because i left him with his problem but i couldn't stand it anymore, in the end it just didn't make any sense and i was suffering. We didnt talk since the breakup until yesterday in a friendly way, i Know its bad but it felt good to hear from him, i felt weak but we are never getting back together. Also he had mars in cancer and i hated that placement.

I have dated two Virgo men in my life both relationships were very intense. Virgos love to ignore what bothers them until they explode, when we argued they were intense and explosive and horrible. But when we were good we got along great we understood each other very well. We both just clashed a lot. Both relationships were filled with jealousy and were very controlling. Idk if it's something that Virgo men have in common but both wanted to control me to the point of who I talked to and what contacts I had in my phone. It was intense don't think I'll ever try that out again.

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I was in a relationship with a virgo. There were great aspects and bad ones. Great ones involve intellectual connection, amazing sexual chemistry, space, taking things slow etc. We were very different yet there was something in common. I broke up with him because he has a drug use problem and the relationship became toxic, he would make impulsive decisions while on drugs and regret them and its so tiring. He really hurt my feelings. I feel bad because i left him with his problem but i couldn't stand it anymore, in the end it just didn't make any sense and i was suffering. We didnt talk since the breakup until yesterday in a friendly way, i Know its bad but it felt good to hear from him, i felt weak but we are never getting back together. Also he had mars in cancer and i hated that placement.

Sounds a lot like my ex Virgo boyfriend, he loved doing drugs then doing impulsive actions on them smh

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I was in a relationship with a virgo. There were great aspects and bad ones. Great ones involve intellectual connection, amazing sexual chemistry, space, taking things slow etc. We were very different yet there was something in common. I broke up with him because he has a drug use problem and the relationship became toxic, he would make impulsive decisions while on drugs and regret them and its so tiring. He really hurt my feelings. I feel bad because i left him with his problem but i couldn't stand it anymore, in the end it just didn't make any sense and i was suffering. We didnt talk since the breakup until yesterday in a friendly way, i Know its bad but it felt good to hear from him, i felt weak but we are never getting back together. Also he had mars in cancer and i hated that placement.

Could you, please say why you didn't like that Mars in Cancer...my Virgo has it too, I still try to understand its energy..

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Posted by VirgoSquirrel
I was in a relationship with a virgo. There were great aspects and bad ones. Great ones involve intellectual connection, amazing sexual chemistry, space, taking things slow etc. We were very different yet there was something in common. I broke up with him because he has a drug use problem and the relationship became toxic, he would make impulsive decisions while on drugs and regret them and its so tiring. He really hurt my feelings. I feel bad because i left him with his problem but i couldn't stand it anymore, in the end it just didn't make any sense and i was suffering. We didnt talk since the breakup until yesterday in a friendly way, i Know its bad but it felt good to hear from him, i felt weak but we are never getting back together. Also he had mars in cancer and i hated that placement.

Could you, please say why you didn't like that Mars in Cancer...my Virgo has it too, I still try to understand its energy..

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I felt it made him passive agressive and coward towards his feelings, he would just avoid sincere genuine confrontation. He would also lie and hide things from me if he thinks it is going to hurt me and he got it all wrong because nothing hurt me more than his lack of sincerity in the end.

He also had this weird need for a girlfriend that kind of plays his mothers role, and i did that with other guys in the past and didnt want to do it anymore.

That being said mars in cancer made him an outstanding sexual partner that put a lot of passion and heat in bed. He LOVED boobs too. I just couldnt work it out with such a sneaky and complicated placement. I have mars in gemini and venus in libra, of all his placements his cancer mars was the one bothering me the most.

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I was in a relationship with a virgo. There were great aspects and bad ones. Great ones involve intellectual connection, amazing sexual chemistry, space, taking things slow etc. We were very different yet there was something in common. I broke up with him because he has a drug use problem and the relationship became toxic, he would make impulsive decisions while on drugs and regret them and its so tiring. He really hurt my feelings. I feel bad because i left him with his problem but i couldn't stand it anymore, in the end it just didn't make any sense and i was suffering. We didnt talk since the breakup until yesterday in a friendly way, i Know its bad but it felt good to hear from him, i felt weak but we are never getting back together. Also he had mars in cancer and i hated that placement.

Could you, please say why you didn't like that Mars in Cancer...my Virgo has it too, I still try to understand its energy..

I felt it made him passive agressive and coward towards his feelings, he would just avoid sincere genuine confrontation. He would also lie and hide things from me if he thinks it is going to hurt me and he got it all wrong because nothing hurt me more than his lack of sincerity in the end.

He also had this weird need for a girlfriend that kind of plays his mothers role, and i did that with other guys in the past and didnt want to do it anymore.

That being said mars in cancer made him an outstanding sexual partner that put a lot of passion and heat in bed. He LOVED boobs too. I just couldnt work it out with such a sneaky and complicated placement. I have mars in gemini and venus in libra, of all his placements his cancer mars was the one bothering me the most.

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Thanks for the reply. I can relate to most of the things you said, especially for the passive aggresive" part. Yet, I think I (partly) learnt how to deal with the energy, I don't push for things (when I want them) and let them unfold in their own good time. Surprisingly, they achieve a completely different flavour and meaning after some time, and are not as dramatic as I thought them to be. Patience is something I had to learn in order to understand him profoundly. I understand your Mars have completely different energy, so does mine (Leo), so I agree it can be frustrating.

I think, men on the whole, have hard time talking about feelings, it doesn't come naturally to them, or just don't hold important mentioning some things that are important to us. That's why something that might seem passive agressive to us, is just them standing back and whitholding for the sake of avoiding the argument about something that themselves don't consider important. With the Mars in Cancer, that approach is even more emphasized, so it's hard to have a clear and open conversation about feelings with them.

I'm still learning, though, and it's not easy, but I think it's mostly because of different energies, not because someone's at fault..

Once again, thanks for the reply, it's appreciated 🙂

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I was in a relationship with a virgo. There were great aspects and bad ones. Great ones involve intellectual connection, amazing sexual chemistry, space, taking things slow etc. We were very different yet there was something in common. I broke up with him because he has a drug use problem and the relationship became toxic, he would make impulsive decisions while on drugs and regret them and its so tiring. He really hurt my feelings. I feel bad because i left him with his problem but i couldn't stand it anymore, in the end it just didn't make any sense and i was suffering. We didnt talk since the breakup until yesterday in a friendly way, i Know its bad but it felt good to hear from him, i felt weak but we are never getting back together. Also he had mars in cancer and i hated that placement.

Could you, please say why you didn't like that Mars in Cancer...my Virgo has it too, I still try to understand its energy..

I felt it made him passive agressive and coward towards his feelings, he would just avoid sincere genuine confrontation. He would also lie and hide things from me if he thinks it is going to hurt me and he got it all wrong because nothing hurt me more than his lack of sincerity in the end.

He also had this weird need for a girlfriend that kind of plays his mothers role, and i did that with other guys in the past and didnt want to do it anymore.

That being said mars in cancer made him an outstanding sexual partner that put a lot of passion and heat in bed. He LOVED boobs too. I just couldnt work it out with such a sneaky and complicated placement. I have mars in gemini and venus in libra, of all his placements his cancer mars was the one bothering me the most.

Thanks for the reply. I can relate to most of the things you said, especially for the passive aggresive" part. Yet, I think I (partly) learnt how to deal with the energy, I don't push for things (when I want them) and let them unfold in their own good time. Surprisingly, they achieve a completely different flavour and meaning after some time, and are not as dramatic as I thought them to be. Patience is something I had to learn in order to understand him profoundly. I understand your Mars have completely different energy, so does mine (Leo), so I agree it can be frustrating.

I think, men on the whole, have hard time talking about feelings, it doesn't come naturally to them, or just don't hold important mentioning some things that are important to us. That's why something that might seem passive agressive to us, is just them standing back and whitholding for the sake of avoiding the argument about something that themselves don't consider important. With the Mars in Cancer, that approach is even more emphasized, so it's hard to have a clear and open conversation about feelings with them.

I'm still learning, though, and it's not easy, but I think it's mostly because of different energies, not because someone's at fault..

Once again, thanks for the reply, it's appreciated 🙂

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It s great you Know how to deal with it, my impulsive scorpio moon doesnt give me that patient laid back attitude. And you are right sometimes it wasnt that big of a deal but i always tried to have Nice honest communication and he rarely was up for it, and it frustrated me.

Of course it s never anyone's fault, its a lot of different things and sometimes it works other Times it doesnt, thats how we learn in relationships.

You are welcome, feel free to ask anything. I really hope it works out for you guys 🙂 you seem to be in the right setting for it

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Posted by VirgoSquirrel
I was in a relationship with a virgo. There were great aspects and bad ones. Great ones involve intellectual connection, amazing sexual chemistry, space, taking things slow etc. We were very different yet there was something in common. I broke up with him because he has a drug use problem and the relationship became toxic, he would make impulsive decisions while on drugs and regret them and its so tiring. He really hurt my feelings. I feel bad because i left him with his problem but i couldn't stand it anymore, in the end it just didn't make any sense and i was suffering. We didnt talk since the breakup until yesterday in a friendly way, i Know its bad but it felt good to hear from him, i felt weak but we are never getting back together. Also he had mars in cancer and i hated that placement.

Could you, please say why you didn't like that Mars in Cancer...my Virgo has it too, I still try to understand its energy..

I felt it made him passive agressive and coward towards his feelings, he would just avoid sincere genuine confrontation. He would also lie and hide things from me if he thinks it is going to hurt me and he got it all wrong because nothing hurt me more than his lack of sincerity in the end.

He also had this weird need for a girlfriend that kind of plays his mothers role, and i did that with other guys in the past and didnt want to do it anymore.

That being said mars in cancer made him an outstanding sexual partner that put a lot of passion and heat in bed. He LOVED boobs too. I just couldnt work it out with such a sneaky and complicated placement. I have mars in gemini and venus in libra, of all his placements his cancer mars was the one bothering me the most.

Thanks for the reply. I can relate to most of the things you said, especially for the passive aggresive" part. Yet, I think I (partly) learnt how to deal with the energy, I don't push for things (when I want them) and let them unfold in their own good time. Surprisingly, they achieve a completely different flavour and meaning after some time, and are not as dramatic as I thought them to be. Patience is something I had to learn in order to understand him profoundly. I understand your Mars have completely different energy, so does mine (Leo), so I agree it can be frustrating.

I think, men on the whole, have hard time talking about feelings, it doesn't come naturally to them, or just don't hold important mentioning some things that are important to us. That's why something that might seem passive agressive to us, is just them standing back and whitholding for the sake of avoiding the argument about something that themselves don't consider important. With the Mars in Cancer, that approach is even more emphasized, so it's hard to have a clear and open conversation about feelings with them.

I'm still learning, though, and it's not easy, but I think it's mostly because of different energies, not because someone's at fault..

Once again, thanks for the reply, it's appreciated 🙂

It s great you Know how to deal with it, my impulsive scorpio moon doesnt give me that patient laid back attitude. And you are right sometimes it wasnt that big of a deal but i always tried to have Nice honest communication and he rarely was up for it, and it frustrated me.

Of course it s never anyone's fault, its a lot of different things and sometimes it works other Times it doesnt, thats how we learn in relationships.

You are welcome, feel free to ask anything. I really hope it works out for you guys 🙂 you seem to be in the right setting for it

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Thank you for the reply and nice wishes 🙂

I agree, everything requires work and understanding, especially when there are different energies at play. And yes, sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't, I doubt I'd be this understanding and ready to compromise if I were in my 20's. Moon in Scorpio has to dig deep, and it's hard to let go; I get why you found it so frustrating. With my Moon in Pisces, I managed to weather the storm of my Mars in Leo, and we survived. But we are so different, luckily, now it amuses us and we laugh about it, but it wasn't easy to come to where we are now.

Wish you the best in love and in general, I love Virgos, I really think you are beautiful inside out.

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Posted by VirgoSquirrel
I was in a relationship with a virgo. There were great aspects and bad ones. Great ones involve intellectual connection, amazing sexual chemistry, space, taking things slow etc. We were very different yet there was something in common. I broke up with him because he has a drug use problem and the relationship became toxic, he would make impulsive decisions while on drugs and regret them and its so tiring. He really hurt my feelings. I feel bad because i left him with his problem but i couldn't stand it anymore, in the end it just didn't make any sense and i was suffering. We didnt talk since the breakup until yesterday in a friendly way, i Know its bad but it felt good to hear from him, i felt weak but we are never getting back together. Also he had mars in cancer and i hated that placement.

Could you, please say why you didn't like that Mars in Cancer...my Virgo has it too, I still try to understand its energy..

I felt it made him passive agressive and coward towards his feelings, he would just avoid sincere genuine confrontation. He would also lie and hide things from me if he thinks it is going to hurt me and he got it all wrong because nothing hurt me more than his lack of sincerity in the end.

He also had this weird need for a girlfriend that kind of plays his mothers role, and i did that with other guys in the past and didnt want to do it anymore.

That being said mars in cancer made him an outstanding sexual partner that put a lot of passion and heat in bed. He LOVED boobs too. I just couldnt work it out with such a sneaky and complicated placement. I have mars in gemini and venus in libra, of all his placements his cancer mars was the one bothering me the most.

Thanks for the reply. I can relate to most of the things you said, especially for the passive aggresive" part. Yet, I think I (partly) learnt how to deal with the energy, I don't push for things (when I want them) and let them unfold in their own good time. Surprisingly, they achieve a completely different flavour and meaning after some time, and are not as dramatic as I thought them to be. Patience is something I had to learn in order to understand him profoundly. I understand your Mars have completely different energy, so does mine (Leo), so I agree it can be frustrating.

I think, men on the whole, have hard time talking about feelings, it doesn't come naturally to them, or just don't hold important mentioning some things that are important to us. That's why something that might seem passive agressive to us, is just them standing back and whitholding for the sake of avoiding the argument about something that themselves don't consider important. With the Mars in Cancer, that approach is even more emphasized, so it's hard to have a clear and open conversation about feelings with them.

I'm still learning, though, and it's not easy, but I think it's mostly because of different energies, not because someone's at fault..

Once again, thanks for the reply, it's appreciated 🙂

It s great you Know how to deal with it, my impulsive scorpio moon doesnt give me that patient laid back attitude. And you are right sometimes it wasnt that big of a deal but i always tried to have Nice honest communication and he rarely was up for it, and it frustrated me.

Of course it s never anyone's fault, its a lot of different things and sometimes it works other Times it doesnt, thats how we learn in relationships.

You are welcome, feel free to ask anything. I really hope it works out for you guys 🙂 you seem to be in the right setting for it

Thank you for the reply and nice wishes 🙂

I agree, everything requires work and understanding, especially when there are different energies at play. And yes, sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't, I doubt I'd be this understanding and ready to compromise if I were in my 20's. Moon in Scorpio has to dig deep, and it's hard to let go; I get why you found it so frustrating. With my Moon in Pisces, I managed to weather the storm of my Mars in Leo, and we survived. But we are so different, luckily, now it amuses us and we laugh about it, but it wasn't easy to come to where we are now.

Wish you the best in love and in general, I love Virgos, I really think you are beautiful inside out.

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Oh you are so lovely thank you

Run for the hills virgals ! I have been seeing a virgo men ... Well let me tell you something , I understand now why most of the posts in here are about the guys !

The guy I'm seeing has mars in gemini - mercury in leo . we are so similar / opposite . He has a lot of air signs in his chart .. which makes him super flaky , indecisive , and not in touch with his emotions .

Poor him , I used to think that I was not that critically / nagging behavior . But with him ? Everything he was doing or saying was getting on my nerves . He just upsets me so much , I'm trying to learn and be a bit more patient . But overall , he is just not for me at all . Which is a shame cause he's cute . But the personality element is just not working . I don't think it's a good match at all .

He wants to take things slow - I am the type to want to take things slow , but my venus in leo makes me passionate rather fast . He was too slow for me . We have many issues when it comes to communication - he does not understand me or listen to me - I have mercury in virgo .

The indecisevness , the fact that he seems so ignorant , lack of communication . Aloof or laid back attitude gets on my nerves .

This is the first time I dated a guy that I really don't like at all - I just want to punch him in the face ^^. But sexually , he is been the most considerate and attentive to what I like and don't like . But that ends here . So fwb possibly , but not for a relationship .

I think we need a sign that challenges us but that is willing to listen and can show emotions . We as virg female can be quite reserved and don't share that much our feelings so I can't deal with someone that does not show his . we are going right into the wall

My personal experience is Virgo + Virgo make a best friend type of relationship. We both can get stubborn at time but somehow we would take turn giving in and being lenient , especially if we know we are in the wrong. We're also honest and open. we were able to discuss things logically so communication was good.

In my experience it's a good relationship but it does lack a little fire. I also think it works better when the virgo guy like the girl just a tad more than she likes him. As an earth sign typically do well with other earth sign.

Virgo + Virgo = calm

Virgo + taurus = virgo overlook the stubbornness of taurus and it would work

Virgo + Cap = Virgo will find cap too attention seeking. Every single Caps i know cares a lot about what people think of them, they are people lovers though. The most social and friendly out of earth signs