Virgo Man Pulls Away Advice?!?!

I've been dating this virgo guy over 7 months and we've recently "stopped talking". When I met him he was a full time college student with no job. I told him in the beginning I didn't mind helping out with dates and such. The more we talked the more he opened up about his struggles. I began helping him financially with things like gas, we would go eat. We talk every single day all day. In between his classes he would call me while i get ready for work. Our daily routine then was down packed and we worked around each others to talk and text. He is a Virgo. I've noticed that when we get into any argument he has a habit of "blocking" me and where over. I have to chase after him and remind him these fights aren't worth us losing one another. When were good, were good. But when we have an argument his first thing is blocking me. Im in love with him and I care for him a lot. He treats me so well. He gives me all the affection I could ever ask for and more. He cares about my day. Hell do everything to change the frown on my face. He recently went out of town and I seen some things I didnt like on social media. Our fights have been more frequent alot of them over money and misunderstandings. He walked away over this past weekend and now I cant get ahold of him. Ive tried texting and calling. But hes acting as if he doesnt care. Now I wonder if he ever cared about me. It feels like he can just walk away so easy. Im not sure if I should give him time. If hes analyzing. If hes really done. We've been through this before, but this fight was pretty bad. help

Tisk tisk tisk sound entirely too familiar?.....

I am currently dating (and some days not dating) a Virgo as well and yup sounds just like my confused ass Virguy?? Yes in the beginning he was everything yours was. Attentive, caring, loving, supportive blah blah blah. Now he is a hot ass mess with major insecurities, easily gives up and vanishes when we argue, the little devil ?. He comes back though❤ after I've sent 50 texts and he had read and re-read all of them and put it in perspective lol. Then he'll come back and say his point, but don't expect a apology. Most Virgos rarely apologize, because they think they're never wrong. I helped my Virguy out early in the relationship as well.... Actually this helps you have ground with him and he'll always have that in the back of his mind. Does he care? Yup☺... Probably. Does he have a shitty way of showing it?? Yup☺.... Like most of them do. My Virguy feels the world is picking on him? lol as a Leo this irritates my soul. He is a pessimist and I'm an optimist and boy there is a difference. If you want to stay just know...... This is what life is like with one. Up to you whether you can take it or not. Me and my Virguy break up every other week lol he comes back or I do...... But it is rather exhausting.—?

I'm sorry but if you're the one having to actively pull him back.. to me, that's a game. Let that man walk away, that's exhausting and it becomes a game.

I have zero problems fighting for what I want, that shit isn't cute though. It shouldn't be one sided like that. It's sounds like this relationship is out of balance.

I was talking to another Virgo guy and he wasn't like that. He was consistent and the one I'm talking to now is consistent and he leads. If he is anything like my Libra gfs ex, he never changed. He never held a stable job down, he didn't really do anything and she stayed for like 12yrs. Ultimately, she was miserable..

Just reading this makes me tired for you. Remind yourself you're loveable and worthy of someone fighting for you too.

One problem Virgo men have in relationships is that once the woman decides that she's "in love with him", as you have stated ... then her treatment of him changes, in where she suddenly has expectations in that he is suppose to perform in accordance with her being in love with him.

Virgos will bail at this point. As I think all men should.

Just because you are in love with a man doesn't mean he is now suppose to act differently with you ... and that's exactly what you expect of him.

BEFORE you changed the emotional parameters of the relation, everything was going well. He's the same person he was before. But, now that YOU'VE changed emotionally, all of those things you liked about him, now piss you off .... and that's because your expectations of him changed.



That's not his bad. A Virgo isn't going to play that game. He keeps walking away because he realizes that you are trying to make him do more than he is inclined to do.



You might was well let him go, for he will disappear on you permanently soon enough. so, you might as well end now while you still have fond memories of him and you together.



Or, you could do as all the other dummies do and hang on to a bitter end, so that you can rejoice in crying about how your time together was wasted and misery.



After all, girls love that shit, don't they? They literally can't wait to moan and groan about how miserable they were in a past relationship and will make thread after thread about it, to get as many people to share in the company of her misery with her.



I suggest the first route ... step away now while you still have fond memories.