gicangican
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Virgo man said he likes me but then disappeared
A little addition:
I'm 70% sure he was crying that night because he sounded like he was hiding his sobs and he continuously wiped his face. I pretended to sleep, didn't dare to move or see what's wrong with him, although I was very worried. I went to the toilet then, and when I came back, he used to pillow to hide his face. I couldn't see his eyes. That's when I kissed his cheek, to let him know that he's not alone and that I cared. He hugged me after that and we slept.
We had a great chemistry. Both of us couldn't deny it. It was intense and the sex was also very emotional. I don't know what went wrong. He clearly showed signs that he wanted something serious with me. He even deleted dating apps from his phone after the first date. I immediately fell for him because I'm a serious person myself and I found his seriousness appealing because for once, I met a man who doesn't play games. He doesn't seem like a person who'd into casual sex or dating. He's not indecent either. In fact, he's kind and very serving.
What do you think happened? I want to at least hear from him what happened but he won't reciprocate my messages and he doesn't seem like an indecent person too. Should I just forget it without having a closure or should I wait until he wants to talk?
I'm 70% sure he was crying that night because he sounded like he was hiding his sobs and he continuously wiped his face. I pretended to sleep, didn't dare to move or see what's wrong with him, although I was very worried. I went to the toilet then, and when I came back, he used to pillow to hide his face. I couldn't see his eyes. That's when I kissed his cheek, to let him know that he's not alone and that I cared. He hugged me after that and we slept.
We had a great chemistry. Both of us couldn't deny it. It was intense and the sex was also very emotional. I don't know what went wrong. He clearly showed signs that he wanted something serious with me. He even deleted dating apps from his phone after the first date. I immediately fell for him because I'm a serious person myself and I found his seriousness appealing because for once, I met a man who doesn't play games. He doesn't seem like a person who'd into casual sex or dating. He's not indecent either. In fact, he's kind and very serving.
What do you think happened? I want to at least hear from him what happened but he won't reciprocate my messages and he doesn't seem like an indecent person too. Should I just forget it without having a closure or should I wait until he wants to talk?
I was with one for years
He is very hermetic
He is very hermetic
Posted by TomSawyerI detect just the tiniest iota of sarcasm.
Soon you'll get alot of good advise from Virgo females who know men "real good".
Perhaps a few pisces chicks will leave a reply, some scorpios etc.
Don't worry, these females Really know what they're talking about.
You'll get your head so mixed with the legit advise that it'll make you do some smart moves regarding this dude and in about a week/month you'll be back here with " My Virgo and I are Happy", instead of the usual "WHY DID MY VIRGO MAN LEAVE ME??"
Women are the best ones to ask advice from when it comes to men.
Let the good times roll👌
It's gonna work out, don't worry about it.
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