VenusInScorp
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Virgo Man & Virgo Woman -- How Should I Proceed?
Hi All,
Met him on a recent international group trip. My first impression was he was kind, gentle, reserved, aloof and appeared quite shy. There were also moments when he seemed arrogant, dismissive and curt with me but, I decided not to personalize it. I guess after warming up to me a bit he began doing things like asking me the same question over and over again, and one day he tried to inquire about my preference in men. Still and all, he barely talked to me until the end of the trip when he invited me to sit with him on the night of our last group dinner. I was so shocked and flustered that I almost tripped over my own feet as I said "no thanks" and simultaneously scurried away to another table with my friends. Later before dinner was over, he approached my table and made it known he wanted to keep in touch when we returned to the states. My mouth fell open. When we returned home, he sent me a FB friend request and then he started copying alot of the things that I would do as it related to places that I would visit, ideas and thoughts about general life topics, etc., but all the while he still remained slightly distant...
Well, I eventually blocked him from FB because he never actually talked to me and intuitively I felt he was low key assessing me and my life to see what I was all about. Needless to say, a few days later, he emailed me to invite me to his annual X-mas party. At the time that he invited me to the function I had to decline due to a previous engagement, and he ended the invite with the sentiments of hoping to see me again. Again, I was shocked.
Just last week we were in contact again regarding a project (he never asked about me blocking him on FB, btw) via email and his replies kept coming in less than five minutes after mine and he kept insisting that we talk via phone (we are setting up an event) and he asked me over and over again -- "when can you talk?" "What about Monday?" "Does Monday work for you?" "I can even talk Tuesday if Monday doesn't work?" A few months ago when we last talked over the phone he seemed annoyed that I was in a noisy place (as he mumbled, "oh, you're in a crowded environment") and I felt in my gut that he was stalling because he wanted to say something else at the end of the conversation but didn't feel comfortable because of all of the distraction around me.
I think he is a great guy as he's successful, handsome, stable, well cultured and traveled, intelligent, kind, fun, interesting. At first he was nowhere on my radar but my thoughts about him have changed a bit since I first met him but I want to be sure I'm not off the mark here?
If something is there I will continue to just go slow with him so that I can find out his character fully for myself. When he kept asking me last week if we could talk, I told him we could talk after the weekend. I don't want to go too fast with anything as I want to be sure of his true intentions?
Do you think I should continue talking with him? If the project goes through, it will entail taking another trip together but I'm not sure.
Met him on a recent international group trip. My first impression was he was kind, gentle, reserved, aloof and appeared quite shy. There were also moments when he seemed arrogant, dismissive and curt with me but, I decided not to personalize it. I guess after warming up to me a bit he began doing things like asking me the same question over and over again, and one day he tried to inquire about my preference in men. Still and all, he barely talked to me until the end of the trip when he invited me to sit with him on the night of our last group dinner. I was so shocked and flustered that I almost tripped over my own feet as I said "no thanks" and simultaneously scurried away to another table with my friends. Later before dinner was over, he approached my table and made it known he wanted to keep in touch when we returned to the states. My mouth fell open. When we returned home, he sent me a FB friend request and then he started copying alot of the things that I would do as it related to places that I would visit, ideas and thoughts about general life topics, etc., but all the while he still remained slightly distant...
Well, I eventually blocked him from FB because he never actually talked to me and intuitively I felt he was low key assessing me and my life to see what I was all about. Needless to say, a few days later, he emailed me to invite me to his annual X-mas party. At the time that he invited me to the function I had to decline due to a previous engagement, and he ended the invite with the sentiments of hoping to see me again. Again, I was shocked.
Just last week we were in contact again regarding a project (he never asked about me blocking him on FB, btw) via email and his replies kept coming in less than five minutes after mine and he kept insisting that we talk via phone (we are setting up an event) and he asked me over and over again -- "when can you talk?" "What about Monday?" "Does Monday work for you?" "I can even talk Tuesday if Monday doesn't work?" A few months ago when we last talked over the phone he seemed annoyed that I was in a noisy place (as he mumbled, "oh, you're in a crowded environment") and I felt in my gut that he was stalling because he wanted to say something else at the end of the conversation but didn't feel comfortable because of all of the distraction around me.
I think he is a great guy as he's successful, handsome, stable, well cultured and traveled, intelligent, kind, fun, interesting. At first he was nowhere on my radar but my thoughts about him have changed a bit since I first met him but I want to be sure I'm not off the mark here?
If something is there I will continue to just go slow with him so that I can find out his character fully for myself. When he kept asking me last week if we could talk, I told him we could talk after the weekend. I don't want to go too fast with anything as I want to be sure of his true intentions?
Do you think I should continue talking with him? If the project goes through, it will entail taking another trip together but I'm not sure.
Any insight? Thanks!
What exactly is concerning you? He seems interested.
Posted by WildatHeart
What exactly is concerning you? He seems interested.
Hi, WildatHeart,
The concern is I'm not sure if he's really into me.
Posted by ufoHeard it's awesome when it works.
i've always wondered about this pairing
Posted by sierra_Does it really seem like I've rejected him at every turn?Posted by VenusInScorpyou reject him at every turn
Hi All,
Met him on a recent international group trip. My first impression was he was kind, gentle, reserved, aloof and appeared quite shy. There were also moments when he seemed arrogant, dismissive and curt with me but, I decided not to personalize it. I guess after warming up to me a bit he began doing things like asking me the same question over and over again, and one day he tried to inquire about my preference in men. Still and all, he barely talked to me until the end of the trip when he invited me to sit with him on the night of our last group dinner. I was so shocked and flustered that I almost tripped over my own feet as I said "no thanks" and simultaneously scurried away to another table with my friends. Later before dinner was over, he approached my table and made it known he wanted to keep in touch when we returned to the states. My mouth fell open. When we returned home, he sent me a FB friend request and then he started copying alot of the things that I would do as it related to places that I would visit, ideas and thoughts about general life topics, etc., but all the while he still remained slightly distant...
Well, I eventually blocked him from FB because he never actually talked to me and intuitively I felt he was low key assessing me and my life to see what I was all about. Needless to say, a few days later, he emailed me to invite me to his annual X-mas party. At the time that he invited me to the function I had to decline due to a previous engagement, and he ended the invite with the sentiments of hoping to see me again. Again, I was shocked.
Just last week we were in contact again regarding a project (he never asked about me blocking him on FB, btw) via email and his replies kept coming in less than five minutes after mine and he kept insisting that we talk via phone (we are setting up an event) and he asked me over and over again -- "when can you talk?" "What about Monday?" "Does Monday work for you?" "I can even talk Tuesday if Monday doesn't work?" A few months ago when we last talked over the phone he seemed annoyed that I was in a noisy place (as he mumbled, "oh, you're in a crowded environment") and I felt in my gut that he was stalling because he wanted to say something else at the end of the conversation but didn't feel comfortable because of all of the distraction around me.
I think he is a great guy as he's successful, handsome, stable, well cultured and traveled, intelligent, kind, fun, interesting. At first he was nowhere on my radar but my thoughts about him have changed a bit since I first met him but I want to be sure I'm not off the mark here?
If something is there I will continue to just go slow with him so that I can find out his character fully for myself. When he kept asking me last week if we could talk, I told him we could talk after the weekend. I don't want to go too fast with anything as I want to be sure of his true intentions?
Do you think I should continue talking with him? If the project goes through, it will entail taking another trip together but I'm not sure.
yet you describe him like he's perfect
why did you block him?click to expand
I blocked him because he didn't talk to me, but was copying everything thing I did (what I would post, places I would go...)
Posted by TurquoiseArrowHi TurquoiseArrow,Posted by VenusInScorpYour standing on a very thin layer of ice and it is going to break real fast.
Hi All,
Met him on a recent international group trip. My first impression was he was kind, gentle, reserved, aloof and appeared quite shy. There were also moments when he seemed arrogant, dismissive and curt with me but, I decided not to personalize it. I guess after warming up to me a bit he began doing things like asking me the same question over and over again, and one day he tried to inquire about my preference in men. Still and all, he barely talked to me until the end of the trip when he invited me to sit with him on the night of our last group dinner. I was so shocked and flustered that I almost tripped over my own feet as I said "no thanks" and simultaneously scurried away to another table with my friends. Later before dinner was over, he approached my table and made it known he wanted to keep in touch when we returned to the states. My mouth fell open. When we returned home, he sent me a FB friend request and then he started copying alot of the things that I would do as it related to places that I would visit, ideas and thoughts about general life topics, etc., but all the while he still remained slightly distant...
Well, I eventually blocked him from FB because he never actually talked to me and intuitively I felt he was low key assessing me and my life to see what I was all about. Needless to say, a few days later, he emailed me to invite me to his annual X-mas party. At the time that he invited me to the function I had to decline due to a previous engagement, and he ended the invite with the sentiments of hoping to see me again. Again, I was shocked.
Just last week we were in contact again regarding a project (he never asked about me blocking him on FB, btw) via email and his replies kept coming in less than five minutes after mine and he kept insisting that we talk via phone (we are setting up an event) and he asked me over and over again -- "when can you talk?" "What about Monday?" "Does Monday work for you?" "I can even talk Tuesday if Monday doesn't work?" A few months ago when we last talked over the phone he seemed annoyed that I was in a noisy place (as he mumbled, "oh, you're in a crowded environment") and I felt in my gut that he was stalling because he wanted to say something else at the end of the conversation but didn't feel comfortable because of all of the distraction around me.
I think he is a great guy as he's successful, handsome, stable, well cultured and traveled, intelligent, kind, fun, interesting. At first he was nowhere on my radar but my thoughts about him have changed a bit since I first met him but I want to be sure I'm not off the mark here?
If something is there I will continue to just go slow with him so that I can find out his character fully for myself. When he kept asking me last week if we could talk, I told him we could talk after the weekend. I don't want to go too fast with anything as I want to be sure of his true intentions?
Do you think I should continue talking with him? If the project goes through, it will entail taking another trip together but I'm not sure.
It's not going any where to far as a relationship. You have given to many excuses and they have zero substance to them.
click to expand
What do you mean by thin ice that's going to break? Asking honestly because I'm not sure I'm following. Do you mean I'm going to miss my chance?
Seems like you would be further along by now if you got out of your own way. Js.
Posted by LadyNeptunePerhaps.
Seems like you would be further along by now if you got out of your own way. Js.
Posted by sierra_bro..Posted by VenusInScorpyou reject him at every turn
Hi All,
Met him on a recent international group trip. My first impression was he was kind, gentle, reserved, aloof and appeared quite shy. There were also moments when he seemed arrogant, dismissive and curt with me but, I decided not to personalize it. I guess after warming up to me a bit he began doing things like asking me the same question over and over again, and one day he tried to inquire about my preference in men. Still and all, he barely talked to me until the end of the trip when he invited me to sit with him on the night of our last group dinner. I was so shocked and flustered that I almost tripped over my own feet as I said "no thanks" and simultaneously scurried away to another table with my friends. Later before dinner was over, he approached my table and made it known he wanted to keep in touch when we returned to the states. My mouth fell open. When we returned home, he sent me a FB friend request and then he started copying alot of the things that I would do as it related to places that I would visit, ideas and thoughts about general life topics, etc., but all the while he still remained slightly distant...
Well, I eventually blocked him from FB because he never actually talked to me and intuitively I felt he was low key assessing me and my life to see what I was all about. Needless to say, a few days later, he emailed me to invite me to his annual X-mas party. At the time that he invited me to the function I had to decline due to a previous engagement, and he ended the invite with the sentiments of hoping to see me again. Again, I was shocked.
Just last week we were in contact again regarding a project (he never asked about me blocking him on FB, btw) via email and his replies kept coming in less than five minutes after mine and he kept insisting that we talk via phone (we are setting up an event) and he asked me over and over again -- "when can you talk?" "What about Monday?" "Does Monday work for you?" "I can even talk Tuesday if Monday doesn't work?" A few months ago when we last talked over the phone he seemed annoyed that I was in a noisy place (as he mumbled, "oh, you're in a crowded environment") and I felt in my gut that he was stalling because he wanted to say something else at the end of the conversation but didn't feel comfortable because of all of the distraction around me.
I think he is a great guy as he's successful, handsome, stable, well cultured and traveled, intelligent, kind, fun, interesting. At first he was nowhere on my radar but my thoughts about him have changed a bit since I first met him but I want to be sure I'm not off the mark here?
If something is there I will continue to just go slow with him so that I can find out his character fully for myself. When he kept asking me last week if we could talk, I told him we could talk after the weekend. I don't want to go too fast with anything as I want to be sure of his true intentions?
Do you think I should continue talking with him? If the project goes through, it will entail taking another trip together but I'm not sure.
yet you describe him like he's perfect
why did you block him?click to expand
she has vis that makes her crazy
Posted by TurquoiseArrow
... and virgos usually don't stalk peeps.
Posted by startwarslol, at first I was thinking "now what the hell is vis?" I get it.Posted by sierra_bro..Posted by VenusInScorpyou reject him at every turn
Hi All,
Met him on a recent international group trip. My first impression was he was kind, gentle, reserved, aloof and appeared quite shy. There were also moments when he seemed arrogant, dismissive and curt with me but, I decided not to personalize it. I guess after warming up to me a bit he began doing things like asking me the same question over and over again, and one day he tried to inquire about my preference in men. Still and all, he barely talked to me until the end of the trip when he invited me to sit with him on the night of our last group dinner. I was so shocked and flustered that I almost tripped over my own feet as I said "no thanks" and simultaneously scurried away to another table with my friends. Later before dinner was over, he approached my table and made it known he wanted to keep in touch when we returned to the states. My mouth fell open. When we returned home, he sent me a FB friend request and then he started copying alot of the things that I would do as it related to places that I would visit, ideas and thoughts about general life topics, etc., but all the while he still remained slightly distant...
Well, I eventually blocked him from FB because he never actually talked to me and intuitively I felt he was low key assessing me and my life to see what I was all about. Needless to say, a few days later, he emailed me to invite me to his annual X-mas party. At the time that he invited me to the function I had to decline due to a previous engagement, and he ended the invite with the sentiments of hoping to see me again. Again, I was shocked.
Just last week we were in contact again regarding a project (he never asked about me blocking him on FB, btw) via email and his replies kept coming in less than five minutes after mine and he kept insisting that we talk via phone (we are setting up an event) and he asked me over and over again -- "when can you talk?" "What about Monday?" "Does Monday work for you?" "I can even talk Tuesday if Monday doesn't work?" A few months ago when we last talked over the phone he seemed annoyed that I was in a noisy place (as he mumbled, "oh, you're in a crowded environment") and I felt in my gut that he was stalling because he wanted to say something else at the end of the conversation but didn't feel comfortable because of all of the distraction around me.
I think he is a great guy as he's successful, handsome, stable, well cultured and traveled, intelligent, kind, fun, interesting. At first he was nowhere on my radar but my thoughts about him have changed a bit since I first met him but I want to be sure I'm not off the mark here?
If something is there I will continue to just go slow with him so that I can find out his character fully for myself. When he kept asking me last week if we could talk, I told him we could talk after the weekend. I don't want to go too fast with anything as I want to be sure of his true intentions?
Do you think I should continue talking with him? If the project goes through, it will entail taking another trip together but I'm not sure.
yet you describe him like he's perfect
why did you block him?
she has vis that makes her crazyclick to expand
I know! It's a bitch.
Posted by TurquoiseArrowThank you, Turquoise.Posted by VenusInScorpYES .. CIPosted by TurquoiseArrowHi TurquoiseArrow,Posted by VenusInScorpYour standing on a very thin layer of ice and it is going to break real fast.
Hi All,
Met him on a recent international group trip. My first impression was he was kind, gentle, reserved, aloof and appeared quite shy. There were also moments when he seemed arrogant, dismissive and curt with me but, I decided not to personalize it. I guess after warming up to me a bit he began doing things like asking me the same question over and over again, and one day he tried to inquire about my preference in men. Still and all, he barely talked to me until the end of the trip when he invited me to sit with him on the night of our last group dinner. I was so shocked and flustered that I almost tripped over my own feet as I said "no thanks" and simultaneously scurried away to another table with my friends. Later before dinner was over, he approached my table and made it known he wanted to keep in touch when we returned to the states. My mouth fell open. When we returned home, he sent me a FB friend request and then he started copying alot of the things that I would do as it related to places that I would visit, ideas and thoughts about general life topics, etc., but all the while he still remained slightly distant...
Well, I eventually blocked him from FB because he never actually talked to me and intuitively I felt he was low key assessing me and my life to see what I was all about. Needless to say, a few days later, he emailed me to invite me to his annual X-mas party. At the time that he invited me to the function I had to decline due to a previous engagement, and he ended the invite with the sentiments of hoping to see me again. Again, I was shocked.
Just last week we were in contact again regarding a project (he never asked about me blocking him on FB, btw) via email and his replies kept coming in less than five minutes after mine and he kept insisting that we talk via phone (we are setting up an event) and he asked me over and over again -- "when can you talk?" "What about Monday?" "Does Monday work for you?" "I can even talk Tuesday if Monday doesn't work?" A few months ago when we last talked over the phone he seemed annoyed that I was in a noisy place (as he mumbled, "oh, you're in a crowded environment") and I felt in my gut that he was stalling because he wanted to say something else at the end of the conversation but didn't feel comfortable because of all of the distraction around me.
I think he is a great guy as he's successful, handsome, stable, well cultured and traveled, intelligent, kind, fun, interesting. At first he was nowhere on my radar but my thoughts about him have changed a bit since I first met him but I want to be sure I'm not off the mark here?
If something is there I will continue to just go slow with him so that I can find out his character fully for myself. When he kept asking me last week if we could talk, I told him we could talk after the weekend. I don't want to go too fast with anything as I want to be sure of his true intentions?
Do you think I should continue talking with him? If the project goes through, it will entail taking another trip together but I'm not sure.
It's not going any where to far as a relationship. You have given to many excuses and they have zero substance to them.
What do you mean by thin ice that's going to break? Asking honestly because I'm not sure I'm following. Do you mean I'm going to miss my chance?
If you go ice skating on a pond and you go where the ice is to thin, you will fall through into the cold water.
Their is not a lot of those very cultured virgo guys in the world ... Some can speak in native tongue of three languages or more and they did not learn it in school. You should grab him up today.
Forget about knowing his true intentions. You will never know them. Just know it's you.
He may tell you 'Andas en mi Cabeza', le Reina ... ?click to expand
I just need to be brave right now.
whats the virguy placements?
Well, I posted his and mine. I tried posting the actual charts but don't think you can do this on this website?
Him:
Sun - Vir
Moon - Scor
Mercury - Vir
Venus - Leo
Mars - Leo
Jupiter - Leo
Saturn - Sco
Uranus - Can
Neptune - Lib
Pluto - Leo
True Node - Sag
Chiron - Aqu
Asc - Sco
Me:
Sun - Vir
Moon - Cap
Mercury - Vir
Venus - Sco
Mars - Lib
Jupiter - Leo
Saturn - Vir
Uranus - Sco
Neptune - Sag
Pluto - Lib
True node - Vir
Chiron - Tau
Asc - Aries
Him:
Sun - Vir
Moon - Scor
Mercury - Vir
Venus - Leo
Mars - Leo
Jupiter - Leo
Saturn - Sco
Uranus - Can
Neptune - Lib
Pluto - Leo
True Node - Sag
Chiron - Aqu
Asc - Sco
Me:
Sun - Vir
Moon - Cap
Mercury - Vir
Venus - Sco
Mars - Lib
Jupiter - Leo
Saturn - Vir
Uranus - Sco
Neptune - Sag
Pluto - Lib
True node - Vir
Chiron - Tau
Asc - Aries
Posted by TurquoiseArrowOne more thing: Why should I forget about knowing his true intentions? Isn't that the most important thing?Posted by VenusInScorpYES .. CIPosted by TurquoiseArrowHi TurquoiseArrow,Posted by VenusInScorpYour standing on a very thin layer of ice and it is going to break real fast.
Hi All,
Met him on a recent international group trip. My first impression was he was kind, gentle, reserved, aloof and appeared quite shy. There were also moments when he seemed arrogant, dismissive and curt with me but, I decided not to personalize it. I guess after warming up to me a bit he began doing things like asking me the same question over and over again, and one day he tried to inquire about my preference in men. Still and all, he barely talked to me until the end of the trip when he invited me to sit with him on the night of our last group dinner. I was so shocked and flustered that I almost tripped over my own feet as I said "no thanks" and simultaneously scurried away to another table with my friends. Later before dinner was over, he approached my table and made it known he wanted to keep in touch when we returned to the states. My mouth fell open. When we returned home, he sent me a FB friend request and then he started copying alot of the things that I would do as it related to places that I would visit, ideas and thoughts about general life topics, etc., but all the while he still remained slightly distant...
Well, I eventually blocked him from FB because he never actually talked to me and intuitively I felt he was low key assessing me and my life to see what I was all about. Needless to say, a few days later, he emailed me to invite me to his annual X-mas party. At the time that he invited me to the function I had to decline due to a previous engagement, and he ended the invite with the sentiments of hoping to see me again. Again, I was shocked.
Just last week we were in contact again regarding a project (he never asked about me blocking him on FB, btw) via email and his replies kept coming in less than five minutes after mine and he kept insisting that we talk via phone (we are setting up an event) and he asked me over and over again -- "when can you talk?" "What about Monday?" "Does Monday work for you?" "I can even talk Tuesday if Monday doesn't work?" A few months ago when we last talked over the phone he seemed annoyed that I was in a noisy place (as he mumbled, "oh, you're in a crowded environment") and I felt in my gut that he was stalling because he wanted to say something else at the end of the conversation but didn't feel comfortable because of all of the distraction around me.
I think he is a great guy as he's successful, handsome, stable, well cultured and traveled, intelligent, kind, fun, interesting. At first he was nowhere on my radar but my thoughts about him have changed a bit since I first met him but I want to be sure I'm not off the mark here?
If something is there I will continue to just go slow with him so that I can find out his character fully for myself. When he kept asking me last week if we could talk, I told him we could talk after the weekend. I don't want to go too fast with anything as I want to be sure of his true intentions?
Do you think I should continue talking with him? If the project goes through, it will entail taking another trip together but I'm not sure.
It's not going any where to far as a relationship. You have given to many excuses and they have zero substance to them.
What do you mean by thin ice that's going to break? Asking honestly because I'm not sure I'm following. Do you mean I'm going to miss my chance?
If you go ice skating on a pond and you go where the ice is to thin, you will fall through into the cold water.
Their is not a lot of those very cultured virgo guys in the world ... Some can speak in native tongue of three languages or more and they did not learn it in school. You should grab him up today.
Forget about knowing his true intentions. You will never know them. Just know it's you.
He may tell you 'Andas en mi Cabeza', le Reina ... ?click to expand
Posted by TurquoiseArrowThank you for the insight, Turquoise.Posted by VenusInScorpScorpio Moon and NN in Sag SN in Gemini . . . Intentions from him come with your trust. Right now as it is there is not much of that showing on your part to him and he is considering others but the door is open to you. Be a believer that others are in line waiting and he has others on his mind. You should consider that if he said the door was open always, then it is open for you.Posted by TurquoiseArrowOne more thing: Why should I forget about knowing his true intentions? Isn't that the most important thing?Posted by VenusInScorpYES .. CIPosted by TurquoiseArrowHi TurquoiseArrow,Posted by VenusInScorpYour standing on a very thin layer of ice and it is going to break real fast.
Hi All,
Met him on a recent international group trip. My first impression was he was kind, gentle, reserved, aloof and appeared quite shy. There were also moments when he seemed arrogant, dismissive and curt with me but, I decided not to personalize it. I guess after warming up to me a bit he began doing things like asking me the same question over and over again, and one day he tried to inquire about my preference in men. Still and all, he barely talked to me until the end of the trip when he invited me to sit with him on the night of our last group dinner. I was so shocked and flustered that I almost tripped over my own feet as I said "no thanks" and simultaneously scurried away to another table with my friends. Later before dinner was over, he approached my table and made it known he wanted to keep in touch when we returned to the states. My mouth fell open. When we returned home, he sent me a FB friend request and then he started copying alot of the things that I would do as it related to places that I would visit, ideas and thoughts about general life topics, etc., but all the while he still remained slightly distant...
Well, I eventually blocked him from FB because he never actually talked to me and intuitively I felt he was low key assessing me and my life to see what I was all about. Needless to say, a few days later, he emailed me to invite me to his annual X-mas party. At the time that he invited me to the function I had to decline due to a previous engagement, and he ended the invite with the sentiments of hoping to see me again. Again, I was shocked.
Just last week we were in contact again regarding a project (he never asked about me blocking him on FB, btw) via email and his replies kept coming in less than five minutes after mine and he kept insisting that we talk via phone (we are setting up an event) and he asked me over and over again -- "when can you talk?" "What about Monday?" "Does Monday work for you?" "I can even talk Tuesday if Monday doesn't work?" A few months ago when we last talked over the phone he seemed annoyed that I was in a noisy place (as he mumbled, "oh, you're in a crowded environment") and I felt in my gut that he was stalling because he wanted to say something else at the end of the conversation but didn't feel comfortable because of all of the distraction around me.
I think he is a great guy as he's successful, handsome, stable, well cultured and traveled, intelligent, kind, fun, interesting. At first he was nowhere on my radar but my thoughts about him have changed a bit since I first met him but I want to be sure I'm not off the mark here?
If something is there I will continue to just go slow with him so that I can find out his character fully for myself. When he kept asking me last week if we could talk, I told him we could talk after the weekend. I don't want to go too fast with anything as I want to be sure of his true intentions?
Do you think I should continue talking with him? If the project goes through, it will entail taking another trip together but I'm not sure.
It's not going any where to far as a relationship. You have given to many excuses and they have zero substance to them.
What do you mean by thin ice that's going to break? Asking honestly because I'm not sure I'm following. Do you mean I'm going to miss my chance?
If you go ice skating on a pond and you go where the ice is to thin, you will fall through into the cold water.
Their is not a lot of those very cultured virgo guys in the world ... Some can speak in native tongue of three languages or more and they did not learn it in school. You should grab him up today.
Forget about knowing his true intentions. You will never know them. Just know it's you.
He may tell you 'Andas en mi Cabeza', le Reina ... ?
Their is a huge age gap between both of you or either you did the charts wrong. His pluto is in leo and yours is in libra?
To me it looks like a Cap or a Sag checking out a Virgo guy.click to expand
Yes, the charts are done right and you are correct as there is an age gap. I don't mind as I prefer older men and he is a treasure, and has a young spirit.
As for the trust, are you saying that he just needs me to trust him? If I trust him he will be good/loyal to me? Sorry, just need clarity because again, not sure I am following.
The door is open to me? As in he prefers me? Does he want me over the others? He is great catch so I am in no way blind to the fact that there are others in waiting. Kinda scares me, honestly.
Posted by TurquoiseArrowThank you. You are so helpful. I really appreciate it.Posted by VenusInScorpYea trust him for now.Posted by TurquoiseArrowThank you for the insight, Turquoise.Posted by VenusInScorpScorpio Moon and NN in Sag SN in Gemini . . . Intentions from him come with your trust. Right now as it is there is not much of that showing on your part to him and he is considering others but the door is open to you. Be a believer that others are in line waiting and he has others on his mind. You should consider that if he said the door was open always, then it is open for you.Posted by TurquoiseArrowOne more thing: Why should I forget about knowing his true intentions? Isn't that the most important thing?Posted by VenusInScorpYES .. CIPosted by TurquoiseArrowHi TurquoiseArrow,Posted by VenusInScorpYour standing on a very thin layer of ice and it is going to break real fast.
Hi All,
Met him on a recent international group trip. My first impression was he was kind, gentle, reserved, aloof and appeared quite shy. There were also moments when he seemed arrogant, dismissive and curt with me but, I decided not to personalize it. I guess after warming up to me a bit he began doing things like asking me the same question over and over again, and one day he tried to inquire about my preference in men. Still and all, he barely talked to me until the end of the trip when he invited me to sit with him on the night of our last group dinner. I was so shocked and flustered that I almost tripped over my own feet as I said "no thanks" and simultaneously scurried away to another table with my friends. Later before dinner was over, he approached my table and made it known he wanted to keep in touch when we returned to the states. My mouth fell open. When we returned home, he sent me a FB friend request and then he started copying alot of the things that I would do as it related to places that I would visit, ideas and thoughts about general life topics, etc., but all the while he still remained slightly distant...
Well, I eventually blocked him from FB because he never actually talked to me and intuitively I felt he was low key assessing me and my life to see what I was all about. Needless to say, a few days later, he emailed me to invite me to his annual X-mas party. At the time that he invited me to the function I had to decline due to a previous engagement, and he ended the invite with the sentiments of hoping to see me again. Again, I was shocked.
Just last week we were in contact again regarding a project (he never asked about me blocking him on FB, btw) via email and his replies kept coming in less than five minutes after mine and he kept insisting that we talk via phone (we are setting up an event) and he asked me over and over again -- "when can you talk?" "What about Monday?" "Does Monday work for you?" "I can even talk Tuesday if Monday doesn't work?" A few months ago when we last talked over the phone he seemed annoyed that I was in a noisy place (as he mumbled, "oh, you're in a crowded environment") and I felt in my gut that he was stalling because he wanted to say something else at the end of the conversation but didn't feel comfortable because of all of the distraction around me.
I think he is a great guy as he's successful, handsome, stable, well cultured and traveled, intelligent, kind, fun, interesting. At first he was nowhere on my radar but my thoughts about him have changed a bit since I first met him but I want to be sure I'm not off the mark here?
If something is there I will continue to just go slow with him so that I can find out his character fully for myself. When he kept asking me last week if we could talk, I told him we could talk after the weekend. I don't want to go too fast with anything as I want to be sure of his true intentions?
Do you think I should continue talking with him? If the project goes through, it will entail taking another trip together but I'm not sure.
It's not going any where to far as a relationship. You have given to many excuses and they have zero substance to them.
What do you mean by thin ice that's going to break? Asking honestly because I'm not sure I'm following. Do you mean I'm going to miss my chance?
If you go ice skating on a pond and you go where the ice is to thin, you will fall through into the cold water.
Their is not a lot of those very cultured virgo guys in the world ... Some can speak in native tongue of three languages or more and they did not learn it in school. You should grab him up today.
Forget about knowing his true intentions. You will never know them. Just know it's you.
He may tell you 'Andas en mi Cabeza', le Reina ... ?
Their is a huge age gap between both of you or either you did the charts wrong. His pluto is in leo and yours is in libra?
To me it looks like a Cap or a Sag checking out a Virgo guy.
Yes, the charts are done right and you are correct as there is an age gap. I don't mind as I prefer older men and he is a treasure, and has a young spirit.
As for the trust, are you saying that he just needs me to trust him? If I trust him he will be good/loyal to me? Sorry, just need clarity because again, not sure I am following.
The door is open to me? As in he prefers me? Does he want me over the others? He is great catch so I am in no way blind to the fact that there are others in waiting. Kinda scares me, honestly.
Yea the door is open... prefers you. You should be happy and trust in what he says over others unless you see with your own eye....females are very manipulative.
Yea those virgos like him are the biggest catch in the zodiac. They are a rare find.click to expand
Posted by TurquoiseArrowYes. You are correct.
Their is at least a twenty (20) year age difference here?
Posted by solidsnakeI thought about that too. That he should have gotten a clue. Perhaps when he discovered he no longer had access to my page, he panicked and thought it was a mistake? Or something? Hence the subsequent email...iono. Well, he is everything I want in a guy, but, I just overthink and overthink to the point that I confuse myself. Also, I guess the fact that he wasn't very direct gave me pause.
Nothing you said makes sense. He should have got the clue when u blocked him.
Everything you stated about seems opposite of what u like
Posted by solidsnakeWhat do you think it means that he did not get the clue? If anything?
Nothing you said makes sense. He should have got the clue when u blocked him.
Everything you stated about seems opposite of what u like
Posted by TurquoiseArrowI'm not making sense? Really? HuhPosted by VenusInScorpThat he was never stalking you up...Posted by solidsnakeWhat do you think it means that he did not get the clue? If anything?
Nothing you said makes sense. He should have got the clue when u blocked him.
Everything you stated about seems opposite of what u like
I will agree that nothing you say makes sense at all. Maybe you not a virgo after all?click to expand
No, maybe he wasn't stalking me.
lol
Posted by solidsnakeRed flag. His inability to not get the hint is not a good sign...Posted by VenusInScorpPosted by solidsnakeWhat do you think it means that he did not get the clue? If anything?
Nothing you said makes sense. He should have got the clue when u blocked him.
Everything you stated about seems opposite of what u like
It means he likes you, but it would be in his best interest to know when to throw in the towel. Everything is totally in your hands. I’m not sure how u think a relationship would be good idea?click to expand
Posted by VenusInScorpYou expect a man to just read your mind?Posted by solidsnakeRed flag. His inability to not get the hint is not a good sign...Posted by VenusInScorpPosted by solidsnakeWhat do you think it means that he did not get the clue? If anything?
Nothing you said makes sense. He should have got the clue when u blocked him.
Everything you stated about seems opposite of what u like
It means he likes you, but it would be in his best interest to know when to throw in the towel. Everything is totally in your hands. I’m not sure how u think a relationship would be good idea?click to expand
I think the huge age gap has a lot to do with some of the discomfort and uncertainties here. She is not sure about him and does not want to lead him on.
Posted by MhmmmNo, I don't expect him to read my mind. Not at all. Initially, like many of us, I just assumed he was fighting for a chance, which is sweet, but again, maybe I'm wrong.Posted by VenusInScorpYou expect a man to just read your mind?Posted by solidsnakeRed flag. His inability to not get the hint is not a good sign...Posted by VenusInScorpPosted by solidsnakeWhat do you think it means that he did not get the clue? If anything?
Nothing you said makes sense. He should have got the clue when u blocked him.
Everything you stated about seems opposite of what u like
It means he likes you, but it would be in his best interest to know when to throw in the towel. Everything is totally in your hands. I’m not sure how u think a relationship would be good idea?click to expand
Posted by CreativeCapYea, that was a bit of an issue at first but I've somewhat come around to it. I think more than anything, in true Virgal fashion I simply overanalyzed this thing to the point that I've confused myself...and many of you!
I think the huge age gap has a lot to do with some of the discomfort and uncertainties here. She is not sure about him and does not want to lead him on.
Posted by solidsnakeWhat are you really trying to say about us? That we are like bad or stupid people or something?Posted by VenusInScorpPosted by solidsnakePosted by VenusInScorpPosted by solidsnake
Nothing you said makes sense. He should have got the clue when u blocked him.
Everything you stated about seems opposite of what u like
What do you think it means that he did not get the clue? If anything?
It means he likes you, but it would be in his best interest to know when to throw in the towel. Everything is totally in your hands. I’m not sure how u think a relationship would be good idea?
Red flag. His inability to not get the hint is not a good sign... click to expand
And your ability to think a relationship would be a good idea is also not a good sign click to expandclick to expand
It does sound like he is interested in you. If I were you, I would give him a chance.
As a Virgo, I think he did everything exactly the way I would have if I really was interested in someone but they weren't taking the bait. Then you change tactics and be persistent😉
I hope it goes well for you. Good luck!! 🙂
As a Virgo, I think he did everything exactly the way I would have if I really was interested in someone but they weren't taking the bait. Then you change tactics and be persistent😉
I hope it goes well for you. Good luck!! 🙂
Posted by Charleighrose22Thanks Charleighrose22.
It does sound like he is interested in you. If I were you, I would give him a chance.
As a Virgo, I think he did everything exactly the way I would have if I really was interested in someone but they weren't taking the bait. Then you change tactics and be persistent
I hope it goes well for you. Good luck!!
Interesting that you say I should give him a chance as I recently spoke to a friend about this situation and she has the complete opposite view:
she thinks he's a creepy, weird, strange and very high-maintenance man. Because he didn't talk to me when we were "friends" on FB and only did so via email once I blocked him, she doesn't believe he's genuinely interested in getting to know me personally, and thinks he's playing games.
Not talking to me on FB but copying everything (if I put up a picture of the beach, he did too. If I put up an inspirational quote, he did too, and on and on and on) I did was really the clencher for her. She thinks he's insecure and has a loose screw!
Needless to say I'm quite confused now. Just don't know what to do.
Posted by VenusInScorpI wouldn't say he was creepy. I once liked someone for 3 years and was friends with them on Facebook, saw them at events and parties but could never bring myself to get the courage to speak to him unfortunately. I didn't copy his posts or anything but I did try to learn as much as I could about him and posted different things that I knew he also liked. Never worked. In the end, I approached him on the last day we would see each other but it went poorly😅 I think you should give your guy a chance. Never know what's going through his mind😊Posted by Charleighrose22
It does sound like he is interested in you. If I were you, I would give him a chance.
As a Virgo, I think he did everything exactly the way I would have if I really was interested in someone but they weren't taking the bait. Then you change tactics and be persistent
I hope it goes well for you. Good luck!!
Thanks Charleighrose22.
Interesting that you say I should give him a chance as I recently spoke to a friend about this situation and she has the complete opposite view:
she thinks he's a creepy, weird, strange and very high-maintenance man. Because he didn't talk to me when we were "friends" on FB and only did so via email once I blocked him, she doesn't believe he's genuinely interested in getting to know me personally, and thinks he's playing games.
Not talking to me on FB but copying everything (if I put up a picture of the beach, he did too. If I put up an inspirational quote, he did too, and on and on and on) I did was really the clencher for her. She thinks he's insecure and has a loose screw!
Needless to say I'm quite confused now. Just don't know what to do. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by VirgalLuvsCoffeeSoul sisters—Posted by VenusInScorpHoly mother of god you have an eerily similar natal chart as mine 😮... btw I think he’s totally into you. Your mysteriousness is probably driving him up the wall. Especially with that Cap moon. Lol... wish you luck... you never know how it can be with you & him if you don’t give the dude a chance. Don’t let him be the one that got away. Just sayin’ 😉 click to expand
Well, I posted his and mine. I tried posting the actual charts but don't think you can do this on this website?
Him:
Sun - Vir
Moon - Scor
Mercury - Vir
Venus - Leo
Mars - Leo
Jupiter - Leo
Saturn - Sco
Uranus - Can
Neptune - Lib
Pluto - Leo
True Node - Sag
Chiron - Aqu
Asc - Sco
Me:
Sun - Vir
Moon - Cap
Mercury - Vir
Venus - Sco
Mars - Lib
Jupiter - Leo
Saturn - Vir
Uranus - Sco
Neptune - Sag
Pluto - Lib
True node - Vir
Chiron - Tau
Asc - Aries
click to expand
What are your placements? This is so fun! I love finding people who have similar charts to mine. You have a Moon in Cap, too? Issa bitch ain't it?
Thanks for the encouragement. I really hope he likes me.
Posted by VirgalLuvsCoffeeWhaaaaaaaa—?? This is freaky!!!!!! OMG! MY BIRTHDAY IS SEPT 12TH, TOO!!! GTFOOH!!! The only difference is our Asc—Posted by VenusInScorpPosted by VirgalLuvsCoffeePosted by VenusInScorp
Well, I posted his and mine. I tried posting the actual charts but don't think you can do this on this website?
Him:
Sun - Vir
Moon - Scor
Mercury - Vir
Venus - Leo
Mars - Leo
Jupiter - Leo
Saturn - Sco
Uranus - Can
Neptune - Lib
Pluto - Leo
True Node - Sag
Chiron - Aqu
Asc - Sco
Me:
Sun - Vir
Moon - Cap
Mercury - Vir
Venus - Sco
Mars - Lib
Jupiter - Leo
Saturn - Vir
Uranus - Sco
Neptune - Sag
Pluto - Lib
True node - Vir
Chiron - Tau
Asc - Aries
Holy mother of god you have an eerily similar natal chart as mine 😮... btw I think he’s totally into you. Your mysteriousness is probably driving him up the wall. Especially with that Cap moon. Lol... wish you luck... you never know how it can be with you & him if you don’t give the dude a chance. Don’t let him be the one that got away. Just sayin’ 😉 click to expand
Soul sisters—
What are your placements? This is so fun! I love finding people who have similar charts to mine. You have a Moon in Cap, too? Issa cookiemonster ain't it?
Thanks for the encouragement. I really hope he likes me. click to expand
Mine:
Sun - Vir
Moon - Cap
Mercury - Vir
Venus - Sco
Mars - Lib
Jupiter - Leo
Saturn - Vir
Uranus - Sco
Neptune - Sag
Pluto - Lib
True node - Vir
Chiron - Tau
Asc - Virgo (THIS IS THE ONLY DIFFERENCE) lol wow that's scary!
When is your birthday? Mine is Sept 12th.
Yes, this is so much fun. : D click to expandclick to expand
Is this normal? for people who share the same birthday to have the same/very similar charts?
Posted by VirgalLuvsCoffeeYes! 8pm...Virgin Islands...WOW!Posted by VenusInScorpPosted by VirgalLuvsCoffeePosted by VenusInScorpPosted by VirgalLuvsCoffeePosted by VenusInScorp
Well, I posted his and mine. I tried posting the actual charts but don't think you can do this on this website?
Him:
Sun - Vir
Moon - Scor
Mercury - Vir
Venus - Leo
Mars - Leo
Jupiter - Leo
Saturn - Sco
Uranus - Can
Neptune - Lib
Pluto - Leo
True Node - Sag
Chiron - Aqu
Asc - Sco
Me:
Sun - Vir
Moon - Cap
Mercury - Vir
Venus - Sco
Mars - Lib
Jupiter - Leo
Saturn - Vir
Uranus - Sco
Neptune - Sag
Pluto - Lib
True node - Vir
Chiron - Tau
Asc - Aries
Holy mother of god you have an eerily similar natal chart as mine 😮... btw I think he’s totally into you. Your mysteriousness is probably driving him up the wall. Especially with that Cap moon. Lol... wish you luck... you never know how it can be with you & him if you don’t give the dude a chance. Don’t let him be the one that got away. Just sayin’ 😉 click to expand
Soul sisters—
What are your placements? This is so fun! I love finding people who have similar charts to mine. You have a Moon in Cap, too? Issa cookiemonster ain't it?
Thanks for the encouragement. I really hope he likes me. click to expand
Mine:
Sun - Vir
Moon - Cap
Mercury - Vir
Venus - Sco
Mars - Lib
Jupiter - Leo
Saturn - Vir
Uranus - Sco
Neptune - Sag
Pluto - Lib
True node - Vir
Chiron - Tau
Asc - Virgo (THIS IS THE ONLY DIFFERENCE) lol wow that's scary!
When is your birthday? Mine is Sept 12th.
Yes, this is so much fun. : D click to expand
Whaaaaaaaa—?? This is freaky!!!!!! OMG! MY BIRTHDAY IS SEPT 12TH, TOO!!! GTFOOH!!! The only difference is our Asc—
Is this normal? for people who share the same birthday to have the same/very similar charts? click to expand
No way?! Seriously !! 😳 this is seriously creeping me out LMAO! What time were u born ? Mine is 2:45am. Haha in NYC... dude this is effing hilarious 😂 🤣. What are the odds!? Crazy crazy! click to expandclick to expand
I'm pretty cool with my placements but if I could change one it would be my Cap Moon...such a thorn in my side/ I can't tell you how many times it's held me back from love. ugh
Posted by Charleighrose22You sound like me but at least you took a chance. I only WISH to be that bold. On top of overthinking everything, being shy doesn't help either. I was really hoping he would contact me again but I realize that the onus is on me now. aaarrrggghh Thanks again for the well wishes!Posted by VenusInScorpPosted by Charleighrose22
It does sound like he is interested in you. If I were you, I would give him a chance.
As a Virgo, I think he did everything exactly the way I would have if I really was interested in someone but they weren't taking the bait. Then you change tactics and be persistent
I hope it goes well for you. Good luck!!
Thanks Charleighrose22.
Interesting that you say I should give him a chance as I recently spoke to a friend about this situation and she has the complete opposite view:
she thinks he's a creepy, weird, strange and very high-maintenance man. Because he didn't talk to me when we were "friends" on FB and only did so via email once I blocked him, she doesn't believe he's genuinely interested in getting to know me personally, and thinks he's playing games.
Not talking to me on FB but copying everything (if I put up a picture of the beach, he did too. If I put up an inspirational quote, he did too, and on and on and on) I did was really the clencher for her. She thinks he's insecure and has a loose screw!
Needless to say I'm quite confused now. Just don't know what to do. click to expand
I wouldn't say he was creepy. I once liked someone for 3 years and was friends with them on Facebook, saw them at events and parties but could never bring myself to get the courage to speak to him unfortunately. I didn't copy his posts or anything but I did try to learn as much as I could about him and posted different things that I knew he also liked. Never worked. In the end, I approached him on the last day we would see each other but it went poorly😅 I think you should give your guy a chance. Never know what's going through his mind😊 click to expandclick to expand
Posted by VirgalLuvsCoffeeI see. The time makes the difference. Interesting. So cool. If only you were born at night or I in the day. HahaPosted by VenusInScorpPosted by VirgalLuvsCoffeePosted by VenusInScorpPosted by VirgalLuvsCoffeePosted by VenusInScorpPosted by VirgalLuvsCoffeePosted by VenusInScorp
Well, I posted his and mine. I tried posting the actual charts but don't think you can do this on this website?
Him:
Sun - Vir
Moon - Scor
Mercury - Vir
Venus - Leo
Mars - Leo
Jupiter - Leo
Saturn - Sco
Uranus - Can
Neptune - Lib
Pluto - Leo
True Node - Sag
Chiron - Aqu
Asc - Sco
Me:
Sun - Vir
Moon - Cap
Mercury - Vir
Venus - Sco
Mars - Lib
Jupiter - Leo
Saturn - Vir
Uranus - Sco
Neptune - Sag
Pluto - Lib
True node - Vir
Chiron - Tau
Asc - Aries
Holy mother of god you have an eerily similar natal chart as mine 😮... btw I think he’s totally into you. Your mysteriousness is probably driving him up the wall. Especially with that Cap moon. Lol... wish you luck... you never know how it can be with you & him if you don’t give the dude a chance. Don’t let him be the one that got away. Just sayin’ 😉 click to expand
Soul sisters—
What are your placements? This is so fun! I love finding people who have similar charts to mine. You have a Moon in Cap, too? Issa cookiemonster ain't it?
Thanks for the encouragement. I really hope he likes me. click to expand
Mine:
Sun - Vir
Moon - Cap
Mercury - Vir
Venus - Sco
Mars - Lib
Jupiter - Leo
Saturn - Vir
Uranus - Sco
Neptune - Sag
Pluto - Lib
True node - Vir
Chiron - Tau
Asc - Virgo (THIS IS THE ONLY DIFFERENCE) lol wow that's scary!
When is your birthday? Mine is Sept 12th.
Yes, this is so much fun. : D click to expand
Whaaaaaaaa—?? This is freaky!!!!!! OMG! MY BIRTHDAY IS SEPT 12TH, TOO!!! GTFOOH!!! The only difference is our Asc—
Is this normal? for people who share the same birthday to have the same/very similar charts? click to expand
No way?! Seriously !! 😳 this is seriously creeping me out LMAO! What time were u born ? Mine is 2:45am. Haha in NYC... dude this is effing hilarious 😂 🤣. What are the odds!? Crazy crazy! click to expand
Yes! 8pm...Virgin Islands...WOW!
I'm pretty cool with my placements but if I could change one it would be my Cap Moon...such a thorn in my side/ I can't tell you how many times it's held me back from love. ugh click to expand
Wow cool you were born @ night. There’s the change. Yeah, I agree the Cap moon is my toughest placement. I feel it makes me seem super cold & withdrawn 😒. I’ve had love interests tell me later they had a crush on me but I always seemed distant, aloof or seemed hard to reach. ugh 😑 ... sucks totally 😠click to expandclick to expand
I've had guys tell me the same things too. I'm trying to get better. lol
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Just last week we were in contact again regarding a project (he never asked about me blocking him on FB, btw) via email and his replies kept coming in less than five minutes after mine and he kept insisting that we talk via phone (we are setting up an event) and he asked me over and over again -- "when can you talk?" "What about Monday?" "Does Monday work for you?" "I can even talk Tuesday if Monday doesn't work?" A few months ago when we last talked over the phone he seemed annoyed that I was in a noisy place (as he mumbled, "oh, you're in a crowded environment") and I felt in my gut that he was stalling because he wanted to say something else at the end of the conversation but didn't feel comfortable because of all of the distraction around me.
I think he is a great guy as he's successful, handsome, stable, well cultured and traveled, intelligent, kind, fun, interesting. At first he was nowhere on my radar but my thoughts about him have changed a bit since I first met him but I want to be sure I'm not off the mark here?
If something is there I will continue to just go slow with him so that I can find out his character fully for myself. When he kept asking me last week if we could talk, I told him we could talk after the weekend. I don't want to go too fast with anything as I want to be sure of his true intentions?
Do you think I should continue talking with him? If the project goes through, it will entail taking another trip together but I'm not sure.