
do they like being chased? are they passive? what are their habits and typical behavior? what are red flags to look out for? any positive signs? give me all the details. asking for a friend.




Posted by 777
Oops I thought this was virgo sun male.
Disregard

Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777
Oops I thought this was virgo sun male.
Disregard
I was just about to comment. Did you get my PM dude? You gonna answer it after work or it wasn’t interesting enough to bother?
I would like to know if I will be waiting or wasting my time 🙂click to expand


Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777
Oops I thought this was virgo sun male.
Disregard
I was just about to comment. Did you get my PM dude? You gonna answer it after work or it wasn’t interesting enough to bother?
I would like to know if I will be waiting or wasting my time 🙂click to expand

Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777
Oops I thought this was virgo sun male.
Disregard
I was just about to comment. Did you get my PM dude? You gonna answer it after work or it wasn’t interesting enough to bother?
I would like to know if I will be waiting or wasting my time 🙂
It says I have no messagesclick to expand

Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777
Oops I thought this was virgo sun male.
Disregard
I was just about to comment. Did you get my PM dude? You gonna answer it after work or it wasn’t interesting enough to bother?
I would like to know if I will be waiting or wasting my time 🙂
It says I have no messages
Fucc! I guess it didn’t go through with the site acting up so much yesterday.
Sorry to bother you then. I wrote a lot and can’t remember most of it. Damn. That sucks. 😔click to expand

Posted by saggurl88
What’s his Sun sign? All you keep saying is Virgo moon. I want to be able to judge based off a combination 😋😜
And I’m curious since you’re obsessed.


Posted by PuzzlePieces
Anxiety, overthinking, will shut down if overwhelmed. Nope no chasing. They will come after you if they can’t stop thinking of you ( in a good way). Can be overly negative and not quite believe you are what you seem.
Like to take care of you, etc.

Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by PuzzlePieces
Anxiety, overthinking, will shut down if overwhelmed. Nope no chasing. They will come after you if they can’t stop thinking of you ( in a good way). Can be overly negative and not quite believe you are what you seem.
Like to take care of you, etc.
that sounds more like me than him tbhclick to expand

Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by saggurl88
What’s his Sun sign? All you keep saying is Virgo moon. I want to be able to judge based off a combination 😋😜
And I’m curious since you’re obsessed.
june 22 😋click to expand

Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777
Oops I thought this was virgo sun male.
Disregard
I was just about to comment. Did you get my PM dude? You gonna answer it after work or it wasn’t interesting enough to bother?
I would like to know if I will be waiting or wasting my time 🙂
It says I have no messages
Fucc! I guess it didn’t go through with the site acting up so much yesterday.
Sorry to bother you then. I wrote a lot and can’t remember most of it. Damn. That sucks. 😔
It's not in ur sent messages?click to expand

Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by PuzzlePieces
Anxiety, overthinking, will shut down if overwhelmed. Nope no chasing. They will come after you if they can’t stop thinking of you ( in a good way). Can be overly negative and not quite believe you are what you seem.
Like to take care of you, etc.
that sounds more like me than him tbhclick to expand

Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777
Oops I thought this was virgo sun male.
Disregard
I was just about to comment. Did you get my PM dude? You gonna answer it after work or it wasn’t interesting enough to bother?
I would like to know if I will be waiting or wasting my time 🙂
It says I have no messages
Fucc! I guess it didn’t go through with the site acting up so much yesterday.
Sorry to bother you then. I wrote a lot and can’t remember most of it. Damn. That sucks. 😔
It's not in ur sent messages?
No 😭😭😭😭😭
I might try again later.click to expand

Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777
Oops I thought this was virgo sun male.
Disregard
I was just about to comment. Did you get my PM dude? You gonna answer it after work or it wasn’t interesting enough to bother?
I would like to know if I will be waiting or wasting my time 🙂
It says I have no messages
Fucc! I guess it didn’t go through with the site acting up so much yesterday.
Sorry to bother you then. I wrote a lot and can’t remember most of it. Damn. That sucks. 😔
It's not in ur sent messages?
No 😭😭😭😭😭
I might try again later.
Send to my instaclick to expand


Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777
Oops I thought this was virgo sun male.
Disregard
I was just about to comment. Did you get my PM dude? You gonna answer it after work or it wasn’t interesting enough to bother?
I would like to know if I will be waiting or wasting my time 🙂
It says I have no messages
Fucc! I guess it didn’t go through with the site acting up so much yesterday.
Sorry to bother you then. I wrote a lot and can’t remember most of it. Damn. That sucks. 😔
It's not in ur sent messages?
No 😭😭😭😭😭
I might try again later.
Send to my insta
I'll take a look. I think I blocked you when you pissed me off one day 😛
https://media.giphy.com/media/eI9QrHpSQF73O/giphy.gif<div class="bqfade">click to expand

Posted by GemitatiPosted by saggurl88Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777
Oops I thought this was virgo sun male.
Disregard
I was just about to comment. Did you get my PM dude? You gonna answer it after work or it wasn’t interesting enough to bother?
I would like to know if I will be waiting or wasting my time 🙂
It says I have no messages
Fucc! I guess it didn’t go through with the site acting up so much yesterday.
Sorry to bother you then. I wrote a lot and can’t remember most of it. Damn. That sucks. 😔
It's not in ur sent messages?
No 😭😭😭😭😭
I might try again later.
Send to my insta
I'll take a look. I think I blocked you when you pissed me off one day 😛
Just make a reg thread with subject ‘For (recipient name) only’ and it’ll work. I am sure nobody will peak. Dxpers respect privacy!!!
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂click to expand

Posted by LethalFantasia
this is going to sound bad
but if you give a virgo sun/moon male the type of sex they only dream/fantasize about
you have them hooked 4 life
roflroflroflroflorf
these are sexual visual masculine energy creatures

Posted by aquatar1
try dealing with a virgo sun AND moon ha. My life is sad. To answer, yes they're passive and enjoy being chased but only gently... they wanna be in charge if theyre males, so open the door but let him walk through it metaphorically. They'll come after you if you give enough signals that you're into it. Give them time.
They overnalayze a lot and take the smallest thing personally. Gotta be careful about every action and word. They tend to not address issues they'll just ignore you or go cold if you upset them. If you avoid them or cut them off, he'll back away and do the same, theres literally no fire or guts to chase or be bold with these guys, they're gentle and also thus annoying lol. They wont take you seriously at first they need time, they doubt a good thing very easily. Sometimes they're moody, gotta just ride that wave and be consistent, he'll return in a few days usually in his old mood.
They also plan a lot, so you never know with them. He could be cold with you in person then text you 2 hrs later asking you out..theres a whole battle scene going on in their head we will never be privy to.
ask me anything im here i just dealt with one NEVER AGAIN lol

Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by aquatar1
try dealing with a virgo sun AND moon ha. My life is sad. To answer, yes they're passive and enjoy being chased but only gently... they wanna be in charge if theyre males, so open the door but let him walk through it metaphorically. They'll come after you if you give enough signals that you're into it. Give them time.
They overnalayze a lot and take the smallest thing personally. Gotta be careful about every action and word. They tend to not address issues they'll just ignore you or go cold if you upset them. If you avoid them or cut them off, he'll back away and do the same, theres literally no fire or guts to chase or be bold with these guys, they're gentle and also thus annoying lol. They wont take you seriously at first they need time, they doubt a good thing very easily. Sometimes they're moody, gotta just ride that wave and be consistent, he'll return in a few days usually in his old mood.
They also plan a lot, so you never know with them. He could be cold with you in person then text you 2 hrs later asking you out..theres a whole battle scene going on in their head we will never be privy to.
ask me anything im here i just dealt with one NEVER AGAIN lol
i had like one date with a Virgo sun/Virgo moon and that did not go well. but that's coz he smelled SOOO bad like boy stank like he hadn't showered for a month. no idea how a double Virgo can smell like that. anyway, that whole thing about being hot/cold sounds just like me too. i think i feel drawn to Virgo moon coz i fundamentally understand them and where they're coming from.
but you're brave for dealing with that. in fact, i think anyone's brave for dealing with Virgos and our shit. we don't seem to be the easiest to understand.click to expand
Posted by virgoOPPP
@aquatar1
at first i played with the idea that they may be playing hard to get but when i look at it the way i would at myself, i've never played that game but just LOOKED like i did.... never liked to waste my time but in matters of mutual interest, i come off very passive and i do get passive. but that's just because i need to be sure that it IS mutual.

Posted by aquatar1Posted by virgoOPPP
@aquatar1
at first i played with the idea that they may be playing hard to get but when i look at it the way i would at myself, i've never played that game but just LOOKED like i did.... never liked to waste my time but in matters of mutual interest, i come off very passive and i do get passive. but that's just because i need to be sure that it IS mutual.
thats understandable tbh. Would you change your mind quickly on a person? Like if you were into them and knew they were into you, would you ever be like nope gotta go bye? lol virgos seem so detached you never knowclick to expand
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by aquatar1Posted by virgoOPPP
@aquatar1
at first i played with the idea that they may be playing hard to get but when i look at it the way i would at myself, i've never played that game but just LOOKED like i did.... never liked to waste my time but in matters of mutual interest, i come off very passive and i do get passive. but that's just because i need to be sure that it IS mutual.
thats understandable tbh. Would you change your mind quickly on a person? Like if you were into them and knew they were into you, would you ever be like nope gotta go bye? lol virgos seem so detached you never know
i can drop people in a heartbeat when i don't care much for them since i rarely am emotionally-engaged. unlike some people, i can give someone a 'chance' quickly but just as quickly discard them if it's just not 'right.' but i can come around the idea again at some point as well too (not likely but there's a CHANCE). and the crazy thing is, when i get too obsessed then i feel like i should take a break from everyone for a while.
if i'm comfortable (mentally/emotionally) with someone, that gives them more chances tbh.click to expand

Posted by aquatar1Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by aquatar1Posted by virgoOPPP
@aquatar1
at first i played with the idea that they may be playing hard to get but when i look at it the way i would at myself, i've never played that game but just LOOKED like i did.... never liked to waste my time but in matters of mutual interest, i come off very passive and i do get passive. but that's just because i need to be sure that it IS mutual.
thats understandable tbh. Would you change your mind quickly on a person? Like if you were into them and knew they were into you, would you ever be like nope gotta go bye? lol virgos seem so detached you never know
i can drop people in a heartbeat when i don't care much for them since i rarely am emotionally-engaged. unlike some people, i can give someone a 'chance' quickly but just as quickly discard them if it's just not 'right.' but i can come around the idea again at some point as well too (not likely but there's a CHANCE). and the crazy thing is, when i get too obsessed then i feel like i should take a break from everyone for a while.
if i'm comfortable (mentally/emotionally) with someone, that gives them more chances tbh.
Is there a point in time at which you wouldnt drop a person? Like how long do you have to be involved with them not to drop them?click to expand
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by aquatar1Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by aquatar1Posted by virgoOPPP
@aquatar1
at first i played with the idea that they may be playing hard to get but when i look at it the way i would at myself, i've never played that game but just LOOKED like i did.... never liked to waste my time but in matters of mutual interest, i come off very passive and i do get passive. but that's just because i need to be sure that it IS mutual.
thats understandable tbh. Would you change your mind quickly on a person? Like if you were into them and knew they were into you, would you ever be like nope gotta go bye? lol virgos seem so detached you never know
i can drop people in a heartbeat when i don't care much for them since i rarely am emotionally-engaged. unlike some people, i can give someone a 'chance' quickly but just as quickly discard them if it's just not 'right.' but i can come around the idea again at some point as well too (not likely but there's a CHANCE). and the crazy thing is, when i get too obsessed then i feel like i should take a break from everyone for a while.
if i'm comfortable (mentally/emotionally) with someone, that gives them more chances tbh.
Is there a point in time at which you wouldnt drop a person? Like how long do you have to be involved with them not to drop them?
honestly, i think it takes a long time. i need to become emotionally-engaged for me to able to hold on. but i can get sexually obsessive too. either one can make me hold on but neither are total guarantees that i won't let go if i get that 'not right' feeling.
in short, i can still always let go but that doesn't mean i won't come back around.
i'm a mutable after all.click to expand

Posted by aquatar1Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by aquatar1Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by aquatar1Posted by virgoOPPP
@aquatar1
at first i played with the idea that they may be playing hard to get but when i look at it the way i would at myself, i've never played that game but just LOOKED like i did.... never liked to waste my time but in matters of mutual interest, i come off very passive and i do get passive. but that's just because i need to be sure that it IS mutual.
thats understandable tbh. Would you change your mind quickly on a person? Like if you were into them and knew they were into you, would you ever be like nope gotta go bye? lol virgos seem so detached you never know
i can drop people in a heartbeat when i don't care much for them since i rarely am emotionally-engaged. unlike some people, i can give someone a 'chance' quickly but just as quickly discard them if it's just not 'right.' but i can come around the idea again at some point as well too (not likely but there's a CHANCE). and the crazy thing is, when i get too obsessed then i feel like i should take a break from everyone for a while.
if i'm comfortable (mentally/emotionally) with someone, that gives them more chances tbh.
Is there a point in time at which you wouldnt drop a person? Like how long do you have to be involved with them not to drop them?
honestly, i think it takes a long time. i need to become emotionally-engaged for me to able to hold on. but i can get sexually obsessive too. either one can make me hold on but neither are total guarantees that i won't let go if i get that 'not right' feeling.
in short, i can still always let go but that doesn't mean i won't come back around.
i'm a mutable after all.
That's wild to me, a fixed sign lol. I dont understand the concept of letting people just go.
The virgo I dealt with warmed up slowly, seemed really into me asked me out'/put in effort etc, and then dropped me it seems lol. I legit dont know why, I didnt do anything specific. Im far too direct and logical for this type of stuff, man virgos are wild lolclick to expand
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by aquatar1Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by aquatar1Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by aquatar1Posted by virgoOPPP
@aquatar1
at first i played with the idea that they may be playing hard to get but when i look at it the way i would at myself, i've never played that game but just LOOKED like i did.... never liked to waste my time but in matters of mutual interest, i come off very passive and i do get passive. but that's just because i need to be sure that it IS mutual.
thats understandable tbh. Would you change your mind quickly on a person? Like if you were into them and knew they were into you, would you ever be like nope gotta go bye? lol virgos seem so detached you never know
i can drop people in a heartbeat when i don't care much for them since i rarely am emotionally-engaged. unlike some people, i can give someone a 'chance' quickly but just as quickly discard them if it's just not 'right.' but i can come around the idea again at some point as well too (not likely but there's a CHANCE). and the crazy thing is, when i get too obsessed then i feel like i should take a break from everyone for a while.
if i'm comfortable (mentally/emotionally) with someone, that gives them more chances tbh.
Is there a point in time at which you wouldnt drop a person? Like how long do you have to be involved with them not to drop them?
honestly, i think it takes a long time. i need to become emotionally-engaged for me to able to hold on. but i can get sexually obsessive too. either one can make me hold on but neither are total guarantees that i won't let go if i get that 'not right' feeling.
in short, i can still always let go but that doesn't mean i won't come back around.
i'm a mutable after all.
That's wild to me, a fixed sign lol. I dont understand the concept of letting people just go.
The virgo I dealt with warmed up slowly, seemed really into me asked me out'/put in effort etc, and then dropped me it seems lol. I legit dont know why, I didnt do anything specific. Im far too direct and logical for this type of stuff, man virgos are wild lol
i let people go not just coz of actual/perceived issues that hurt me or i felt insecure about with them being the indirect cause of it but there's also that question of MUTUAL INTEREST. most Virgos are very insecure people, doesn't matter how good-looking they are, it's one of our well-known unfortunate traits. instead of overcompensating for that, we just leave the person alone. why force our interest in someone who lies there like a dead fish?
i need to feel a pulse from the other side to keep my own fire going. my obsession with this guy for example, should i sense in the future that there's something questionable about the pulse he's sending me in return, i CAN let him go just like that. it'd hurt me but i can do it in a heartbeat coz it's the right thing. i'd rather we be sincere about these things than for things to feel 'forced.' in this way, you can say we're very idealistic people.click to expand

Posted by aquatar1Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by aquatar1Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by aquatar1Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by aquatar1Posted by virgoOPPP
@aquatar1
at first i played with the idea that they may be playing hard to get but when i look at it the way i would at myself, i've never played that game but just LOOKED like i did.... never liked to waste my time but in matters of mutual interest, i come off very passive and i do get passive. but that's just because i need to be sure that it IS mutual.
thats understandable tbh. Would you change your mind quickly on a person? Like if you were into them and knew they were into you, would you ever be like nope gotta go bye? lol virgos seem so detached you never know
i can drop people in a heartbeat when i don't care much for them since i rarely am emotionally-engaged. unlike some people, i can give someone a 'chance' quickly but just as quickly discard them if it's just not 'right.' but i can come around the idea again at some point as well too (not likely but there's a CHANCE). and the crazy thing is, when i get too obsessed then i feel like i should take a break from everyone for a while.
if i'm comfortable (mentally/emotionally) with someone, that gives them more chances tbh.
Is there a point in time at which you wouldnt drop a person? Like how long do you have to be involved with them not to drop them?
honestly, i think it takes a long time. i need to become emotionally-engaged for me to able to hold on. but i can get sexually obsessive too. either one can make me hold on but neither are total guarantees that i won't let go if i get that 'not right' feeling.
in short, i can still always let go but that doesn't mean i won't come back around.
i'm a mutable after all.
That's wild to me, a fixed sign lol. I dont understand the concept of letting people just go.
The virgo I dealt with warmed up slowly, seemed really into me asked me out'/put in effort etc, and then dropped me it seems lol. I legit dont know why, I didnt do anything specific. Im far too direct and logical for this type of stuff, man virgos are wild lol
i let people go not just coz of actual/perceived issues that hurt me or i felt insecure about with them being the indirect cause of it but there's also that question of MUTUAL INTEREST. most Virgos are very insecure people, doesn't matter how good-looking they are, it's one of our well-known unfortunate traits. instead of overcompensating for that, we just leave the person alone. why force our interest in someone who lies there like a dead fish?
i need to feel a pulse from the other side to keep my own fire going. my obsession with this guy for example, should i sense in the future that there's something questionable about the pulse he's sending me in return, i CAN let him go just like that. it'd hurt me but i can do it in a heartbeat coz it's the right thing. i'd rather we be sincere about these things than for things to feel 'forced.' in this way, you can say we're very idealistic people.
Yeah that makes sense tbh. How insecure though?? I feel like Virgos need constant reassurance or they assume otherwise. Yet when you do it a lot, they get smothered. Weird balance lol.click to expand
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by aquatar1Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by aquatar1Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by aquatar1Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by aquatar1Posted by virgoOPPP
@aquatar1
at first i played with the idea that they may be playing hard to get but when i look at it the way i would at myself, i've never played that game but just LOOKED like i did.... never liked to waste my time but in matters of mutual interest, i come off very passive and i do get passive. but that's just because i need to be sure that it IS mutual.
thats understandable tbh. Would you change your mind quickly on a person? Like if you were into them and knew they were into you, would you ever be like nope gotta go bye? lol virgos seem so detached you never know
i can drop people in a heartbeat when i don't care much for them since i rarely am emotionally-engaged. unlike some people, i can give someone a 'chance' quickly but just as quickly discard them if it's just not 'right.' but i can come around the idea again at some point as well too (not likely but there's a CHANCE). and the crazy thing is, when i get too obsessed then i feel like i should take a break from everyone for a while.
if i'm comfortable (mentally/emotionally) with someone, that gives them more chances tbh.
Is there a point in time at which you wouldnt drop a person? Like how long do you have to be involved with them not to drop them?
honestly, i think it takes a long time. i need to become emotionally-engaged for me to able to hold on. but i can get sexually obsessive too. either one can make me hold on but neither are total guarantees that i won't let go if i get that 'not right' feeling.
in short, i can still always let go but that doesn't mean i won't come back around.
i'm a mutable after all.
That's wild to me, a fixed sign lol. I dont understand the concept of letting people just go.
The virgo I dealt with warmed up slowly, seemed really into me asked me out'/put in effort etc, and then dropped me it seems lol. I legit dont know why, I didnt do anything specific. Im far too direct and logical for this type of stuff, man virgos are wild lol
i let people go not just coz of actual/perceived issues that hurt me or i felt insecure about with them being the indirect cause of it but there's also that question of MUTUAL INTEREST. most Virgos are very insecure people, doesn't matter how good-looking they are, it's one of our well-known unfortunate traits. instead of overcompensating for that, we just leave the person alone. why force our interest in someone who lies there like a dead fish?
i need to feel a pulse from the other side to keep my own fire going. my obsession with this guy for example, should i sense in the future that there's something questionable about the pulse he's sending me in return, i CAN let him go just like that. it'd hurt me but i can do it in a heartbeat coz it's the right thing. i'd rather we be sincere about these things than for things to feel 'forced.' in this way, you can say we're very idealistic people.
Yeah that makes sense tbh. How insecure though?? I feel like Virgos need constant reassurance or they assume otherwise. Yet when you do it a lot, they get smothered. Weird balance lol.
i feel like this is why i keep attracting gemini moons coz i'd get reassurance then i'd feel smothered then i'll stop engaging with them but then they'll give me space so i will feel less pressured then reach back out and i'll be replying the way they want me to like i need it alternately. but the time gap should just be a couple of hours. and that's exactly what i get from gemini moons.
virgo moons are.... more slippery.click to expand

Posted by aquatar1Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by aquatar1Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by aquatar1Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by aquatar1Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by aquatar1Posted by virgoOPPP
@aquatar1
at first i played with the idea that they may be playing hard to get but when i look at it the way i would at myself, i've never played that game but just LOOKED like i did.... never liked to waste my time but in matters of mutual interest, i come off very passive and i do get passive. but that's just because i need to be sure that it IS mutual.
thats understandable tbh. Would you change your mind quickly on a person? Like if you were into them and knew they were into you, would you ever be like nope gotta go bye? lol virgos seem so detached you never know
i can drop people in a heartbeat when i don't care much for them since i rarely am emotionally-engaged. unlike some people, i can give someone a 'chance' quickly but just as quickly discard them if it's just not 'right.' but i can come around the idea again at some point as well too (not likely but there's a CHANCE). and the crazy thing is, when i get too obsessed then i feel like i should take a break from everyone for a while.
if i'm comfortable (mentally/emotionally) with someone, that gives them more chances tbh.
Is there a point in time at which you wouldnt drop a person? Like how long do you have to be involved with them not to drop them?
honestly, i think it takes a long time. i need to become emotionally-engaged for me to able to hold on. but i can get sexually obsessive too. either one can make me hold on but neither are total guarantees that i won't let go if i get that 'not right' feeling.
in short, i can still always let go but that doesn't mean i won't come back around.
i'm a mutable after all.
That's wild to me, a fixed sign lol. I dont understand the concept of letting people just go.
The virgo I dealt with warmed up slowly, seemed really into me asked me out'/put in effort etc, and then dropped me it seems lol. I legit dont know why, I didnt do anything specific. Im far too direct and logical for this type of stuff, man virgos are wild lol
i let people go not just coz of actual/perceived issues that hurt me or i felt insecure about with them being the indirect cause of it but there's also that question of MUTUAL INTEREST. most Virgos are very insecure people, doesn't matter how good-looking they are, it's one of our well-known unfortunate traits. instead of overcompensating for that, we just leave the person alone. why force our interest in someone who lies there like a dead fish?
i need to feel a pulse from the other side to keep my own fire going. my obsession with this guy for example, should i sense in the future that there's something questionable about the pulse he's sending me in return, i CAN let him go just like that. it'd hurt me but i can do it in a heartbeat coz it's the right thing. i'd rather we be sincere about these things than for things to feel 'forced.' in this way, you can say we're very idealistic people.
Yeah that makes sense tbh. How insecure though?? I feel like Virgos need constant reassurance or they assume otherwise. Yet when you do it a lot, they get smothered. Weird balance lol.
i feel like this is why i keep attracting gemini moons coz i'd get reassurance then i'd feel smothered then i'll stop engaging with them but then they'll give me space so i will feel less pressured then reach back out and i'll be replying the way they want me to like i need it alternately. but the time gap should just be a couple of hours. and that's exactly what i get from gemini moons.
virgo moons are.... more slippery.
ooh i feel that haha. do you avoid confrontation too? at all costs??
ive noticed with ALL the virgos i know, if they THINK im mad at them or avoiding them, they just leave me alone until I reach out...my zodiac isnt like that im like HEY U MAD WASSUP BOO to everyone lolclick to expand

Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777
Oops I thought this was virgo sun male.
Disregard
I was just about to comment. Did you get my PM dude? You gonna answer it after work or it wasn’t interesting enough to bother?
I would like to know if I will be waiting or wasting my time 🙂
It says I have no messages
Fucc! I guess it didn’t go through with the site acting up so much yesterday.
Sorry to bother you then. I wrote a lot and can’t remember most of it. Damn. That sucks. 😔
It's not in ur sent messages?
No 😭😭😭😭😭
I might try again later.
Send to my insta
I'll take a look. I think I blocked you when you pissed me off one day 😛
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Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777
Oops I thought this was virgo sun male.
Disregard
I was just about to comment. Did you get my PM dude? You gonna answer it after work or it wasn’t interesting enough to bother?
I would like to know if I will be waiting or wasting my time 🙂
It says I have no messages
Fucc! I guess it didn’t go through with the site acting up so much yesterday.
Sorry to bother you then. I wrote a lot and can’t remember most of it. Damn. That sucks. 😔
It's not in ur sent messages?
No 😭😭😭😭😭
I might try again later.
Send to my insta
I'll take a look. I think I blocked you when you pissed me off one day 😛
Add me againclick to expand

Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777
Oops I thought this was virgo sun male.
Disregard
I was just about to comment. Did you get my PM dude? You gonna answer it after work or it wasn’t interesting enough to bother?
I would like to know if I will be waiting or wasting my time 🙂
It says I have no messages
Fucc! I guess it didn’t go through with the site acting up so much yesterday.
Sorry to bother you then. I wrote a lot and can’t remember most of it. Damn. That sucks. 😔
It's not in ur sent messages?
No 😭😭😭😭😭
I might try again later.
Send to my insta
I'll take a look. I think I blocked you when you pissed me off one day 😛
Add me again
I will later. I forgot the question btw. But I will add you back once I get off work. 🙂click to expand

Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777
Oops I thought this was virgo sun male.
Disregard
I was just about to comment. Did you get my PM dude? You gonna answer it after work or it wasn’t interesting enough to bother?
I would like to know if I will be waiting or wasting my time 🙂
It says I have no messages
Fucc! I guess it didn’t go through with the site acting up so much yesterday.
Sorry to bother you then. I wrote a lot and can’t remember most of it. Damn. That sucks. 😔
It's not in ur sent messages?
No 😭😭😭😭😭
I might try again later.
Send to my insta
I'll take a look. I think I blocked you when you pissed me off one day 😛
Add me again
I will later. I forgot the question btw. But I will add you back once I get off work. 🙂
How'd u forget the question? It's only been couple days. Think hardclick to expand

Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777
Oops I thought this was virgo sun male.
Disregard
I was just about to comment. Did you get my PM dude? You gonna answer it after work or it wasn’t interesting enough to bother?
I would like to know if I will be waiting or wasting my time 🙂
It says I have no messages
Fucc! I guess it didn’t go through with the site acting up so much yesterday.
Sorry to bother you then. I wrote a lot and can’t remember most of it. Damn. That sucks. 😔
It's not in ur sent messages?
No 😭😭😭😭😭
I might try again later.
Send to my insta
I'll take a look. I think I blocked you when you pissed me off one day 😛
Add me again
I will later. I forgot the question btw. But I will add you back once I get off work. 🙂
How'd u forget the question? It's only been couple days. Think hard
This is the second time I tried sending you a message and it doesn’t work. My messages to other Virgos work fine 😜
I can’t remember your Instagram name so try messaging me it, since I can’t message you and I will add you back.
And I seriously can’t remember what the question was. I will try to think about it and see. It’s frustrating writing out long messages, just for them to disappear. I hate wasting my time with it.click to expand

Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777Posted by saggurl88Posted by 777
Oops I thought this was virgo sun male.
Disregard
I was just about to comment. Did you get my PM dude? You gonna answer it after work or it wasn’t interesting enough to bother?
I would like to know if I will be waiting or wasting my time 🙂
It says I have no messages
Fucc! I guess it didn’t go through with the site acting up so much yesterday.
Sorry to bother you then. I wrote a lot and can’t remember most of it. Damn. That sucks. 😔
It's not in ur sent messages?
No 😭😭😭😭😭
I might try again later.
Send to my insta
I'll take a look. I think I blocked you when you pissed me off one day 😛
Add me again
I will later. I forgot the question btw. But I will add you back once I get off work. 🙂
How'd u forget the question? It's only been couple days. Think hard
This is the second time I tried sending you a message and it doesn’t work. My messages to other Virgos work fine 😜
I can’t remember your Instagram name so try messaging me it, since I can’t message you and I will add you back.
And I seriously can’t remember what the question was. I will try to think about it and see. It’s frustrating writing out long messages, just for them to disappear. I hate wasting my time with it.
U make things so difficult. Send me ur email so I can send u my phone numberclick to expand
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by aquatar1Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by aquatar1Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by aquatar1Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by aquatar1Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by aquatar1Posted by virgoOPPP
@aquatar1
at first i played with the idea that they may be playing hard to get but when i look at it the way i would at myself, i've never played that game but just LOOKED like i did.... never liked to waste my time but in matters of mutual interest, i come off very passive and i do get passive. but that's just because i need to be sure that it IS mutual.
thats understandable tbh. Would you change your mind quickly on a person? Like if you were into them and knew they were into you, would you ever be like nope gotta go bye? lol virgos seem so detached you never know
i can drop people in a heartbeat when i don't care much for them since i rarely am emotionally-engaged. unlike some people, i can give someone a 'chance' quickly but just as quickly discard them if it's just not 'right.' but i can come around the idea again at some point as well too (not likely but there's a CHANCE). and the crazy thing is, when i get too obsessed then i feel like i should take a break from everyone for a while.
if i'm comfortable (mentally/emotionally) with someone, that gives them more chances tbh.
Is there a point in time at which you wouldnt drop a person? Like how long do you have to be involved with them not to drop them?
honestly, i think it takes a long time. i need to become emotionally-engaged for me to able to hold on. but i can get sexually obsessive too. either one can make me hold on but neither are total guarantees that i won't let go if i get that 'not right' feeling.
in short, i can still always let go but that doesn't mean i won't come back around.
i'm a mutable after all.
That's wild to me, a fixed sign lol. I dont understand the concept of letting people just go.
The virgo I dealt with warmed up slowly, seemed really into me asked me out'/put in effort etc, and then dropped me it seems lol. I legit dont know why, I didnt do anything specific. Im far too direct and logical for this type of stuff, man virgos are wild lol
i let people go not just coz of actual/perceived issues that hurt me or i felt insecure about with them being the indirect cause of it but there's also that question of MUTUAL INTEREST. most Virgos are very insecure people, doesn't matter how good-looking they are, it's one of our well-known unfortunate traits. instead of overcompensating for that, we just leave the person alone. why force our interest in someone who lies there like a dead fish?
i need to feel a pulse from the other side to keep my own fire going. my obsession with this guy for example, should i sense in the future that there's something questionable about the pulse he's sending me in return, i CAN let him go just like that. it'd hurt me but i can do it in a heartbeat coz it's the right thing. i'd rather we be sincere about these things than for things to feel 'forced.' in this way, you can say we're very idealistic people.
Yeah that makes sense tbh. How insecure though?? I feel like Virgos need constant reassurance or they assume otherwise. Yet when you do it a lot, they get smothered. Weird balance lol.
i feel like this is why i keep attracting gemini moons coz i'd get reassurance then i'd feel smothered then i'll stop engaging with them but then they'll give me space so i will feel less pressured then reach back out and i'll be replying the way they want me to like i need it alternately. but the time gap should just be a couple of hours. and that's exactly what i get from gemini moons.
virgo moons are.... more slippery.
ooh i feel that haha. do you avoid confrontation too? at all costs??
ive noticed with ALL the virgos i know, if they THINK im mad at them or avoiding them, they just leave me alone until I reach out...my zodiac isnt like that im like HEY U MAD WASSUP BOO to everyone lol
sometimes coz i have Libra mars 1H
if it's something i feel can be resolved immediately then i'd start shit over it but if not (like i feel it's long and hopeless) then i just ghostclick to expand

Posted by aquatar1Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by aquatar1Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by aquatar1Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by aquatar1Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by aquatar1Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by aquatar1Posted by virgoOPPP
@aquatar1
at first i played with the idea that they may be playing hard to get but when i look at it the way i would at myself, i've never played that game but just LOOKED like i did.... never liked to waste my time but in matters of mutual interest, i come off very passive and i do get passive. but that's just because i need to be sure that it IS mutual.
thats understandable tbh. Would you change your mind quickly on a person? Like if you were into them and knew they were into you, would you ever be like nope gotta go bye? lol virgos seem so detached you never know
i can drop people in a heartbeat when i don't care much for them since i rarely am emotionally-engaged. unlike some people, i can give someone a 'chance' quickly but just as quickly discard them if it's just not 'right.' but i can come around the idea again at some point as well too (not likely but there's a CHANCE). and the crazy thing is, when i get too obsessed then i feel like i should take a break from everyone for a while.
if i'm comfortable (mentally/emotionally) with someone, that gives them more chances tbh.
Is there a point in time at which you wouldnt drop a person? Like how long do you have to be involved with them not to drop them?
honestly, i think it takes a long time. i need to become emotionally-engaged for me to able to hold on. but i can get sexually obsessive too. either one can make me hold on but neither are total guarantees that i won't let go if i get that 'not right' feeling.
in short, i can still always let go but that doesn't mean i won't come back around.
i'm a mutable after all.
That's wild to me, a fixed sign lol. I dont understand the concept of letting people just go.
The virgo I dealt with warmed up slowly, seemed really into me asked me out'/put in effort etc, and then dropped me it seems lol. I legit dont know why, I didnt do anything specific. Im far too direct and logical for this type of stuff, man virgos are wild lol
i let people go not just coz of actual/perceived issues that hurt me or i felt insecure about with them being the indirect cause of it but there's also that question of MUTUAL INTEREST. most Virgos are very insecure people, doesn't matter how good-looking they are, it's one of our well-known unfortunate traits. instead of overcompensating for that, we just leave the person alone. why force our interest in someone who lies there like a dead fish?
i need to feel a pulse from the other side to keep my own fire going. my obsession with this guy for example, should i sense in the future that there's something questionable about the pulse he's sending me in return, i CAN let him go just like that. it'd hurt me but i can do it in a heartbeat coz it's the right thing. i'd rather we be sincere about these things than for things to feel 'forced.' in this way, you can say we're very idealistic people.
Yeah that makes sense tbh. How insecure though?? I feel like Virgos need constant reassurance or they assume otherwise. Yet when you do it a lot, they get smothered. Weird balance lol.
i feel like this is why i keep attracting gemini moons coz i'd get reassurance then i'd feel smothered then i'll stop engaging with them but then they'll give me space so i will feel less pressured then reach back out and i'll be replying the way they want me to like i need it alternately. but the time gap should just be a couple of hours. and that's exactly what i get from gemini moons.
virgo moons are.... more slippery.
ooh i feel that haha. do you avoid confrontation too? at all costs??
ive noticed with ALL the virgos i know, if they THINK im mad at them or avoiding them, they just leave me alone until I reach out...my zodiac isnt like that im like HEY U MAD WASSUP BOO to everyone lol
sometimes coz i have Libra mars 1H
if it's something i feel can be resolved immediately then i'd start shit over it but if not (like i feel it's long and hopeless) then i just ghost
If a virgo says they are figuring things out and where they want things with you to go...is that a bad sign? lolclick to expand
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@aquatar1
at first i played with the idea that they may be playing hard to get but when i look at it the way i would at myself, i've never played that game but just LOOKED like i did.... never liked to waste my time but in matters of mutual interest, i come off very passive and i do get passive. but that's just because i need to be sure that it IS mutual.
thats understandable tbh. Would you change your mind quickly on a person? Like if you were into them and knew they were into you, would you ever be like nope gotta go bye? lol virgos seem so detached you never know
i can drop people in a heartbeat when i don't care much for them since i rarely am emotionally-engaged. unlike some people, i can give someone a 'chance' quickly but just as quickly discard them if it's just not 'right.' but i can come around the idea again at some point as well too (not likely but there's a CHANCE). and the crazy thing is, when i get too obsessed then i feel like i should take a break from everyone for a while.
if i'm comfortable (mentally/emotionally) with someone, that gives them more chances tbh.
Is there a point in time at which you wouldnt drop a person? Like how long do you have to be involved with them not to drop them?
honestly, i think it takes a long time. i need to become emotionally-engaged for me to able to hold on. but i can get sexually obsessive too. either one can make me hold on but neither are total guarantees that i won't let go if i get that 'not right' feeling.
in short, i can still always let go but that doesn't mean i won't come back around.
i'm a mutable after all.
That's wild to me, a fixed sign lol. I dont understand the concept of letting people just go.
The virgo I dealt with warmed up slowly, seemed really into me asked me out'/put in effort etc, and then dropped me it seems lol. I legit dont know why, I didnt do anything specific. Im far too direct and logical for this type of stuff, man virgos are wild lol
i let people go not just coz of actual/perceived issues that hurt me or i felt insecure about with them being the indirect cause of it but there's also that question of MUTUAL INTEREST. most Virgos are very insecure people, doesn't matter how good-looking they are, it's one of our well-known unfortunate traits. instead of overcompensating for that, we just leave the person alone. why force our interest in someone who lies there like a dead fish?
i need to feel a pulse from the other side to keep my own fire going. my obsession with this guy for example, should i sense in the future that there's something questionable about the pulse he's sending me in return, i CAN let him go just like that. it'd hurt me but i can do it in a heartbeat coz it's the right thing. i'd rather we be sincere about these things than for things to feel 'forced.' in this way, you can say we're very idealistic people.
Yeah that makes sense tbh. How insecure though?? I feel like Virgos need constant reassurance or they assume otherwise. Yet when you do it a lot, they get smothered. Weird balance lol.
i feel like this is why i keep attracting gemini moons coz i'd get reassurance then i'd feel smothered then i'll stop engaging with them but then they'll give me space so i will feel less pressured then reach back out and i'll be replying the way they want me to like i need it alternately. but the time gap should just be a couple of hours. and that's exactly what i get from gemini moons.
virgo moons are.... more slippery.
ooh i feel that haha. do you avoid confrontation too? at all costs??
ive noticed with ALL the virgos i know, if they THINK im mad at them or avoiding them, they just leave me alone until I reach out...my zodiac isnt like that im like HEY U MAD WASSUP BOO to everyone lol
sometimes coz i have Libra mars 1H
if it's something i feel can be resolved immediately then i'd start shit over it but if not (like i feel it's long and hopeless) then i just ghost
If a virgo says they are figuring things out and where they want things with you to go...is that a bad sign? lol
that''s a good sign
bad sign is when we ghost hahaclick to expand

Posted by aquatar1Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by aquatar1Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by aquatar1Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by aquatar1Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by aquatar1Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by aquatar1Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by aquatar1Posted by virgoOPPP
@aquatar1
at first i played with the idea that they may be playing hard to get but when i look at it the way i would at myself, i've never played that game but just LOOKED like i did.... never liked to waste my time but in matters of mutual interest, i come off very passive and i do get passive. but that's just because i need to be sure that it IS mutual.
thats understandable tbh. Would you change your mind quickly on a person? Like if you were into them and knew they were into you, would you ever be like nope gotta go bye? lol virgos seem so detached you never know
i can drop people in a heartbeat when i don't care much for them since i rarely am emotionally-engaged. unlike some people, i can give someone a 'chance' quickly but just as quickly discard them if it's just not 'right.' but i can come around the idea again at some point as well too (not likely but there's a CHANCE). and the crazy thing is, when i get too obsessed then i feel like i should take a break from everyone for a while.
if i'm comfortable (mentally/emotionally) with someone, that gives them more chances tbh.
Is there a point in time at which you wouldnt drop a person? Like how long do you have to be involved with them not to drop them?
honestly, i think it takes a long time. i need to become emotionally-engaged for me to able to hold on. but i can get sexually obsessive too. either one can make me hold on but neither are total guarantees that i won't let go if i get that 'not right' feeling.
in short, i can still always let go but that doesn't mean i won't come back around.
i'm a mutable after all.
That's wild to me, a fixed sign lol. I dont understand the concept of letting people just go.
The virgo I dealt with warmed up slowly, seemed really into me asked me out'/put in effort etc, and then dropped me it seems lol. I legit dont know why, I didnt do anything specific. Im far too direct and logical for this type of stuff, man virgos are wild lol
i let people go not just coz of actual/perceived issues that hurt me or i felt insecure about with them being the indirect cause of it but there's also that question of MUTUAL INTEREST. most Virgos are very insecure people, doesn't matter how good-looking they are, it's one of our well-known unfortunate traits. instead of overcompensating for that, we just leave the person alone. why force our interest in someone who lies there like a dead fish?
i need to feel a pulse from the other side to keep my own fire going. my obsession with this guy for example, should i sense in the future that there's something questionable about the pulse he's sending me in return, i CAN let him go just like that. it'd hurt me but i can do it in a heartbeat coz it's the right thing. i'd rather we be sincere about these things than for things to feel 'forced.' in this way, you can say we're very idealistic people.
Yeah that makes sense tbh. How insecure though?? I feel like Virgos need constant reassurance or they assume otherwise. Yet when you do it a lot, they get smothered. Weird balance lol.
i feel like this is why i keep attracting gemini moons coz i'd get reassurance then i'd feel smothered then i'll stop engaging with them but then they'll give me space so i will feel less pressured then reach back out and i'll be replying the way they want me to like i need it alternately. but the time gap should just be a couple of hours. and that's exactly what i get from gemini moons.
virgo moons are.... more slippery.
ooh i feel that haha. do you avoid confrontation too? at all costs??
ive noticed with ALL the virgos i know, if they THINK im mad at them or avoiding them, they just leave me alone until I reach out...my zodiac isnt like that im like HEY U MAD WASSUP BOO to everyone lol
sometimes coz i have Libra mars 1H
if it's something i feel can be resolved immediately then i'd start shit over it but if not (like i feel it's long and hopeless) then i just ghost
If a virgo says they are figuring things out and where they want things with you to go...is that a bad sign? lol
that''s a good sign
bad sign is when we ghost haha
I confronted my virgo for ghosting LOL and he said he never meant to and that hes been trying to take things as slow as possible cause hes figuring out things and where he wants thins to go...
does that sound like BS or genuine ?click to expand
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@aquatar1
at first i played with the idea that they may be playing hard to get but when i look at it the way i would at myself, i've never played that game but just LOOKED like i did.... never liked to waste my time but in matters of mutual interest, i come off very passive and i do get passive. but that's just because i need to be sure that it IS mutual.
thats understandable tbh. Would you change your mind quickly on a person? Like if you were into them and knew they were into you, would you ever be like nope gotta go bye? lol virgos seem so detached you never know
i can drop people in a heartbeat when i don't care much for them since i rarely am emotionally-engaged. unlike some people, i can give someone a 'chance' quickly but just as quickly discard them if it's just not 'right.' but i can come around the idea again at some point as well too (not likely but there's a CHANCE). and the crazy thing is, when i get too obsessed then i feel like i should take a break from everyone for a while.
if i'm comfortable (mentally/emotionally) with someone, that gives them more chances tbh.
Is there a point in time at which you wouldnt drop a person? Like how long do you have to be involved with them not to drop them?
honestly, i think it takes a long time. i need to become emotionally-engaged for me to able to hold on. but i can get sexually obsessive too. either one can make me hold on but neither are total guarantees that i won't let go if i get that 'not right' feeling.
in short, i can still always let go but that doesn't mean i won't come back around.
i'm a mutable after all.
That's wild to me, a fixed sign lol. I dont understand the concept of letting people just go.
The virgo I dealt with warmed up slowly, seemed really into me asked me out'/put in effort etc, and then dropped me it seems lol. I legit dont know why, I didnt do anything specific. Im far too direct and logical for this type of stuff, man virgos are wild lol
i let people go not just coz of actual/perceived issues that hurt me or i felt insecure about with them being the indirect cause of it but there's also that question of MUTUAL INTEREST. most Virgos are very insecure people, doesn't matter how good-looking they are, it's one of our well-known unfortunate traits. instead of overcompensating for that, we just leave the person alone. why force our interest in someone who lies there like a dead fish?
i need to feel a pulse from the other side to keep my own fire going. my obsession with this guy for example, should i sense in the future that there's something questionable about the pulse he's sending me in return, i CAN let him go just like that. it'd hurt me but i can do it in a heartbeat coz it's the right thing. i'd rather we be sincere about these things than for things to feel 'forced.' in this way, you can say we're very idealistic people.
Yeah that makes sense tbh. How insecure though?? I feel like Virgos need constant reassurance or they assume otherwise. Yet when you do it a lot, they get smothered. Weird balance lol.
i feel like this is why i keep attracting gemini moons coz i'd get reassurance then i'd feel smothered then i'll stop engaging with them but then they'll give me space so i will feel less pressured then reach back out and i'll be replying the way they want me to like i need it alternately. but the time gap should just be a couple of hours. and that's exactly what i get from gemini moons.
virgo moons are.... more slippery.
ooh i feel that haha. do you avoid confrontation too? at all costs??
ive noticed with ALL the virgos i know, if they THINK im mad at them or avoiding them, they just leave me alone until I reach out...my zodiac isnt like that im like HEY U MAD WASSUP BOO to everyone lol
sometimes coz i have Libra mars 1H
if it's something i feel can be resolved immediately then i'd start shit over it but if not (like i feel it's long and hopeless) then i just ghost
If a virgo says they are figuring things out and where they want things with you to go...is that a bad sign? lol
that''s a good sign
bad sign is when we ghost haha
I confronted my virgo for ghosting LOL and he said he never meant to and that hes been trying to take things as slow as possible cause hes figuring out things and where he wants thins to go...
does that sound like BS or genuine ?
i believe him
i'd ghost if there's no hopeclick to expand

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@aquatar1
at first i played with the idea that they may be playing hard to get but when i look at it the way i would at myself, i've never played that game but just LOOKED like i did.... never liked to waste my time but in matters of mutual interest, i come off very passive and i do get passive. but that's just because i need to be sure that it IS mutual.
thats understandable tbh. Would you change your mind quickly on a person? Like if you were into them and knew they were into you, would you ever be like nope gotta go bye? lol virgos seem so detached you never know
i can drop people in a heartbeat when i don't care much for them since i rarely am emotionally-engaged. unlike some people, i can give someone a 'chance' quickly but just as quickly discard them if it's just not 'right.' but i can come around the idea again at some point as well too (not likely but there's a CHANCE). and the crazy thing is, when i get too obsessed then i feel like i should take a break from everyone for a while.
if i'm comfortable (mentally/emotionally) with someone, that gives them more chances tbh.
Is there a point in time at which you wouldnt drop a person? Like how long do you have to be involved with them not to drop them?
honestly, i think it takes a long time. i need to become emotionally-engaged for me to able to hold on. but i can get sexually obsessive too. either one can make me hold on but neither are total guarantees that i won't let go if i get that 'not right' feeling.
in short, i can still always let go but that doesn't mean i won't come back around.
i'm a mutable after all.
That's wild to me, a fixed sign lol. I dont understand the concept of letting people just go.
The virgo I dealt with warmed up slowly, seemed really into me asked me out'/put in effort etc, and then dropped me it seems lol. I legit dont know why, I didnt do anything specific. Im far too direct and logical for this type of stuff, man virgos are wild lol
i let people go not just coz of actual/perceived issues that hurt me or i felt insecure about with them being the indirect cause of it but there's also that question of MUTUAL INTEREST. most Virgos are very insecure people, doesn't matter how good-looking they are, it's one of our well-known unfortunate traits. instead of overcompensating for that, we just leave the person alone. why force our interest in someone who lies there like a dead fish?
i need to feel a pulse from the other side to keep my own fire going. my obsession with this guy for example, should i sense in the future that there's something questionable about the pulse he's sending me in return, i CAN let him go just like that. it'd hurt me but i can do it in a heartbeat coz it's the right thing. i'd rather we be sincere about these things than for things to feel 'forced.' in this way, you can say we're very idealistic people.
Yeah that makes sense tbh. How insecure though?? I feel like Virgos need constant reassurance or they assume otherwise. Yet when you do it a lot, they get smothered. Weird balance lol.
i feel like this is why i keep attracting gemini moons coz i'd get reassurance then i'd feel smothered then i'll stop engaging with them but then they'll give me space so i will feel less pressured then reach back out and i'll be replying the way they want me to like i need it alternately. but the time gap should just be a couple of hours. and that's exactly what i get from gemini moons.
virgo moons are.... more slippery.
ooh i feel that haha. do you avoid confrontation too? at all costs??
ive noticed with ALL the virgos i know, if they THINK im mad at them or avoiding them, they just leave me alone until I reach out...my zodiac isnt like that im like HEY U MAD WASSUP BOO to everyone lol
sometimes coz i have Libra mars 1H
if it's something i feel can be resolved immediately then i'd start shit over it but if not (like i feel it's long and hopeless) then i just ghost
If a virgo says they are figuring things out and where they want things with you to go...is that a bad sign? lol
that''s a good sign
bad sign is when we ghost haha
I confronted my virgo for ghosting LOL and he said he never meant to and that hes been trying to take things as slow as possible cause hes figuring out things and where he wants thins to go...
does that sound like BS or genuine ?
i believe him
i'd ghost if there's no hope
does figuring things out for a virgo mean like...looking for something better/someone better or weighing out how things would go?? like whats the process? if you dont mind me asking. lol youre so help thank you!!click to expand
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at first i played with the idea that they may be playing hard to get but when i look at it the way i would at myself, i've never played that game but just LOOKED like i did.... never liked to waste my time but in matters of mutual interest, i come off very passive and i do get passive. but that's just because i need to be sure that it IS mutual.
thats understandable tbh. Would you change your mind quickly on a person? Like if you were into them and knew they were into you, would you ever be like nope gotta go bye? lol virgos seem so detached you never know
i can drop people in a heartbeat when i don't care much for them since i rarely am emotionally-engaged. unlike some people, i can give someone a 'chance' quickly but just as quickly discard them if it's just not 'right.' but i can come around the idea again at some point as well too (not likely but there's a CHANCE). and the crazy thing is, when i get too obsessed then i feel like i should take a break from everyone for a while.
if i'm comfortable (mentally/emotionally) with someone, that gives them more chances tbh.
Is there a point in time at which you wouldnt drop a person? Like how long do you have to be involved with them not to drop them?
honestly, i think it takes a long time. i need to become emotionally-engaged for me to able to hold on. but i can get sexually obsessive too. either one can make me hold on but neither are total guarantees that i won't let go if i get that 'not right' feeling.
in short, i can still always let go but that doesn't mean i won't come back around.
i'm a mutable after all.
That's wild to me, a fixed sign lol. I dont understand the concept of letting people just go.
The virgo I dealt with warmed up slowly, seemed really into me asked me out'/put in effort etc, and then dropped me it seems lol. I legit dont know why, I didnt do anything specific. Im far too direct and logical for this type of stuff, man virgos are wild lol
i let people go not just coz of actual/perceived issues that hurt me or i felt insecure about with them being the indirect cause of it but there's also that question of MUTUAL INTEREST. most Virgos are very insecure people, doesn't matter how good-looking they are, it's one of our well-known unfortunate traits. instead of overcompensating for that, we just leave the person alone. why force our interest in someone who lies there like a dead fish?
i need to feel a pulse from the other side to keep my own fire going. my obsession with this guy for example, should i sense in the future that there's something questionable about the pulse he's sending me in return, i CAN let him go just like that. it'd hurt me but i can do it in a heartbeat coz it's the right thing. i'd rather we be sincere about these things than for things to feel 'forced.' in this way, you can say we're very idealistic people.
Yeah that makes sense tbh. How insecure though?? I feel like Virgos need constant reassurance or they assume otherwise. Yet when you do it a lot, they get smothered. Weird balance lol.
i feel like this is why i keep attracting gemini moons coz i'd get reassurance then i'd feel smothered then i'll stop engaging with them but then they'll give me space so i will feel less pressured then reach back out and i'll be replying the way they want me to like i need it alternately. but the time gap should just be a couple of hours. and that's exactly what i get from gemini moons.
virgo moons are.... more slippery.
ooh i feel that haha. do you avoid confrontation too? at all costs??
ive noticed with ALL the virgos i know, if they THINK im mad at them or avoiding them, they just leave me alone until I reach out...my zodiac isnt like that im like HEY U MAD WASSUP BOO to everyone lol
sometimes coz i have Libra mars 1H
if it's something i feel can be resolved immediately then i'd start shit over it but if not (like i feel it's long and hopeless) then i just ghost
If a virgo says they are figuring things out and where they want things with you to go...is that a bad sign? lol
that''s a good sign
bad sign is when we ghost haha
I confronted my virgo for ghosting LOL and he said he never meant to and that hes been trying to take things as slow as possible cause hes figuring out things and where he wants thins to go...
does that sound like BS or genuine ?
i believe him
i'd ghost if there's no hope
does figuring things out for a virgo mean like...looking for something better/someone better or weighing out how things would go?? like whats the process? if you dont mind me asking. lol youre so help thank you!!
sometimes that can be it, that there might be someone else that i feel i may have a connection with but it could also be i'm trying to settle things in my life (job/career/health/friendships/family) before trying to start something with someone.click to expand

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Oops I thought this was virgo sun male.
Disregard
I was just about to comment. Did you get my PM dude? You gonna answer it after work or it wasn’t interesting enough to bother?
I would like to know if I will be waiting or wasting my time 🙂
It says I have no messages
Fucc! I guess it didn’t go through with the site acting up so much yesterday.
Sorry to bother you then. I wrote a lot and can’t remember most of it. Damn. That sucks. 😔
It's not in ur sent messages?
No 😭😭😭😭😭
I might try again later.
Send to my insta
I'll take a look. I think I blocked you when you pissed me off one day 😛
Add me again
I will later. I forgot the question btw. But I will add you back once I get off work. 🙂
How'd u forget the question? It's only been couple days. Think hard
This is the second time I tried sending you a message and it doesn’t work. My messages to other Virgos work fine 😜
I can’t remember your Instagram name so try messaging me it, since I can’t message you and I will add you back.
And I seriously can’t remember what the question was. I will try to think about it and see. It’s frustrating writing out long messages, just for them to disappear. I hate wasting my time with it.
U make things so difficult. Send me ur email so I can send u my phone number
Damn email and phone number all in one—? You live too close to me for all that 😆![]()
Download KIK. It's anonymous and there's nothing that connects social media.
I tried answering the PM and there was nothing in my outbox. I can receive them from you but can't send them back. I don't know whats wrong with the site.
My kik name is saggurl88 madeup- I made it for this site years ago to be able to talk offline safely 😆
I don't give my phone number out unless I really trust you or have met you already.
Sucks that the PM"s don't work- Sorry. Or you can send me a pm that has your Instagram- you just sent a "hey". I can add you back and message from there too. I don't know why I can only receive them and not reply. I'm not playing any games. I'm being serious. Stuff shouldn't be this difficult but obviously retrograde has other plans 😆click to expand

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Oops I thought this was virgo sun male.
Disregard
I was just about to comment. Did you get my PM dude? You gonna answer it after work or it wasn’t interesting enough to bother?
I would like to know if I will be waiting or wasting my time 🙂
It says I have no messages
Fucc! I guess it didn’t go through with the site acting up so much yesterday.
Sorry to bother you then. I wrote a lot and can’t remember most of it. Damn. That sucks. 😔
It's not in ur sent messages?
No 😭😭😭😭😭
I might try again later.
Send to my insta
I'll take a look. I think I blocked you when you pissed me off one day 😛
Add me again
I will later. I forgot the question btw. But I will add you back once I get off work. 🙂
How'd u forget the question? It's only been couple days. Think hard
This is the second time I tried sending you a message and it doesn’t work. My messages to other Virgos work fine 😜
I can’t remember your Instagram name so try messaging me it, since I can’t message you and I will add you back.
And I seriously can’t remember what the question was. I will try to think about it and see. It’s frustrating writing out long messages, just for them to disappear. I hate wasting my time with it.
U make things so difficult. Send me ur email so I can send u my phone number
Damn email and phone number all in one—? You live too close to me for all that 😆![]()
Download KIK. It's anonymous and there's nothing that connects social media.
I tried answering the PM and there was nothing in my outbox. I can receive them from you but can't send them back. I don't know whats wrong with the site.
My kik name is saggurl88 madeup- I made it for this site years ago to be able to talk offline safely 😆
I don't give my phone number out unless I really trust you or have met you already.
Sucks that the PM"s don't work- Sorry. Or you can send me a pm that has your Instagram- you just sent a "hey". I can add you back and message from there too. I don't know why I can only receive them and not reply. I'm not playing any games. I'm being serious. Stuff shouldn't be this difficult but obviously retrograde has other plans 😆
this guy is so blockableclick to expand
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