Shaniajam
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Virgo still interested?
Oh and he's Virgo sun taurus moon, Virgo Venus and Gemini mars.
Haven't heard from him since but I don't expect to this weekend since I'm headed out of town and we are now "friends" and now I honestly like this pace. Weird but I like it.
Forgot to mention while I was analyzing the text he said, plus my son needs to sit in jail for putting his hands on a woman cause I would never do that and I am in agreement with it. Shocked the hell out of me because I wanted to know why but he's been so closed off I didn't ask... and not sure why he felt to say this been thinking about it ever since. I'm lost what he wants.
Virgo do well being friends without the romance part of it.
It wouldn't surprise me if he feels more content that way.
It wouldn't surprise me if he feels more content that way.
Posted by WeedsCool. Thank you for clearing that up.
Virgo do well being friends without the romance part of it.
It wouldn't surprise me if he feels more content that way.
Perhaps he is trying to protect you from his son and doest want to start anything with the current drama in his life. Just not the right time yet? Do you know his Mercury sign?
Posted by NineAvenueHe's 41 ... I'm 33
What is this virgo guys age?
Yes he keeps shocking me with new information now... I was not expecting that text.. the last one was just me saying sorry about his son and I would help if I could then I realized we are just friends now though I don't want to be but he cancelled on me twice and I just felt rejected. His text was this:
Sorry I haven't gotten back to you but I'm been trying to catch up on sleep....ive been taking power naps all week....today I finally got some rest....lol...anyways my son Grandmother came down from Ohio so I'm going to see what they going to do.... As far as I'm concerned he needs to sit until he can learn not to put his hands on women....i don't stand for that at all.....thanks for being there tho... means alot
I was so shocked I took awhile to text back analyzing the hell out of it. I think he wanted to slow things down. But this showed me that he could still be interested? Thanks for the tip about being in broadcasting. That makes sense because it's hard to find a real person in this business... everyone stepping on you to get somewhere and not so genuine so I can understand his reserve as I do the same thing.
Oh he's a manager st a club AND does the engineering on the radio during the day. So he doesn't really sleep. That I know is true. And now it may be why he couldn't get the first date going. Now I see and I'm regretting but I'm just gonna take it slow and I'll update you if you want. Right now I'm just giving him his space and allowing him to contact when he's ready each time. I am busy too so keeping myself occupied is not a task, it's a daily thing.
Posted by NineAvenueThank you for this cause I needed to understand his take. Yes I am waiting for his move. I made a promise to myself to not lose myself in a man so I still do my thing and I hope one day he comes around. I really like him but I'm playing it cool. Give him space and wait for contact but you're right I should reach out as well.Posted by ShaniajamIf he told you that above, then that's a start into his busy life.Posted by NineAvenueHe's 41 ... I'm 33
What is this virgo guys age?
Yes he keeps shocking me with new information now... I was not expecting that text.. the last one was just me saying sorry about his son and I would help if I could then I realized we are just friends now though I don't want to be but he cancelled on me twice and I just felt rejected. His text was this:
Sorry I haven't gotten back to you but I'm been trying to catch up on sleep....ive been taking power naps all week....today I finally got some rest....lol...anyways my son Grandmother came down from Ohio so I'm going to see what they going to do.... As far as I'm concerned he needs to sit until he can learn not to put his hands on women....i don't stand for that at all.....thanks for being there tho... means alot
I was so shocked I took awhile to text back analyzing the hell out of it. I think he wanted to slow things down. But this showed me that he could still be interested? Thanks for the tip about being in broadcasting. That makes sense because it's hard to find a real person in this business... everyone stepping on you to get somewhere and not so genuine so I can understand his reserve as I do the same thing.
Someone (virgo) at his age in the industry he works in is looking for someone to be there when needed and maybe a lifetime partner to go along with all the no sleep at times. I don't think he's looking for some one time thing. Also knowing from experience how other women in this field love to make drama, you need to be able to handle that and he needs to know you can and go to him with problems.
Taurus sun and moon...your waiting on him to make the move and you will be patient. I would not wait idle around. Send a text or whatever but don't blow up his phone. When he texts back, always reply right back and not wait around, unless he knows you are working. His son is a good topic.
It might take a week or a year but don't give up. Everything you do he knows. I would not be surprised if you just randomly got flowers with no name attached. He wants honesty.click to expand
Posted by NineAvenueYeah I'm regretting blowing him off now but I don't know how to say it and I'm just letting the chips fall. I messed up that only cause I'm cautious. I hope he sees it sooner or later. Thank you for the advise.
I don't think he is flaking out on you either.....he has a lot on his plate to eat...
Posted by NineAvenueI have an issue expressing my feelings, like I don't wanna seem needy and as a Taurus I believe the man should approach and I did say that to him before the blow off... well I didn't hear anything from him since Friday, following what you said I texted first this time and he responded immediately. I complimented him on the show, told him I was thinking about him and reached out, asked about his son... and then here's the big one, I said we'll just checking in and glad you're ok cause I haven't heard from you, would love to talk to you more if that's ok? He said yes that's fine and he would reach out once he gets to his other job later tonight in which I replied that made me happy thank you. He ended it with "you're welcome" on top of that he played a series of song on the radio that kind of explained his emotions (I may be reading into it but this is not the regular mix and I can tell it was different from the normal segment). Is this a good thing? I'm nervous and I don't know why because we've talked and had video sex for gods sakes. Why do I have the shakes lol.Posted by ShaniajamWould be best to tell him why you blew him off....bc of being anxious and cautious. You'll get somewhere, even if he has had no sleep like me in the past 24 hours. This is something you should do in person or on the phone. He does not want to see that in a text message.Posted by NineAvenueYeah I'm regretting blowing him off now but I don't know how to say it and I'm just letting the chips fall. I messed up that only cause I'm cautious. I hope he sees it sooner or later. Thank you for the advise.
I don't think he is flaking out on you either.....he has a lot on his plate to eat...
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Posted by NineAvenueIt's a radio show for independent artists, they have a discussion portion (topic for the day) and then they play music almost for more than half the shows, two seperate segments for the day... well before, most of the songs were hip hop you know the new kinds like future and such, but never love songs or not much of it... lately though he'll mix it where it's still the hip hop music but the words are about being together, trusting, LOYALTY, sometimes it's about who he is like not having an easy upbringing and such. he's the engineer and he is the one who plays the songs cause I saw at the station when I did my interview and then there's the actual Dj who speaks. He's in the background but he handles the whole groove of the show behind the scenes so the songs that play I know it comes directly from him.
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What were the cuts played? What's the show format?
Posted by NineAvenueBy the way what did you mean by everything you do he knows? Do Virgo watch? So when I don't hear from him he's still watching? I took it as him not caring particularly. He doesn't ask me anything so that's where I thought this was a game, unless he already knows.Posted by ShaniajamIf he told you that above, then that's a start into his busy life.Posted by NineAvenueHe's 41 ... I'm 33
What is this virgo guys age?
Yes he keeps shocking me with new information now... I was not expecting that text.. the last one was just me saying sorry about his son and I would help if I could then I realized we are just friends now though I don't want to be but he cancelled on me twice and I just felt rejected. His text was this:
Sorry I haven't gotten back to you but I'm been trying to catch up on sleep....ive been taking power naps all week....today I finally got some rest....lol...anyways my son Grandmother came down from Ohio so I'm going to see what they going to do.... As far as I'm concerned he needs to sit until he can learn not to put his hands on women....i don't stand for that at all.....thanks for being there tho... means alot
I was so shocked I took awhile to text back analyzing the hell out of it. I think he wanted to slow things down. But this showed me that he could still be interested? Thanks for the tip about being in broadcasting. That makes sense because it's hard to find a real person in this business... everyone stepping on you to get somewhere and not so genuine so I can understand his reserve as I do the same thing.
Someone (virgo) at his age in the industry he works in is looking for someone to be there when needed and maybe a lifetime partner to go along with all the no sleep at times. I don't think he's looking for some one time thing. Also knowing from experience how other women in this field love to make drama, you need to be able to handle that and he needs to know you can and go to him with problems.
Taurus sun and moon...your waiting on him to make the move and you will be patient. I would not wait idle around. Send a text or whatever but don't blow up his phone. When he texts back, always reply right back and not wait around, unless he knows you are working. His son is a good topic.
It might take a week or a year but don't give up. Everything you do he knows. I would not be surprised if you just randomly got flowers with no name attached. He wants honesty.click to expand
Posted by NineAvenueI see. He's still acting aloof. I have no idea what to do now I don't even know what to ask you. One side of me wants to wait and the other side says go date someone else. I'm just irritated and sexually frustrated. I asked for video sex today which he said yes but then fell asleep. It's like I ask and nothing I want gets done and I can't do anything for him cause he's being distant. I'm in a gray space so I'm backing off this time and if he doesn't reach out from now until the event, then I'll know once the event is done we'll go our seperate ways. I don't have a problem waiting if we are both trying but I don't feel that right now. Thank you for explaining things to me, it has helped a great deal.Posted by ShaniajamHe could watch (not stalk) or ask about you through others.Posted by NineAvenueBy the way what did you mean by everything you do he knows? Do Virgo watch? So when I don't hear from him he's still watching? I took it as him not caring particularly. He doesn't ask me anything so that's where I thought this was a game, unless he already knows.Posted by ShaniajamIf he told you that above, then that's a start into his busy life.Posted by NineAvenueHe's 41 ... I'm 33
What is this virgo guys age?
Yes he keeps shocking me with new information now... I was not expecting that text.. the last one was just me saying sorry about his son and I would help if I could then I realized we are just friends now though I don't want to be but he cancelled on me twice and I just felt rejected. His text was this:
Sorry I haven't gotten back to you but I'm been trying to catch up on sleep....ive been taking power naps all week....today I finally got some rest....lol...anyways my son Grandmother came down from Ohio so I'm going to see what they going to do.... As far as I'm concerned he needs to sit until he can learn not to put his hands on women....i don't stand for that at all.....thanks for being there tho... means alot
I was so shocked I took awhile to text back analyzing the hell out of it. I think he wanted to slow things down. But this showed me that he could still be interested? Thanks for the tip about being in broadcasting. That makes sense because it's hard to find a real person in this business... everyone stepping on you to get somewhere and not so genuine so I can understand his reserve as I do the same thing.
Someone (virgo) at his age in the industry he works in is looking for someone to be there when needed and maybe a lifetime partner to go along with all the no sleep at times. I don't think he's looking for some one time thing. Also knowing from experience how other women in this field love to make drama, you need to be able to handle that and he needs to know you can and go to him with problems.
Taurus sun and moon...your waiting on him to make the move and you will be patient. I would not wait idle around. Send a text or whatever but don't blow up his phone. When he texts back, always reply right back and not wait around, unless he knows you are working. His son is a good topic.
It might take a week or a year but don't give up. Everything you do he knows. I would not be surprised if you just randomly got flowers with no name attached. He wants honesty.
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Posted by NineAvenueLol thank you. That kind of put me at ease with just one sentence. Weird. Like I know you but I don't. you're very reassuring, so thank you. Well back to reading and researching on google lol.Posted by ShaniajamI fall asleep aslo...patience taurusPosted by NineAvenueI see. He's still acting aloof. I have no idea what to do now I don't even know what to ask you. One side of me wants to wait and the other side says go date someone else. I'm just irritated and sexually frustrated. I asked for video sex today which he said yes but then fell asleep. It's like I ask and nothing I want gets done and I can't do anything for him cause he's being distant. I'm in a gray space so I'm backing off this time and if he doesn't reach out from now until the event, then I'll know once the event is done we'll go our seperate ways. I don't have a problem waiting if we are both trying but I don't feel that right now. Thank you for explaining things to me, it has helped a great deal.Posted by ShaniajamHe could watch (not stalk) or ask about you through others.Posted by NineAvenueBy the way what did you mean by everything you do he knows? Do Virgo watch? So when I don't hear from him he's still watching? I took it as him not caring particularly. He doesn't ask me anything so that's where I thought this was a game, unless he already knows.Posted by ShaniajamIf he told you that above, then that's a start into his busy life.Posted by NineAvenueHe's 41 ... I'm 33
What is this virgo guys age?
Yes he keeps shocking me with new information now... I was not expecting that text.. the last one was just me saying sorry about his son and I would help if I could then I realized we are just friends now though I don't want to be but he cancelled on me twice and I just felt rejected. His text was this:
Sorry I haven't gotten back to you but I'm been trying to catch up on sleep....ive been taking power naps all week....today I finally got some rest....lol...anyways my son Grandmother came down from Ohio so I'm going to see what they going to do.... As far as I'm concerned he needs to sit until he can learn not to put his hands on women....i don't stand for that at all.....thanks for being there tho... means alot
I was so shocked I took awhile to text back analyzing the hell out of it. I think he wanted to slow things down. But this showed me that he could still be interested? Thanks for the tip about being in broadcasting. That makes sense because it's hard to find a real person in this business... everyone stepping on you to get somewhere and not so genuine so I can understand his reserve as I do the same thing.
Someone (virgo) at his age in the industry he works in is looking for someone to be there when needed and maybe a lifetime partner to go along with all the no sleep at times. I don't think he's looking for some one time thing. Also knowing from experience how other women in this field love to make drama, you need to be able to handle that and he needs to know you can and go to him with problems.
Taurus sun and moon...your waiting on him to make the move and you will be patient. I would not wait idle around. Send a text or whatever but don't blow up his phone. When he texts back, always reply right back and not wait around, unless he knows you are working. His son is a good topic.
It might take a week or a year but don't give up. Everything you do he knows. I would not be surprised if you just randomly got flowers with no name attached. He wants honesty.
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