Virgo woman playing?! (Page 2)

Shaks... I did not create this with the purpose to enjoy any freakin' drama.
I NEEDED advice. I got GREAT advice, but I needed confidence.
I was working on it. I tried to convince myself that I'd get where I wanted. To give a positive feel to it.
I don't think it's irrelevant that she's a Virgo.
And I did get past the eye contact phase!! We did talk! Too little. But still.

I know it went on painfully long. I say WENT. After reading this I KNOW that you will say I have myself to blame.
I know!!!!! I am sharing this with you since I feel I owe it to you, who have cared in one way or another.
I guess it was good timing with your recent comments in mind.

Was out last night, walking in thoughts. Thinking about her of course.
There was a couple standing the way I was headed.
It looked like her.
Not quite sure I slowed down, picked up my phone as if I got a message or smth. That gave me a chance
to take a closer look. Yeah, there she was. Holding some guy's hand. Kissing.
I pressed the keys to my phone like some maniac. Looking busy. Thinking: Should I turn back or walk by her? By Them.
She saw me.
The guy left. I kept walking her way. She smiled at me. Of course she smiled, she was apparently in love.

She mouthed a hi. Stupid as I am I slowed down. Almost stopped before her. She kept looking at me.
All those things I longed to tell her. They vanished there. All these months of longing. Those short weeks of nice little talks. Those stupid little snacks I brought her. None of that mattered.
I guess I mouthed a hi too. But unlike her I didn't smile.


As I walked by her, she started to walk the other way. But she stopped.
I turned to look at her, and she turned to look at me.
As if she wanted to say something but forgot that HEY, there's NOTHING more to say.
I kept walking.
There was no compassion in that look, she was simply happy.
Maybe she realized afterwards that Mr. Loser just had his heart broken all over the place.
Maybe that's what she saw and liked it. Why do I have to think about it?!

I don't think she's been seeing him that long. This explains why she went away.
I feel empty. But I'll be fine. Thanks to all who gave their time.

Once again a special thanks to StringsAttached!! P-Angel, I'm perfectly aware of the differences in conversation.
I see Shaks point. It was all mainly about my miserable situation, but it derived from an interest in getting to know someone's personality. Hence the astro connection.

Hi leoleo,
you and I are virtually in the same boat (I have read all of this *endless thread*). We are both confused and distressed by the virgo women in our lives.
I would like to shine some virgo knowledge on you and let you know that you are not alone.
I am a second year college student, a leo, who has fallen for a beautiful lady who just happens to be a virgo. I have spent two years checking her out to see what she is like and have found that she is funny, witty and detrimental to my health.
Detrimental to your health because once you fall for a virgo girl, you fall hard. There is no escape, once you fall into those black hole eyes and discover the potential for something leo likes, you're hooked. She doesn't even have to say it, she makes you want to run a million miles and cimb Mount Everest because you feel it will please her somewhat to see a knight in shining armour, who strives for perfection just as much as she does (and besides it boosts leo's ego as well doesn't it?)
Quite simply, I have discovered that she is picky. Ironic, though she can even have deep emotions for the people she cares about, she just doesn't show these emotions as easily as you would wish (even I know this after two years). If you can make virgo girl laugh, she could become fixated with you. She will criticize because if you have big imperfections, she could be turned off greatly, she may not be saying anything to you because she feels that you are shattered and cannot be mended (no offence). You could always compliment this virgo lady of yours. Become a good friend because virgo is one of the most loyal friends you can have.
I know you leo boy, you probably want more than friendship, you find it hard to separate love and sex. Well sex isn't virgos first priority but that doesn't mean she's not into you too. She's probably been taken by another man, all this time and you didn't realise it, virgos can be into elicit romance that noone must find out about.
I understand that she broke your heart. She probably didn't look at you because she was guilty that she once made you feel adored and wanted but you couldn't have her because she was taken already perhaps. She may look at you with 'evils' because she hates herself for what she has done.
The greatest advice I can give (from my own experience) is perfect yourself. Once she sees that you are perfect, stable and you are definitely into her, she will come round. Good luck.

I have to say, I found this site whilst browsing and last night read these 7 pages on the edge of my seat....will he won't he (yes I'm that sad!) but more than that I was amazed at what I learned about myself as a Virgo - haha your insights are amazing. I am sooooo the virgo female that plays it so cool I appear as if I'm ice and the one who is interest reads that as I'm a pure beatch, but then the males I see only as friends/colleagues it doesn't even enter my mind to be shy. I loved it so much I decided to join.

Well whatever happened to your virgo woman leoleo?? I am a gemini and the things you described your virgo woman doing---the avoiding, the coldness, the looking away, etc etc are all things i do when i am really really into a guy. I notice that you have a moon in capricorn as i do and one thing i know is that cap moons tend to be very insecure when it comes unto emotional stuff and they fear rejection big time! so i think this has to do more with our cap moons because i guess u became emotionally attached to her. I am dating/involved with a virgo man and although we have slept together i still feel very nervous around him and i'm like when will this ever end— Alot of things has attributed to this esp because he's always so serious around me i find it hard to open up so i tend to close off and be all detached---(when of course thats far from what i'm feeling) but this has led to me being very reserved and nervous around him. The one thing i can say is to be yourself and the person you like can only like or not like you and if they dont like you well atleast you're not afraid to live---i.e. living means taking a risk and being able to handle the consequences whether good or bad. So i also hope i can take my own advice and stop this foolishness of being nervous around him and just being comfy. The nervousness comes from not wanting to be all emotional or show emotions because to a cap moon that is a sign of weakness and we have to be in control of our emotions no matter what!! But in this life, emotions are good because when you're able to feel and act on emotions (of course not in a psychotic way) then you find that good things happen. Hiding away accomplishes nothing.

What happened to your storyyy plzzzzz updateeeeeeeee...

Meh...

Posted by -sierra-
maybe she doesn't know why you keep looking at her

The thread is 9 yrs old lol. But maybe he got the girl?...