Virgo's True Compatibility

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This entry is rated M for Mature, though not for anything most of you can't handle (mainly soft profanity use). It is also quite long. And the mood was only set as Indifferent this time, because there is no slightly sad mood setting, and the Sad one is too exaggerated.

Okay, so... I've been noticing in this past year, as I become more familiar with the zodiacs and their compatibility (or incompatibility) that there is a lot of compatibility/incompatibility misinformation out there. I actually had to delete one horribly off site from the Wikipedia Virgo article's link list. Clearly, it was the idiot who made the ghetto-ass, incorrect astrology site who linked it, and they just randomly did so without anyone's approval or support. I mean, that one was so horribly bad, that... That may have been a Troll. (Internet Slang: Troll = Person who intentionally says/posts things in attempt to get a reaction. Synonymous with Flamebaiter.)

It used to be that most every source, books included, seemed to state Virgo is most compatible with Scorpio and Cancer, as are the other two with each other, in a triangle of compatibility. Because, as many individuals can probably tell you, that's wrong, now it seems to be becoming quite common to find other claims of what signs are most compatible. I mean... It's good that they're trying to get to the bottom of this, and figure things out, but some of these people are not qualified, at all. Most of the zodiacs are people incapable of working astrology themselves; they're completely socially retarded. I don't mean they can't talk, I mean they're clueless in regards to humanity. They don't know anything about how people function or why, so how could they possibly be able to determine which signs do and don't get along? They can't even tell what people they're compatible with, so WTF?

In regards to the old claim that Virgo is most compatible with Cancer and Scorpio that is now thankfully being questioned by others... Here's how it's wrong. While we do get along, to an extent, it's only to an extent, at a superficial level. How do I know this? Because I'm a part of an ex-friend triangle with a Scorpio and a Cancer, myself being the Virgo. Things fell apart, and of course they did. As kids, we were so much more superficial, and just befriended whomever we befriended, and what superficial similarities were there (some shared more superficial interests and t
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superficial interests and tastes) drew and held us together quite well all the way through most of school. But, when adulthood started to bud in, things started to change. In fact, all through high school there had been complications. We started to show our true natures, our true colors, what we're really made of. And, it didn't mix very well. Sure, we can have fun together... But, is that really enough? It is for kids, but that can't be it as adults. Grown ups have to be more selective and narrow their friendship and dating choices down if they want a happy, successful life. Compatibility starts to be quite important. Many people never properly learn this, which is why divorce is so common, but some of us do, such as I have.

Virgo and Cancer can get along, yes. But, we're nowhere near as compatible as we could be. In fact, I've come to realize that Cancers are actually quite disturbing people. They're all niceness, sweetness, generosity, concern, and fluff on the outside, but between that old friend and another Cancer I knew a long time ago... I've come to see that it's quite different inside their heads. They're actually total psychopaths. The kind whom need to be locked up to avoid their doing anything stupid and dangerous, maybe even deadly? That old friend often admitted to me that she often dreamt of killing and cutting up her own family, a family which was actually way better than for which she was crediting it. She claims to be this family devoted, family aspired individual, yet she was dreaming of killing her family at the same time. Clearly, the family aspiration bit is just an act and not who she really is. She also had a habit of writing bad hate songs. And, dreamt in black and white. And, while now she looks and acts yet more preppy (for work), she's surely still a total unhealthy nutcase. Yeah, so this is a bad match for a Virgo, since Virgos don't want their families killed and chopped into pieces... Nor do we want a spouse with such extreme issues hidden away. How can you trust a person like that? & The other Cancer I mentioned liked to go out and shoot random animals (cute kinds, like bunnies)(and, that reminds me, the Cancer old friend hates animals, too) with his BB gun, and was a total asshole, and basically... Of the exact profile who would eventually go into their school/work loaded with firearms, and... Well, it should be obvious what they're going to do with it. Considering Virgos are genuinely loving, family devoting kinds of pe
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Considering Virgos are genuinely loving, family devoting kinds of people... They're not compatible. (To make matters worse, that same Cancer friend tried to say that I'm the unhealthy one, just because I'm introverted. WTF!?)

Likewise, Virgo and Scorpio can get along, yes. But, again, only at a superficial level, though they are, for the most part, a better match than Virgo and Cancer. (Virgo & Cancer fights = can go into literal fistfights, while Virgo & Scorpio fights are usually just verbal, with the exception being Virgo/Scorpio sibling pairings, who may actually get physically violent, though even then usually not as intensely as a Cancer and Virgo could get.) Now, I will admit these two can certainly get along, and when they don't they just bounce right back, but there in lies the problem. It is the Virgo that's bouncing back, after the Scorpio starts trouble. It's an unhealthy relationship, and if the Scorpio realizes what they can get away with... That's bad. My old Scorpio mate actually screwed with my relationships. Seriously. She clearly didn't want me to have a boyfriend, as she liked to do things that would keep me quite virgin. I'm pretty sure it's envy.
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get really happy and confident when I'm in a relationship (even if I can't even get hugs out of it! Just knowing someone likes me does wonders!), to the point that gives me a huge attraction boost to the opposite sex. She doesn't have that; she gets into bad relationships that ultimately do the opposite of making her happy. And, she was already less attractive than me in the first place, which by now I'm quite certain bugged her. So, she liked to screw with my relationships. She made one guy dump me, and another, after being informed I was interested in him, she's now screwing despite having no serious interest in him of her own. How fucked up is that? (And, that poor guy is a fellow Virgo!) So, I'm very much looking forward to moving away from this state, and she is a huge part of why. Virgos and Scorpios can get along, but if the Scorpio has ulterior motives of any kind (which most do most of the time), the Virgo will become just another victim. These two form the classic "honeymooners" abuse relationship that they warn you about in dating safety lectures in high school. And, this is far from the only Scorpio I've known, so don't bother saying this relationship was some kind of exception. There is only one Scorpio I know whom I never have trouble with, and she's a Libra-cusp, which makes her much nicer than the average Scorpio, less likely to pull those kinds of tricks. And, that is an example of an exception to how things generally work.
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So, as I've established, Scorpio and Cancer are definitely not the most compatible signs to Virgo. (Though, they're not the least compatible either.) So, who is? That's easy. In actuality, most of us are most compatible with those of the same element as us. So, the real high compatibility triangle Virgo lies in is one that can simply be referred to as the Earth triangle. The Virgo, Scorpio, Cancer triangle didn't have an obvious name like that, further proof they aren't really that similar. The true highest compatible signs with Virgo... And, I found this out the hard way due to all these books and websites giving that same old wrong triangle... The zodiacs I best get along with are... Capricorn, and Taurus. Capricorn, Taurus, and Virgo are the Earth compatibility triangle. They will not be anywhere near as happy with anyone else as they are with each other. Hell, I even get along better with Leos, Arians, and a number of others than I do with Scorpios and Cancers. How funny is that? Of course, those individuals I also wouldn't want to end up marrying, since I'd rather have someone much more suiting, such as a Capricorn.

Now that Capricorn, Taurus, Aries, and Leo have been brought up, this brings us to the incompatibility misinformation. The horrible site I mentioned before I found wrongly linked to the Wikipedia Virgo page... It claimed that Virgo's best match is Taurus, and worst match is Capricorn, which makes no sense whatsoever. I've had way better luck and experience with the latter of those two, and both are kind of similar, and both are pretty decent matches for Virgo, so I really don't see what logic that was based on. Also, there are sites that say I can't get along with Aries and Leo, even though I have absolutely no trouble with them whatsoever. I mean, maybe I would in a romantic relationship, but as friends they're pretty good. I mean... They're certainly more comfortingly honest and reliable than Cancer and Scorpio. (And, that's funny since Scorpio and Cancer try to claim it's the other way around...) It's funny now to know how stupid I had been as a kid to have actually thought those two were my best friendship match, and that their signs would be best for a boyfriend. It's a good thing I didn't pay attention to the guys' zodiacs in a restrictive manner when I dated (if you can call just calling each other boy/girlfriend and hugging on occasion dating). If I had, I'd have never realized how screwed up Sagittarians are, or how awesome Ca
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Capricorns are. That would have been quite a shame... Since the latter of those two is potentially my best match.

Now that I've established which two signs are the most compatible with Virgo, and which are not the most incompatible... It's on to say which signs when joined with Virgo make a hellicious match that will ultimately end in brutal divorce. So, which are they? Sagittarius and Gemini. Why? These are the two most dishonest, unfaithful, untrustworthy signs in the entire zodiac system, with Pisces following behind them. Since Earths are the opposite of that, it really shouldn't be a surprise. The two are probably not going to get along with any point of the Earth triangle. I can name only one exception to this rule, which makes only one out of the three Gemini I've known. I figure this means she's on a cusp, like the before mentioned Scorpio-Libra cusp friend. It's funny really, she's a Gemini, yet she doesn't entirely act, or dress, like one, she actually tries to make and hold friendships, and doesn't run around lying or manipulating people. (Usual female Gemini dress, I've realized consists of skimpy shorts [or on the occasion of wanting to feel "like a hooker", a not even Slutty skirt instead] and tight sweaters, while this particular Gemini girl wears baggy pants and t-shirts), I've been told she was Slutty back in school, yet she's loyal to her significant other, and she's still way more honest and trustworthy than the very people who called her Slutty (and those who used such as an excuse to say she's lesser than them, are such themselves, with less loyalty, giving them no room to talk).
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And, both of those fore-mentioned cuspers happened to have started being my friend in the same timeframe, which was the same timeframe my old favored friendships started to seriously, officially fall apart... There was even a third cusped person, a male I grew quite fond of. (Why'd he have to go and be an idiot and ditch me for no good reason on spur of the moment? WTF was that about? Almost no mistake I ever made in regards to him was anything he hadn't already made first.) I still find that quite weird. Three cusped companions coming into one's life in the same time? The Gemini-cusping Taurus was basically my best friend (I even fell in love with that bastard), and I'm going to blame his stupidity on the Gemini cusping, which probably is exactly what was wrong with him. And, by now, the Libra-cusped Scorpio is my best friend. Hopefully she's not going to leave me over something petty, too. I'd probably grow quite bitter if she did... And, I'm already on the bitter side as it is from my first two best friends, and then that hypocritical swine that should have realized how much I cared for him... Hopefully, I can get over these events before another comes my way. If the Fates will permit... Please?
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I have met a Cancer psychopath, seriously. It scares me to hella bits, her emotionally maniulative ways. oh nevermind.

Oh yeah, and Virgos are not always kind and loving kinda people, but you already knew that. I knew 2 virgo sun/ leo moon girls and they were real nasty. One was my classmate and she kept trying that underhanded sabotage whilst presenting a very caring facade..

I would still pair virgo with scorpio, I'm not quite sure why, but I damn well agree the earth signs best fit their own.
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Posted by *Tasha
she's Virgo rising and sun. (aries moon)

and i can't tell her any kind of private information whatsoever. because she is the FIRST to blackmail and just UGH!



I have never liked any Virgo sun Aries mooners. One is Amy whinehouse. She's sexy yeah, but seriously, ugh.
Another,she talks like she's the ruler of the world; there's no ounce of feminity in her speech. It's just wow..
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i thought everyone hated gems? i think there's just a lotta hating going on in general. the board is going through a phase. it will pass eventually. i see it all the time. in a way it's like living with each other. particularly if ur addicted. it's a normal pattern.

i remember my first cancer bf was incredibly manipulative and a creep but we were so young. he was immature. i was too. the one that is after me now is in his early 30's and isn't like that at all. maybe the fire in his chart helps?
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So how about Virgo Guy w Leo Female compatibility?

Im Leo/Virgo cusp
ME HIM
Sun Leo Virgo
Moon Leo Leo
Merc Virgo Libra
Venus Leo Leo
Mars Aqua Sag
Jup Scorp Libra
Saturn Gem Taurus
Uranus Libra Libra
Neptune Sag Scorp
Pluto Virgo Virgo
Lilith Libra Cancer
Asc Aqua Scorp

Hmmmm.... wondering what the staying power of these two signs may bring? We seem to have a lot of simlar placements in our charts. I didnt see any mention of Leo (good or bad) in your post LV. Any experiences?
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Posted by LeoLadyLovesToBeLoved
So how about Virgo Guy w Leo Female compatibility? Im Leo/Virgo cusp ME HIM Sun Leo Virgo Moon Leo Leo Merc Virgo Libra Venus Leo Leo Mars Aqua Sag Jup Scorp Libra Saturn Gem Taurus Uranus Libra Libra Neptune Sag Scorp Pluto Virgo Virgo Lilith Libra Cancer Asc Aqua Scorp Hmmmm.... wondering what the staying power of these two signs may bring? We seem to have a lot of simlar placements in our charts. I didnt see any mention of Leo (good or bad) in your post LV. Any experiences?

just looking at that cart u guys are going to have great sex i had a girl who had the same venus as me and she was the best and im the best for her.. u guys have the same moon that good for long term bc u understand each other. plus same venus u both like each other romantic style ..
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Posted by ninjamu
i thought everyone hated gems? i think there's just a lotta hating going on in general. the board is going through a phase. it will pass eventually. i see it all the time. in a way it's like living with each other. particularly if ur addicted. it's a normal pattern.

i remember my first cancer bf was incredibly manipulative and a creep but we were so young. he was immature. i was too. the one that is after me now is in his early 30's and isn't like that at all. maybe the fire in his chart helps?



My Daddy was a Gem.... I loved him!!! LOL!!! But, hey he ended up cheating on her and the later divorced... sigh..... the dual personalities of the Gemini!! Mom was a Virgo too.... so.... more fuel for that fire on the compatibility of those signs!

I do have a bf that is dating a Gemini man though... shes a Taurus and boy does she keep his ass in check! Maybe thats the key to a Gem... put him with a Bull.... she'll stomp the crap out of him in no time!
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So how about Virgo Guy w Leo Female compatibility? Im Leo/Virgo cusp ME HIM Sun Leo Virgo Moon Leo Leo Merc Virgo Libra Venus Leo Leo Mars Aqua Sag Jup Scorp Libra Saturn Gem Taurus Uranus Libra Libra Neptune Sag Scorp Pluto Virgo Virgo Lilith Libra Cancer Asc Aqua Scorp Hmmmm.... wondering what the staying power of these two signs may bring? We seem to have a lot of simlar placements in our charts. I didnt see any mention of Leo (good or bad) in your post LV. Any experiences?

just looking at that cart u guys are going to have great sex i had a girl who had the same venus as me and she was the best and im the best for her.. u guys have the same moon that good for long term bc u understand each other. plus same venus u both like each other romantic style ..
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SWEET! We are still getting to know each other... a new relationship.... Im going to see him this weekend so we will see how this all works out! Thanks!
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Very interesting.

I'm 90% sure most of the older Virgos will totally dismiss the Capricorn being the best claim though. They all had their fair share of Capricorns and hardly a good story to relate.

I personally can't speak on the issue though, the only Capricorn woman in my life is my mom and with her attributes, I certainly would not marry a woman like her.

As for Scorpio, the superficial stuff happens early on in the relationship much like others but it gets better with time. The question is, do you have the patience to tolerate their angry outbursts and moody ways, their twisting of words.

Cancer women confuse the hell out of me, so I never saw any potential there. I am as attracted to them as much as I don't understand them.

I hope for your sake you find the woman you are looking for, Taurus women appeal to me more 🙂
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Posted by LeoLadyLovesToBeLoved
So how about Virgo Guy w Leo Female compatibility?

Im Leo/Virgo cusp
ME HIM
Sun Leo Virgo
Moon Leo Leo
Merc Virgo Libra
Venus Leo Leo
Mars Aqua Sag
Jup Scorp Libra
Saturn Gem Taurus
Uranus Libra Libra
Neptune Sag Scorp
Pluto Virgo Virgo
Lilith Libra Cancer
Asc Aqua Scorp

Hmmmm.... wondering what the staying power of these two signs may bring? We seem to have a lot of simlar placements in our charts. I didnt see any mention of Leo (good or bad) in your post LV. Any experiences?



well my parents are both leos i can't stand my father at all my moms i love to death i guess its ma leo moon
my father and i always bump heads wen i was young thank tha lord he doesn't live with me and moms it woulda been
non stop Armageddons lmao
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Posted by LeoLadyLovesToBeLoved
So how about Virgo Guy w Leo Female compatibility?

Im Leo/Virgo cusp
ME HIM
Sun Leo Virgo
Moon Leo Leo
Merc Virgo Libra
Venus Leo Leo
Mars Aqua Sag
Jup Scorp Libra
Saturn Gem Taurus
Uranus Libra Libra
Neptune Sag Scorp
Pluto Virgo Virgo
Lilith Libra Cancer
Asc Aqua Scorp

Hmmmm.... wondering what the staying power of these two signs may bring? We seem to have a lot of simlar placements in our charts. I didnt see any mention of Leo (good or bad) in your post LV. Any experiences?



Holy crap. I predict hot and lusty Leo + Virgo action right there!
I'm really starting to believe that Virgo M + Leo F = magical combo
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I'm a virgo/libra cusp and I would have to agree in part with the writer of the blog that was posted. Cancers are very strange people to us. I used to know one Cancer guy, and he'd share the most bizzare and scary kind of stories with me over the phone. Maybe he was making most of this stuff up, but if he wasn't, he belongs in prison. For example he told me how he had sex with his 12-year-old babysitter and she was the one who wanted it. Even so, he should have been the adult enough (he was 35) to stop her. And he told me how he would pimp out his wife to his friends and co-workers in order to get a job promotion. Then, he wondered why she left him to be with another man. I think it's kind of obvious. This is just some of the sick and disgusting stuff that I could never understand.
Sadly, I also agree about Scorpios. I was friends with one woman. At least I considered her a friend. She, however was looking for any kind of way to sabotage my relationship with a Taurus. Oh, she'd act all sweet to my face but she'd go behind my back and do everything she can to make sure he ditches me. Needless to say, her evil plan worked. I never loved anyone more. To the day I die I will love only him and noone else. He's about to marry someone else whom he's crazy in love with so I don't stand a chance anymore. The scorpio believed she could have him but she was not attractive at all and stalked him and gossiped about him all the time. Gald he didn't end up with someone like that. I'm actually, sincerely happy for him. He deserves to love and be loved.
I've learned that I am not compattible with Capricorns. Or maybe it was that particular Capricorn. Was a nice guy first day we met, had a sparkle in his eyes like he liked me a lot, turned into a jerk within two weeks of knowing me. I don't think he owned a wallet because I had to pay for literally everything for him, from a Cheeseburger, to a rental movie. He was ok to me when we were alone together but in front of his friends he acted like I was some hooker who for some strange reason didn't leave after the sex. We never had sex because I guess he wasn't that into me. I helped him pack up his stuff for a move and he treated me like crap. Then, I found out he was a cross-dresser. I'm sorry but that's the kind of drama I don't stick around for!
Virgo men, I don't know about. Might be too much for me but I want to give it a try.
I find that I work best with Tauruses, although most of my relationships with them end abrup
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I find that I work best with Tauruses, although most of my relationships with them end abruptly. There were two other cases when I was with Tauruses. One of them admitted to be mentally ill and stalking me on the internet with some kind of software, the other turned out to be married. Which of course he didn't tell me upfront. I don't do married men if I know they're married.
I hope I didn't offend anybody here. Those were just some of my experiences. I don't really label people based on their zodiac signs. In reality, I don't know what was influencing them to act the way they acted. Stars could have very little to do with it. Sometimes I don't even know their Sun sign until we break up, then I check based on when they told me their birthday was to see why we didn't click.
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Well well, this is pretty acurrate...to an extent. I have never liked cancers, something about them irks me I'm sorry. My bff is a scorpio, and even though we have times where she get's on my nerves and won't take me ( a virgo) seriously, I love her, she's my nee-chan. ^.^ I also have a Gemini bff, she's a tough one. We're so close, but get her around a large crowd and you'd swear we didn't know each other. She's my nee-chan as well though. I also have a Libra and Leo friend, and we get along famously. My boyfriend is a Sagittarian, and wow, I would never have guessed. He's been more serious about me than I am about him from the beginning (cautious Virgo guarding her heart, lol). But he's never lied or been unfaithful (my BS detector is ALWAY going). He even said I love you first. (I still have yet to have said it back, lol). The point of all this I guess, is that zodiac signs only do so much, because individual personalities come into play as well. But overall, once again this was sort of accurate
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Well well, this is pretty acurrate...to an extent. I have never liked cancers, something about them irks me I'm sorry. My bff is a scorpio, and even though we have times where she get's on my nerves and won't take me ( a virgo) seriously, I love her, she's my nee-chan. ^.^ I also have a Gemini bff, she's a tough one. We're so close, but get her around a large crowd and you'd swear we didn't know each other. She's my nee-chan as well though. I also have a Libra and Leo friend, and we get along famously. My boyfriend is a Sagittarian, and wow, I would never have guessed. He's been more serious about me than I am about him from the beginning (cautious Virgo guarding her heart, lol). But he's never lied or been unfaithful (my BS detector is ALWAY going). He even said I love you first. (I still have yet to have said it back, lol). The point of all this I guess, is that zodiac signs only do so much, because individual personalities come into play as well. But overall, once again this was sort of accurate



lmao at nee-chan i love Japanese language plus i'ma big anime fan fav shows dbz naruto bleach and alot more to name 2 much tho lol
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So how about Virgo Guy w Leo Female compatibility?

My Parents: Leo Mom & Virgo Dad. Inseparable, harmonious, passionate, and dynamic (yes, Virgo can be dynamic!)... He idolized her, and she never took that for granted. She respected him, and he never forgot it...



Dy, you had me thinking about this a little bit over the weekend. If I may ask, what are your parent's Moon and Rising?

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I'm not surprised that Libra Women topped our list: We are more "mental" than emotional...



Ok, Q-Bone argues that you need to reach virgo men via the mind. You say that the emotions are very important. Who is right?

I have seen virgo-air couples. It seems that the virgo men are attracted to the detachment and intellectuality of the libra, aquarius and gemini woman. But, I rarely see the pairings work long term or at least in a healthy way.
That is, these are not the happy couples.

If anything, the happiest and successful pairings I have seen are virgo-virgo, virgo-taurus, virgo-scorpio, virgo-cancer.
Virgo-pisces always ends up badly and I do know of virgo-capricorn pairings but it is a power struggle all of the time.
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But doesn't depend on the person chart wat if a virgo has personal planets in air or fire sign then what
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VH: Holy crap. I predict hot and lusty Leo + Virgo action right there!

Uh... my parents had 5 children... very fertile couple!




Thanks for the posts guys! I am back from my weekend with Mr. Virgo (this is our second weekend spending actual time together) and things went well. Looks like both of you may have some good points. Im still holding back a little with him though. I would be lying if I said I didnt still harbour some feelings for my recent ex-Pisces.... and he still texts me everyday with words... but no action... so its a bit hard to let go even though I have moved on from the relationship.

No1delete2.... you mentioned that your parents were the same combo and that he adored her and she never took it for granted.... well.... that sounds very much like this relationship as well. I know its still new and all, but he does so much for me and is SO FREAKING GOOD TO ME!!! Its actually hard NOT to like him. Im trying hard not to rush into anything with him but if he had his way I'd be completely his by now. He completely ADORES me and caters to my every need and I totally appreciate him for it. Hes a true Southern Gentleman. Im extremely independent so its hard for me to take all that so willingly, but still nice! I mean.... I am a Leo!! LOL! But yes, may be lots of potential for a hot and lusty combo!!!

VH... you said looks like a hot & lusty combo to you..... well.... as I am still trying to hold back a little and I dont have that animalistic attraction to him that I had with Pisces.... I am attracted to him and I find it is growing with each encounter. I have to admit.... the sex is pretty freakin good! Can you say six times in one encounter?? Yes, I appreciate that for sure!!! 😛 And since this isnt a kitty lickin or best sex thread.... I wont go into much more detail there. Ill save that for the Virgo Men in Bed Thread! LOL!!!
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Posted by LeoLadyLovesToBeLoved

VH... you said looks like a hot & lusty combo to you..... well.... as I am still trying to hold back a little and I dont have that animalistic attraction to him that I had with Pisces.... I am attracted to him and I find it is growing with each encounter. I have to admit.... the sex is pretty freakin good! Can you say six times in one encounter?? Yes, I appreciate that for sure!!! 😛 And since this isnt a kitty lickin or best sex thread.... I wont go into much more detail there. Ill save that for the Virgo Men in Bed Thread! LOL!!!



*Nods* 🙂
Ember vs. Fireworks.
We kind of grow on you after time lol. Though I know some ladies on here would compare it to how mold grows compared to a fine wine lol.

In regards to the sex part, he's probably spent more time than you know thinking about how to please and pleasure you.


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hahaha .... wow @ the comments about capricorn women 😉

Okay, here's the deal for all you virguys who have no experience with capricorn -- besides family or work (thats not good enough)


Theres only one requirement needed in order to deal with a capricorn woman, and thats strength (mental). We are too emotional to deal with anyone who are emotionally weak. This is funny because tend to attract very emotionally weak men.


Its obvious why some virgo men have a hard time understanding the capricorn woman ^_^. However, those who do figure us out -- oh boy.
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I would just add that Virgos SEEM more compatible with water and earth signs for sure as opposed to fire/air signs.. BUT considering placements of BOTH people. The thing about Virgo's(men & women) is they want IT ALL..you have to have the mental ability first and foremost, the beauty,class/purity, the compassion/understanding, the wit, the patience, some ummph in your personality, great sex drive...etc etc....these "virgins" really REQUIRE everything,lol. I still say a STRONG pisces can offer that to them too .....so dont rule us out! *sniffles*
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Posted by LeoLadyLovesToBeLoved
So how about Virgo Guy w Leo Female compatibility?

Im Leo/Virgo cusp
ME HIM
Sun Leo Virgo
Moon Leo Leo
Merc Virgo Libra
Venus Leo Leo
Mars Aqua Sag
Jup Scorp Libra
Saturn Gem Taurus
Uranus Libra Libra
Neptune Sag Scorp
Pluto Virgo Virgo
Lilith Libra Cancer
Asc Aqua Scorp

Hmmmm.... wondering what the staying power of these two signs may bring? We seem to have a lot of simlar placements in our charts. I didnt see any mention of Leo (good or bad) in your post LV. Any experiences?



Holly Crap!!!!!! Your bf is almost my astro-twin! The only thing different is our moon sign. All else is identical! PM me if you want.
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Posted by LeoLadyLovesToBeLoved
So how about Virgo Guy w Leo Female compatibility?

Im Leo/Virgo cusp
ME HIM
Sun Leo Virgo
Moon Leo Leo
Merc Virgo Libra
Venus Leo Leo
Mars Aqua Sag
Jup Scorp Libra
Saturn Gem Taurus
Uranus Libra Libra
Neptune Sag Scorp
Pluto Virgo Virgo
Lilith Libra Cancer
Asc Aqua Scorp

Hmmmm.... wondering what the staying power of these two signs may bring? We seem to have a lot of simlar placements in our charts. I didnt see any mention of Leo (good or bad) in your post LV. Any experiences?



Holly Crap!!!!!! Your bf is almost my astro-twin! The only thing different is our moon sign. All else is identical! PM me if you want.
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Wow! Really? I will definitely have to PM you with some questions!
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Posted by eden 3
"In fact, I've come to realize that Cancers are actually quite disturbing people. They're all niceness, sweetness, generosity, concern, and fluff on the outside, but between that old friend and another Cancer I knew a long time ago... I've come to see that it's quite different inside their heads. They're actually total psychopaths. The kind whom need to be locked up to avoid their doing anything stupid and dangerous, maybe even deadly? That old friend often admitted to me that she often dreamt of killing and cutting up her own family, a family which was actually way better than for which she was crediting it. She claims to be this family devoted, family aspired individual, yet she was dreaming of killing her family at the same time. Clearly, the family aspiration bit is just an act and not who she really is. She also had a habit of writing bad hate songs. And, dreamt in black and white. And, while now she looks and acts yet more preppy (for work), she's surely still a total unhealthy nutcase. Yeah, so this is a bad match for a Virgo, since Virgos don't want their families killed and chopped into pieces... Nor do we want a spouse with such extreme issues hidden away. How can you trust a person like that? & The other Cancer I mentioned liked to go out and shoot random animals (cute kinds, like bunnies)(and, that reminds me, the Cancer old friend hates animals, too) with his BB gun, and was a total marker, and basically... Of the exact profile who would eventually go into their school/work loaded with firearms, and... Well, it should be obvious what they're going to do with it. Considering Virgos are genuinely loving,"

legend!!! *covers mouth in horror* 😉

ur sooo funny luv ya ! mwah ! thx for the hug in the hug *squeezes legend tightly*



awwwwwwwwww thanks eden everybody thinks i'm funny but i dont think so i'm just honest
hugs x2 lmao
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Hey I'm back. The sex is amazing what can I say. haha I don't know. I still insist Virgos and Leos get along pretty darn well. I've had a LOT of virgo female and male friends. I never really usually attracted to Virgos...at all. I just happend flirt a little, "go with the flow", and the attraction began. We are pretty darn happy. 🙂 The chart thing looks interesting! Never really looked into it. What do you guys think about ours?

Me + Him

Sun LEO VIRGO
moon VIRGO LIBRA
Venus LEO SCORPIO
Mars SCORPIO LEO
Jupiter CAPRICORN LIBRA
Saturn SCORPIO LIBRA
Uranus SAG SCORP
Neptune SAG SAG
Pluto LIBRA LIBRA
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Posted by No1delete2

cappy: here's the deal for all you virguys who have no experience with capricorn -- besides family or work (thats not good enough)

Uh... hello!!

I met my Scorpio Wife at work -- that was good enough for us. Also, check out the Wedding Announcements in the local paper: Most of the time, couples meet at either work or college -- where we spend most of our waking hours...



Haha I hid this because I realized I should have quoted.
My parents are Virgo and Cap ended it horrible horrible divorce. He (Cap) was constantly competing with her for success. Love each other but didn't work. He's married to a taurus now. Though I love Caps, they need someone that will cleverly and tactifully act as their superior while making them believe they have the upper hand. Taurus is good at this because they are strong yet sneaky, and they are very dipolomatic. Think of it this way most of the time when a Taurus makes a comeback/insult at someone he/she leaves the person wondering whether it was intentional or a joke. They are very emotionally balanced and can make you feel as if you are in control when in actually they have tactfully/patiently planned their grip on you due to their determination. Virgos like to serve they usually give their all and don't demand as much, they need someone who will appreciate their services and need them. When Virgos insult it's through criticism and Caps take criticism as nagging. Caps insult through hurtful jokes, and comparing their success with the others' failures, Virgos take this as a painful battle/challenge. Caps are also extremely flirtatious, possessiveness in Virgos hate this. Virgos are extremely friendly, posssessive Caps take this as flirtation. Caps usually don't feel like they need anyone, and they find it hard to appreciate things from people because they are proud of their own wonderful accomplishments. Virgos need to be needed, appreciated and understood in a caring manner to progress and be happy. Caps need to be left alone while having the security that you are there for them when useful with unspoken understanding in order to progress and be happy. Don't get me wrong they are both strong, caring, and wonderful individuals but they have completely different needs that do not complement each other.
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Cancer annoys the hell out of me. Though my father is a Cancer and I love him to bits, I can't seem to befriend with other cancer than him. They're just too... sticky.

Scorps play too much games. My ex was a scorp and as much as I loved him, he suffocated me. Some of my friends are Scorps and I try my best not to be too available for them otherwise I'd be dragged into their emotional whirlwind - too much!

I'm a Leo/Virgo cusp. I love sags & gems - they're fun to be around. My best friends are leos, aquas & virgos. I can relate to Taurus but there's no sparks. I absolutely can respect capricorns & aries. I find leos, sags, virgos and I click the most, not sure why. I love hanging out with leos because they are just fun and considerate at the same time. Virgos, well, you just have to love them, they're absolute angels. Sags, they're the comedians and we love laughters and they're deep creatures which deep down is what virgos are. With gems, not all though, you can talk about basically everything and virgos are conversationalists. With aquas, I think it's very subjective because I don't relate to ALL aquas. A lot of them are just too detached to be friends with. Like they don't give two hoots about your hearts. But some of them are the nicest most caring human beings I've ever met! And I love my aquas friends to pieces.

My bf is a Sag/Cap and it's like a match made in heaven.

Libras & pisces, indifferent. They're either too quiet or too ethereal to be around. Not sure it's a good/bad thing. Did I miss anything?
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The fact that any virgo would give Scorpio that much credit is interesting...Yeah I will admit that it is possible for them to mess some things up but to think they can do that much well that needs to be knocked down just alittle.I've known more than enough about them and you want to get them way to much credit.Since I know they can and do cause problems for others.Yet I also know that once truth that they can not change becomes true usually stops them from being the problem causer.
I do agree that Scorpio's and Cancer's are more compatible for one another though they sometimes have the same interests at hand since a cancer is a woman controller and a Scorpio is a sex drive controller that to me lets me know they are the two more likely to be happy with one another.As for a Virgo getting along with a Leo that's the weirdest thing I've ever heard since I know the two signs can get along in short dealings with one another as for long dealings no way.The make me mad alot and I am a Virgo.I have had to deal with one since birth that's the reason I think I know and as for the others the same thing.
The question should be if you get along there is something that is either blocking or helping the situation just like with other signs that are not compatible with one another.I have noticed how mean they are to some of us Virgo's even if no one else takes the time to notice and they get away with alot of things by blaming us.I can't help notice this with all the signs that are compatible and not compatible it's because I've always noticed while others don't.
I don't think Cancer are as crazy as others seem to find them though the reason is because I have always been around that type of sign just like the Leo.There are other reasons it's just I don't think this is the time to go into a long detailed message.I have finally gotten away from Leo's at least the way it had been before and I can tell a big difference.As for Capricorn's I get along with all of them for the most part but some of them have the question with them that can be found like I wrote about Leo's.
I can tell you something else about some Scorpio's if some of their friends really found out somethings about them they would no longer be as good of friends but they can confuse some of them to were they don't know or notice anything.I just thought that is something that needed to be corrected also.
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Posted by *pisceseyes
I would just add that Virgos SEEM more compatible with water and earth signs for sure as opposed to fire/air signs.. BUT considering placements of BOTH people. The thing about Virgo's(men & women) is they want IT ALL..you have to have the mental ability first and foremost, the beauty,class/purity, the compassion/understanding, the wit, the patience, some ummph in your personality, great sex drive...etc etc....these "virgins" really REQUIRE everything,lol. I still say a STRONG pisces can offer that to them too .....so dont rule us out! *sniffles*

psychopaths

ITA!
psychopaths...yep mine has been called that...on surface level. However..get to know him and he is so much more.
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like everything else it depends on the rest of the chart.My Virgo wife and I get along pretty peacefully and the sex is wonderful .I'm a Libra with Virgo rising , she's a Virgo with Libra Venus . we share conjunct mercury in Libra and conjunct both our Moons are in Gemini. She can get cranky and insecure , I can be accused of being flirty with other women and unbalenced but we work it out . I have noticed that my Virgo gets along best with other Virgos !! no surprise there !
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A lot of astrologists dont even get the signs right so i can't trust them with advice on compatibility. I remember a book on astrology a long time ago (hopefully it is out of print and not spreading further lies) where it said Virgos are best suited to be a secretary, nurse, accountant, or service job that doesn't require leadership or too much unpredictability.

Not that there is anything wrong with any of those occupations, but the author didnt know a thing about Virgos.

Every Virgo female I personally know is in a creative field, NOT in the service industry. Does anyone think billionaire Warren Buffet is a serving kind of guy?

Virgos Richard Gere is an actor and Michael Jackson was a singer. I know far more water signs in the serving/helping professions than any Virgo.

There are very few astrology websites or books who get it right.

Virgos are discriminating and analytical and picky. And yes, sensitive to slights, thinks more and feels less. We are not impulsive. We come across as polite and classy, because we edit our thoughts before spewing out the words. We have a problem with spontaneity because we think before feeling and acting. A few of us enjoy being helpful and like to serve, making us no different from any sign on the zodiac. The rest that is touted to being Virgoan is pretty much rubbish or overgeneralizations.

But definitely not lacking in creativity. I have known creative types in every single sign, from Ram-bunctious Aries to the steady Taurus. Creativity is not the exclusive domain of the water signs, sorry. And leadership is not the exclusive domain of fire signs either, contrary to misguided astrology definitions.




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Ok, back to OP's topic....

Re: Cancers. Have had a couple of dealings. One was a guy who wanted to hire me for some work and he was so passive aggressive. Would make these snide remarks instead of just communicating what he needed or expected me to do. Another one was a guy I met which I wrote about on anger thread, who was all over me and grabby, and told me he had a cocaine habit in the past. For my Virgo, that is the only red flag we need.

But I don't think Virgos are only compatible with earth signs. I think if you want to really learn something new (without getting into toxic drama) and balance yourself out, strenthen weaknesses and such, it is best to go for a different element.

Personally, i find these are potentially compatible non-earth signs for Virgos, tho not without challenges (a good thing for us if we are open to personal growth):

Pisces
Scorpio
Leo
Libra
Aquarius