Well, then, since everyone is in such huge demand for thier relationship abilities, that the ONLY human who is capable of handling a mature relationship . . .
Hats off to you. So, how long have you been in the relationship currently? Decades and decades? Oh, right . . only months. lol
Not one Virgo in here likes to critisize, that I can tell.
Name one. Name just one that likes to critsize people.
Are you talking about Dyr? Strings? VG62? Who? Not one frigging one of them.
The problem, ladies, is the female over-sensitivity to directness because they are used to being pampered and coddled. Now, let's turn this around, shall we . . if your Virgo were being tactless or critical with the intentions of protecting your honor from another person . . there would be no bitch, would there? Then, you'd all be all proud and shit because your Virgo came to your side to fight for you.
Only because they won't cave and let you dominate them, are thier qualities so unbearable.
lol, women are such fools most of the time. And the thing is . . most signs are oblivious and have no clue that they are being manipulated by woman-power with the intentions of having their feelings protected, even when they are dead wrong . . the Virgo doesn't fall for it . . they know what's real and what isn't. That's why women bitch about them so much . . because they can't be fooled . . which makes the female the fool for playing games.
That may piss you off, but, I really don't care because I know full well that if these Virgo's were displaying all of these qualities - for your benefit - you'd all be singing a different tune and actually praising them . . idiocy.
Complaints can be made and don't have to be justified because they don't meet with your experince or approval. I don't think anyone here is saying this situtation is particularly a feminine, we just happen to female, so what freaking point of view are gonna have?
Actually, not really. If someone took it upon themselves to defend my honor, I'd prefer that they did so with intelligence and tact, as that tends to be much more effective.
I'm not overly sensitive. For a long time, I was. But now, for the most part, I can handle criticism. I hold no bitterness toward Virgoes, in all honesty, but, as with people of any sign, there are good and bad versions. Sure people can talk for ages about the virtues of being honest. I, personally, don't resent bluntness...when people are dealing with me, I prefer it..but that doesn't mean that I'm going to be unnecessarily blunt with every person I know. I just disagree with it.
When I come in here and look at these Virgo's boards, I hear all kinds of people critsizing them for their traits (me included) . . but, not them. Scan through these threads . . what Virgo is putting people down? Whose being rude? Agent? VE? Ferg? Branh? Dyr? Strings? Which one?
Being critical of the Virgo is something all us non-Virgo's do . . I don't hear them at all.
Well, if anyone knows about being rude and tactless it's you P-Angel. Take a breath woman ? it?s not a Virgo haters contest.
I have nothing but praise and love for all the DXP Virgos you named - V62, Strings, Dyr, Fergus, VE. And yes, I can name one Virgo who pisses on, moans about and demolishes the quality of the Piscean character on the Pisces board - his name is Brandon.
Actually, you just popped my asshole calling cherry! Besides, I'd rather be an asshole than a head case. And I am doubly certain I am not the first to tell you either.
"Hats off to you. So, how long have you been in the relationship currently? Decades and decades? Oh, right . . only months. lol
Wow, great catch !!!!!!!"
uh, the relationship was 1 1/2 years, it only ended because I was fed up (could have easily went on and on if I was willing to put up with) and "decades and decades" aren't even possible for me since I'm only 29.....I'll leave the "decades" for you grandma...lol
"Scan through these threads . . what Virgo is putting people down? Being critical of the Virgo is something all us non-Virgo's do . . I don't hear them at all."
That's because that happens on the boards that they visit, just like everybody else. Go to the scorpio board, and you'll see the most complaints about them. Go to the cancer board, and you'll seet he most complaints about them, and so on.
Brandon, I didn't accuse of starting a thread against Pisces, but you have posted your negative opinions about Pisces on the Pisces board. Especially the one you broke up with.
Message posted by: branh0913 on 8/3/2006 3:29:33 PM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.171
Virgo and Aries men are gold diggers? You have to be kidding me. Pisces men have the swave loser without a job thing going on with them. There are some Pisces men with money, but they normally come from money anyway. Most Pisces either get fired or quit jobs too much to really be finacially stable. A good Pisces talk enough good shit to get him a Capricorn suger mama.
The bottom line is this, if we women didn't care for Virgos males we wouldn't be trying to sort out our relationships with them by seeking their counsel and advice. Some people get off on the wrong footing but are no less sincere. The confusion and frustration we sometimes feel is not isolated, so we seem to be having a "bitch" session when we're really trying to get some help. For example, there was an entire thread dedicated to the love match of Virgo and Pisces, the pains, the pleasures and so on, with more than a few Virgos wishing there could have been more from the relationship. In the end the song remains the same - Virgos too cold, Pisces too sensitive.
"Everything that is said to about a Pisces has to be super glorious, or else they'll just start attacking you."
You got that right, Branh. Nobody is allowed to say anything negative about the Pisces. I'm glad that was cleared up.
As mentioned, here is a thread STARTED on the Virgo board, with the intention of bashing the Virgo. A person came out of their way to purposely come to this board, just to throw them down . . .
I don't believe the thread was intentionally started as a bash. It is Miriam's experience and 6 others as well. That's bashing? Where else are you going to go to find out about Virgos? Naturally, the Virgo Message Board. Virgos can be rude, and others can be too. You're not going to convince us otherwise through harshness, only reinforce what's been written.
Woo!! I'm checking the site after awhile and I never expected to find so many replies to this thread! Thank you catfish36 for realising that I never meant for any bashing....anything but! I love my virgo man to death....but why we come to these boards is to gather a little more clarity and insight into certain behaviours that they have. And in turn, the people with this sign can see how there viewed as well. It just gives a very different perspective on things. P-Angel, you're a super-sensitive person I gather (I love people who can wear their heart on their sleeve) and I see that you're over-analysing the situation. Don't take it personally no one's attacking anyone!:-)
It was just my experience that Virgos do seem to 'unconsciously' critise more than other signs and though they don't do it to be mean or hurtful on purpose. And they tend to do that to those they love the most. I was just trying to understand this behaviour.
Now I've noticed this in Virgos but it seems that they're more likely to bite their tounge until they get to a certain boiling point and then they flip out like whoa...but I've noticed this trend even more in Libras because they seem to just tell ya exactly how they feel without breaking a sweat - (my one friend is a Virgo and he's really a patient type person - until something really gets to him - he'll try really hard to be patient and deal with the situation but inside - by the expressions on his face you can see it just slowly wears thin - now my other friend is actually born on a Virgo/Libra cusp and she's also very patient but shes more likely to just tell someone how they feel after a short while if she doesn't agree with what she either hears or does - then there's my other friend whom is a total Libra and she'll just say whatever's on her mind she doesn't care whom it is - she'll just tell it like it is 😛) She's probably one of the boldest people at our jobs - I find this comparable to alot of the air signs at our work - they're very outspoken about how they feel - (esp. our boss of all bosses (she's a Gemini) - she's so outspoken about anything she feels needs to be done that people are actually afraid to speak their minds and usually has alot of them running scared) my one friend (whom is an aquarius) is like that too - (my Virgo friend can't stand him or the recent Gemini that was hired either cause they not only act the same but they have that same outspoken personality as well - they've become fast friends too I might add - the Gemini and Aquarius - surprise surprise 😛) But like I said - all signs are different - my Cap friend has a moon sign of Gemini and is actually infactuated with a Gemini that she's known for years now - and they both seem very much alike (she's outspoken too - was a lil shy when we first started talking but then just got over it and tells me exactly whats on her mind - it's great 😛)
You got it Shaka . . Miriam, don't think for one second that we are as stupid as the others who respond to this, saying, "oh, it's not bashing . . it's just discussing"
Bullshit, you call it Virgo Men and their Rudeness and proceed to talk about how rude they really are . . then have the audacity to then come back and act all innocent and shit. Innocent my ass. You start a thread with the intention of getting under people's skin . . at least have the balls to own up to it . . don't make yourself look any more a fool than you already do.
Oh, and btw . . I'm only sensitive to stupid people. The ones who use their intelligence, I pretty much leave alone.
Over-analyze . . your on the Virgo board . . dumb ass. geeeez . . With every attempt at trying to save yourself, you just make yourself look dumber, lol.
Lady, I don't take things personally . . I just hate stupid people. You are the one who attacked these here Virgo's with this thread . . . for no fucking reason except to start an arguement.
You and Cat should hook up, and ass each other to death.
"Ass each other to death?" I guess I am suppose to quiver and quake under the harsh light of your brilliance. This from a women who husband's says to her "is eating is cheating?", then posts it to the Virgo board for consideration to see if it's infidelity or not. Now, if you can't figure out by yourself whether oral sex is cheating or not, then I really wouldn't concern myself with someone else's level of intelligence. You need for approval on the Virgo board is truly sad.
Branh, do you think I honestly care about anything you have to say? Any of your "thoughts" and "opinions"? Let's not kid ourselves here, when dealing with you, I am interested in ONE THING and one thing only.
"A 30 to 40 something year old person who is intelligent should be able to figure out something so basic and simple as people skills"
There are illnesses that prevent some people from ever understanding proper interaction with other people. In fact, when they are behaving inappropriately, they have no clue that their speech or actions aren't acceptable.
One I know of is called: Asperger's Syndrome
This is a handicap and people who have it can't help themselves. Perhaps, this should be considered on the individual person and his/her handicaps, before condemning a whole group of not living up to one person's standards of appropriateness.
Trust me, I wasn't trying to sound like an adult. I'll spare you the whole "yeah but I have experience" shpiel. Sorry it bothered you; I only meant it as a joke.
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