What makes Virgo men want to stay?

Like what types of things or even people make them want to never leave the relationship?

I know another thread talks about how Virgos need to feel like they are of service - in what ways can a person show that besides just saying "I need you?"

How do Virgo men show or say they love you?

I am trying to do just that...I am such a giver in relationships that I don't want to be taken advantage of if I do that, if that makes any sense?

Following on - what type of actions (any examples?)

What is the best way to make them feel needed without being needy?

Thank you!

I don't think there's any such guarantees in life...if people want to leave, they'll leave - Virgo or not. You can't control the other person only yourself.

There is no general manual for "the virgo man". You have to look at your man and invest time and see for yourself what he likes/needs/wants

Even if he is a virgo, every one of them has had a different life and thus needs different things that will please him or makes him feel loved. *just like any other person actually -_-*

loyalty. If you're around long enough and always there when they need someone the most. even if they leave, they come back. eventually they just don't leave because every time they leave they think of how you've always been there. Always checking in on them and stuff.

It takes years tho. so i don't know if anyone is that dedicated .

Leaving them

Posted by LibraLovesHim
Leaving them

I had to let out a little chuckle because this is so true. Every time I told my Virgo interest that I was done with his bullshit, lack of reciprocity to be more specific, time would go by and here we go, he's barking up my tree messaging me alllllll the time asking for me back, wanting us to be closer..... why couldn't he do that before? But everyone has something to learn and grow through in life, so I gave him chances, and after making him give me consistency, I let go of the past and said okay let's be friends..... here we go, back to square one. I swear Virgo men want you to hurt their feelings and leave them.... that's the only way, in my experience, that they reciprocate communication. I am a very understanding Aries woman. A text conversation every 2 weeks or every month isn't too crazy for me if that's how he felt comfortable, as we are long distance, but he ignored me too many times and dismissed things I said way too often. So when I finally get fed up, I just say leave me alone. I should make HIM feel appreciated? But when I feel like I'm not appreciated, he makes me feel like I'm crazy or I have to appreciate myself...... I can do that without him! What's the point of having you in my life if giving and giving to you and you just don't give a fuck to do anything? Goodbye.

Sorry I rambled a bit but this just happened again last week actually after not speaking for about 4 months. He got mad at me for ignoring him TWICE. And it wasn't even intentional on my part. But Virgos really have some nerve. They'll ignore and dismiss you a million times, but you do it once or twice and they're in their feelings. Grow some fucking balls Virgos.

I remember I dated one and at one point I was done with him. He messaged me he wanted to see me and I ignored him. He wouldn't stop messaging me. He said he wanted to see me. He drove an hour and knocked on my door and Windows. I still didn't answer his messages or opened the door. I treated him like dog shit and he loved it. We went out one night and he was drunk in the passenger seat of his car I drove. He asked me to come in. I said no and left him there in the parking lot of his condo complex.

Posted by Vertigo1234
Like what types of things or even people make them want to never leave the relationship?

I know another thread talks about how Virgos need to feel like they are of service - in what ways can a person show that besides just saying "I need you?"

How do Virgo men show or say they love you?

I am pretty sure if they speak English they say 'I love you'! —

Posted by Vertigo1234
Like what types of things or even people make them want to never leave the relationship?

I know another thread talks about how Virgos need to feel like they are of service - in what ways can a person show that besides just saying "I need you?"

How do Virgo men show or say they love you?

Don't baby him, be smarter than him, constantly give him a challenge and a problem to solve. The more complicated the better!

They like what they have with you that they can't get anywhere else.

A place where they feel safe, listened, comfortable , loved and not judge .

Works every time