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When a virgo is ignoring or mad?? (Page 2)
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Posted by aquatar1Posted by WeedsPosted by aquatar1Posted by WeedsPosted by aquatar1Posted by WeedsPosted by aquatar1Posted by WeedsI guess thread broke from quoting cant see your reply.
Ok nevermind, sorry im a gemini venus and flip flop ahah, I took your advice and messaged him about avoiding me. He assumed I was avoiding him apparently. We had a chat about it. I'm still a little confused but at least I wasnt ghosted? lol Thank you for all your help!! ❤️
No biggie hope you dont have anymore problems LOL
Ummm so I got ghosted again....idk why. but this time hes not watching my snapchat anymore.... is that really bad?? IDK what I did we were talking fine then boom ghosted....
Sometimes it's just "Me Time" your dealing with a virgo who are natural loners. This happens every now and again.
He went ghost for a week...longest hes gone MIA. And last time he ghosted he was still watching my story/snap....yet now he chose not to despite bang online. Does that mean he no longer cares??
Should I say something or text again?
No don't do anything. Just do you for the meantime. preoccupy yourself.
We can go months without contact.. it doesn't mean we ghosted anybody or its over. We just need time to ourselves.
He's never been like this in the time that I've known him though.... and it came completely out of nowhere. He initiated contact with me then the day after ghosted.... I kinda wanna reach out to him but I dont know.... do I avoid him in person too?? This is odd
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There are stages believe me you'll learn a lot of new things over time. No you don't need to avoid him if you see him in person that's just going to make things awkward and confusing.
BE NORMAL just don't be crazy girlfriend "why haven't you answered my 57 messages"
Posted by WeedsPosted by aquatar1Posted by WeedsPosted by aquatar1Posted by WeedsPosted by aquatar1Posted by WeedsPosted by aquatar1Posted by WeedsI guess thread broke from quoting cant see your reply.
Ok nevermind, sorry im a gemini venus and flip flop ahah, I took your advice and messaged him about avoiding me. He assumed I was avoiding him apparently. We had a chat about it. I'm still a little confused but at least I wasnt ghosted? lol Thank you for all your help!! ❤️
No biggie hope you dont have anymore problems LOL
Ummm so I got ghosted again....idk why. but this time hes not watching my snapchat anymore.... is that really bad?? IDK what I did we were talking fine then boom ghosted....
Sometimes it's just "Me Time" your dealing with a virgo who are natural loners. This happens every now and again.
He went ghost for a week...longest hes gone MIA. And last time he ghosted he was still watching my story/snap....yet now he chose not to despite bang online. Does that mean he no longer cares??
Should I say something or text again?
No don't do anything. Just do you for the meantime. preoccupy yourself.
We can go months without contact.. it doesn't mean we ghosted anybody or its over. We just need time to ourselves.
He's never been like this in the time that I've known him though.... and it came completely out of nowhere. He initiated contact with me then the day after ghosted.... I kinda wanna reach out to him but I dont know.... do I avoid him in person too?? This is odd
There are stages believe me you'll learn a lot of new things over time. No you don't need to avoid him if you see him in person that's just going to make things awkward and confusing.
BE NORMAL just don't be crazy girlfriend "why haven't you answered my 57 messages"
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I dont want him to think I dont care about him though....I wanna reach out but IDK what to say without seeming desperate?
Been with my lovely virguy for 3years now - solid.
Just had two weeks off from each other for a bit of me time, almost zero communication first week, second week slowly coming back and making plans for our weekend reunion. No biggie, just personal downtime for us... bit of space house work other friends play dates with our fams etc like it’s really no stress you should relax a bit imo
I actually don’t kno what he’s been up to really and I don’t need to kno it’ll be something to talk about on our get together 😃
Love the boring deets haha
Posted by WeedsPosted by aquatar1Posted by WeedsPosted by aquatar1Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by aquatar1Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by WeedsI think it's important to resolve the "are you mad" before getting into the "are we still on for"
One thing that may get irritating is if you over look problems that need to be addressed.
Or do this first.
I asked if he was ok and he said yes hes been working on a work project. Yet I know hes been on social media actively and wasnt working on it yesterday and still chose to ignore me during these times, which quite frankly is hurtful to me now.
I understand but life too short...just tell his ass to be ready on Friday and go have fun 😁
We're not on I guess either. I asked about it. was this virgo way of pulling out of the date then...by ghosting and lying that it was work? cause wtf....
It was a way of being petty.
What do you mean?? Petty about what? lol I'm so confused.... we seemed fine a few days ago.
That's the funny thing about ppl who date virgos.. they always think things are fine when they aren't fine. Common problem.
You already recognized you were rude to him... it's that exact moment you should have corrected it. You let it fester for a whole day..
A whole day for a virgo to over think what you did.. a whole day to question is this thing between you and him worth it... a whole day to question if he wants to deal with THAT again.
It may not have been a big deal to you but it may have been everything to him.
You fell off the pedestal.
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This! Exactly this
Posted by wagtailBeen with my lovely virguy for 3years now - solid.
Just had two weeks off from each other for a bit of me time, almost zero communication first week, second week slowly coming back and making plans for our weekend reunion. No biggie, just personal downtime for us... bit of space house work other friends play dates with our fams etc like it’s really no stress you should relax a bit imo
I actually don’t kno what he’s been up to really and I don’t need to kno it’ll be something to talk about on our get together 😃
Love the boring deets haha
But hes never done this before and we are still in the talking phase....its a bit odd. I wish I understood virgos lol
Posted by WeedsPosted by aquatar1Posted by WeedsPosted by aquatar1Posted by WeedsPosted by aquatar1Posted by WeedsPosted by aquatar1Posted by WeedsI guess thread broke from quoting cant see your reply.
Ok nevermind, sorry im a gemini venus and flip flop ahah, I took your advice and messaged him about avoiding me. He assumed I was avoiding him apparently. We had a chat about it. I'm still a little confused but at least I wasnt ghosted? lol Thank you for all your help!! ❤️
No biggie hope you dont have anymore problems LOL
Ummm so I got ghosted again....idk why. but this time hes not watching my snapchat anymore.... is that really bad?? IDK what I did we were talking fine then boom ghosted....
Sometimes it's just "Me Time" your dealing with a virgo who are natural loners. This happens every now and again.
He went ghost for a week...longest hes gone MIA. And last time he ghosted he was still watching my story/snap....yet now he chose not to despite bang online. Does that mean he no longer cares??
Should I say something or text again?
No don't do anything. Just do you for the meantime. preoccupy yourself.
We can go months without contact.. it doesn't mean we ghosted anybody or its over. We just need time to ourselves.
He's never been like this in the time that I've known him though.... and it came completely out of nowhere. He initiated contact with me then the day after ghosted.... I kinda wanna reach out to him but I dont know.... do I avoid him in person too?? This is odd
There are stages believe me you'll learn a lot of new things over time. No you don't need to avoid him if you see him in person that's just going to make things awkward and confusing.
BE NORMAL just don't be crazy girlfriend "why haven't you answered my 57 messages"
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Hi! So sorry to bug you again.. but this situation is so confusing. He initiated contact with me again after that whole no communication thing...then after a few back and forths, he drops off again and stops responding.... wtf? I know virgos are complex but this is odd....
Posted by aquatar1Posted by WeedsPosted by aquatar1Posted by WeedsPosted by aquatar1Posted by WeedsPosted by aquatar1Posted by WeedsPosted by aquatar1Posted by WeedsI guess thread broke from quoting cant see your reply.
Ok nevermind, sorry im a gemini venus and flip flop ahah, I took your advice and messaged him about avoiding me. He assumed I was avoiding him apparently. We had a chat about it. I'm still a little confused but at least I wasnt ghosted? lol Thank you for all your help!! ❤️
No biggie hope you dont have anymore problems LOL
Ummm so I got ghosted again....idk why. but this time hes not watching my snapchat anymore.... is that really bad?? IDK what I did we were talking fine then boom ghosted....
Sometimes it's just "Me Time" your dealing with a virgo who are natural loners. This happens every now and again.
He went ghost for a week...longest hes gone MIA. And last time he ghosted he was still watching my story/snap....yet now he chose not to despite bang online. Does that mean he no longer cares??
Should I say something or text again?
No don't do anything. Just do you for the meantime. preoccupy yourself.
We can go months without contact.. it doesn't mean we ghosted anybody or its over. We just need time to ourselves.
He's never been like this in the time that I've known him though.... and it came completely out of nowhere. He initiated contact with me then the day after ghosted.... I kinda wanna reach out to him but I dont know.... do I avoid him in person too?? This is odd
There are stages believe me you'll learn a lot of new things over time. No you don't need to avoid him if you see him in person that's just going to make things awkward and confusing.
BE NORMAL just don't be crazy girlfriend "why haven't you answered my 57 messages"
Hi! So sorry to bug you again.. but this situation is so confusing. He initiated contact with me again after that whole no communication thing...then after a few back and forths, he drops off again and stops responding.... wtf? I know virgos are complex but this is odd....
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It's just the way it is. After while they will get far more closer but this is going to be a pretty normal occurrence. Not everyone is built to deal with that.
Posted by aquatar1Posted by WeedsPosted by aquatar1Posted by WeedsPosted by aquatar1Posted by WeedsPosted by aquatar1Posted by WeedsPosted by aquatar1Posted by WeedsI guess thread broke from quoting cant see your reply.
Ok nevermind, sorry im a gemini venus and flip flop ahah, I took your advice and messaged him about avoiding me. He assumed I was avoiding him apparently. We had a chat about it. I'm still a little confused but at least I wasnt ghosted? lol Thank you for all your help!! ❤️
No biggie hope you dont have anymore problems LOL
Ummm so I got ghosted again....idk why. but this time hes not watching my snapchat anymore.... is that really bad?? IDK what I did we were talking fine then boom ghosted....
Sometimes it's just "Me Time" your dealing with a virgo who are natural loners. This happens every now and again.
He went ghost for a week...longest hes gone MIA. And last time he ghosted he was still watching my story/snap....yet now he chose not to despite bang online. Does that mean he no longer cares??
Should I say something or text again?
No don't do anything. Just do you for the meantime. preoccupy yourself.
We can go months without contact.. it doesn't mean we ghosted anybody or its over. We just need time to ourselves.
He's never been like this in the time that I've known him though.... and it came completely out of nowhere. He initiated contact with me then the day after ghosted.... I kinda wanna reach out to him but I dont know.... do I avoid him in person too?? This is odd
There are stages believe me you'll learn a lot of new things over time. No you don't need to avoid him if you see him in person that's just going to make things awkward and confusing.
BE NORMAL just don't be crazy girlfriend "why haven't you answered my 57 messages"
Hi! So sorry to bug you again.. but this situation is so confusing. He initiated contact with me again after that whole no communication thing...then after a few back and forths, he drops off again and stops responding.... wtf? I know virgos are complex but this is odd....
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Oh dear sweet little Aqua. Don't put your heart out on your sleeve. Forget the fact he's a Virgo or anything. If you are fawning over a guy way more than he is fawning over you, you let go of them and act unbothered. Forget about you wanting him to know you care because he knows you do and might even get an ego boost from feeling so desired by you. Just act like you're living your life and go meet other people, he'll come after you once he's realized what he's missing out on if he even does.
Posted by WeedsPosted by aquatar1Posted by WeedsPosted by aquatar1Posted by WeedsPosted by aquatar1Posted by WeedsPosted by aquatar1Posted by WeedsPosted by aquatar1Posted by WeedsI guess thread broke from quoting cant see your reply.
Ok nevermind, sorry im a gemini venus and flip flop ahah, I took your advice and messaged him about avoiding me. He assumed I was avoiding him apparently. We had a chat about it. I'm still a little confused but at least I wasnt ghosted? lol Thank you for all your help!! ❤️
No biggie hope you dont have anymore problems LOL
Ummm so I got ghosted again....idk why. but this time hes not watching my snapchat anymore.... is that really bad?? IDK what I did we were talking fine then boom ghosted....
Sometimes it's just "Me Time" your dealing with a virgo who are natural loners. This happens every now and again.
He went ghost for a week...longest hes gone MIA. And last time he ghosted he was still watching my story/snap....yet now he chose not to despite bang online. Does that mean he no longer cares??
Should I say something or text again?
No don't do anything. Just do you for the meantime. preoccupy yourself.
We can go months without contact.. it doesn't mean we ghosted anybody or its over. We just need time to ourselves.
He's never been like this in the time that I've known him though.... and it came completely out of nowhere. He initiated contact with me then the day after ghosted.... I kinda wanna reach out to him but I dont know.... do I avoid him in person too?? This is odd
There are stages believe me you'll learn a lot of new things over time. No you don't need to avoid him if you see him in person that's just going to make things awkward and confusing.
BE NORMAL just don't be crazy girlfriend "why haven't you answered my 57 messages"
Hi! So sorry to bug you again.. but this situation is so confusing. He initiated contact with me again after that whole no communication thing...then after a few back and forths, he drops off again and stops responding.... wtf? I know virgos are complex but this is odd....
It's just the way it is. After while they will get far more closer but this is going to be a pretty normal occurrence. Not everyone is built to deal with that.
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So is this just a virgo habit then? I didnt do anything wrong?? I'd reach out if i felt it was me but I'm keeping my distance now cause I dont know whats going on. Hes not as active on social media as before, and I dont even see him around anymore...maybe hes dealing with something?? idk. I'm confused lol. Im patient but i dont like not knowing whats going on.
Posted by aquatar1Posted by WeedsPosted by aquatar1Posted by WeedsPosted by aquatar1Posted by WeedsPosted by aquatar1Posted by WeedsPosted by aquatar1Posted by WeedsPosted by aquatar1Posted by WeedsI guess thread broke from quoting cant see your reply.
Ok nevermind, sorry im a gemini venus and flip flop ahah, I took your advice and messaged him about avoiding me. He assumed I was avoiding him apparently. We had a chat about it. I'm still a little confused but at least I wasnt ghosted? lol Thank you for all your help!! ❤️
No biggie hope you dont have anymore problems LOL
Ummm so I got ghosted again....idk why. but this time hes not watching my snapchat anymore.... is that really bad?? IDK what I did we were talking fine then boom ghosted....
Sometimes it's just "Me Time" your dealing with a virgo who are natural loners. This happens every now and again.
He went ghost for a week...longest hes gone MIA. And last time he ghosted he was still watching my story/snap....yet now he chose not to despite bang online. Does that mean he no longer cares??
Should I say something or text again?
No don't do anything. Just do you for the meantime. preoccupy yourself.
We can go months without contact.. it doesn't mean we ghosted anybody or its over. We just need time to ourselves.
He's never been like this in the time that I've known him though.... and it came completely out of nowhere. He initiated contact with me then the day after ghosted.... I kinda wanna reach out to him but I dont know.... do I avoid him in person too?? This is odd
There are stages believe me you'll learn a lot of new things over time. No you don't need to avoid him if you see him in person that's just going to make things awkward and confusing.
BE NORMAL just don't be crazy girlfriend "why haven't you answered my 57 messages"
Hi! So sorry to bug you again.. but this situation is so confusing. He initiated contact with me again after that whole no communication thing...then after a few back and forths, he drops off again and stops responding.... wtf? I know virgos are complex but this is odd....
It's just the way it is. After while they will get far more closer but this is going to be a pretty normal occurrence. Not everyone is built to deal with that.
So is this just a virgo habit then? I didnt do anything wrong?? I'd reach out if i felt it was me but I'm keeping my distance now cause I dont know whats going on. Hes not as active on social media as before, and I dont even see him around anymore...maybe hes dealing with something?? idk. I'm confused lol. Im patient but i dont like not knowing whats going on.
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Yeah you're going to have to get use to it.
when he contacts you again doesn't hurt to let him know he can talk to you about anything if he needs someone like that.
Most virgos take years to get comfortable enough with someone to do that but doesn't hurt to let him know.
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He's never been like this in the time that I've known him though.... and it came completely out of nowhere. He initiated contact with me then the day after ghosted.... I kinda wanna reach out to him but I dont know.... do I avoid him in person too?? This is odd