Why Do Virgo's Move So Slow?

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Do Virgos say things they don't mean just to make conversation? For instance: I've known my Virgo man over a decade (we dated in our early 20's); Life and distance just slowed us down. We reconnected 4 months ago and immediately fell back in love (we haven't said those words but its implied 😂😊). He works nights but we manage to spend hours on the phone day or night. We spend an immense amount of time together when work permits. He cut off all the women he was dealing with before me and when I came back around. He also told me although hes not ready for marriage this second, he knows I am the one for him hands down. He is super possessive and protective, but he still hasn't officially committed. I see his actions, but as a Scorpio, I need my reassurance but I know Virgos need to feel like they are in control and things are not moving too fast for their own sanity? Is he talking out the side of his neck, or can I count it as a win, remain patient, and wait for him to say the words?
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wtf there's nothing wrong with anything you said

he's cut off the other women, what more do you want?

Whatever it is you want, just tell him. If you want him to cut off his friends, his mom, a finger, locks of hair so you can do your witchcraft. Tell him and he'll do it.
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they just want your soul

lookie p diddy sucking the soul outta cassie for a decade
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Early life has taught us the reality of relationships. The pain of love. The hardship of loss.

Far easier to keep things what they are now then expect anything more. Because there is fear in failure.


We JUST had this conversation last night; He expressed some trauma from relationships that incited fear, but he says that I am definitely helping him let his guard down and fast just b/c I give him a safe place to be vulnerable (I learned that communication is not just talking but more listening), and bc I did that he opened up like a book. 😊💕
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wtf there's nothing wrong with anything you said

he's cut off the other women, what more do you want?

Whatever it is you want, just tell him. If you want him to cut off his friends, his mom, a finger, locks of hair so you can do your witchcraft. Tell him and he'll do it.
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👀 Yikes! And see, I don't even want that amount of control. I want a man to lead me and my future children, and I want to remain a safe place for him. I want a best friend and partner. But you are SO accurate; My baby has a servants heart even in all of his masculinity. He's just dope as a man, and I know my Scorpio antennas go up when stuff gets real bc he is legit everything I prayed for....🤦‍♀️🤷‍♀️
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wtf there's nothing wrong with anything you said

he's cut off the other women, what more do you want?

Whatever it is you want, just tell him. If you want him to cut off his friends, his mom, a finger, locks of hair so you can do your witchcraft. Tell him and he'll do it.

they just want your soul

lookie p diddy sucking the soul outta cassie for a decade
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Awwww man, Not Diddy 🤦‍♀️😂....
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wtf there's nothing wrong with anything you said

he's cut off the other women, what more do you want?

Whatever it is you want, just tell him. If you want him to cut off his friends, his mom, a finger, locks of hair so you can do your witchcraft. Tell him and he'll do it.
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Lol within reason but yes this is correct.

However you step on the gas too early we will have to reevaluate and make a rushed discussion. If there is a lot of uncertainty in areas that are important to us, we will try to slow things down or have to let you go.

Not all Virgos are the same however this is a good baseline.
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Hi Shayboog11!

I sometimes lurk on here lol off topic but what happened with your Taurus—


OMG!!! So super sad update... he turned to alcohol very bad. I held on for a little while, but with things being so new, the world changing by the second, I couldn't allow myself to stay in that too much longer. I still pray for him when I think about him, but yea man... it was so sad to see someone go down the wrong path because of pain. He ghosted me four the last several months, then out of the blue he asked if I could come help him with gas—!! Prayers were all I had lol. But he will forever get a pass b/c I can't imagine losing a parent so abrupt.
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wtf there's nothing wrong with anything you said

he's cut off the other women, what more do you want?

Whatever it is you want, just tell him. If you want him to cut off his friends, his mom, a finger, locks of hair so you can do your witchcraft. Tell him and he'll do it.

Lol within reason but yes this is correct.

However you step on the gas too early we will have to reevaluate and make a rushed discussion. If there is a lot of uncertainty in areas that are important to us, we will try to slow things down or have to let you go.

Not all Virgos are the same however this is a good baseline.
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Yea, I can definitely understand that! So how should I bring up the commitment conversation?!
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My friend met a virgo man and within 6 ish months they bought a house are moving in together and talking marriage and children (they are gay btw). I know everyone is different but if you want a verbal sign of commitment from him, let him know.


AWWWW!!!! How adorable! I am so needing those vibes this way?! Was her S/O trying to take it slow in the beginning? I am anxious because I don't want him to feel rushed, and I hate rejection. Any suggestions on my approach? 🤞
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My friend met a virgo man and within 6 ish months they bought a house are moving in together and talking marriage and children (they are gay btw). I know everyone is different but if you want a verbal sign of commitment from him, let him know.

AWWWW!!!! How adorable! I am so needing those vibes this way?! Was her S/O trying to take it slow in the beginning? I am anxious because I don't want him to feel rushed, and I hate rejection. Any suggestions on my approach? 🤞
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They are both men.

The virgo is 20+ years older and lost his partner of 25 years 7 years ago.

The aquarius is 29 years old and needed someone to provide financial support and wisdom aka direction for his life.

I guess timing was right.

Gemini moon and scorpio moon.

They just really clicked and both wanted the same things out of life. They also got a dog together 2 months ago.
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wtf there's nothing wrong with anything you said

he's cut off the other women, what more do you want?

Whatever it is you want, just tell him. If you want him to cut off his friends, his mom, a finger, locks of hair so you can do your witchcraft. Tell him and he'll do it.

they just want your soul

lookie p diddy sucking the soul outta cassie for a decade
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Now with a beautiful pisces man

He's fine

😍😍
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wtf there's nothing wrong with anything you said

he's cut off the other women, what more do you want?

Whatever it is you want, just tell him. If you want him to cut off his friends, his mom, a finger, locks of hair so you can do your witchcraft. Tell him and he'll do it.

Lol within reason but yes this is correct.

However you step on the gas too early we will have to reevaluate and make a rushed discussion. If there is a lot of uncertainty in areas that are important to us, we will try to slow things down or have to let you go.

Not all Virgos are the same however this is a good baseline.

Yea, I can definitely understand that! So how should I bring up the commitment conversation?!
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follow the traditional steps/milestones.

Toothbrush, a space in the closet, spare key, and etc

From what you described your in serious dating territory already. He is already taking actions to show his seriousness and doing things make you more secure and comfortable correct?

Take your time and enjoy the journey.
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My friend met a virgo man and within 6 ish months they bought a house are moving in together and talking marriage and children (they are gay btw). I know everyone is different but if you want a verbal sign of commitment from him, let him know.

AWWWW!!!! How adorable! I am so needing those vibes this way?! Was her S/O trying to take it slow in the beginning? I am anxious because I don't want him to feel rushed, and I hate rejection. Any suggestions on my approach? 🤞

They are both men.

The virgo is 20+ years older and lost his partner of 25 years 7 years ago.

The aquarius is 29 years old and needed someone to provide financial support and wisdom aka direction for his life.

I guess timing was right.

Gemini moon and scorpio moon.

They just really clicked and both wanted the same things out of life. They also got a dog together 2 months ago.
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YES! I love a good love connection. Sounds similar to me and my baby 😍... thank you for sharing this bc it will help me remain patient.
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wtf there's nothing wrong with anything you said

he's cut off the other women, what more do you want?

Whatever it is you want, just tell him. If you want him to cut off his friends, his mom, a finger, locks of hair so you can do your witchcraft. Tell him and he'll do it.

Lol within reason but yes this is correct.



However you step on the gas too early we will have to reevaluate and make a rushed discussion. If there is a lot of uncertainty in areas that are important to us, we will try to slow things down or have to let you go.

Not all Virgos are the same however this is a good baseline.

Yea, I can definitely understand that! So how should I bring up the commitment conversation?!

follow the traditional steps/milestones.

Toothbrush, a space in the closet, spare key, and etc

From what you described your in serious dating territory already. He is already taking actions to show his seriousness and doing things make you more secure and comfortable correct?

Take your time and enjoy the journey.
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You are absolutely correct. Thank you for talking me down from my fear. I know he is feeling the same way because he isn't just saying, but showing. I definitely need to learn to compromise and accept things even when it isn't preferably my way. You held me thought process a lot. I will definitely try to slow down and enjoy the process. 😊😘