WHY DOES VIRGO MAN HATES ME FOR WANTING HIM BACK? (Page 4)

i have never been in touch but regardless he was in a serious condition is it wrong to have sympathy and care about what happened?

i feel bad for him...😢

😢 yup still hates me...

Look at yourself. Would someone who respects herself be pining and whining like this?

Get off of the oxytocin high. Your brain is DRUGGED with false-bonding chemicals. You've *got* to shake yourself out, in favor of having some dignity.

i thought he would be happily settled with another girl but hes miserable and constantly drinking...he kept saying that i ruined his life and he would never forgive me...my punishment for falling in love with a virgo...

clueless cancer im not a domestic violence victim...

Posted by lovelytaurus

I was totally hooked but clueless on how to deal with him...he finally broke up with me and told me to get help.

i tried to contact him he just gets violently angry and abusive even in public...

i just want him to know i miss him and to give us another chance...what can i do?

That ^^^ is the Op (I seperated the points so it's easier to identify)

At first, when I read about this, I thought you were with an abusive guy ... now that it's obvious that you are the one who is obssessive and who refuses to practice any practical thought processing, it becomes apparent to me that he likely wasn't abusive to you, UNTIL the day came that he realized that the only way to get rid of you is to hurt you.

You cling to how you feel about him like gum stuck on the bottom of a shoe ... even he told you to seek help when he broke up with you, and when I read this again, I realize that he didn't become abusive to you until you kept trying to contact him.

Even now, you claim you weren't a victim of domestic violence.

According to what you wrote (above), when becomes angry, even in public when you try to contact him ... which means not only are you being a douchebag in words here = you are putting your physical self in close proximity of him, if he is humilating you in public.

So, YOU are the one who is fucked up here. He broke up with you, telling you seek help .... and you seem to have no clue that you're fucked up in the head, and continue to throw yourself at this, and him ... you don't seem to realize anything.

It's likely you don't realize anything about yourself, and what you do.

Posted by lovelytaurus
i thought he would be happily settled with another girl but hes miserable and constantly drinking...he kept saying that i ruined his life and he would never forgive me...my punishment for falling in love with a virgo...

As obssessed are you over him .... there's no doubt in my mind that in the real world, you are constantly stalking him.

Of course, you're ruining his life ... leave him the fuck alone and let him live, for christ sake.

Let me know if you do ... because then I will too.

Posted by MellyMel
I am seriously considering flagging this thread, just so it will stop spamming my news feed and the entire Virgo board..

be nice to everyone you meet, they are fighting a battle you know nothing about,you dont know what the future may hold for you...

Posted by lovelytaurus

Posted by MellyMel
I am seriously considering flagging this thread, just so it will stop spamming my news feed and the entire Virgo board..

be nice to everyone you meet, they are fighting a battle you know nothing about,you dont know what the future may hold for you...

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Lol. People are commenting on the (one-sided) battle you're *telling* them about.

duh.

^^^agreed i appreciate the help...its unnessesary to be cruel about it...Words of kindness are more powerful than cruel words.and they cost nothing.🙂