Help! Taurus Man Cappy Woman

Hi, I met him on a dating website 2 months ago, I was out of a previously r/s after my ex broke up with me.....it was kind of not going too well but as a Cap I normally would not leave till the final straw. Anyway when I met Taurus, I was on the website for a day, subsequently met him 2days later and hit it off.....

During the first 3wks we met 7times and had really nice long dates including cooking for each other. I was very adament abt not sleeping together, so though I stayed over thrice, we didnt't sleep together.

During the first 2wks of us meeting, I told him that he is the first person I met, I went on to have coffee with 9 other people in the 2 weeks. After the 2nd wk, during our 4th date, I told him I have decided not to meet any of them anymore and deleted my online profile. He told me he likes me during the 3rd date, we go for long walks and he asked very indepth questions about me and my previous r/s. I gave him examples of me never ever being tempted to cheat and will never once I commit, I felt this was kind of important to him.

Anyway he got a huge project that would last 2 months in the 3rd week we are dating.....it was going to take up all his time and he said sensing I want a r/s, he felt it would be fair if I date others too (such that I would know what I want) and not just wait for him as although he likes me and wants to see me, he cannot control the time factor. And when he is done with the project, and I still like him, that would be great.

Anyway we havent meet after the 3rd week, 4-5th week he continued to msg everyday, 6th week I initiated half the time, 7th week when I didnt initiate he didnt and we ended up msging twice that week. During this period he mentioned everyone (friends) is mad at him for bailing on them, I told him I wasn't. Last Fri he left me very sweet voice msgs, general stuff abt having got some sweets for me and details about his great progress at work, also he didnt msg that week as he was anxious about something at work and he is one who would hide away vs share about it.....and he also asked me to tell him about my week.

I was in a rush that morning, I thank him for the cookies, said I miss his vms and told him briefly mention I was sick but well again and a dinner I had with a few friends. (In the previous 2 weeks when I met a few friends for dinner once every week, through msgs he kind of mention that I should be careful during covid) Also I congratulated but didn't praise him about his work.

Anyway last sat I dropped him a good morning, no reply. 8th week, yesterday (thurs) I sent him vms to say I like the vms from last week and I was reflecting last weekend, realise I was insensitive in my reply, I didnt mean to come across uncaring and it wasnt how I felt, and hope he have a good wkend. Anyway its more than a day now and he hasnt reply.....pls let me know what could it be

1) the covid thing and me hanging out with friends, plus not being more caring made him think we r not suitable

2) he just got super busy for some reason

Or is it something else

He is Sun Taurus Moon Leo Mercury Aries Venus Taurus Mars Scorpio

We are late 30s

Also when he mention that i should meet others, I said I cant kiss him and see anyone else. I am not looking for someone 24/7, and am happy to wait till the end of his project then see how it goes for us.

you've met 7 times at on average (being generous) 4 hours a time. so you've spent about 28 hours together or about 3.5 working days.

see other people. he knows where to find you.

and stop analysing yourself and movements for someone with whom you've spent about half a week in their company.

He got super busy for some reason??

He told you the exact reason and you keep ignoring that part

Posted by jeane

you've met 7 times at on average (being generous) 4 hours a time. so you've spent about 28 hours together or about 3.5 working days.

see other people. he knows where to find you.

and stop analysing yourself and movements for someone with whom you've spent about half a week in their company.

We spent 6-8hrs each time we meet.....

I do meet other friends in groups, do other activities to distract myself..... just never had such a strange situation where i am left hanging with no reply to texts for a week......normal with taurus men? Or means more?

Posted by DMV

He got super busy for some reason??

He told you the exact reason and you keep ignoring that part

I do understand, thus frm msging daily to twice a week last week to no reply this week. I didnt react to any of this infront of him. I m just perplexed about him not replying at all as I never encounter such a person before......

Posted by Jalent99

Posted by jeane

you've met 7 times at on average (being generous) 4 hours a time. so you've spent about 28 hours together or about 3.5 working days.

see other people. he knows where to find you.

and stop analysing yourself and movements for someone with whom you've spent about half a week in their company.

We spent 6-8hrs each time we meet.....

I do meet other friends in groups, do other activities to distract myself..... just never had such a strange situation where i am left hanging with no reply to texts for a week......normal with taurus men? Or means more?

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consistently ignoring you is not normal. nor is it acceptable. don't look for reasons to excuse shitty behaviour.

if a taurus is interested he won't leave you alone.

Yeah you should back off and give him some space and let him come back to you when he wants.. if you can’t do that then that’s on you. He was VERY CLEAR with himself. If I were you I’d use this time to meet others instead of getting too obsessed with his response activity when he’s freaking busy with a project he clearly disclosed to you early on. Like get a grip on yourself woman.

I would just give him space.

Giving him space......not getting in touch for now....though i show some anxiety here, not letting him see or know any of this......

Taurus man typically behave differently from the others?

Posted by Jalent99

Giving him space......not getting in touch for now....though i show some anxiety here, not letting him see or know any of this......

Taurus man typically behave differently from the others?

At the end of the day he is a human being not just a star sign, so of course he will behave differently from others. Also he has a birth chart which tells you more than just his sun sign.

🙏🏻Well....i will hang in there for now......