Taurus friendzone

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BrookeDavis
@BrookeDavis
8 Years

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Hi all!

Hopefully you could help me choose the right strategy with my Taurus.

So we’ve matched on tinder and been going out for almost a year since then. He would take me out for dinners / drinks, we would talk a lot, he would ask for my advice on work / life / home decor, go to museums and etc. Great dynamic, but he would never hit on me and I would never give him a sign to do so (though I’m damn attracted to him).

So last weekend we go out like most of the nights and at some point after “i lost count” drink, he asks how I feel about sex between friends. I was more than tipsy and fancied this idea, so we ended up having sex. Then spent all morning in bed cuddling with each other and talking about random stuff but never discussed what happened. Had breakfast at his place and then he gave me a ride back home. None of us mentioned anything. Later that day he checked on me via message and that’s it.

I would like your advice on what would be the best way to proceed now, if my desire is to actually give this relationship a try and leave a friend zone behind.

Also I can’t help but wonder why it didn’t happen earlier - was he attracted but didn’t show it or it’s just him being drunk and horny?

We have a good friendship, but ever since we’ve established this connection I was wondering why we are just friends. Why he doesn’t initiate anything? And as I wasn’t certain about his intentions, I didn’t make a move neither.

So what’s the right thing to do now?
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Vacation Queen
@saggurl88
12 Years25,000+ Posts

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Are you dating or just friends? I’m confused.

And ate you an earth sign too?

Damn! koodos to you for waiting for sex that came with the tagline “what do you think about sex between friends?” What a garbage line.

You should figure out where you stand.

He knows what he wants, so just ask him. It’s been almost a year, that’s long enough for you to

decide if you want to still waste time with this buddy of your or not.