What is going om with my taurus

I reconnected with my taurus 2 months ago. In the beginning he was very clear that he couldn’t have a relationship because he couldn’t give 100% because of work. I said that was ok for me, and we agreed to not sleep with other people. At first it started with just meeting for sex, and then we also started to hang out without sex.

Last time we met he said out of the blue that he isn’t good at talking about feelings, and tried to hint that he has feelings, he has also changed the tone from I can’t have a relationship, to if we get into a relationship. I have never brought up the topic of either relationship or feelings because I didn’twant to put preassure on him. That was a week ago, and after that we have barely talked, i just sent him a message asking what he was up to a couple of days later and after that nothing. We havent’t had much communication in between our meetings, but I feel like he put in more effort in the beginning and now I don’t know if I should move on or give him some time.

Do taurus men get scared when they catch feelings?

Maybe he disapproves of what you tried to do to those puppies

They don’t get scared when they catch feelings, their emotional intelligence in general is essentially nonexistent.

Give him some time but don’t wait too long ...

Posted by Cruella

I reconnected with my taurus 2 months ago. In the beginning he was very clear that he couldn’t have a relationship because he couldn’t give 100% because of work. I said that was ok for me, and we agreed to not sleep with other people. At first it started with just meeting for sex, and then we also started to hang out without sex.

Last time we met he said out of the blue that he isn’t good at talking about feelings, and tried to hint that he has feelings, he has also changed the tone from I can’t have a relationship, to if we get into a relationship. I have never brought up the topic of either relationship or feelings because I didn’twant to put preassure on him. That was a week ago, and after that we have barely talked, i just sent him a message asking what he was up to a couple of days later and after that nothing. We havent’t had much communication in between our meetings, but I feel like he put in more effort in the beginning and now I don’t know if I should move on or give him some time.

Do taurus men get scared when they catch feelings?

I have Taurus moon and have issues expressing my emotions when I am into someone.

Taurus with insecurities do get scared when they catch feelings.

As a Taurus mooner when I catch feelings it never goes away or fades. It just is. Walking/running away or the other person doing horrible stuff is the only way to dispell that. Even then it just allows us to ignore it or let go but the real thing never fades or goes away.



He has developed deeper feelings he can not ignore.

The hints were sheepish attempts to let you know. He was asking you how you felt. He is in conflict with himself and the situation he is in and his own desires

He probably bite off more then he can chew.

Very good chance he wanted you to act so he would not feel bad about not putting you first.

Which is stupid because what you describe basically is already a romantic relationship without to much romantic fanfare. Saying it out loud would have just been affirmation.

Taurus can be greedy he may very well want to focus on work and want you at the same time. Once he gets control of his feelings or corrects the situation he will return if he is serious about you.

I would need to see your synastry to tell you if it's worth pursuing waiting. Honestly though you know exactly whats going on. You should have a good understanding of him by now. Call him out and let him know you know what's up and hash it out or walk away or wait. There is no wrong answer so long as you yourself are respect yourself and your feelings too.

Sooo he finally admitted that he has feelings, and the poof gone, he ghosted me. He always replies to messages instantly, but now he hasn’t replied since the day he admitted that he has feelings. Curious to see if I’ll ever hear from him again 😅

So nothing new has happened since two months ago when you posted this? 🤔

Posted by Timone

So nothing new has happened since two months ago when you posted this? 🤔

It’s been a lot of on and off the last month.

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Sooo he finally admitted that he has feelings, and the poof gone, he ghosted me. He always replies to messages instantly, but now he hasn’t replied since the day he admitted that he has feelings. Curious to see if I’ll ever hear from him again 😅

Ah weak...the only Taurus who did this with me just wanted me to stay in lane with a bunch of other girls for his backup plan whenever he would leave his woman...he told me after banging me that he not just got a girl,but she is also pregnant...i wanted to scratch his eyes out but kept cool first and acted as if it's totally okay to cheat,i called him out on his behaviour next day and said he got to admit his girl he cheated because I freaking hate cheaters especially when they use me for their nasty shit and I almost destroyed his business so angered I was he was scared shit because I knew every dirty secret of him and how to get him with authorities xD.

I just wanted him to speak out the damn truth...guess what,he still wants me until today but he is a loser in my eye...if this is still bothering you,you either need to confront him or let go.

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I know he doesn’t have anyone else thankfully, or at least that’s what he is saying, so I belive him. He is also a friend of a friend, and that friend would tell me to stay away if he knew that my guy was playing me. But offf I feel you, I wouldn’t be able to trust any man after going thru what you dis.

Posted by nanobotz

The first red flag for me was already in the first sentence when he’s too busy for a relationship because of work, but somehow he can meet up regularly to fuck. Nahhh 💀

I understand him, because he has his own new business and is trying to get that up and running.

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So nothing new has happened since two months ago when you posted this? 🤔

It’s been a lot of on and off the last month.

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But the question is what do you want? After 4 months I think you should be able to communicate what you want from him. If you want more than he is willing to give then walk away or accept it for what it is.

They're just possessive mfkers

The sex is 🔥 though

Posted by MonaLisa26

Posted by Cruella

Sooo he finally admitted that he has feelings, and the poof gone, he ghosted me. He always replies to messages instantly, but now he hasn’t replied since the day he admitted that he has feelings. Curious to see if I’ll ever hear from him again 😅

Do you really want this wimp to be with you? Its a sad version of a man - Taurus or whoever.

'My feelings' - yuck!

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I’m going to give him some time to digest everything, but not to long. And if I don’t hear from him again it’s totally okay, then I know he isn’t the right one for me.

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The first red flag for me was already in the first sentence when he’s too busy for a relationship because of work, but somehow he can meet up regularly to fuck. Nahhh 💀

Nobody said he is an all night fucker! Quickies sometimes shorter than jerking off so he actually saved time! LMAO

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🤣🤣

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So nothing new has happened since two months ago when you posted this? 🤔

It’s been a lot of on and off the last month.

But the question is what do you want? After 4 months I think you should be able to communicate what you want from him. If you want more than he is willing to give then walk away or accept it for what it is.

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I want him, but I’m totally prepared to walk away. I have actually walked away several times😅 but he always comes back, and I’m a softie for him, but I told him last time we reconciled that this is our last try, and I can’t do this back and forth. So he knows I’m serious this time.

Tell him he can’t ghost

If he needs time he needs to say and how long. That is unacceptable

Yes you will need to “om” the whole relationship

Posted by Cruella

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Posted by Timone

So nothing new has happened since two months ago when you posted this? 🤔

It’s been a lot of on and off the last month.

But the question is what do you want? After 4 months I think you should be able to communicate what you want from him. If you want more than he is willing to give then walk away or accept it for what it is.

I want him, but I’m totally prepared to walk away. I have actually walked away several times😅 but he always comes back, and I’m a softie for him, but I told him last time we reconciled that this is our last try, and I can’t do this back and forth. So he knows I’m serious this time.

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Then you need to stick with it this time or he's not going to take it seriously. 😅

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Posted by Timone

So nothing new has happened since two months ago when you posted this? 🤔

It’s been a lot of on and off the last month.

But the question is what do you want? After 4 months I think you should be able to communicate what you want from him. If you want more than he is willing to give then walk away or accept it for what it is.

I want him, but I’m totally prepared to walk away. I have actually walked away several times😅 but he always comes back, and I’m a softie for him, but I told him last time we reconciled that this is our last try, and I can’t do this back and forth. So he knows I’m serious this time.

Then you need to stick with it this time or he's not going to take it seriously. 😅

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I know😅 Will be interesting to see if he comes back, to be honest I think so. I think and hope he is just a little overwhelmed because he didn’t plan to catch feelings.

Posted by Truemara

Tell him he can’t ghost

If he needs time he needs to say and how long. That is unacceptable

I’m going to be a little patient. I have called him out on everything so many times, and he is probably just waiting for me to call him out on the ghosting, and I don’t want to give him that pleasure 😅 this is the first time he is ghosting me, and the first time he said directly that he has feelings, so I’ll take it as it comes. Hopefully everything works out if I’m just a little patient 🤞

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Posted by Timone

So nothing new has happened since two months ago when you posted this? 🤔

It’s been a lot of on and off the last month.

But the question is what do you want? After 4 months I think you should be able to communicate what you want from him. If you want more than he is willing to give then walk away or accept it for what it is.

I want him, but I’m totally prepared to walk away. I have actually walked away several times😅 but he always comes back, and I’m a softie for him, but I told him last time we reconciled that this is our last try, and I can’t do this back and forth. So he knows I’m serious this time.

Then you need to stick with it this time or he's not going to take it seriously. 😅

I know😅 Will be interesting to see if he comes back, to be honest I think so. I think and hope he is just a little overwhelmed because he didn’t plan to catch feelings.

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He probably will. 😜