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15 YearsTaurus
How can I teach this Scorpio woman a lesson she will never forget in her life?
How to Handle a Jealous Scorpio Woman Respectfully
Dealing with a Scorpio woman involves setting boundaries and maintaining your integrity. Avoid retaliating with negativity and focus on protecting your peace. Understanding her motives can help you respond wisely. Address the issue calmly or seek professional advice if necessary. Respectful communication can often resolve conflicts more effectively than revenge.
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Figuring it out that its her may not be the same as it actually being her. I say, be better than her.
Expose her at her workplace? Nothing more embarrassing than your coworkers seeing your private life.. sorry, my scorpio mars is uh.really petty.
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Figuring it out that its her may not be the same as it actually being her. I say, be better than her.
I tried to be the nice guy, this has been going on for 4 months (so many calls).
Last night was the last straw. I am not leaving it without teaching her a lesson now!
Expose her at her workplace? Nothing more embarrassing than your coworkers seeing your private life.. sorry, my scorpio mars is uh.really petty.
She stays at home. Her only circle is her family.
Well you admitted to being in her way...
Get out of her way and let her get her revenge off
Well you admitted to being in her way...
Get out of her way and let her get her revenge off
I would if I could. Now, why won't you give up your secret and let me know what pisses you off the most? lol
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Figuring it out that its her may not be the same as it actually being her. I say, be better than her.
I tried to be the nice guy, this has been going on for 4 months (so many calls).
Last night was the last straw. I am not leaving it without teaching her a lesson now!
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if she's really unhinged, don't be nice. give her a firm, verbal "fuck off" warning. then ignore it. delete. cancel. she doesn't exist.
or maybe y'all just need to talk like adults and clear this shit up.
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
Figuring it out that its her may not be the same as it actually being her. I say, be better than her.
I tried to be the nice guy, this has been going on for 4 months (so many calls).
Last night was the last straw. I am not leaving it without teaching her a lesson now!
if she's really unhinged, don't be nice. give her a firm, verbal "fuck off" warning. then ignore it. delete. cancel. she doesn't exist.
or maybe y'all just need to talk like adults and clear this shit up.
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Should this be done in public in front of her family? I think that would be more effective. But she is good at drama/crying...
i don't think making it public is necessarily. i understand she already crossed that boundary, but you have to be the mature one.
How are they anonymous calls if she’s badmouthing someone using her voice? Is she using a voice changer?
And why is she jealous of your partner? Did you cheat with her?
Also what’s her sun sign, she’s not a Scorpio woman if she just has the moon sign in Scorpio.
How are they anonymous calls if she’s badmouthing someone using her voice? Is she using a voice changer?
And why is she jealous of your partner? Did you cheat with her?
Also what’s her sun sign, she’s not a Scorpio woman if she just has the moon sign in Scorpio.
She changes her accent and tone.
Sun Sign - VIRGO
Moon Sign - SCORPIO
She is my partner's brother's wife - How ugly can a person be to do it to her own family!
Clickbait. She isn't a Scorpio, but a Scorpio moon. Learn the difference.
Right - Scorpio moon is much worse than Scorpio sun lol
How are they anonymous calls if she’s badmouthing someone using her voice? Is she using a voice changer?
And why is she jealous of your partner? Did you cheat with her?
Also what’s her sun sign, she’s not a Scorpio woman if she just has the moon sign in Scorpio.
She changes her accent and tone.
Sun Sign - VIRGO
Moon Sign - SCORPIO
She is my partner's brother's wife - How ugly can a person be to do it to her own family!
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Oh man a Virgo Sun and Scorpio moon lol. Good luck with that.
You can’t talk to her husband?
And she’s upset about something, sounds like a woman scorned. She thinks she’s owed something.
She’s bothering your mother in law, who is old, in the middle of the night?
Her husband needs to handle her.
Just block the number. Unless y’all like the drama
Just block the number. Unless y’all like the drama
He's a leo moon.
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I was wondering why a man would get himself involved in female drama. But his Leo moon! Hahahaha! I knew not to question it lol
How are they anonymous calls if she’s badmouthing someone using her voice? Is she using a voice changer?
And why is she jealous of your partner? Did you cheat with her?
Also what’s her sun sign, she’s not a Scorpio woman if she just has the moon sign in Scorpio.
She changes her accent and tone.
Sun Sign - VIRGO
Moon Sign - SCORPIO
She is my partner's brother's wife - How ugly can a person be to do it to her own family!
Oh man a Virgo Sun and Scorpio moon lol. Good luck with that.
You can’t talk to her husband?
And she’s upset about something, sounds like a woman scorned. She thinks she’s owed something.
She’s bothering your mother in law, who is old, in the middle of the night?
Her husband needs to handle her.
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Exactly - but her husband is a p***y. She is not only disturbing her/my mother-in-law, but also making calls to my family members about my partner.
Does Virgo sun make the person even more of a complicated psychopath?
Just block the number. Unless y’all like the drama
I like drama - but this is serious shit and my partner is involved. Otherwise, I confront them face to face!
You have to just pretend they don't exist. They give up after a year or two I think. Idk they go through a stalking phase after they try to burn your life to the ground, but obviously you know that since you're experiencing it now. I pretty much only run charts on people now to ensure I'm not engaging with a scorpio moon lol. Idk I don't have advice for you really. Either ride it out or get a restraining order. Leo moons cant one up scorpio moons.
The problem is I am forced to handle it delicately to not disrupt the relationships within the family.
Leo moons cannot one-up Scorpio moon? Let's see if that's true. And that is exactly why I am here asking you experts!
How are they anonymous calls if she’s badmouthing someone using her voice? Is she using a voice changer?
And why is she jealous of your partner? Did you cheat with her?
Also what’s her sun sign, she’s not a Scorpio woman if she just has the moon sign in Scorpio.
She changes her accent and tone.
Sun Sign - VIRGO
Moon Sign - SCORPIO
She is my partner's brother's wife - How ugly can a person be to do it to her own family!
Oh man a Virgo Sun and Scorpio moon lol. Good luck with that.
You can’t talk to her husband?
And she’s upset about something, sounds like a woman scorned. She thinks she’s owed something.
She’s bothering your mother in law, who is old, in the middle of the night?
Her husband needs to handle her.
Exactly - but her husband is a p***y. She is not only disturbing her/my mother-in-law, but also making calls to my family members about my partner.
Does Virgo sun make the person even more of a complicated psychopath?
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You and your partner should talk with her alone and figure your shit out, if her husband is a pussy. We don't know all the details, but it seems messy as hell and she wants to let everyone know just how messy it is. It's her mother correct? You won't be able to block the calls.
Your partner is related to her, he/she should know what needs to be done to shut her up and appease the situation. Don't let her bully you guys. Stand up to her in private and get it resolved.
Just block the number. Unless y’all like the drama
He's a leo moon.
I was wondering why a man would get himself involved in female drama. But his Leo moon! Hahahaha! I knew not to question it lol
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It is NOT female drama if my dad gets anonymous calls in the middle of the night.
You may have to agree with her and tell her she's right about stuff, and be understanding, because she will want to get her way. But you can compromise for what's right for all parties involved. She will just have to feel like she's right and feel like she's won.
This says alot about you I cant lie. And it aint good. But you can never win a battle of misery with a miserable person so if you engage in this you will take ya self down to new lows. And im assuming theyre lows for you. It might simply be familiar territory for you
Just block the number. Unless y’all like the drama
I like drama - but this is serious shit and my partner is involved. Otherwise, I confront them face to face!
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Its only 'serious shit' if you give it any credence. Otherwise its just a rando crazie making prank calls . You laugh together, block the caller, and move on.
Or spend all your energy on her instead. Gaining your attention is exactly what she is after. So give her what she wants already.
Just block the number. Unless y’all like the drama
He's a leo moon.
I was wondering why a man would get himself involved in female drama. But his Leo moon! Hahahaha! I knew not to question it lol
It is NOT female drama if my dad gets anonymous calls in the middle of the night.
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Indeed, it's not, Captain Obvious.
Alright, this jealous Scorpio-moon woman is creating a mess in my life - because I happen to be in the way of her revenge-spree against her Mother-in-Law.
Long story short, she is making anonymous late-night phone calls to my family members bad-mouthing my partner.
She 'thinks' no one knows, but we figured out that it is her making these calls. Now how do I teach a lesson she never forgets? What would hurt her the most?
What’s her sun sign
Clickbait. She isn't a Scorpio, but a Scorpio moon. Learn the difference.
Scorpios are just as insane and they tag team one another. So stop with that nonsense
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always easy to blame the Scorpio placement lol what is the sun
This says alot about you I cant lie. And it aint good. But you can never win a battle of misery with a miserable person so if you engage in this you will take ya self down to new lows. And im assuming theyre lows for you. It might simply be familiar territory for you
They are lows for me, indeed. No one can stoop so low!
Like many advised here, I am going to forgive her, ignore, and move on with my life.
Just block the number. Unless y’all like the drama
I like drama - but this is serious shit and my partner is involved. Otherwise, I confront them face to face!
Its only 'serious shit' if you give it any credence. Otherwise its just a rando crazie making prank calls . You laugh together, block the caller, and move on.
Or spend all your energy on her instead. Gaining your attention is exactly what she is after. So give her what she wants already.
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Yes, going to move on. Thank you!
My only worry is she calls from so many new SPAM numbers, maybe I should block all SPAM numbers.
But I bet a scorpio moon would visit your grave annually not because they feel bad about what they did but to beckon the sky "why did you have to hurt my feelings?" blaming your death on you still.
Haha! That sounds exactly like this crazy b***h.
Blaming others for her misery!
Alright, this jealous Scorpio-moon woman is creating a mess in my life - because I happen to be in the way of her revenge-spree against her Mother-in-Law.
Long story short, she is making anonymous late-night phone calls to my family members bad-mouthing my partner.
She 'thinks' no one knows, but we figured out that it is her making these calls. Now how do I teach a lesson she never forgets? What would hurt her the most?
What’s her sun sign
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VIRGO SUN
SCORPIO MOON
Her Birthday: September 13th, 1991
Alright, this jealous Scorpio-moon woman is creating a mess in my life - because I happen to be in the way of her revenge-spree against her Mother-in-Law.
Long story short, she is making anonymous late-night phone calls to my family members bad-mouthing my partner.
She 'thinks' no one knows, but we figured out that it is her making these calls. Now how do I teach a lesson she never forgets? What would hurt her the most?
What's her relation with your partner?
Leo moon games involve emotional trauma and a little heartbreak, nothing you can't come back from. Scorpio moon games involve legal battles, possibly maiming, possibly death, a lot of ptsd and psychological, physical and emotional trauma...
You make Scorpio moons sound boring as hell.
Well its a POV from a boring source so I guess that makes sense.
They should remain in a mental institution if that's the case, can you imagine living your life like that, what a waste.
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TRUE, TRUE, and TRUE! This lady needs counseling ASAP!
I remember seeing a post from a Scorpio moon user here accepting that she needs counseling but afraid the counselor would judge her. Oh the agony! Poor soul.
Alright, this jealous Scorpio-moon woman is creating a mess in my life - because I happen to be in the way of her revenge-spree against her Mother-in-Law.
Long story short, she is making anonymous late-night phone calls to my family members bad-mouthing my partner.
She 'thinks' no one knows, but we figured out that it is her making these calls. Now how do I teach a lesson she never forgets? What would hurt her the most?
What's her relation with your partner?
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sister in law
Alright, this jealous Scorpio-moon woman is creating a mess in my life - because I happen to be in the way of her revenge-spree against her Mother-in-Law.
Long story short, she is making anonymous late-night phone calls to my family members bad-mouthing my partner.
She 'thinks' no one knows, but we figured out that it is her making these calls. Now how do I teach a lesson she never forgets? What would hurt her the most?
Are you sure you want to take this road?
There are 2 ways to do this off the top of my head.
First though understand what makes her tick. Desires and mentality. Then you have 3 options.
You can silently undermine her efforts without anyone catching on. Watch her, become frustrated and escalate her efforts recklessly, do something stupid and it all explodes in her face. Basically a Karma trap.
Expose her directly. Which in turn will expose you to her. DO THIS ONLY IF YOU ARE 100% KNOW IT'S HER. Talk to the people that is important to her and ask them to talk to her to get her to stop. This is called triangulating.
The last is tricky but most effective. Put your own feelings aside. Call her and ask her why she is doing that. Don't judge, just listen and ask questions. Try to understand her point of view, even if it's f'd up. When she is done venting, let her know the problems it is causing without getting emotional yourself. Then tell her it has to stop. If she doesn't cut her out completely. Talk to any person that is connected between the family and her and let them know about the conversation you had with her and what she said. Then you have to cut her out because of this situation. And that you don't want that person to feel alienated about it and nothing will change for them but she has to be excommunicated.
This requires taking a leadership role in the problem but it's worth it. It's lasting damage to her relationships while freeing you from her.
Alright, this jealous Scorpio-moon woman is creating a mess in my life - because I happen to be in the way of her revenge-spree against her Mother-in-Law.
Long story short, she is making anonymous late-night phone calls to my family members bad-mouthing my partner.
She 'thinks' no one knows, but we figured out that it is her making these calls. Now how do I teach a lesson she never forgets? What would hurt her the most?
Are you sure you want to take this road?
There are 2 ways to do this off the top of my head.
First though understand what makes her tick. Desires and mentality. Then you have 3 options.
You can silently undermine her efforts without anyone catching on. Watch her, become frustrated and escalate her efforts recklessly, do something stupid and it all explodes in her face. Basically a Karma trap.
Expose her directly. Which in turn will expose you to her. DO THIS ONLY IF YOU ARE 100% KNOW IT'S HER. Talk to the people that is important to her and ask them to talk to her to get her to stop. This is called triangulating.
The last is tricky but most effective. Put your own feelings aside. Call her and ask her why she is doing that. Don't judge, just listen and ask questions. Try to understand her point of view, even if it's f'd up. When she is done venting, let her know the problems it is causing without getting emotional yourself. Then tell her it has to stop. If she doesn't cut her out completely. Talk to any person that is connected between the family and her and let them know about the conversation you had with her and what she said. Then you have to cut her out because of this situation. And that you don't want that person to feel alienated about it and nothing will change for them but she has to be excommunicated.
This requires taking a leadership role in the problem but it's worth it. It's lasting damage to her relationships while freeing you from her.
RECORD the CONVERSATION
lol
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That would be extremely destructive and funny BUT would undermine the OPs own character. People would worry about OP doing the same to them and trust issues could start. It's a double edge sword. Not worth it.
Alright, this jealous Scorpio-moon woman is creating a mess in my life - because I happen to be in the way of her revenge-spree against her Mother-in-Law.
Long story short, she is making anonymous late-night phone calls to my family members bad-mouthing my partner.
She 'thinks' no one knows, but we figured out that it is her making these calls. Now how do I teach a lesson she never forgets? What would hurt her the most?
Are you sure you want to take this road?
There are 2 ways to do this off the top of my head.
First though understand what makes her tick. Desires and mentality. Then you have 3 options.
You can silently undermine her efforts without anyone catching on. Watch her, become frustrated and escalate her efforts recklessly, do something stupid and it all explodes in her face. Basically a Karma trap.
Expose her directly. Which in turn will expose you to her. DO THIS ONLY IF YOU ARE 100% KNOW IT'S HER. Talk to the people that is important to her and ask them to talk to her to get her to stop. This is called triangulating.
The last is tricky but most effective. Put your own feelings aside. Call her and ask her why she is doing that. Don't judge, just listen and ask questions. Try to understand her point of view, even if it's f'd up. When she is done venting, let her know the problems it is causing without getting emotional yourself. Then tell her it has to stop. If she doesn't cut her out completely. Talk to any person that is connected between the family and her and let them know about the conversation you had with her and what she said. Then you have to cut her out because of this situation. And that you don't want that person to feel alienated about it and nothing will change for them but she has to be excommunicated.
This requires taking a leadership role in the problem but it's worth it. It's lasting damage to her relationships while freeing you from her.
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This is well thought-out and solid advice. Thank you much. To be honest, I don't have any beef with her directly, and just happen to be in her way.
Maybe, if I call her up as you mentioned in Option 3, and try to reason with her, it might solve the issue long term. But will she come out from hiding? aren't Scorpios known liars, what if she flat out denies and says I do not know what you are talking about?
Alright, this jealous Scorpio-moon woman is creating a mess in my life - because I happen to be in the way of her revenge-spree against her Mother-in-Law.
Long story short, she is making anonymous late-night phone calls to my family members bad-mouthing my partner.
She 'thinks' no one knows, but we figured out that it is her making these calls. Now how do I teach a lesson she never forgets? What would hurt her the most?
Are you sure you want to take this road?
There are 2 ways to do this off the top of my head.
First though understand what makes her tick. Desires and mentality. Then you have 3 options.
You can silently undermine her efforts without anyone catching on. Watch her, become frustrated and escalate her efforts recklessly, do something stupid and it all explodes in her face. Basically a Karma trap.
Expose her directly. Which in turn will expose you to her. DO THIS ONLY IF YOU ARE 100% KNOW IT'S HER. Talk to the people that is important to her and ask them to talk to her to get her to stop. This is called triangulating.
The last is tricky but most effective. Put your own feelings aside. Call her and ask her why she is doing that. Don't judge, just listen and ask questions. Try to understand her point of view, even if it's f'd up. When she is done venting, let her know the problems it is causing without getting emotional yourself. Then tell her it has to stop. If she doesn't cut her out completely. Talk to any person that is connected between the family and her and let them know about the conversation you had with her and what she said. Then you have to cut her out because of this situation. And that you don't want that person to feel alienated about it and nothing will change for them but she has to be excommunicated.
This requires taking a leadership role in the problem but it's worth it. It's lasting damage to her relationships while freeing you from her.
RECORD the CONVERSATION
lol
That would be extremely destructive and funny BUT would undermine the OPs own character. People would worry about OP doing the same to them and trust issues could start. It's a double edge sword. Not worth it.
How about just beating her ass? I don't know why this is so complicated.
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I don't want her ending up in divorce because of me.
Reminds of the lyrics, "If only I had an enemy bigger than my apathy I could have won".
Alright, this jealous Scorpio-moon woman is creating a mess in my life - because I happen to be in the way of her revenge-spree against her Mother-in-Law.
Long story short, she is making anonymous late-night phone calls to my family members bad-mouthing my partner.
She 'thinks' no one knows, but we figured out that it is her making these calls. Now how do I teach a lesson she never forgets? What would hurt her the most?
Are you sure you want to take this road?
There are 2 ways to do this off the top of my head.
First though understand what makes her tick. Desires and mentality. Then you have 3 options.
You can silently undermine her efforts without anyone catching on. Watch her, become frustrated and escalate her efforts recklessly, do something stupid and it all explodes in her face. Basically a Karma trap.
Expose her directly. Which in turn will expose you to her. DO THIS ONLY IF YOU ARE 100% KNOW IT'S HER. Talk to the people that is important to her and ask them to talk to her to get her to stop. This is called triangulating.
The last is tricky but most effective. Put your own feelings aside. Call her and ask her why she is doing that. Don't judge, just listen and ask questions. Try to understand her point of view, even if it's f'd up. When she is done venting, let her know the problems it is causing without getting emotional yourself. Then tell her it has to stop. If she doesn't cut her out completely. Talk to any person that is connected between the family and her and let them know about the conversation you had with her and what she said. Then you have to cut her out because of this situation. And that you don't want that person to feel alienated about it and nothing will change for them but she has to be excommunicated.
This requires taking a leadership role in the problem but it's worth it. It's lasting damage to her relationships while freeing you from her.
RECORD the CONVERSATION
lol
That would be extremely destructive and funny BUT would undermine the OPs own character. People would worry about OP doing the same to them and trust issues could start. It's a double edge sword. Not worth it.
How about just beating her ass? I don't know why this is so complicated.
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🤣🤣🤣🤣
Alright, this jealous Scorpio-moon woman is creating a mess in my life - because I happen to be in the way of her revenge-spree against her Mother-in-Law.
Long story short, she is making anonymous late-night phone calls to my family members bad-mouthing my partner.
She 'thinks' no one knows, but we figured out that it is her making these calls. Now how do I teach a lesson she never forgets? What would hurt her the most?
Are you sure you want to take this road?
There are 2 ways to do this off the top of my head.
First though understand what makes her tick. Desires and mentality. Then you have 3 options.
You can silently undermine her efforts without anyone catching on. Watch her, become frustrated and escalate her efforts recklessly, do something stupid and it all explodes in her face. Basically a Karma trap.
Expose her directly. Which in turn will expose you to her. DO THIS ONLY IF YOU ARE 100% KNOW IT'S HER. Talk to the people that is important to her and ask them to talk to her to get her to stop. This is called triangulating.
The last is tricky but most effective. Put your own feelings aside. Call her and ask her why she is doing that. Don't judge, just listen and ask questions. Try to understand her point of view, even if it's f'd up. When she is done venting, let her know the problems it is causing without getting emotional yourself. Then tell her it has to stop. If she doesn't cut her out completely. Talk to any person that is connected between the family and her and let them know about the conversation you had with her and what she said. Then you have to cut her out because of this situation. And that you don't want that person to feel alienated about it and nothing will change for them but she has to be excommunicated.
This requires taking a leadership role in the problem but it's worth it. It's lasting damage to her relationships while freeing you from her.
RECORD the CONVERSATION
lol
That would be extremely destructive and funny BUT would undermine the OPs own character. People would worry about OP doing the same to them and trust issues could start. It's a double edge sword. Not worth it.
How about just beating her ass? I don't know why this is so complicated.
I don't want her ending up in divorce because of me.
Reminds of the lyrics, "If only I had an enemy bigger than my apathy I could have won".
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Did you fuck her or not??!!!
What can you do that is going to end her marriage other then that?
Alright, this jealous Scorpio-moon woman is creating a mess in my life - because I happen to be in the way of her revenge-spree against her Mother-in-Law.
Long story short, she is making anonymous late-night phone calls to my family members bad-mouthing my partner.
She 'thinks' no one knows, but we figured out that it is her making these calls. Now how do I teach a lesson she never forgets? What would hurt her the most?
Are you sure you want to take this road?
There are 2 ways to do this off the top of my head.
First though understand what makes her tick. Desires and mentality. Then you have 3 options.
You can silently undermine her efforts without anyone catching on. Watch her, become frustrated and escalate her efforts recklessly, do something stupid and it all explodes in her face. Basically a Karma trap.
Expose her directly. Which in turn will expose you to her. DO THIS ONLY IF YOU ARE 100% KNOW IT'S HER. Talk to the people that is important to her and ask them to talk to her to get her to stop. This is called triangulating.
The last is tricky but most effective. Put your own feelings aside. Call her and ask her why she is doing that. Don't judge, just listen and ask questions. Try to understand her point of view, even if it's f'd up. When she is done venting, let her know the problems it is causing without getting emotional yourself. Then tell her it has to stop. If she doesn't cut her out completely. Talk to any person that is connected between the family and her and let them know about the conversation you had with her and what she said. Then you have to cut her out because of this situation. And that you don't want that person to feel alienated about it and nothing will change for them but she has to be excommunicated.
This requires taking a leadership role in the problem but it's worth it. It's lasting damage to her relationships while freeing you from her.
RECORD the CONVERSATION
lol
That would be extremely destructive and funny BUT would undermine the OPs own character. People would worry about OP doing the same to them and trust issues could start. It's a double edge sword. Not worth it.
How about just beating her ass? I don't know why this is so complicated.
I don't want her ending up in divorce because of me.
Reminds of the lyrics, "If only I had an enemy bigger than my apathy I could have won".
Did you fuck her or not??!!!
What can you do that is going to end her marriage other then that?
lol 4 real
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I mean, even if he did. All he has to say is keep running your mouth and I will have a chat with your husband. lol
He's a pussy anyways.
I want stanch to solve it
Where is my pic? SUCH A TEASE!!!!
Just block the number. Unless y’all like the drama
I like drama - but this is serious shit and my partner is involved. Otherwise, I confront them face to face!
Its only 'serious shit' if you give it any credence. Otherwise its just a rando crazie making prank calls . You laugh together, block the caller, and move on.
Or spend all your energy on her instead. Gaining your attention is exactly what she is after. So give her what she wants already.
Yes, going to move on. Thank you!
My only worry is she calls from so many new SPAM numbers, maybe I should block all SPAM numbers.
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Talk to your phone provider. Usually for an extra $ 1 they will block or at least label all spam or telemarketer callers.
Its honestly the best revenge. Her spending unlimited time and energy setting up new numbers to call you from. You living your best life sending all her calls to the void without a second thought.
That's how you win against vindictive miserable energy. You give it none of yours.
Alright, this jealous Scorpio-moon woman is creating a mess in my life - because I happen to be in the way of her revenge-spree against her Mother-in-Law.
Long story short, she is making anonymous late-night phone calls to my family members bad-mouthing my partner.
She 'thinks' no one knows, but we figured out that it is her making these calls. Now how do I teach a lesson she never forgets? What would hurt her the most?
Are you sure you want to take this road?
There are 2 ways to do this off the top of my head.
First though understand what makes her tick. Desires and mentality. Then you have 3 options.
You can silently undermine her efforts without anyone catching on. Watch her, become frustrated and escalate her efforts recklessly, do something stupid and it all explodes in her face. Basically a Karma trap.
Expose her directly. Which in turn will expose you to her. DO THIS ONLY IF YOU ARE 100% KNOW IT'S HER. Talk to the people that is important to her and ask them to talk to her to get her to stop. This is called triangulating.
The last is tricky but most effective. Put your own feelings aside. Call her and ask her why she is doing that. Don't judge, just listen and ask questions. Try to understand her point of view, even if it's f'd up. When she is done venting, let her know the problems it is causing without getting emotional yourself. Then tell her it has to stop. If she doesn't cut her out completely. Talk to any person that is connected between the family and her and let them know about the conversation you had with her and what she said. Then you have to cut her out because of this situation. And that you don't want that person to feel alienated about it and nothing will change for them but she has to be excommunicated.
This requires taking a leadership role in the problem but it's worth it. It's lasting damage to her relationships while freeing you from her.
RECORD the CONVERSATION
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That would be extremely destructive and funny BUT would undermine the OPs own character. People would worry about OP doing the same to them and trust issues could start. It's a double edge sword. Not worth it.
How about just beating her ass? I don't know why this is so complicated.
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Bruh if someone is calling my parents at night and harassing them and I have access to them, I'm rolling up in their house. It's simple as that.
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Well I think everyone knows how well Touchy Taurus and Tempting Virginal Virgos go together Hahaha!
Alright, this jealous Scorpio-moon woman is creating a mess in my life - because I happen to be in the way of her revenge-spree against her Mother-in-Law.
Long story short, she is making anonymous late-night phone calls to my family members bad-mouthing my partner.
She 'thinks' no one knows, but we figured out that it is her making these calls. Now how do I teach a lesson she never forgets? What would hurt her the most?
Are you sure you want to take this road?
There are 2 ways to do this off the top of my head.
First though understand what makes her tick. Desires and mentality. Then you have 3 options.
You can silently undermine her efforts without anyone catching on. Watch her, become frustrated and escalate her efforts recklessly, do something stupid and it all explodes in her face. Basically a Karma trap.
Expose her directly. Which in turn will expose you to her. DO THIS ONLY IF YOU ARE 100% KNOW IT'S HER. Talk to the people that is important to her and ask them to talk to her to get her to stop. This is called triangulating.
The last is tricky but most effective. Put your own feelings aside. Call her and ask her why she is doing that. Don't judge, just listen and ask questions. Try to understand her point of view, even if it's f'd up. When she is done venting, let her know the problems it is causing without getting emotional yourself. Then tell her it has to stop. If she doesn't cut her out completely. Talk to any person that is connected between the family and her and let them know about the conversation you had with her and what she said. Then you have to cut her out because of this situation. And that you don't want that person to feel alienated about it and nothing will change for them but she has to be excommunicated.
This requires taking a leadership role in the problem but it's worth it. It's lasting damage to her relationships while freeing you from her.
This is well thought-out and solid advice. Thank you much. To be honest, I don't have any beef with her directly, and just happen to be in her way.
Maybe, if I call her up as you mentioned in Option 3, and try to reason with her, it might solve the issue long term. But will she come out from hiding? aren't Scorpios known liars, what if she flat out denies and says I do not know what you are talking about?
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the idea is to pull this out in the open, regardless of if the conversation gets results you personally want.
If your worried about her lieing then don't give her the option by opening the conversation with the issue she has with the mother-in-law. Doing this shows that you understand what is going on and asking about her side of the story. People want to be heard and understood at the end of the day.
Worse case scenario:
IF she doesn't open up and spill the tea that it is her when you ask AND tell you why...then so be it. The point is to bring it all into light and destroy that anonymity even if only in her head.
Should she continue doing it or other things to enact her revenge that effects others, then continue with the consequences in option 3. What she is doing isn't fair to others. Tell the people in the middle what is happening and that she is being excommunicated and why and it doesn't effect them personally.
I want stanch to solve it
Where is my pic? SUCH A TEASE!!!!
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All the sudden you have this new user name and I have to pay for pics! 😤🤡
Alright, this jealous Scorpio-moon woman is creating a mess in my life - because I happen to be in the way of her revenge-spree against her Mother-in-Law.
Long story short, she is making anonymous late-night phone calls to my family members bad-mouthing my partner.
She 'thinks' no one knows, but we figured out that it is her making these calls. Now how do I teach a lesson she never forgets? What would hurt her the most?
Are you sure you want to take this road?
There are 2 ways to do this off the top of my head.
First though understand what makes her tick. Desires and mentality. Then you have 3 options.
You can silently undermine her efforts without anyone catching on. Watch her, become frustrated and escalate her efforts recklessly, do something stupid and it all explodes in her face. Basically a Karma trap.
Expose her directly. Which in turn will expose you to her. DO THIS ONLY IF YOU ARE 100% KNOW IT'S HER. Talk to the people that is important to her and ask them to talk to her to get her to stop. This is called triangulating.
The last is tricky but most effective. Put your own feelings aside. Call her and ask her why she is doing that. Don't judge, just listen and ask questions. Try to understand her point of view, even if it's f'd up. When she is done venting, let her know the problems it is causing without getting emotional yourself. Then tell her it has to stop. If she doesn't cut her out completely. Talk to any person that is connected between the family and her and let them know about the conversation you had with her and what she said. Then you have to cut her out because of this situation. And that you don't want that person to feel alienated about it and nothing will change for them but she has to be excommunicated.
This requires taking a leadership role in the problem but it's worth it. It's lasting damage to her relationships while freeing you from her.
RECORD the CONVERSATION
lol
That would be extremely destructive and funny BUT would undermine the OPs own character. People would worry about OP doing the same to them and trust issues could start. It's a double edge sword. Not worth it.
How about just beating her ass? I don't know why this is so complicated.
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Bruh if someone is calling my parents at night and harassing them and I have access to them, I'm rolling up in their house. It's simple as that.
Well I think everyone knows how well Touchy Taurus and Tempting Virginal Virgos go together Hahaha!
Scorpio moon + leo moon the sexual energy is potent too
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LOL Exactly! And now she still wants the D!
Just put it in her mouth and shut her up already! lol
She changes her accent and tone
She could be speaking in tongues. She could be possessed. Have you talked to a specialist?
Alright, this jealous Scorpio-moon woman is creating a mess in my life - because I happen to be in the way of her revenge-spree against her Mother-in-Law.
Long story short, she is making anonymous late-night phone calls to my family members bad-mouthing my partner.
She 'thinks' no one knows, but we figured out that it is her making these calls. Now how do I teach a lesson she never forgets? What would hurt her the most?
Are you sure you want to take this road?
There are 2 ways to do this off the top of my head.
First though understand what makes her tick. Desires and mentality. Then you have 3 options.
You can silently undermine her efforts without anyone catching on. Watch her, become frustrated and escalate her efforts recklessly, do something stupid and it all explodes in her face. Basically a Karma trap.
Expose her directly. Which in turn will expose you to her. DO THIS ONLY IF YOU ARE 100% KNOW IT'S HER. Talk to the people that is important to her and ask them to talk to her to get her to stop. This is called triangulating.
The last is tricky but most effective. Put your own feelings aside. Call her and ask her why she is doing that. Don't judge, just listen and ask questions. Try to understand her point of view, even if it's f'd up. When she is done venting, let her know the problems it is causing without getting emotional yourself. Then tell her it has to stop. If she doesn't cut her out completely. Talk to any person that is connected between the family and her and let them know about the conversation you had with her and what she said. Then you have to cut her out because of this situation. And that you don't want that person to feel alienated about it and nothing will change for them but she has to be excommunicated.
This requires taking a leadership role in the problem but it's worth it. It's lasting damage to her relationships while freeing you from her.
RECORD the CONVERSATION
lol
That would be extremely destructive and funny BUT would undermine the OPs own character. People would worry about OP doing the same to them and trust issues could start. It's a double edge sword. Not worth it.
How about just beating her ass? I don't know why this is so complicated.
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Physical pain is only temporary. It doesn't phase people who are determined and have a history of violence, dishing it out or receiving it. It's no big deal.
Beating her ass could just start another mess. Hell it might even give her more fuel.
Violence should always be the last and final option. Done right it isn't about dominance or venting your own anger. It's about inflict the maximum amount of damage to that person in such a way to cause the maximum amount of humiliation and mental trauma
The idea is to leave a lasting impression so they don't forget what they did and the punishment they received for it👿
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Alright, this jealous Scorpio-moon woman is creating a mess in my life - because I happen to be in the way of her revenge-spree against her Mother-in-Law.
Long story short, she is making anonymous late-night phone calls to my family members bad-mouthing my partner.
She 'thinks' no one knows, but we figured out that it is her making these calls. Now how do I teach a lesson she never forgets? What would hurt her the most?