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Lilith: source of shame in your relationship (black moon)
Lilith in 1st house: This placement is the ultimate sex symbol placement. I think the mixture of Lilith’s energy and power in the house of identity gives the person with this placement a general overall vibe of “I will ruin you” that’s super hot. Plus it’s generally subconscious - I don’t think people realize that they’re giving off that vibe. Sex and drugs can be a common outlet for these people and they’ll happily engage in anything considered taboo just for the shock value. Mind games, manipulation and power are key traits in this placement.
Lilith in 2nd house: Reckless spender! They’ll gain money pretty quickly but be just as quick to blow it all again on a wild life style . Very over the top materialism but to the point where they end up with spending or gambling addictions. They believe money is power and mixed with Lilith’s intense need for power, this can become a dilemma. They also cannot stand to be criticized so unless you want the backlash, keep your mouth shut.
Lilith in 3rd house: A quick wit that frequently lands them in hot water. I think this placement gives the person the ability to offend or shock others without the fear of consequences. These people may often step on their siblings to achieve their own agenda. They also see their childhood fights and heartbreaks as something that is very important to their reality and resent people from their past for effecting them certain ways. Sick/gross imagination and sense of humor as well.
Lilith in 4th house: Usually this placement brings problems with parents or home life. These people often focus on work so it can get them away from home so they don’t have to deal with it. This person feels alienated from their own ancestors and past. Often, these people also have the urge to emotionally manipulate and hurt others which is something they have to push past.
Lilith in 5th house: This placement may bring about Lilith themes within childhood games such as intense jealousy if other children performed better or games based around assault or death themes. I think these people often resent their kids for being the reason they can no longer enjoy leisure activities so they usually avoid having children at all. They often may become paranoid that they may abuse their children as well.
Lilith in 6th house: This person is the master of less is more. They will find a way to do something that requires no effort due to insane procrastination. They also bring sexuality into their job life. They’re someone that would casually sleep with co-workers and tell anyone that questions them to shove it. Probably very intensely hate anything to do with healthcare or doctors.
Lilith in 7th house: This person doesn’t want to be tied down and resents the idea of marriage. They also desire someone that is darker and more mischievous than them and they look for that in others. Your enemies are not afraid to voice their distaste of you and you often feel quite publicly attacked. Partners often want to “tame” people with this Lilith placement and that’s something that she’ll hate more than anything.
Lilith in 8th house: The ultimate BDSM partner though. This person will literally change your life. They have some downright scary fantasies and need a partner that will keep up. They’re also the kind of person that will literally wait for you to die so that they can have your money. They literally want to own you and everything you have. Also, if they tried, they’d probably be able to harness magic more than any other placement.
Lilith in 9th house: They’re an amazing liar. They’ll lie their ass off and you’ll believe every single thing they say. This placement would be very good at starting and running a legitimate cult. They’re very good at spreading believable information to masses of people and I honestly wouldn’t put it past them to end up cult leaders of some kind or convincing mass amounts of people that there are new religions or that certain conspiracy theories are true.
Lilith in 10th house: This placement is pretty much an advocate for any attention is good attention. They’d unintentionally have reputations for being sexual or inappropriate. Often it’s a placement for those that have “fucked their way to the top”. They know how to use their sexuality to get ahead and it works for them. They also would never hesitate to back stab someone if it meant their own success.
Lilith in 11th house: This placement brings sexual tension to like every friendship these people have. Often they get stuck in friends with benefits situations. These people also sometimes resent their friends and immediately don’t trust them due to their past experiences. Sometimes they may also feel outcasted by their communities which leads to them often becoming loners and disliking groups or organisations of all kinds.
Lilith in 12th house: These people may often experience nightmares or unwanted thoughts of horrible things such as assault. Many people with this placement also fall into substance abuse as a way to escape. Strangely though, people with this placement often dislike being alone and will be outgoing in order to surround themselves with people as when they’re with others, their fears are pushed to the back so they can focus on their friends.
Lilith in 2nd house: Reckless spender! They’ll gain money pretty quickly but be just as quick to blow it all again on a wild life style . Very over the top materialism but to the point where they end up with spending or gambling addictions. They believe money is power and mixed with Lilith’s intense need for power, this can become a dilemma. They also cannot stand to be criticized so unless you want the backlash, keep your mouth shut.
Lilith in 3rd house: A quick wit that frequently lands them in hot water. I think this placement gives the person the ability to offend or shock others without the fear of consequences. These people may often step on their siblings to achieve their own agenda. They also see their childhood fights and heartbreaks as something that is very important to their reality and resent people from their past for effecting them certain ways. Sick/gross imagination and sense of humor as well.
Lilith in 4th house: Usually this placement brings problems with parents or home life. These people often focus on work so it can get them away from home so they don’t have to deal with it. This person feels alienated from their own ancestors and past. Often, these people also have the urge to emotionally manipulate and hurt others which is something they have to push past.
Lilith in 5th house: This placement may bring about Lilith themes within childhood games such as intense jealousy if other children performed better or games based around assault or death themes. I think these people often resent their kids for being the reason they can no longer enjoy leisure activities so they usually avoid having children at all. They often may become paranoid that they may abuse their children as well.
Lilith in 6th house: This person is the master of less is more. They will find a way to do something that requires no effort due to insane procrastination. They also bring sexuality into their job life. They’re someone that would casually sleep with co-workers and tell anyone that questions them to shove it. Probably very intensely hate anything to do with healthcare or doctors.
Lilith in 7th house: This person doesn’t want to be tied down and resents the idea of marriage. They also desire someone that is darker and more mischievous than them and they look for that in others. Your enemies are not afraid to voice their distaste of you and you often feel quite publicly attacked. Partners often want to “tame” people with this Lilith placement and that’s something that she’ll hate more than anything.
Lilith in 8th house: The ultimate BDSM partner though. This person will literally change your life. They have some downright scary fantasies and need a partner that will keep up. They’re also the kind of person that will literally wait for you to die so that they can have your money. They literally want to own you and everything you have. Also, if they tried, they’d probably be able to harness magic more than any other placement.
Lilith in 9th house: They’re an amazing liar. They’ll lie their ass off and you’ll believe every single thing they say. This placement would be very good at starting and running a legitimate cult. They’re very good at spreading believable information to masses of people and I honestly wouldn’t put it past them to end up cult leaders of some kind or convincing mass amounts of people that there are new religions or that certain conspiracy theories are true.
Lilith in 10th house: This placement is pretty much an advocate for any attention is good attention. They’d unintentionally have reputations for being sexual or inappropriate. Often it’s a placement for those that have “fucked their way to the top”. They know how to use their sexuality to get ahead and it works for them. They also would never hesitate to back stab someone if it meant their own success.
Lilith in 11th house: This placement brings sexual tension to like every friendship these people have. Often they get stuck in friends with benefits situations. These people also sometimes resent their friends and immediately don’t trust them due to their past experiences. Sometimes they may also feel outcasted by their communities which leads to them often becoming loners and disliking groups or organisations of all kinds.
Lilith in 12th house: These people may often experience nightmares or unwanted thoughts of horrible things such as assault. Many people with this placement also fall into substance abuse as a way to escape. Strangely though, people with this placement often dislike being alone and will be outgoing in order to surround themselves with people as when they’re with others, their fears are pushed to the back so they can focus on their friends.
Lilith in 1st house: This placement is the ultimate sex symbol placement. I think the mixture of Lilith’s energy and power in the house of identity gives the person with this placement a general overall vibe of “I will ruin you” that’s super hot. Plus it’s generally subconscious - I don’t think people realize that they’re giving off that vibe. Sex and drugs can be a common outlet for these people and they’ll happily engage in anything considered taboo just for the shock value. Mind games, manipulation and power are key traits in this placement.
This ^^^ and in Aries 😮
No shame 🙃
This ^^^ and in Aries 😮
No shame 🙃
Posted by MyStarsShine
Lilith in 1st house: This placement is the ultimate sex symbol placement. I think the mixture of Lilith’s energy and power in the house of identity gives the person with this placement a general overall vibe of “I will ruin you” that’s super hot. Plus it’s generally subconscious - I don’t think people realize that they’re giving off that vibe. Sex and drugs can be a common outlet for these people and they’ll happily engage in anything considered taboo just for the shock value. Mind games, manipulation and power are key traits in this placement.
This ^^^ and in Aries 😮
No shame 🙃
sometimes i feel like the house is so much more important than the sign
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by MyStarsShine
Lilith in 1st house: This placement is the ultimate sex symbol placement. I think the mixture of Lilith’s energy and power in the house of identity gives the person with this placement a general overall vibe of “I will ruin you” that’s super hot. Plus it’s generally subconscious - I don’t think people realize that they’re giving off that vibe. Sex and drugs can be a common outlet for these people and they’ll happily engage in anything considered taboo just for the shock value. Mind games, manipulation and power are key traits in this placement.
This ^^^ and in Aries 😮
No shame 🙃
sometimes i feel like the house is so much more important than the signclick to expand
Yes I agree. Although if it’s a double whammy like I have it could emphasise the meaning
Which sign do you have it in and is it very close to the dc?
"Your enemies are not afraid to voice their distaste of you and you often feel quite publicly attacked.."
HAHA
now that i think about it, even LVP herself is a younger wife to a rich, older man who had an ex who was his own age.
HAHA
now that i think about it, even LVP herself is a younger wife to a rich, older man who had an ex who was his own age.
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by MyStarsShine
Lilith in 1st house: This placement is the ultimate sex symbol placement. I think the mixture of Lilith’s energy and power in the house of identity gives the person with this placement a general overall vibe of “I will ruin you” that’s super hot. Plus it’s generally subconscious - I don’t think people realize that they’re giving off that vibe. Sex and drugs can be a common outlet for these people and they’ll happily engage in anything considered taboo just for the shock value. Mind games, manipulation and power are key traits in this placement.
This ^^^ and in Aries 😮
No shame 🙃
sometimes i feel like the house is so much more important than the sign
Yes I agree. Although if it’s a double whammy like I have it could emphasise the meaning
Which sign do you have it in and is it very close to the dc?click to expand
aries
my chart is very retarded
seems as if all my signs likes to live in the houses of their opposite
Posted by Antiphates
2nd, nope, but I'v read somewhere that aspecting Chiron "purges" Lilith from most of it's negative aspects, which might explain why I don't relate to it.
interesting
Chiron 'purges' like a 'cleansing'
read that it supplanted Mercury as the ruler of Virgo
guess i'm going to check my chart to see what's been purged
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by MyStarsShine
Lilith in 1st house: This placement is the ultimate sex symbol placement. I think the mixture of Lilith’s energy and power in the house of identity gives the person with this placement a general overall vibe of “I will ruin you” that’s super hot. Plus it’s generally subconscious - I don’t think people realize that they’re giving off that vibe. Sex and drugs can be a common outlet for these people and they’ll happily engage in anything considered taboo just for the shock value. Mind games, manipulation and power are key traits in this placement.
This ^^^ and in Aries 😮
No shame 🙃
sometimes i feel like the house is so much more important than the sign
Yes I agree. Although if it’s a double whammy like I have it could emphasise the meaning
Which sign do you have it in and is it very close to the dc?
aries
my chart is very retarded
seems as if all my signs likes to live in the houses of their oppositeclick to expand
Lilith in 7th in Aries would be challenging in long term rships...you'd probably torture the poor guy lol
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by MyStarsShine
Lilith in 1st house: This placement is the ultimate sex symbol placement. I think the mixture of Lilith’s energy and power in the house of identity gives the person with this placement a general overall vibe of “I will ruin you” that’s super hot. Plus it’s generally subconscious - I don’t think people realize that they’re giving off that vibe. Sex and drugs can be a common outlet for these people and they’ll happily engage in anything considered taboo just for the shock value. Mind games, manipulation and power are key traits in this placement.
This ^^^ and in Aries 😮
No shame 🙃
sometimes i feel like the house is so much more important than the sign
Yes I agree. Although if it’s a double whammy like I have it could emphasise the meaning
Which sign do you have it in and is it very close to the dc?
aries
my chart is very retarded
seems as if all my signs likes to live in the houses of their opposite
Lilith in 7th in Aries would be challenging in long term rships...you'd probably torture the poor guy lolclick to expand
how would i torture him?
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by MyStarsShine
Lilith in 1st house: This placement is the ultimate sex symbol placement. I think the mixture of Lilith’s energy and power in the house of identity gives the person with this placement a general overall vibe of “I will ruin you” that’s super hot. Plus it’s generally subconscious - I don’t think people realize that they’re giving off that vibe. Sex and drugs can be a common outlet for these people and they’ll happily engage in anything considered taboo just for the shock value. Mind games, manipulation and power are key traits in this placement.
This ^^^ and in Aries 😮
No shame 🙃
sometimes i feel like the house is so much more important than the sign
Yes I agree. Although if it’s a double whammy like I have it could emphasise the meaning
Which sign do you have it in and is it very close to the dc?
aries
my chart is very retarded
seems as if all my signs likes to live in the houses of their opposite
Lilith in 7th in Aries would be challenging in long term rships...you'd probably torture the poor guy lol
how would i torture him?click to expand
Mentally...
Lilith in 3rd house: A quick wit that frequently lands them in hot water. I think this placement gives the person the ability to offend or shock others without the fear of consequences. These people may often step on their siblings to achieve their own agenda. They also see their childhood fights and heartbreaks as something that is very important to their reality and resent people from their past for effecting them certain ways. Sick/gross imagination and sense of humor as well.
I wouldn't say it lands me in hot water. I'm the oldest ...so no stepping on any siblings plus I'd want to see them achieve great things. Naw...I wouldn't say I resent anyone...it is what it is and played out how it should have. Def a sick/gross imagination and sense of humor lol 🤷. I relate more to the 11th house description but my Lilith is in Aqua...so kinda makes sense lol
I wouldn't say it lands me in hot water. I'm the oldest ...so no stepping on any siblings plus I'd want to see them achieve great things. Naw...I wouldn't say I resent anyone...it is what it is and played out how it should have. Def a sick/gross imagination and sense of humor lol 🤷. I relate more to the 11th house description but my Lilith is in Aqua...so kinda makes sense lol
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by MyStarsShine
Lilith in 1st house: This placement is the ultimate sex symbol placement. I think the mixture of Lilith’s energy and power in the house of identity gives the person with this placement a general overall vibe of “I will ruin you” that’s super hot. Plus it’s generally subconscious - I don’t think people realize that they’re giving off that vibe. Sex and drugs can be a common outlet for these people and they’ll happily engage in anything considered taboo just for the shock value. Mind games, manipulation and power are key traits in this placement.
This ^^^ and in Aries 😮
No shame 🙃
sometimes i feel like the house is so much more important than the sign
Yes I agree. Although if it’s a double whammy like I have it could emphasise the meaning
Which sign do you have it in and is it very close to the dc?
aries
my chart is very retarded
seems as if all my signs likes to live in the houses of their opposite
Lilith in 7th in Aries would be challenging in long term rships...you'd probably torture the poor guy lol
how would i torture him?
Mentally...click to expand
how do you mean?
is it coz i don't seem to commit?
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by MyStarsShine
Lilith in 1st house: This placement is the ultimate sex symbol placement. I think the mixture of Lilith’s energy and power in the house of identity gives the person with this placement a general overall vibe of “I will ruin you” that’s super hot. Plus it’s generally subconscious - I don’t think people realize that they’re giving off that vibe. Sex and drugs can be a common outlet for these people and they’ll happily engage in anything considered taboo just for the shock value. Mind games, manipulation and power are key traits in this placement.
This ^^^ and in Aries 😮
No shame 🙃
sometimes i feel like the house is so much more important than the sign
Yes I agree. Although if it’s a double whammy like I have it could emphasise the meaning
Which sign do you have it in and is it very close to the dc?
aries
my chart is very retarded
seems as if all my signs likes to live in the houses of their opposite
Lilith in 7th in Aries would be challenging in long term rships...you'd probably torture the poor guy lol
how would i torture him?
Mentally...
how do you mean?
is it coz i don't seem to commit?click to expand
Yes. If you put the Lilith energy in the house of rship and in Aries, it will be restless and not want to stay too long
Posted by The_Pensive_Heckler
Lilith in the 3rd here. I never stepped on any siblings, but i always had a smart mouth.
Love your user name...how do you think them up? 😆
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by MyStarsShine
Lilith in 1st house: This placement is the ultimate sex symbol placement. I think the mixture of Lilith’s energy and power in the house of identity gives the person with this placement a general overall vibe of “I will ruin you” that’s super hot. Plus it’s generally subconscious - I don’t think people realize that they’re giving off that vibe. Sex and drugs can be a common outlet for these people and they’ll happily engage in anything considered taboo just for the shock value. Mind games, manipulation and power are key traits in this placement.
This ^^^ and in Aries 😮
No shame 🙃
sometimes i feel like the house is so much more important than the sign
Yes I agree. Although if it’s a double whammy like I have it could emphasise the meaning
Which sign do you have it in and is it very close to the dc?
aries
my chart is very retarded
seems as if all my signs likes to live in the houses of their opposite
Lilith in 7th in Aries would be challenging in long term rships...you'd probably torture the poor guy lol
how would i torture him?
Mentally...
how do you mean?
is it coz i don't seem to commit?
Yes. If you put the Lilith energy in the house of rship and in Aries, it will be restless and not want to stay too longclick to expand
this scorpio sun/gem moon used to ask me if i'm getting bored with him
funny coz he's the gem moon
Posted by The_Pensive_HecklerPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by The_Pensive_Heckler
Lilith in the 3rd here. I never stepped on any siblings, but i always had a smart mouth.
Love your user name...how do you think them up? 😆
Thanks, they just come to me. Usually when I'm engaged in daily activities. I could never have enough accounts to use all the names that pop out at me.click to expand
Love it, do you have strong Uranus in your chart? 😀
Posted by alexscariesPosted by virgoOPPP
(you can include asteroid or dark moon whatever)
found out that i have 7H Lilith:
"Either the person becomes Lilith, or looks for someone (often a spouse) to be Lilith for them – this can be a placement for home-wreckers, younger wives of wealthy men who divorced a wife their own age, or the older wife herself."
e.g.
Princess Diana had this too: ""Well, there were three of us in this marriage, so it was a bit crowded.”
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"the marriage for the native would be a source of disempowerment. the person who has this would refrain from formalizing their connection with one partner via marriage. there'd be an attraction to people with a mischievous character and dubious personality."
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think this might be the main source of complications/drama in your relationship. for some reason, i just can't live with somebody else no matter how much i love or want them. just can't do it. i've tried it for a few months before but that shit won't fly. it leaves me feeling drained.
e.g.
the scorpio sun/gem moon and i practically lived together and it just felt tiring asf. and he was a dubious personality with 2 fucking phones. but my attraction to gemini duality is very high so it's not like i automatically run from hints of deception haha it's sad. then there's the attraction to men who are taken or appears to be taken. this is not an ego thing, just a sad coincidence that i think my 7H Lilith explains.
I think I have 7h as well it's my descendant. My moon Lilith is definitely pisces.
I to am drawn to Gemini. Their indecision has dropped them way down in my estimation though, when they have their shit together the chemistry can be amazing.
I used to have to phones. Now I have dual SIMs 😂 One is if you like my business number for work, companies like energy and hospital. The other for personal relationships why? It's disposable, get a psycho and I can literally bin them off. I'm deeply attracted to dark people that are very individualistic. No interest in Instagram posers.
Bizarrely I am faithful in a relationship and have never cheated. I can be attracted to married women or in a relationship, that is a no for me - I won't go there. I find relationship draining as well simply because I am so invested emotionally.click to expand
gem moons chase me but it's mainly coz i always seem uninterested and detached in the romantic sense. it also goes with the thought that i think most people are drones in general and therefore can be replaced (unless they're family or long-time friends). it's not easy to hold my interest and my obsession is based on sex (which even with that i'm picky about like i can grade that shit if i had the time). besides the fact that these people are so intelligent, they're not overbearing. and they are not crazy sensitive nor do they have shitty self-esteem (unlike all the other mutables).
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by The_Pensive_HecklerPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by The_Pensive_Heckler
Lilith in the 3rd here. I never stepped on any siblings, but i always had a smart mouth.
Love your user name...how do you think them up? 😆
Thanks, they just come to me. Usually when I'm engaged in daily activities. I could never have enough accounts to use all the names that pop out at me.
Love it, do you have strong Uranus in your chart? 😀click to expand
my uranus (capricorn) is either in the 4th or 5th (uncertain birth time)
sun trine uranus
moon trine uranus
uranus conjunct neptune
uranus sextile pluto
uranus trine ascendant
Posted by alexscariesPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by alexscariesPosted by virgoOPPP
(you can include asteroid or dark moon whatever)
found out that i have 7H Lilith:
"Either the person becomes Lilith, or looks for someone (often a spouse) to be Lilith for them – this can be a placement for home-wreckers, younger wives of wealthy men who divorced a wife their own age, or the older wife herself."
e.g.
Princess Diana had this too: ""Well, there were three of us in this marriage, so it was a bit crowded.”
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"the marriage for the native would be a source of disempowerment. the person who has this would refrain from formalizing their connection with one partner via marriage. there'd be an attraction to people with a mischievous character and dubious personality."
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think this might be the main source of complications/drama in your relationship. for some reason, i just can't live with somebody else no matter how much i love or want them. just can't do it. i've tried it for a few months before but that shit won't fly. it leaves me feeling drained.
e.g.
the scorpio sun/gem moon and i practically lived together and it just felt tiring asf. and he was a dubious personality with 2 fucking phones. but my attraction to gemini duality is very high so it's not like i automatically run from hints of deception haha it's sad. then there's the attraction to men who are taken or appears to be taken. this is not an ego thing, just a sad coincidence that i think my 7H Lilith explains.
I think I have 7h as well it's my descendant. My moon Lilith is definitely pisces.
I to am drawn to Gemini. Their indecision has dropped them way down in my estimation though, when they have their shit together the chemistry can be amazing.
I used to have to phones. Now I have dual SIMs 😂 One is if you like my business number for work, companies like energy and hospital. The other for personal relationships why? It's disposable, get a psycho and I can literally bin them off. I'm deeply attracted to dark people that are very individualistic. No interest in Instagram posers.
Bizarrely I am faithful in a relationship and have never cheated. I can be attracted to married women or in a relationship, that is a no for me - I won't go there. I find relationship draining as well simply because I am so invested emotionally.
gem moons chase me but it's mainly coz i always seem uninterested and detached in the romantic sense. it also goes with the thought that i think most people are drones in general and therefore can be replaced (unless they're family or long-time friends). it's not easy to hold my interest and my obsession is based on sex (which even with that i'm picky about like i can grade that shit if i had the time). besides the fact that these people are so intelligent, they're not overbearing. and they are not crazy sensitive nor do they have shitty self-esteem (unlike all the other mutables).
I think it's my third house stellium or maybe gem MC that syncs with them. I think gems have a scatter gun approach to knowledge though and a lot of their learning comes from conversations they have. Or maybe im wrong.
Lol at being able to grade sex. I didn't form a relationship with somebody because the sex was that bad. Yes, I know it's wrong. If somebody is willing to push boundaries within me and themselves as well as being comfortable and reassured in themselves I will keep coming back 💦click to expand
i read too that 7H Lilith lives off on obsession. we wanna be with someone we can obsess over and vice versa. one of my friends actually pointed this about me--- that i can only be with someone just as obsessive as me. (Taurus moon 8H).
Posted by alexscariesPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by alexscariesPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by alexscariesPosted by virgoOPPP
(you can include asteroid or dark moon whatever)
found out that i have 7H Lilith:
"Either the person becomes Lilith, or looks for someone (often a spouse) to be Lilith for them – this can be a placement for home-wreckers, younger wives of wealthy men who divorced a wife their own age, or the older wife herself."
e.g.
Princess Diana had this too: ""Well, there were three of us in this marriage, so it was a bit crowded.”
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"the marriage for the native would be a source of disempowerment. the person who has this would refrain from formalizing their connection with one partner via marriage. there'd be an attraction to people with a mischievous character and dubious personality."
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think this might be the main source of complications/drama in your relationship. for some reason, i just can't live with somebody else no matter how much i love or want them. just can't do it. i've tried it for a few months before but that shit won't fly. it leaves me feeling drained.
e.g.
the scorpio sun/gem moon and i practically lived together and it just felt tiring asf. and he was a dubious personality with 2 fucking phones. but my attraction to gemini duality is very high so it's not like i automatically run from hints of deception haha it's sad. then there's the attraction to men who are taken or appears to be taken. this is not an ego thing, just a sad coincidence that i think my 7H Lilith explains.
I think I have 7h as well it's my descendant. My moon Lilith is definitely pisces.
I to am drawn to Gemini. Their indecision has dropped them way down in my estimation though, when they have their shit together the chemistry can be amazing.
I used to have to phones. Now I have dual SIMs 😂 One is if you like my business number for work, companies like energy and hospital. The other for personal relationships why? It's disposable, get a psycho and I can literally bin them off. I'm deeply attracted to dark people that are very individualistic. No interest in Instagram posers.
Bizarrely I am faithful in a relationship and have never cheated. I can be attracted to married women or in a relationship, that is a no for me - I won't go there. I find relationship draining as well simply because I am so invested emotionally.
gem moons chase me but it's mainly coz i always seem uninterested and detached in the romantic sense. it also goes with the thought that i think most people are drones in general and therefore can be replaced (unless they're family or long-time friends). it's not easy to hold my interest and my obsession is based on sex (which even with that i'm picky about like i can grade that shit if i had the time). besides the fact that these people are so intelligent, they're not overbearing. and they are not crazy sensitive nor do they have shitty self-esteem (unlike all the other mutables).
I think it's my third house stellium or maybe gem MC that syncs with them. I think gems have a scatter gun approach to knowledge though and a lot of their learning comes from conversations they have. Or maybe im wrong.
Lol at being able to grade sex. I didn't form a relationship with somebody because the sex was that bad. Yes, I know it's wrong. If somebody is willing to push boundaries within me and themselves as well as being comfortable and reassured in themselves I will keep coming back 💦
i read too that 7H Lilith lives off on obsession. we wanna be with someone we can obsess over and vice versa. one of my friends actually pointed this about me--- that i can only be with someone just as obsessive as me. (Taurus moon 8H).
I think he or she is right. My suns 8h which says it all. As much as I love aquas, gems, sags and to a lesser extent Aries and taurus. I think ultimately I need a Scorpio, virgo or cancer. I think the thing your friend forgets is assuming you are wired up similar to me is these people can serve as a muse where they reveal things about ourselves and don't really stay a lover more like a self discovery project. I know it sounds harsh, but it is yet another trap to avoid. Oh and I don't think I want to marry anyone (as marriage was mentioned in the first post).click to expand
marriage always seemed unnecessary to me
I have Lilith in Leo along with vertex in Leo in the 8th. I don’t think I want someone to die to spend their riches I just want to express my magic.
Posted by Antiphates
2nd, nope, but I'v read somewhere that aspecting Chiron "purges" Lilith from most of it's negative aspects, which might explain why I don't relate to it.
I have Lilith in Aries, conjunct my sun, Venus and Chiron.
Lilith in 11th house: This placement brings sexual tension to like every friendship these people have. Often they get stuck in friends with benefits situations. These people also sometimes resent their friends and immediately don’t trust them due to their past experiences. Sometimes they may also feel outcasted by their communities which leads to them often becoming loners and disliking groups or organisations of all kinds.
The only parts that ring true here, for me. Also I wouldn't say I've been 'stuck' in FWB situations. I don't think 3 is such a big number.
But you could be right about purging of negative energies when in aspect with Chiron. I've read some descriptions of Lilith Aries in 11th house and I cannot relate to those descriptions at all (especially descriptions of sexual seduction etc.)
Posted by LittleStar
Lilith in 6th house: This person is the master of less is more. They will find a way to do something that requires no effort due to insane procrastination. They also bring sexuality into their job life. They’re someone that would casually sleep with co-workers and tell anyone that questions them to shove it. Probably very intensely hate anything to do with healthcare or doctors.
I don’t relate to this at all.
understandable haha
Posted by Aquarelle
I have the same as you, OP.
Black Moon Lilith in Pisces and Pisces in 7th house too.
Over the years I have started to identify more with Pisces traits and looking for them in other people. Combined with Pisces in 7th house, which means that I could look for Pisces traits in a potential partner too.
I don't relate to the home-wrecker part at all, although marriage in itself never appealed to me. But I was never particularly attracted to married men , or people with dubious character. It is interesting though if someone has a bit of a hidden dark side to them, but I don't go looking for it. I choose more stability.
is that what it means? my second dominant sign is Pisces right after Virgo. i always did like Pisces women as friends but Pisces men even when married tried to get with me.
Posted by AquarellePosted by virgoOPPPPosted by Aquarelle
I have the same as you, OP.
Black Moon Lilith in Pisces and Pisces in 7th house too.
Over the years I have started to identify more with Pisces traits and looking for them in other people. Combined with Pisces in 7th house, which means that I could look for Pisces traits in a potential partner too.
I don't relate to the home-wrecker part at all, although marriage in itself never appealed to me. But I was never particularly attracted to married men , or people with dubious character. It is interesting though if someone has a bit of a hidden dark side to them, but I don't go looking for it. I choose more stability.
is that what it means? my second dominant sign is Pisces right after Virgo. i always did like Pisces women as friends but Pisces men even when married tried to get with me.
I am water dominant too, mostly because of Pisces placements. I think it can attract water signs. My venus is in Pisces and in 7th house, so I blame that for it, lol.
Maybe the married Pisces men had Lilith in Pisces too? I can never tell with Pisces men though. They are the ones who can have a crush on you and you will never know.click to expand
don't even know how i have 2nd dominant as Pisces coz i have a Virgo stellium. maybe it's the Virgo sun 12H and Neptune as a dominant planet as well.
Lilith in 9th house: They’re an amazing liar. They’ll lie their ass off and you’ll believe every single thing they say. This placement would be very good at starting and running a legitimate cult. They’re very good at spreading believable information to masses of people and I honestly wouldn’t put it past them to end up cult leaders of some kind or convincing mass amounts of people that there are new religions or that certain conspiracy theories are true.
Lilith in 9th house: They’re an amazing liar. They’ll lie their ass off and you’ll believe every single thing they say. This placement would be very good at starting and running a legitimate cult. They’re very good at spreading believable information to masses of people and I honestly wouldn’t put it past them to end up cult leaders of some kind or convincing mass amounts of people that there are new religions or that certain conspiracy theories are true.
Wtf...lmao... I wish I had this much power
Wtf...lmao... I wish I had this much power
I wish there was more on Lilith, especially for men. Mine's conjunct my Asc in the 1st by 1 degree. Some refer to it as a mix of Pluto/Uranus energy, which I could see, but I have both of those planets in hard aspect to my personal planets too, so it's hard for me to figure out Lilith's effects exactly (I've seen it linked to: raw sexuality, feminism, fear of strong women in unevolved men etc...).
Posted by libraman20
I wish there was more on Lilith, especially for men. Mine's conjunct my Asc in the 1st by 1 degree. Some refer to it as a mix of Pluto/Uranus energy, which I could see, but I have both of those planets in hard aspect to my personal planets too, so it's hard for me to figure out Lilith's effects exactly (I've seen it linked to: raw sexuality, feminism, fear of strong women in unevolved men etc...).
i've read that Lilith is the woman's dark side but also an inner power. but for a man, it's a clue to the type of woman he fears the most yet FANTASIZES about and unresolved issues he's got with women. BUT in general, this refers to sexual passion and the things that both genders are secretive about.
@libraman20
e.g.
Bill Clinton (Lilith Sag) marrying Hillary (Lilith Sag 3H).
though we might not know her personally, we can speculate that she must be very dedicated to her secret philosophies (that it's not just lip service when she says this or that) but the problem with great faith is that it often involves a lot of lying and great hypocrisy. sex for her must feel very liberating but she's got that 3rd house Gemini mask of duplicity too. clever with words and with a brilliant mind. she probably talks dirty too haha.
this is the kind of woman he fears yet.... wants.
e.g.
Bill Clinton (Lilith Sag) marrying Hillary (Lilith Sag 3H).
though we might not know her personally, we can speculate that she must be very dedicated to her secret philosophies (that it's not just lip service when she says this or that) but the problem with great faith is that it often involves a lot of lying and great hypocrisy. sex for her must feel very liberating but she's got that 3rd house Gemini mask of duplicity too. clever with words and with a brilliant mind. she probably talks dirty too haha.
this is the kind of woman he fears yet.... wants.
Posted by Sagicorn
I can so NOT relate to Lilith in 2nd lol I so don't care for material...I mean who doesn't like nice stuff...but are they important to me to have them? Nope. I prefer spending on fun in life other than material
just a potential dark side
hey i have it in the 7th and i'm not a homewrecker yet
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