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Moon Synastry
Posted by Gobbie
Always start with element compatibility then move onto aspects, degrees, etc.
Can you give some examples please?
Why have I not been with ANOTHER damn Cancer moon so we can love each other to death—?? They're all over the place on DXP, real life not so much.
I haven't had any issues at all with the feminine moons in relationships.
I like these most in order
Virgo
Cancer
Scorpio
Taurus
Pisces
Edited to add- I'm a Cancer Moon.
I feel the most connection with Virgo and Scorpio placements- not talking about the sun, but 2 cancer moons are good too, I just don't like other placements in Cancer.
I like these most in order
Virgo
Cancer
Scorpio
Taurus
Pisces
Edited to add- I'm a Cancer Moon.
I feel the most connection with Virgo and Scorpio placements- not talking about the sun, but 2 cancer moons are good too, I just don't like other placements in Cancer.
Posted by GobbiePosted by saggurl88
I haven't had any issues at all with the feminine moons in relationships.
I like these most in order
Virgo
Cancer
Scorpio
Taurus
Pisces
How dare you! 👉click to expand
These are based on the relationships I've been in 😆 I don't know any Pisces Moons in my real everyday real life.
And anyways! Look at you- A Sag and a Gemini has got you to change your opinion of us over the years! 😛
Posted by GobbiePosted by saggurl88
I haven't had any issues at all with the feminine moons in relationships.
I like these most in order
Virgo
Cancer
Scorpio
Taurus
Pisces
Edited to add- I'm a Cancer Moon.
I feel the most connection with Virgo and Scorpio placements- not talking about the sun, but 2 cancer moons are good too, I just don't like other placements in Cancer.
Yes, masculine (i.e. fire and air) moon signs are best avoided for earth mooners, IMHO.click to expand
Yes You're so soft and squishy with your sun/moon combo! Who would've thought! 😛
I get along with all moons, and I'm pretty polite and respectful to all people. Even if they might not deserve it. At my worst I'm simply neutral or appear aloof. I probably fantasized sexual urges, or the murder of every moon sign a few times though.
Tbh if I've thought about murdering someone that's a good sign. That means I trust them enough to know they won't fuck me over in some way.
Tbh if I've thought about murdering someone that's a good sign. That means I trust them enough to know they won't fuck me over in some way.
Posted by geminiflyby
Why have I not been with ANOTHER damn Cancer moon so we can love each other to death—?? They're all over the place on DXP, real life not so much.
It’s really nice. We can be as loving and cringy as we want and we soak it up and are accepting 😂😂😂😍😍😍
Posted by saggurl88Posted by geminiflyby
Why have I not been with ANOTHER damn Cancer moon so we can love each other to death—?? They're all over the place on DXP, real life not so much.
It’s really nice. We can be as loving and cringy as we want and we soak it up and are accepting 😂😂😂😍😍😍click to expand
I dunno now. @ImperfectStorm just scared me straight!
Posted by geminiflybyPosted by saggurl88Posted by geminiflyby
Why have I not been with ANOTHER damn Cancer moon so we can love each other to death—?? They're all over the place on DXP, real life not so much.
It’s really nice. We can be as loving and cringy as we want and we soak it up and are accepting 😂😂😂😍😍😍
I dunno now. @ImperfectStorm just scared me straight!click to expand
I think fire/air combos have an easier time in relationships. We can chill and enjoy our moons. 😅😅😅😅
It’s an emotional placement but not in a heavy way for us.
I read that too and was like 😵💫😵
It wasn’t my experience with them. I have fun with my moon.
I'm with an Aries moon now. Because I like playing with fire!
virgo moon 😍😍🥰🥰
Posted by geminiflyby
I'm with an Aries moon now. Because I like playing with fire!
How’s that going? Do you have Aries in your chart?
I like them a lot but we emote differently and my feelings get too hurt by them 😭😭😖
So far so good. Because we're both Gems (haha! or haven't you heard yet?) it's passionate but in a different way than Cancer.
Posted by geminiflyby
So far so good. Because we're both Gems (haha! or haven't you heard yet?) it's passionate but in a different way than Cancer.
Oh I think that’s great then! Your suns may take out the complications of the two moons together.
Posted by geminiflyby
Why have I not been with ANOTHER damn Cancer moon so we can love each other to death—?? They're all over the place on DXP, real life not so much.
They're all mothering someone somewhere. Too busy taking care of others to put your need for love first.
Posted by ImperfectStormPosted by GobbiePosted by ImperfectStormPosted by geminiflyby
Why have I not been with ANOTHER damn Cancer moon so we can love each other to death—?? They're all over the place on DXP, real life not so much.
It sounds good but it’s not that great lol
My sons dad was a cap sun with cancer moon. We definitely built a loving home together and still consider each other family.. he’s very nurturing and I love his moon. But there are some enabling and codependency issues between two cancer moons which only made it harder to break free from each other once you’ve grown apart or are no longer healthy together..
Two cancer moons will cling to each other out of attachment, even if the relationship is not healthy. It’s an incredibly hard bond to break, it took me a couple years. So that conjunction has its pros and cons. But we also had an exact conjunction between his Saturn and my Venus which certainly didn’t help. 🥴
That's the problem with same moon couples (when they work) - strong bond but many blind spots in the relationship.
Yeah he is still trying to work things out but I know it’s for the wrong reasons. He just wants to try because I’m comfortable and “safe”.. not because we really belong together. It took me a while to figure out there is a difference between staying together for love and staying together because of attachment.click to expand
What does "really belong together" means to you? And why are comfortable, safe and attached the "wrong reasons", lol? I would think these are highly desirable feelings to have.
My main relationships were with:
Pisces/Aries cusp Moon
Taurus Moon (married this one)
Gemini Moon
Pisces/Aries cusp Moon, again!
Pisces/Aries cusp Moon, the third one, because I never learn...
I would like to believe that all Pisces/Aries cusp Moons were actually Pisces, like my Moon.
I also dated Aries Moon, Leo Moon and Cancer moon (less than a year each). Liked Aries and the Leo moon the least. Cancer moon man was delightful, most likely because of the Cap sun...
Pisces/Aries cusp Moon
Taurus Moon (married this one)
Gemini Moon
Pisces/Aries cusp Moon, again!
Pisces/Aries cusp Moon, the third one, because I never learn...
I would like to believe that all Pisces/Aries cusp Moons were actually Pisces, like my Moon.
I also dated Aries Moon, Leo Moon and Cancer moon (less than a year each). Liked Aries and the Leo moon the least. Cancer moon man was delightful, most likely because of the Cap sun...
Posted by ImperfectStormPosted by UndinePosted by ImperfectStormPosted by GobbiePosted by ImperfectStormPosted by geminiflyby
Why have I not been with ANOTHER damn Cancer moon so we can love each other to death—?? They're all over the place on DXP, real life not so much.
It sounds good but it’s not that great lol
My sons dad was a cap sun with cancer moon. We definitely built a loving home together and still consider each other family.. he’s very nurturing and I love his moon. But there are some enabling and codependency issues between two cancer moons which only made it harder to break free from each other once you’ve grown apart or are no longer healthy together..
Two cancer moons will cling to each other out of attachment, even if the relationship is not healthy. It’s an incredibly hard bond to break, it took me a couple years. So that conjunction has its pros and cons. But we also had an exact conjunction between his Saturn and my Venus which certainly didn’t help. 🥴
That's the problem with same moon couples (when they work) - strong bond but many blind spots in the relationship.
Yeah he is still trying to work things out but I know it’s for the wrong reasons. He just wants to try because I’m comfortable and “safe”.. not because we really belong together. It took me a while to figure out there is a difference between staying together for love and staying together because of attachment.
What does "really belong together" means to you? And why are comfortable, safe and attached the "wrong reasons", lol? I would think these are highly desirable feelings to have.
Well he cheated on me remember? I’d say that’s the first clue that we don’t belong together, he obviously wasn’t truly happy. Aside from that, we were together for over 10 years and he was indecisive when it came to marriage. Now that we’ve been broken up for 3 years and we are in our 40s, NOW all the sudden he wants to get married. And it’s for the wrong reasons. I think it’s very clear that we don’t belong with each other. I can confidently say that I tried though!click to expand
I think cheating was his obvious downfall, otherwise you would have stayed together. I dated briefly a Cap with Cancer moon and landed, heartbroken, on dxpnet because of him. He ghosted me, but later explained that he went back to his ex.
Pisces moon here, Scorpio Sun. Partner is a leo moon,Taurus Sun. I think our moons work well together. He needs lots of attention but it's more in a subtle way than a showy one. Pisces moon does well with stability so him being him helps.
Less compatible matches were aries moon but heavy virgo everywhere else. No emotions at all but then let the temper rip. Felt like being constantly assaulted all the time. That said I have a Scorp Sun friend with Aries moon and he's great. A gentleman.
Cap moon was just too depressing. Oh my God, I don't think ive ever had to use so much energy just to keep at a normal level.
Libra moon was as you would expect. Not deep enough so hard to establish a connection.
I'm not a fan of cancer placements and you'd think I'd lije what others have said about their cancer moon and just being together in blissful, smothering happiness but no. I find that too much. My sister is Libra Sun, Virgo moon and she's with Cancer moon. I just don't see the connection at all. As another poster said about their ex - they just want to be safe and comfortable - not necessarily compatible - and I would agree that's what happened here on the Cancer moon part. If he could, he would take her away from everyone else and keep her all to himself. We have had holidays together, never again, all he wants to do is focus on her 100% and won't leave her alone. Me and her can't even have a chat without him hanging around like a lost puppy I wanna kick. We were all up a snowy mountain, just the five of us (my much younger kid brother, too) and it was pretty much to ourselves the most part. We were trying to do snowball fights and have a laugh and he kept steering my sister off to go over another part alone. It wasn't that they or he wanted 'alone time' as such. He dies ot all the time. Werido.
Less compatible matches were aries moon but heavy virgo everywhere else. No emotions at all but then let the temper rip. Felt like being constantly assaulted all the time. That said I have a Scorp Sun friend with Aries moon and he's great. A gentleman.
Cap moon was just too depressing. Oh my God, I don't think ive ever had to use so much energy just to keep at a normal level.
Libra moon was as you would expect. Not deep enough so hard to establish a connection.
I'm not a fan of cancer placements and you'd think I'd lije what others have said about their cancer moon and just being together in blissful, smothering happiness but no. I find that too much. My sister is Libra Sun, Virgo moon and she's with Cancer moon. I just don't see the connection at all. As another poster said about their ex - they just want to be safe and comfortable - not necessarily compatible - and I would agree that's what happened here on the Cancer moon part. If he could, he would take her away from everyone else and keep her all to himself. We have had holidays together, never again, all he wants to do is focus on her 100% and won't leave her alone. Me and her can't even have a chat without him hanging around like a lost puppy I wanna kick. We were all up a snowy mountain, just the five of us (my much younger kid brother, too) and it was pretty much to ourselves the most part. We were trying to do snowball fights and have a laugh and he kept steering my sister off to go over another part alone. It wasn't that they or he wanted 'alone time' as such. He dies ot all the time. Werido.
Cheers everyone!
The trine is meant to be harmonious but i’m not sure about Cap and Virgo moons?
I’ve not tried another Taurus Moon....imagine that! All that sensualty and cosiness in one room
😍😀
The trine is meant to be harmonious but i’m not sure about Cap and Virgo moons?
I’ve not tried another Taurus Moon....imagine that! All that sensualty and cosiness in one room
😍😀
Weirdly for me most of my long term relationships have been Cap, Aries and Virgo moons. In that order.
Posted by ImperfectStormPosted by UndinePosted by ImperfectStormPosted by GobbiePosted by ImperfectStormPosted by geminiflyby
Why have I not been with ANOTHER damn Cancer moon so we can love each other to death—?? They're all over the place on DXP, real life not so much.
It sounds good but it’s not that great lol
My sons dad was a cap sun with cancer moon. We definitely built a loving home together and still consider each other family.. he’s very nurturing and I love his moon. But there are some enabling and codependency issues between two cancer moons which only made it harder to break free from each other once you’ve grown apart or are no longer healthy together..
Two cancer moons will cling to each other out of attachment, even if the relationship is not healthy. It’s an incredibly hard bond to break, it took me a couple years. So that conjunction has its pros and cons. But we also had an exact conjunction between his Saturn and my Venus which certainly didn’t help. 🥴
That's the problem with same moon couples (when they work) - strong bond but many blind spots in the relationship.
Yeah he is still trying to work things out but I know it’s for the wrong reasons. He just wants to try because I’m comfortable and “safe”.. not because we really belong together. It took me a while to figure out there is a difference between staying together for love and staying together because of attachment.
What does "really belong together" means to you? And why are comfortable, safe and attached the "wrong reasons", lol? I would think these are highly desirable feelings to have.
Well he cheated on me remember? I’d say that’s the first clue that we don’t belong together, he obviously wasn’t truly happy. Aside from that, we were together for over 10 years and he was indecisive when it came to marriage. Now that we’ve been broken up for 3 years and we are in our 40s, NOW all the sudden he wants to get married. And it’s for the wrong reasons. I think it’s very clear that we don’t belong with each other. I can confidently say that I tried though!click to expand
what are the wrong reasons?
Posted by GobbiePosted by MyStarsShine
Cheers everyone!
The trine is meant to be harmonious but i’m not sure about Cap and Virgo moons?
I’ve not tried another Taurus Moon....imagine that! All that sensualty and cosiness in one room
😍😀
Well stick with water then. 😎click to expand
Maybe but I’m intrigued to see what Moon conj Moon would feel like 😀
Posted by GobbiePosted by MyStarsShinePosted by GobbiePosted by MyStarsShine
Cheers everyone!
The trine is meant to be harmonious but i’m not sure about Cap and Virgo moons?
I’ve not tried another Taurus Moon....imagine that! All that sensualty and cosiness in one room
😍😀
Well stick with water then. 😎
Maybe but I’m intrigued to see what Moon conj Moon would feel like 😀
Scorpios... 🤣
*smh*click to expand
I know, i know 😂. Life without intrigue to a Scorp = 😏lol
I meant to ask you on your other post, when looking at degrees with synastry.... orb degrees what do you use? I know it can vary?
Posted by ImperfectStormPosted by MyStarsShine
Cheers everyone!
The trine is meant to be harmonious but i’m not sure about Cap and Virgo moons?
I’ve not tried another Taurus Moon....imagine that! All that sensualty and cosiness in one room
😍😀
I also like sextile because there’s enough similarity but also enough differences to learn and grow from each other. I guess that must be why I’m typically attracted to earth men with watery moon or water sign men with earth moons. But it might also be my Virgo Venus that attracts me to earth moonsclick to expand
Sextile for me would be Cancer and Pisces...that’s be a whole lottta combined 💦 💦💦💦💦. Not sure that’d be a blessing or a curse? 😀😬
Posted by GobbiePosted by MyStarsShinePosted by GobbiePosted by MyStarsShinePosted by GobbiePosted by MyStarsShine
Cheers everyone!
The trine is meant to be harmonious but i’m not sure about Cap and Virgo moons?
I’ve not tried another Taurus Moon....imagine that! All that sensualty and cosiness in one room
😍😀
Well stick with water then. 😎
Maybe but I’m intrigued to see what Moon conj Moon would feel like 😀
Scorpios... 🤣
*smh*
I know, i know 😂. Life without intrigue to a Scorp = 😏lol
I meant to ask you on your other post, when looking at degrees with synastry.... orb degrees what do you use? I know it can vary?
I've long stopped doing that and just look at elements and aspects. It's too much of a precise science to get hung-up about and such a quest for 'perfection' isn't healthy, IMHO.
It's best to keep things simple, as life is too short.click to expand
Ok thanks
I normally use up to 8°
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