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Unlucky/difficult in love placements
- Venus rx (not very verbal or showy in love)
- Venus in Scorpio (detrimental place)
- Afflicted Venus (squares, oppositions, conjunctions to Pluto/Saturn/Uranus/Neptune)
Single life ftw
Venus Square mars indicates anger and frustration around sex. Often times during youth.
I'm holding out until 30 when I can date girls that are way too young for me to make up for the lost time .
Lol. I wonder if that placement could imply one would seriously be into angry sex.
- Venus rx (not very verbal or showy in love)
- Venus in Scorpio (detrimental place)
- Afflicted Venus (squares, oppositions, conjunctions to Pluto/Saturn/Uranus/Neptune)
Single life ftw
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I think it’s amazing when people are truly content with their single life and not low-key bitter about it. But what did you when you had an experience of falling in love?
Ok it’s great yall have these placements but I want stories on how yalls love lives have been or views on love.
Venus Square mars indicates anger and frustration around sex. Often times during youth.
I'm holding out until 30 when I can date girls that are way too young for me to make up for the lost time .
Wait til like 45
Y?
Coz that’s the age it about starts to get inappropriate
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Venus in 12th house
I attracted a lot of dudes who wanted to keep me in the grey area before I made the decision to myself that what I wanted was "everything."
What do you mean by “everything”?
Venus in Cap 7th house square Saturn
6 other planets in the 5th house
Shit ain't easy man.
In my early 20s. I had one "relationship" and it was verbally and physically abusive. Some men are do not like women at all.
I lived a promiscuous life till like 35.
I met a scorpio and I found astrology.
Most of the folks on the boards would be pro-monogamy. All about waiting for the one
Everyone should just screw one person. Sleeping around is bad. I got called all kinds of names.
I subconsciously brought into that and stopped being a ho. I literally thought I was doing something wrong. People seemed so aganist it.
But I was so unhappy. Very unhappy. For years. Trying to fit into some monogamy box. I felt insecure with men.
So I went back to being a ho at 38.
Not everyone is made out for committed long term relationships.
Some of us are here to have great sex with different people.
Ok it’s great yall have these placements but I want stories on how yalls love lives have been or views on love.
To make it short, I always want what I can't have.
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Open your heart to pisces men lol tis the only way
Venus Rx...unlucky in love after my ltr. I'm verbal or I can be...I still hesitate and it took me a long ass time to get to that place but doesn't matter...I still got the curse lol.
- Venus in Scorpio (detrimental place)
you're telling me that venus in scorpio is worse than venus in virgo?
cuz I'm not 100% sure about that LMAO
Venus in leo
I've got Venus afflictions (squares, oppositions) and Neptune in 7th.
- Venus in Scorpio (detrimental place)
you're telling me that venus in scorpio is worse than venus in virgo?
cuz I'm not 100% sure about that LMAO
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They're both bad, but in different ways.
- Venus in Scorpio (detrimental place)
you're telling me that venus in scorpio is worse than venus in virgo?
cuz I'm not 100% sure about that LMAO
They're both bad, but in different ways.
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yeah but I just find it funny that its not in the list with all the other placement.
OP need to update that list.
Venus in Scorpio. I am very cautious in letting myself fall in love. I have to be sure you're worth it. I can be obsessed with my love. I'm not gonna waste it on just anybody. I've only had 2 serious relationships in my life. My ex husband and my now current boyfriend. My current love reciprocates the obsession. I have never experienced that before. I find it to be heavenly....
This is exactly what I know I need in love, and why I choose not to settle for anything less.
venus square pluto ruins me
i dont like to talk about my love life
I think having venus rx makes me an unromantic person. In fact, I doubt men who are extremely romantic towards me. I'm one of those who automatically thinks - - what does he want from me? Why is he doing this? Did he do something wrong? And so I have fallen Inlove but haven't completely loved someone until my husband.
I'm not the girl who prepare dates for my partner, remembers anniversaries or buy random gifts. I don't even write cards which is something my ex hated about me. I'm not the type to do surprises or make an effort once in a Blue moon. But more like I will treat you nice everyday if I love you. I will be there for you whether you need me or not. But I'm not one to do romantic things to keep the romance alive. I say I love you to my husband a lot and he does the same. The only reason I don't feel its fake is because we treat each other nicely on a daily basis. Not just when one of us is upset. Not just because one of us makes more than the other. And it's why I doubt the once in a blue moon niceties or over expression of love if I'm not experiencing it daily.
This level of self expression and self awareness is good. It allows a person to cut through all the bs since they clearly know what they need.
- Venus in Scorpio (detrimental place)
you're telling me that venus in scorpio is worse than venus in virgo?
cuz I'm not 100% sure about that LMAO
They're both bad, but in different ways.
yeah but I just find it funny that its not in the list with all the other placement.
OP need to update that list.
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I understand that venus in virgo is fall (second shitty after detriment) but I don’t know or come across much about this placement. You guys will die alone from forever seeking perfection that does not exist?
Moon square Venus
Saturn in 5th house
Moon in 7th house.
Venus in Cancer
Venus in 10th house
Mars conjunct Chiron
Uranus 4th house
Venus square ascendant
Venus sesquiquadrate Pluto
Gonna be honest, I don't feel lucky at all when it comes to relationship. I didn't received much love from my own parents, so I was desperately looking for one to know how it really feels, but most of them neglected me/rejected me/using me and my feelings aren't taken seriously nor even relationship. I'm scarred when it comes to triangle love as well since it happened to me twice. Now I'm to heartbroken for not having any kind of relationship.
Aww. I can see from your placements, especially that moon in 7th how it’s so important for you to receive nurture from relationships, seeking emotional dependency from them. To top it off your venus is in cancer. I hear Saturn in 5th or 8th can be tough when it comes to relationships as well. I wish I could say something comforting like girl you don’t need no one to prove your self worth to the world but I know deep down you will always yearn for it. Regardless, I hope you bury yourself in meaningful things to you to keep yourself busy and hopefully meet someone who sees the potential of pure love and care that you’d reciprocate. And I’d say this to anyone with any placement, but to protect your heart, always start off by only giving what you get until they’ve proved themselves that they won’t use anything against you.
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You have moon sq. venus in the 7th too. I guess that is also a serious one. Do you relate to this: “ The Moon and Venus are feminine planets, and often play a role in the kind of partner we desire. The Moon represents our emotions and what makes us feel secure, while Venus represents how we give and receive love. When these planets are in square aspect to one another, our emotional needs are at odds with our needs and capacity to love. This can cause many problems, as it is difficult for the Moon square Venus native to have both needs fulfilled by just one person.“
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- Venus rx (not very verbal or showy in love)
- Venus in the 12th house
- Venus in Scorpio (detrimental place)
- Afflicted Venus (squares, oppositions, conjunctions to Pluto/Saturn/Uranus/Neptune)
- Afflictions above in 7th house
- Saturn in 7th house (Saturn restricts, limits and delays, sometimes even denies or withholds)
- Uranus or Neptune in 7th house (brings illusions/false hopes to love life)
Just some stuff from the top of my head. Some of them can imply love life not being a focus for one, self-sabotage, and insecurities affecting their love life. I’m curious to hear love life experiences from people with these placements.