What sign

you just can't get along with?

I really wanna have a positive relationship with one Gemini like one time but just never happens. But I feel like maybe I don't know enough Geminis like I know my aunt and my Taurus cousin's husband. But then I get this Gemini guy neighbor in his 40s. And I thought cool he dresses like a woman and invites me for dinner over when I was just settling in. Feels kinda parental, I like it.

But then, he's so nosy and intrusive. I know that I have explosive fights with my Capricorn ex which I'm sure everyone can hear in our building but for someone I barely talk to and only really knows my name, where I work and stalked my fb yet never sent a friend request he sure is big on pushing: "break up, it's not like you can get anything out of him."

and at like around 3am, he literally stands outside my apartment door and has a whole conversation (his voice loud as possible) over the phone on loudspeaker so I can hear him brag about how his in the middle of a divorce lover bought him a new washer like he's some 50s mistress or whatever. Weird flex but hmmkay. but I'm suffering from a post-vaccination fever so I needed sleep real bad (and he knows this coz I said so right after the first time he bragged about his new washer. Oh yes he never shuts up about it). If only some people can hoe in the shadows. it's sexier 🙄🙄 so I turn up the volume on my phone so bailey sarian can drown out the voice. Mind you, this man blasts 90s pop music divas whenever I get home from work. I'm a 90s kid and I feel like this is some kind of way to hypnotize me to make me hate it.

I can take the weird flex but this dude literally placed a mirror by the side of his sliding glass window so he can see anybody around our doors (right next to each other). I'm sure he placed it for security purposes and not coz he wants a view of my doorway area. I'M SUUUURRRE.

It gets weirder.

Weeks after my breakup, the Pisces I had karaoke jams with (and somewhat my ex-ish come to think of it) came by but did not stay overnight. We talked, played games and said our goodbyes. Not that I have to detail everything that went on there or even detail anything at all. The next morning, Gemini asked: "hey, where'd you meet that guy?"

None of his business so I acted like I was too sleepy to talk. And he goes on about how it's not safe to 'bring strange men' to the building. I just shut the door gently coz I don't bother him with men he takes to his place. The next day I order some gourmet pizza. Gemini comes out and asks if I have a visitor again (I'm weirded out and was like no, coz why I just want pepperoni?). Then I was out and my order for a new blanket arrived so he saw that delivery guy and guess what? I come back home and Gemini was like: "Thank goodness, I thought there was some strange man at your door again." Uhh okay. Order was recalled.

Then, I ordered lingerie coz why not I work for an underwear company? And instead of my order being recalled, he received it for me and paid for it and texted me how my order arrived and I should just pay him back. Okay cool I don't have to wait. He gave me the parcel but was like: "You really should be ashamed of yourself, being a woman and all." Then shuts his door at my face and I'm like WTF why are you angry?

I like my place but he is so annoying and weird.

Also, his Sag ex bf was a psycho but you won't hear anything from me. They have many fights but it gets very loud and crazy too which I can't complain about coz hey it happens to me too. But he locked the gates downstairs which prevented him from leaving and made him mess with my sliding glass window, poke his phone flashlight out and try to wake me to get my gate keys. My Cap bf at that time and I were on the couch naked. Don't ask why, that's how it was like this man and his 'strange man' made my life stressful but I'm the one he gossips about to other tenants. I am so inconvenienced.

Just wanted to whine, wish I knew his moon.

If I end up murdering someone, at least someone knew exactly what happened.

Thanks.

You are a skilled whiner. Classic Virgo.

Posted by Pesto101

You are a skilled whiner. Classic Virgo.

Thanks ☺️☺️

Posted by 7s

I only read the first paragraph.

But yeah, it’s not you we just don’t mix..like AT ALL. it’s usually YOU not us. And I’m not being biased at all.

Virgo’s live up to that negative polarity, stereotype for real. SUPER naggers. They know EVERYTHING. They’re NEVER WRONG.

I grew up with Virgo’s, unfortunately. You guys are destroyers. You don’t build people up.

I can get personal with this sign. I know quite a few with dead children or children dying on their watch. You guys can be SUPER dark and mean af! Especially the women!!!

I took a break from astrology once and got close with a Virgo relative and I almost died. True story. I have nothing nice to say about the sign.

I don't even talk much to him. Like I mind my own business. My parents weren't even hands-on like what is his deal.

@7s

I do know he had a Virgo ex he never shuts up about of all his exes. But he gleefully describes how he treated that Virgo so badly, how he simped over him and bought him stuff. I think the relationship ended coz he came to his workplace and humiliated him at work.

Trust me, I'd love to embarrass this Gemini if only I could tap into the evil you're always blabbing about.

Mmm… I have to disagree with the gem up there. It is most definitely not just virgos fault with geminis. I knew a gem guy. I wouldnt even call him an ex. Literally psychotic. Fell in “love” in a day and then threatened me to be with him. And then fell out of “love” the next. And on and on. I tried to block him but he would show up at my work so I played nice for the time.

Geminis are literally psycho sometimes unfortunately. I’m not sure if I can vibe with that. I know everyone wants to be quirky and “omg I’m such a psycho” rn because it’s a trend but lord knows they take the cake in it. Maybe the trend is why so many people tolerate geminis. I do not.

Even with gems though, it’s a case by case basis. Truly the same with all the signs. Even Capricorn, though for the most part it’s always tuff with them

Posted by PlowSeason

Honestly though, I always forget that I dated him until a thread like this pops up on here.

it'd be so awkward if I end up with a Gemini boyfriend after this 😂😂

Posted by PlowSeason

Yeah idk, I have a gem sun/sag moon ex, and we were both pretty easy going with each other. He wasn't that hard to get along with. I guess he could have secretly hated me and was just so easy going, he never said anything lol.

He's a deeply conservative man who dresses as a woman so I feel like with Gemini I can't tell if it's hypocrisy or cognitive dissonance.

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Posted by PlowSeason

Yeah idk, I have a gem sun/sag moon ex, and we were both pretty easy going with each other. He wasn't that hard to get along with. I guess he could have secretly hated me and was just so easy going, he never said anything lol.

He's a deeply conservative man who dresses as a woman so I feel like with Gemini I can't tell if it's hypocrisy or cognitive dissonance.

They're all a bit...strange. I dare you to date a taurus.

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Taurus feels like a 'sibling' energy to me, unlike what I feel for Capricorn.

There's a Taurus guy at work and we talk to each other a lot about these things, he's supposed to check if I'm actually working or not lol but he's wondering why my relationship with this Cap keeps dragging on when we keep fighting but then he's like: "the sex must be wild." and I'm suddenly not making eye contact and he's just laughing at me 🤣🤣 coz hey he's right.

Feels like one of my brothers making fun of me.

But when it's a Capricorn, just damn hot 🔥🔥

Posted by cake

I get along with everyone, it all depends on how people treat me.

To not get along with a specific sign might mean that it's you, not them.

Agree

It's not you it's me

Very honest of you!

Posted by cake

I get along with everyone, it all depends on how people treat me.

To not get along with a specific sign might mean that it's you, not them.

i've thought about this too and now i think it all boils down to just plain incompatibility. i feel like geminis wants to have convo about stuff, like they wanna have some connection going and they might take it as a diss how i react to certain things? i was thinking how my interactions could've gone better if i were a personality that was i guess more extroverted and open to sharing stuff with someone face to face (and not like an online introvert) but i'm just not. someone excitedly, happily engaging with them.

I have trouble with Aquarians. Not that I dislike them or anything but I have trouble communicating with them. Might have to do with opposite signs and house placements but who knows.

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Posted by CookieMonster123

Idk actually

Sag just annoys me a lot but i dont see most of them as bad, actually positive people, just super annoying

I was never, ever friends with virgos tho

To be fair, taurus is the more sociable and sensitive earth sign. Virgos are out hunting for their own grass fed food, sleeping outdoors in hyperbaric military grade chambers living the hermit life. That's where we meet capricorns usually too. Middle of nowhere.

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I'm deeply hermetic but I had a very similar childhood and just my whole life too. As I get older, I've found myself withdrawn even from my own family. As Capricorn tries to network, I find we are so different this way in that I'd rather go my own way and lock myself in. I've worn face masks to avoid convos even before this pandemic. My friends are those I've known for years. No new, fair-weather friends. Aren't those more genuine connections? And there's also the fact that I'm easily hurt and upset. Way too touchy and moody to be around my gruff family members.