Cancer Moons, how are you when angry/mad?

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Enfant-Terrible-II
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I don't know what forgive means exactly, either I learn to live with shit or I can't. I don't dwell either, unless I notice you're falling in the same tracks and I bring up the past as a reference to illustrate a point. Now some would call that not having forgiven but I don't get that, clearly everyone has a history and you look forward if you learned from past mistakes, but you need to look backwards if you haven't.
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Posted by Marai

I have a Gemini/Cancer Moon friend that gets over things pretty easily. Some things I did to him he can't even remember haha. He does get pissed with people that are reckless with words and holds a bit of a grudge. (Usual cancer trait I think).

It also depends what you did and how close you are. You probably should've told her you were going through some stuff and needed space.


I did they still weren’t having it. Was going thru a lot of family shit that’s over now but it affected what we had going on. Trying to get them back is hard now because idk if I should keep trying/pursing or will that scare them off even more
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Can honestly say I never forget how someone made me FEEL

As opposed to holding a grudge over specific incidents,

and so in terms of checks and balances -if the positive column outweighs the negative column there is a likelihood the relationship will last... it may just reinvent itself...

if the sensitive Cancer moon detects a large negative imbalance than that will manifest in mood swings and sideways passive aggressive manoeuvres possible manipulation and eventually totally pushing away.

Even if you try there’s no coming back things may only ever become amiable
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I am a Cancer 🌙 with Libra Sun and Libra Rising. Libra's tend to always allow chances and we tend to hold a bit of a grudge but just try to move forward. My cancer moon actually allowed me to forgive my ex but it would always be in the back of my mind of how humiliated I felt or sad I felt. Now I cry because I can't believe how much effort I put into this manipulative narcissist. He took so much from me emotionally and I will never get that back.

I cry because I did love him but I KNOW NOW I DESERVE WAY BETTER.

I forgave him but I will never forget how did me.