A question to you aquas (Page 3)

Posted by pinkbird03
I can’t speak about all aquas, but mine never showed insecurities. He was always very confident about everything including his relationship with me. He showed this confidence in private, in public, and around his friends.

Why do you think your aqua is insecure?

the women want to know your secret. cause that's really awesome.

my husband also feels secure too, i told him i dont care if he has a beer belly or is chubby.

i will be chubby with him. we can be the chubby checkers couples with matching gut.

i'm honestly not into those big guys with muscles, i'm very much into the nerdy skinny type like Bill Gates skinny nerdy. but slightly bigger lol

Posted by pinkbird03
I can’t speak about all aquas, but mine never showed insecurities. He was always very confident about everything including his relationship with me. He showed this confidence in private, in public, and around his friends.

Why do you think your aqua is insecure?

Because to me what he did looks like someone who was trying to hide the fact that he called me. Like he felt some type of way because I did not reply.

Posted by justagirl
personally i think he was joking and being a smartass, he called you twice in a row. that wouldn't be an accident. i would have said very dryly " nooooooo it was an accident *eyeroll*" but it wouldn't come across the same in text as it would orally lol

TBH i think you are over thinking shit.

At first I only saw one phone call, but on saturday I realised that he had first tried to call on whatssapp.

Maybe I am overthinking shit, but not To him, just here

As an aqua moon, I dont make the time to hang, Im just not that interested.

Chic to chic, never ask to hang out again. Let him chase because if he wants it hes going to come for it. Doesn't matter the sign.

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He came back a few days after my last post in this thread.

We did not contact each other for 10 days.

I tried to follow the advices given here, I did not act angry or anything.

When he came back, the way he was communicating was different, he was sweet, asking me about my new job, telling me he was sure I will find the job of my dreams.

He was acting quite sweet

Then something strange happenned. One day he called me,twice, but I was away from my phone. I tried to call him back but he did not answer and then, when I asked him about it, he said that he called me by mistake

It made me angry, because it was an obvious lie, the old me would have lached out on him, but I have learned to control myself, so I stayed silent for about 25mn, and then I sent him "Yes, obviously".

He replied straight away saying that he was joking, and that he could see that I did not appreciate the joke, so he apologised for it.

This is all very weird, like he is the one that said no each time I tried to go out with him, but he is the one acting all insecure if I don't pick up the phone...

After that, he made an effort again to resume normal conversation.

I think we are now back to the old dynamic, with me iniciating texting most of the time.

We have not really talked about the phone incident yet, but I do plan to ask some questions as soon as the opportunity present itself.

Are aquarius known to be insecure?

@Seleukos @Earthcapgirl @pinkbird03 @Lioness18881 @AerialView @Pandora101 @vixen14 @WittyGem88 @Aquaman4848

Aquarius are very weird for sure...but not in the way he is acting...he is just acting like a kid...playing stupid mind games...like all aquas do in 15-18yrs of age...but they become quite mature later...

Anyways u should be really blunt towards him...don't let him keep playing wid u...

Ask him to be original, real...not to take anything...

Sometimes it seems like he's just making tp or temporary realationship...but u r looking for serious one...so drag him towards right side...and make him a man 😁

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Lol at make him a man!! He is in his 30's!! several people have said I needed to be blunt. I will try that when I get the occasion

Posted by Sagaqua
As an aqua moon, I dont make the time to hang, Im just not that interested.

Chic to chic, never ask to hang out again. Let him chase because if he wants it hes going to come for it. Doesn't matter the sign.

I already decided I wont ask him again...since it does not seems to work.

I did it in the past because I felt the whole situation was too static. now it is moving but a tiny little bit

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Posted by Sagaqua
As an aqua moon, I dont make the time to hang, Im just not that interested.

Chic to chic, never ask to hang out again. Let him chase because if he wants it hes going to come for it. Doesn't matter the sign.

I already decided I wont ask him again...since it does not seems to work.

I did it in the past because I felt the whole situation was too static. now it is moving but a tiny little bit

Aquas are confusing lol. I have one I’m dealing with right now. It seems he does better me not initiating & letting him come towards me. I have never dated an air sign b4 and I suppose that was part of my problem, I misunderstood what was happening.

I’m aqua moon, you’d think I’d understand better and just reverse how I operate lmao. But it’s hard when you assume one thing, and they do another. I’m not initiating anymore.. he actually came back apologizing for flaking Kinda. I said ya you did kinda flake even though we didn’t have something planned ( it was a maybe). I said I was starting to wonder whether there was a message there. He says No message! That was not my intention.. hmm okay I think. Then we talk all evening & he’s doing the trying to get to know me thing again.. tells me he wants to read my book, to get some insight on me. Huh so freaking weird, I thought he’d lost interest. 😂😂

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Not like Rams,hey ? 😋

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Posted by Sagaqua
As an aqua moon, I dont make the time to hang, Im just not that interested.

Chic to chic, never ask to hang out again. Let him chase because if he wants it hes going to come for it. Doesn't matter the sign.

I already decided I wont ask him again...since it does not seems to work.

I did it in the past because I felt the whole situation was too static. now it is moving but a tiny little bit

Aquas are confusing lol. I have one I’m dealing with right now. It seems he does better me not initiating & letting him come towards me. I have never dated an air sign b4 and I suppose that was part of my problem, I misunderstood what was happening.

I’m aqua moon, you’d think I’d understand better and just reverse how I operate lmao. But it’s hard when you assume one thing, and they do another. I’m not initiating anymore.. he actually came back apologizing for flaking Kinda. I said ya you did kinda flake even though we didn’t have something planned ( it was a maybe). I said I was starting to wonder whether there was a message there. He says No message! That was not my intention.. hmm okay I think. Then we talk all evening & he’s doing the trying to get to know me thing again.. tells me he wants to read my book, to get some insight on me. Huh so freaking weird, I thought he’d lost interest. 😂😂

Not like Rams,hey ? 😋

Fire signs are so much simpler xD they come at you like that & they want you. Lol I’m observing his behavior 😄

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Ooohhh come and get me baby,

I've no time for all that messing around lol

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Posted by Sagaqua
As an aqua moon, I dont make the time to hang, Im just not that interested.

Chic to chic, never ask to hang out again. Let him chase because if he wants it hes going to come for it. Doesn't matter the sign.

I already decided I wont ask him again...since it does not seems to work.

I did it in the past because I felt the whole situation was too static. now it is moving but a tiny little bit

Aquas are confusing lol. I have one I’m dealing with right now. It seems he does better me not initiating & letting him come towards me. I have never dated an air sign b4 and I suppose that was part of my problem, I misunderstood what was happening.

I’m aqua moon, you’d think I’d understand better and just reverse how I operate lmao. But it’s hard when you assume one thing, and they do another. I’m not initiating anymore.. he actually came back apologizing for flaking Kinda. I said ya you did kinda flake even though we didn’t have something planned ( it was a maybe). I said I was starting to wonder whether there was a message there. He says No message! That was not my intention.. hmm okay I think. Then we talk all evening & he’s doing the trying to get to know me thing again.. tells me he wants to read my book, to get some insight on me. Huh so freaking weird, I thought he’d lost interest. 😂😂

Not like Rams,hey ? 😋

Fire signs are so much simpler xD they come at you like that & they want you. Lol I’m observing his behavior 😄

Ooohhh come and get me baby,

I've no time for all that messing around lol

Haha!!! With my ex, one date and we were together for 20 years lol. The Leo whined and moaned about that when we got back in touch after 18 years. He says I didn’t have a chance... hmmmm yeah it was accurate 😆

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🔥💋🔥💋

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Posted by pinkbird03
I can’t speak about all aquas, but mine never showed insecurities. He was always very confident about everything including his relationship with me. He showed this confidence in private, in public, and around his friends.

Why do you think your aqua is insecure?

the women want to know your secret. cause that's really awesome.

my husband also feels secure too, i told him i dont care if he has a beer belly or is chubby.

i will be chubby with him. we can be the chubby checkers couples with matching gut.

i'm honestly not into those big guys with muscles, i'm very much into the nerdy skinny type like Bill Gates skinny nerdy. but slightly bigger lol

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My aqua is chubby i love it 😁 you sound cute with your hubby!!

I’m not sure what I did. Maybe he felt proud that I was his gf at the time? Or maybe because there’s sometimes a lot of attention on me. I’m super short- 5ft and I wear cute dresses all the time and heels. I also have a bad habit of making eye contact and saying hello to strangers. I blame that on a golf course job I once had where I had to be that way.... I also was never pda with him. I never initiated it I mean. And he initiated it a lot. Actually it makes me uncomfortable, but I allowed him to do it. I never told him that though. I’m not sure if this answered your question.

What’s your secret?? 🙂

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Posted by pinkbird03
I can’t speak about all aquas, but mine never showed insecurities. He was always very confident about everything including his relationship with me. He showed this confidence in private, in public, and around his friends.

Why do you think your aqua is insecure?

Because to me what he did looks like someone who was trying to hide the fact that he called me. Like he felt some type of way because I did not reply.

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Sounds like he’s a stalker. Just like my aqua!!!! I should say ex aqua but I still feel like he’s mine cuz he stalks me and is still in my life. I’d say he’s not insecure. He just cares about you.

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Posted by pinkbird03
I can’t speak about all aquas, but mine never showed insecurities. He was always very confident about everything including his relationship with me. He showed this confidence in private, in public, and around his friends.

Why do you think your aqua is insecure?

Because to me what he did looks like someone who was trying to hide the fact that he called me. Like he felt some type of way because I did not reply.

Sounds like he’s a stalker. Just like my aqua!!!! I should say ex aqua but I still feel like he’s mine cuz he stalks me and is still in my life. I’d say he’s not insecure. He just cares about you.

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hopefully he does like me. I am going to follow the advices given to me here and see what happens. I will probably update this thread.

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Posted by pinkbird03
I can’t speak about all aquas, but mine never showed insecurities. He was always very confident about everything including his relationship with me. He showed this confidence in private, in public, and around his friends.

Why do you think your aqua is insecure?

Because to me what he did looks like someone who was trying to hide the fact that he called me. Like he felt some type of way because I did not reply.

Sounds like he’s a stalker. Just like my aqua!!!! I should say ex aqua but I still feel like he’s mine cuz he stalks me and is still in my life. I’d say he’s not insecure. He just cares about you.

hopefully he does like me. I am going to follow the advices given to me here and see what happens. I will probably update this thread.

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Posted by pinkbird03
I can’t speak about all aquas, but mine never showed insecurities. He was always very confident about everything including his relationship with me. He showed this confidence in private, in public, and around his friends.

Why do you think your aqua is insecure?

Because to me what he did looks like someone who was trying to hide the fact that he called me. Like he felt some type of way because I did not reply.

Sounds like he’s a stalker. Just like my aqua!!!! I should say ex aqua but I still feel like he’s mine cuz he stalks me and is still in my life. I’d say he’s not insecure. He just cares about you.

hopefully he does like me. I am going to follow the advices given to me here and see what happens. I will probably update this thread.

Which advice are you taking?? Definitely let us know. Rooting for you!

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stop initiating and be blunt, and oh, I gotta make him a man!!

Posted by Aquaman4848

Posted by doubleram
I met an aquarius man on dating website. We hit it off from our first conversation. A month later we had a little desagreement. He asked me for my instagram, at first, I was a little hesistant to give it to him, which he did not like, but I still sent him my insta details.
After I gave it to him, he did not talk to me for 2 days, so I decided to remove him from my friends list. He then removed me from his friends list on the dating website.
So since I knew his instagram identity, I went there and asked him:'What's wrong with my instagram?!' lol We had a little convo, and we both agreed that it was all a big miscomunication.
Then I got no news for about 3 weeks or a month. I was a bit desapointed, but I accepted the fact that he probably lost interest after what happened.

He ended up texting me, we exchanged for a bit. Then again a few days later, he texted me again telling me that he has been thinking about me.
Few weeks later, while out with a friend, I invited him over. We talked, he had fun, we had a good time.

Fast forward to now, I feel like I am the only one chasing, If I dont text, he does not either (or maybe it is just me being impatient)
I have also noticed that if I don't txt him too often (like once or twice per week), he seems quite enthousiastic to hear from me. He leads the conversation.
But we have never been out together, except for that one time I invited him.
I have noticed that while we text, he will send things like: " I feel like going out today, but I am also quite tired" as if he wants me to convince him to go out with me.
So a week ago, I did just that. I texted him that I also wanted to have some fresh air. He entertained the idea for bit before texting me: "let's do this another day"

In that same exchange I told him I was intrigued by him. I asked him if he noticed. According to him he did.
I tried to ask him if he was intrigued by me too, or if he liked me physically. He would not answer. It was quite a light and funny convo up until the 'going out' part.

I have had enough, I could easily chase after him again, but I want some reciprocity. Is a date too much to ask for?
Also in his defense he is a busy man. He works during the week. Then he has class on friday afternoon and on saturday all day. I know that he thinks that this is messing up with his social life.
Still everytime I talk to him he is either with his mates, or his classmates partying.

I dont want to chase after him anymore up till he makes a step in my direction by texting first or even better, by inviting me on a date.

Do you think that not texting him will pick his interest up?

By the way I am an aries woman.

Am too aqua...
In reality, no one can make us fall for them...it entirely depends on aquas...if they like someone then only they will take effort for them...else not
Whenever I like someone...I go too fast at start, within couple of days I ask her out, and keep going out again and again whenever we have time...
So I guess he is not interested much...he is just keeping u as friend...u need to read stuffs about what aquarius likes and all

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I think, signs wont matter. Any guys who into a woman, he’ll chase her, call/text her often n ask her out. He wont make the woman feel confused or keep on wonderin. So, i agree with this opinion. If he likes u, he’ll find u even if he loose his arm 🤣🤣🤣

Posted by pinkbird03
@MyStarsShine

What do you mean it works?
I’ve heard from lots of ex flings this month actually. But none that I’m interested in. Two tried to go on dates, but I didn’t take them up on the offers.

I’ve been quiet this mercury retrograde. I’ve stayed to myself in ways I wasnt before. Don’t use Snapchat anymore, deleted bumble, etc. it’s like I want to stay away from boys and relationships. Isn’t this the opposite of mercury retrograde?

Im a cancer n im the same. Suddenly im losin interest on social media, kinda stay away from dudes n relationships... it feels like i wanna be alone.