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Posted by Lioness18881i heard that it gives you joy when you critique things. Alyssa Sharpe, the youtube astrologer, has that Virgo venus too,Posted by lisabethur8Posted by Lioness18881Posted by lisabethur8Posted by Lioness18881Posted by lisabethur8Posted by Lioness18881Posted by lisabethur8They are like everyone else in a lot of ways. But unlike most people, Aqua won't confront what bothers them and come out and say it. They show it instead. Through detatchment and space.Posted by Lioness18881that sounds like anyone though.
Always look at their actions and behaviour, not their words. They'll always be polite and nice because they have really good control over their emotions and can detatch from them to communicate on an impersonal level.
If they are distant it's because you cause more stress than peace. If their experience with you leaves them with a positive feeling, they will come back for it. If when they see you, or communicate with you, there's an argument or criticism, they will create space.
If they like you enough, they will make an effort to communicate and resolve problems and reassure your insecurities. When they stop trying, they're on their way out. If you can change their perception of you, you can fix it. But girls are too emotionally charged when upset and Aquarius can pick up on it, even if you try to hide it.
The only thing you can do is be yourself, if that's not something he can appreciate, move on.
Other signs will usually come out and say what you do wrong in words by being critical. They will ignore you and cut you off. But Aqua guys operate differently. They can maintain calm because they aren't emotionally charged.
oh if something is bothering me i will tell my husband right away. i dont like being upset...we are very very open with eachother. i never hold anything in.
i dont have much experience with aqua men except the one that was not a good one.
but he was very confrontational. thats why he was able to reach success easily. cause he just went after what he wanted. if he was confident in his abilities, there was no stopping him.
It probably doesn't apply to long term. But i think in the initial stages, they're observing and not as emotionally invested so it's probably different. When it's love and stable, i think they try harder to resolve things. My exaqua was never critical of me but I didn't really do much to piss him off. I only made him mad 2 times. First time he left and waited at my front door lol. Then i went to lock the door but i opened it first and he was still standing there so i made him come back in. 2nd time, i told him he treats me like shit so he left. Then i messaged him the next day and we were ok again.
He's confrontational with other people and throws things and yells at them and used to get into fights but he never said a bad word or lost his cool with me. He was always really calm. But i don't think Aquas are critical of others.
Do you lose your cool at your husband and tell him you always do this and that! And be critical?
nope, cause my hubs won't take it. lol he dont like nagging women i can tell.
and that's not really my nature. i dont demand much from him. and he doesn't demand much from me.
it's really easy going to be honest.
i think in our early stages of marriage, i am bad at cooking and cleaning. and i did his clothes badly in the wash and shrunk his expensive cashmere and wool sweaters that i bought for him and my parents bought for him lol and he loves them and uses them alot.
but he doesn't lose his temper with me. only if i'm not prepared to get ready to go to an important event,
and i have to be ready cause he HATES being late for anything (Virgo influence) so i'm always ahead...
i'm setting the clocks and time schedule for important stuff.
This is what I mean:
"and that's not really my nature. i dont demand much from him".
Aquas arent the type to be critical. So they don't tell you what you do that bothers them. They just get distant instead.
So i don't mean non confrontational and would back out of an argument, but rather they don't confront what they don't like in another person the way a virgo or other signs do. They just detatch instead. At least early on anyway. But that's just what i noticed in the ones i know.
i see what you mean but i dont really have much that bothers me. My husband doesn't really bother me because, he's so easy with me. i never need to just feel like i need anything with him. hard to explain....
there's really not much i would complain about 😕
i mean, what would i nitpick to him about? He even majority of the time puts the toilet seat down when i dont even ask him. and once in awhile when he doesn't i dont care....
he doesn't go out much, doesn't have a social life, like myself, stays home and he has his projects and hobbies and he does it at home not out there and he has small circle of friends and the people he chose ...like me too. I notice with my husband he only will be with a guy friend who likes me too because he will not like anyone who doesn't like me or disapprove of me. He hates that so he won't deal with it and cut them off. which to me, that is loyalty and love. i am the same way.
That's a really good thing to have. I'm very self aware which means I'm also critical. I hate it. I try not to be but i can't always help it. I'm more critical of myself than i am of others though. It's good that it helps me pick out my flaws and try to always be better but it's bad that i see things in others that they don't notice in themselves.
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i dont bother my husband with that stuff, critiquing him. i dont really see the need for it, i see him as perfect in my eyes already flaws and all. farts and warts. lol
btw, does that give you difficulty in love relationships?
there are alot of videos out there who are virgo venus like this lady who give some input on it. She's cancer sun. she gives some insight to some problems with it ...
and this Virgo man gives some input on it too, but he adds a more silly humour with it. but i think you already know about this guy and have listened to him 🙂
Posted by Lioness18881Posted by lisabethur8😂😂 awww at least yoyr intentions were well meaning
i even shrunk my own sweaters. I looked up how to stretch them back though DIY stretch 'em back sweaters...click to expand
some men would be scary and slap you around or beat you up if you do anything wrong.
there's some scary men out there.
Posted by SmidgeNeed more details than that.
Ok I have a question about aquas.
@Seleukos @AerialView
Wtf would an aqua want from you if he was dipping in and out of friends/more than friends but never actually acting on it?
OP, it seems to me that your Aqua is on a rebound... do you know about some significant ex? it would explain his behaviour - taking classes, joining a dating site but never really act on it.... Aquas are hung up on their "lost loves" for years
and their moving on is slow as hell, like years really
it just one thing that I thought of after reading your post, I can be totally wrong, just another perspective
and their moving on is slow as hell, like years really
it just one thing that I thought of after reading your post, I can be totally wrong, just another perspective
Posted by SmidgeWait until after Mercury goes direct @SmidgePosted by SeleukosIt's scaring me that I'm genuinely thinking of doing it 😂Posted by SmidgeThat's such a thing would do. 😄Posted by SeleukosMercury retrograde.. no better time than now to send a message to him after all these years lolPosted by SmidgeThat's a real possibility, yes.Posted by SeleukosI read "distancing" as " dancing" and laughed.Posted by SmidgeYeah, he probably was hurt because you were leaving and started distancing himself.Posted by SeleukosPsht. No idea... Well, I thought maybe he was mad at me because I didn't directly invite him, I told his housemate to tell him...Thing was he'd ghosted me for 2 weeks prior sooo. *facepalm*Posted by SmidgePosted by SeleukosYeah, I dunno either. Headwreck.Posted by SmidgeWell, I don't know.Posted by SeleukosIf that was the case, surely he would have left it the way it was. I gave him multiple opportunities for us to remain just friends and then he'd start getting all weird and flirty. 😬Posted by SmidgeMaybe he just enjoyed your company the way it was.Posted by SeleukosIt's kinda like stringing someone along, but he never really got anything from it, at least that I can see, because even when he had the chance to act on it, he didn't.Posted by SmidgeWould depend.
Ok I have a question about aquas.
@Seleukos @AerialView
Wtf would an aqua want from you if he was dipping in and out of friends/more than friends but never actually acting on it?
He might not even realize what he is doing or it's insecurity.
Can you provide a specific example?
It's from my own experience but it's kinda a long story 😒 and it happened yeeears ago so it's kinda irrelevant but it still makes me wonder. 🤔
Maybe he just liked the idea of it but wasn't willing to take the necessary steps on his own.
He was a cool guy though, would have made a good friend. He came to my "goodbye dinner" when I left the country, showed up late with some girl, ignored me, never said goodbye... Then never spoke to me again.
laawl
Well, if that isn't the textbook definition of classy..
Why even bother and come?
Only to feel pissed off because he wasn't invited as a result.
Urgh, people and their drama.
He was invited, just not directly 😂 maybe I should have told him directly 😭😭
"Sorry I didn't directly invite you"
" Uh... Wut"
I'm gonna go to sleep before I do anything weird. ✌
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I've been dreaming a lot about guys from my past that I've not seen for over 15 years lol and who I would not normally give a second thought to
The planets playing mind games
🙃
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by SmidgeWait until after Mercury goes direct @SmidgePosted by SeleukosIt's scaring me that I'm genuinely thinking of doing it 😂Posted by SmidgeThat's such a thing would do. 😄Posted by SeleukosMercury retrograde.. no better time than now to send a message to him after all these years lolPosted by SmidgeThat's a real possibility, yes.Posted by SeleukosI read "distancing" as " dancing" and laughed.Posted by SmidgeYeah, he probably was hurt because you were leaving and started distancing himself.Posted by SeleukosPsht. No idea... Well, I thought maybe he was mad at me because I didn't directly invite him, I told his housemate to tell him...Thing was he'd ghosted me for 2 weeks prior sooo. *facepalm*Posted by SmidgePosted by SeleukosYeah, I dunno either. Headwreck.Posted by SmidgeWell, I don't know.Posted by SeleukosIf that was the case, surely he would have left it the way it was. I gave him multiple opportunities for us to remain just friends and then he'd start getting all weird and flirty. 😬Posted by SmidgeMaybe he just enjoyed your company the way it was.Posted by SeleukosIt's kinda like stringing someone along, but he never really got anything from it, at least that I can see, because even when he had the chance to act on it, he didn't.Posted by SmidgeWould depend.
Ok I have a question about aquas.
@Seleukos @AerialView
Wtf would an aqua want from you if he was dipping in and out of friends/more than friends but never actually acting on it?
He might not even realize what he is doing or it's insecurity.
Can you provide a specific example?
It's from my own experience but it's kinda a long story 😒 and it happened yeeears ago so it's kinda irrelevant but it still makes me wonder. 🤔
Maybe he just liked the idea of it but wasn't willing to take the necessary steps on his own.
He was a cool guy though, would have made a good friend. He came to my "goodbye dinner" when I left the country, showed up late with some girl, ignored me, never said goodbye... Then never spoke to me again.
laawl
Well, if that isn't the textbook definition of classy..
Why even bother and come?
Only to feel pissed off because he wasn't invited as a result.
Urgh, people and their drama.
He was invited, just not directly 😂 maybe I should have told him directly 😭😭
"Sorry I didn't directly invite you"
" Uh... Wut"
I'm gonna go to sleep before I do anything weird. ✌
I've been dreaming a lot about guys from my past that I've not seen for over 15 years lol and who I would not normally give a second thought to
The planets playing mind games
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Do you consider mercury retrograde to end next week- the 15th I believe? Or do u go with the post phase that goes to the beginning of May?
Posted by pinkbird03I wouldn't sign any contracts or contact anyone from my past until after the post phase.Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by SmidgeWait until after Mercury goes direct @SmidgePosted by SeleukosIt's scaring me that I'm genuinely thinking of doing it 😂Posted by SmidgeThat's such a thing would do. 😄Posted by SeleukosMercury retrograde.. no better time than now to send a message to him after all these years lolPosted by SmidgeThat's a real possibility, yes.Posted by SeleukosI read "distancing" as " dancing" and laughed.Posted by SmidgeYeah, he probably was hurt because you were leaving and started distancing himself.Posted by SeleukosPsht. No idea... Well, I thought maybe he was mad at me because I didn't directly invite him, I told his housemate to tell him...Thing was he'd ghosted me for 2 weeks prior sooo. *facepalm*Posted by SmidgePosted by SeleukosYeah, I dunno either. Headwreck.Posted by SmidgeWell, I don't know.Posted by SeleukosIf that was the case, surely he would have left it the way it was. I gave him multiple opportunities for us to remain just friends and then he'd start getting all weird and flirty. 😬Posted by SmidgeMaybe he just enjoyed your company the way it was.Posted by SeleukosIt's kinda like stringing someone along, but he never really got anything from it, at least that I can see, because even when he had the chance to act on it, he didn't.Posted by SmidgeWould depend.
Ok I have a question about aquas.
@Seleukos @AerialView
Wtf would an aqua want from you if he was dipping in and out of friends/more than friends but never actually acting on it?
He might not even realize what he is doing or it's insecurity.
Can you provide a specific example?
It's from my own experience but it's kinda a long story 😒 and it happened yeeears ago so it's kinda irrelevant but it still makes me wonder. 🤔
Maybe he just liked the idea of it but wasn't willing to take the necessary steps on his own.
He was a cool guy though, would have made a good friend. He came to my "goodbye dinner" when I left the country, showed up late with some girl, ignored me, never said goodbye... Then never spoke to me again.
laawl
Well, if that isn't the textbook definition of classy..
Why even bother and come?
Only to feel pissed off because he wasn't invited as a result.
Urgh, people and their drama.
He was invited, just not directly 😂 maybe I should have told him directly 😭😭
"Sorry I didn't directly invite you"
" Uh... Wut"
I'm gonna go to sleep before I do anything weird. ✌
I've been dreaming a lot about guys from my past that I've not seen for over 15 years lol and who I would not normally give a second thought to
The planets playing mind games
🙃
Do you consider mercury retrograde to end next week- the 15th I believe? Or do u go with the post phase that goes to the beginning of May?
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Well I wouldn't contact any men from my past at all....that's never a good move and I constantly pray they won't me....it works
Strong magick
👍
@MyStarsShine
What do you mean it works?
I’ve heard from lots of ex flings this month actually. But none that I’m interested in. Two tried to go on dates, but I didn’t take them up on the offers.
I’ve been quiet this mercury retrograde. I’ve stayed to myself in ways I wasnt before. Don’t use Snapchat anymore, deleted bumble, etc. it’s like I want to stay away from boys and relationships. Isn’t this the opposite of mercury retrograde?
What do you mean it works?
I’ve heard from lots of ex flings this month actually. But none that I’m interested in. Two tried to go on dates, but I didn’t take them up on the offers.
I’ve been quiet this mercury retrograde. I’ve stayed to myself in ways I wasnt before. Don’t use Snapchat anymore, deleted bumble, etc. it’s like I want to stay away from boys and relationships. Isn’t this the opposite of mercury retrograde?
Posted by SmidgeLike buses....you wait forever and then three come at oncePosted by MyStarsShineYeah I was jus keeedin.Posted by SmidgeWait until after Mercury goes direct @SmidgePosted by SeleukosIt's scaring me that I'm genuinely thinking of doing it 😂Posted by SmidgeThat's such a thing would do. 😄Posted by SeleukosMercury retrograde.. no better time than now to send a message to him after all these years lolPosted by SmidgeThat's a real possibility, yes.Posted by SeleukosI read "distancing" as " dancing" and laughed.Posted by SmidgeYeah, he probably was hurt because you were leaving and started distancing himself.Posted by SeleukosPsht. No idea... Well, I thought maybe he was mad at me because I didn't directly invite him, I told his housemate to tell him...Thing was he'd ghosted me for 2 weeks prior sooo. *facepalm*Posted by SmidgePosted by SeleukosYeah, I dunno either. Headwreck.Posted by SmidgeWell, I don't know.Posted by SeleukosIf that was the case, surely he would have left it the way it was. I gave him multiple opportunities for us to remain just friends and then he'd start getting all weird and flirty. 😬Posted by SmidgeMaybe he just enjoyed your company the way it was.Posted by SeleukosIt's kinda like stringing someone along, but he never really got anything from it, at least that I can see, because even when he had the chance to act on it, he didn't.Posted by SmidgeWould depend.
Ok I have a question about aquas.
@Seleukos @AerialView
Wtf would an aqua want from you if he was dipping in and out of friends/more than friends but never actually acting on it?
He might not even realize what he is doing or it's insecurity.
Can you provide a specific example?
It's from my own experience but it's kinda a long story 😒 and it happened yeeears ago so it's kinda irrelevant but it still makes me wonder. 🤔
Maybe he just liked the idea of it but wasn't willing to take the necessary steps on his own.
He was a cool guy though, would have made a good friend. He came to my "goodbye dinner" when I left the country, showed up late with some girl, ignored me, never said goodbye... Then never spoke to me again.
laawl
Well, if that isn't the textbook definition of classy..
Why even bother and come?
Only to feel pissed off because he wasn't invited as a result.
Urgh, people and their drama.
He was invited, just not directly 😂 maybe I should have told him directly 😭😭
"Sorry I didn't directly invite you"
" Uh... Wut"
I'm gonna go to sleep before I do anything weird. ✌
I've been dreaming a lot about guys from my past that I've not seen for over 15 years lol and who I would not normally give a second thought to
The planets playing mind games
🙃
I thought I was safe from the retrograde, then yesterday 3 people contacted me from my past in the space of like an hour. Bizarre.
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Lol
Posted by pinkbird03I meant my magic works, my work that I do .... *witchesbrew* 👁
@MyStarsShine
What do you mean it works?
I’ve heard from lots of ex flings this month actually. But none that I’m interested in. Two tried to go on dates, but I didn’t take them up on the offers.
I’ve been quiet this mercury retrograde. I’ve stayed to myself in ways I wasnt before. Don’t use Snapchat anymore, deleted bumble, etc. it’s like I want to stay away from boys and relationships. Isn’t this the opposite of mercury retrograde?
I banish anyone from my life I don't want in it, but the trick is to truly not want them ... sometimes we think we don't, but a part does either because we crave love, attention etc
Posted by SmidgeDon't do that Miss!Posted by MyStarsShineMore like I was trying to cross the road and got hit by 3 buses 😒Posted by SmidgeLike buses....you wait forever and then three come at oncePosted by MyStarsShineYeah I was jus keeedin.Posted by SmidgeWait until after Mercury goes direct @SmidgePosted by SeleukosIt's scaring me that I'm genuinely thinking of doing it 😂Posted by SmidgeThat's such a thing would do. 😄Posted by SeleukosMercury retrograde.. no better time than now to send a message to him after all these years lolPosted by SmidgeThat's a real possibility, yes.Posted by SeleukosI read "distancing" as " dancing" and laughed.Posted by SmidgeYeah, he probably was hurt because you were leaving and started distancing himself.Posted by SeleukosPsht. No idea... Well, I thought maybe he was mad at me because I didn't directly invite him, I told his housemate to tell him...Thing was he'd ghosted me for 2 weeks prior sooo. *facepalm*Posted by SmidgePosted by SeleukosYeah, I dunno either. Headwreck.Posted by SmidgeWell, I don't know.Posted by SeleukosIf that was the case, surely he would have left it the way it was. I gave him multiple opportunities for us to remain just friends and then he'd start getting all weird and flirty. 😬Posted by SmidgeMaybe he just enjoyed your company the way it was.Posted by SeleukosIt's kinda like stringing someone along, but he never really got anything from it, at least that I can see, because even when he had the chance to act on it, he didn't.Posted by SmidgeWould depend.
Ok I have a question about aquas.
@Seleukos @AerialView
Wtf would an aqua want from you if he was dipping in and out of friends/more than friends but never actually acting on it?
He might not even realize what he is doing or it's insecurity.
Can you provide a specific example?
It's from my own experience but it's kinda a long story 😒 and it happened yeeears ago so it's kinda irrelevant but it still makes me wonder. 🤔
Maybe he just liked the idea of it but wasn't willing to take the necessary steps on his own.
He was a cool guy though, would have made a good friend. He came to my "goodbye dinner" when I left the country, showed up late with some girl, ignored me, never said goodbye... Then never spoke to me again.
laawl
Well, if that isn't the textbook definition of classy..
Why even bother and come?
Only to feel pissed off because he wasn't invited as a result.
Urgh, people and their drama.
He was invited, just not directly 😂 maybe I should have told him directly 😭😭
"Sorry I didn't directly invite you"
" Uh... Wut"
I'm gonna go to sleep before I do anything weird. ✌
I've been dreaming a lot about guys from my past that I've not seen for over 15 years lol and who I would not normally give a second thought to
The planets playing mind games
🙃
I thought I was safe from the retrograde, then yesterday 3 people contacted me from my past in the space of like an hour. Bizarre.
Lol
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Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by pinkbird03I meant my magic works, my work that I do .... *witchesbrew* 👁
@MyStarsShine
What do you mean it works?
I’ve heard from lots of ex flings this month actually. But none that I’m interested in. Two tried to go on dates, but I didn’t take them up on the offers.
I’ve been quiet this mercury retrograde. I’ve stayed to myself in ways I wasnt before. Don’t use Snapchat anymore, deleted bumble, etc. it’s like I want to stay away from boys and relationships. Isn’t this the opposite of mercury retrograde?
I banish anyone from my life I don't want in it, but the trick is to truly not want them ... sometimes we think we don't, but a part does either because we crave love, attention etcclick to expand
Gotcha! Do you do love spells or is that against the rules like all the fairy tales say?
Posted by pinkbird03I've done a few but the golden rule is never to name names.....you can wish love to come to a person, when the time is right, but never to involve other people. I did a passion spell a few years ago.....on my God!!Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by pinkbird03I meant my magic works, my work that I do .... *witchesbrew* 👁
@MyStarsShine
What do you mean it works?
I’ve heard from lots of ex flings this month actually. But none that I’m interested in. Two tried to go on dates, but I didn’t take them up on the offers.
I’ve been quiet this mercury retrograde. I’ve stayed to myself in ways I wasnt before. Don’t use Snapchat anymore, deleted bumble, etc. it’s like I want to stay away from boys and relationships. Isn’t this the opposite of mercury retrograde?
I banish anyone from my life I don't want in it, but the trick is to truly not want them ... sometimes we think we don't, but a part does either because we crave love, attention etc
Gotcha! Do you do love spells or is that against the rules like all the fairy tales say?
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It was for myself
Lol
😈
Posted by MyStarsShineLol I love that!! How long did it take to work?Posted by pinkbird03I've done a few but the golden rule is never to name names.....you can wish love to come to a person, when the time is right, but never to involve other people. I did a passion spell a few years ago.....on my God!!Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by pinkbird03I meant my magic works, my work that I do .... *witchesbrew* 👁
@MyStarsShine
What do you mean it works?
I’ve heard from lots of ex flings this month actually. But none that I’m interested in. Two tried to go on dates, but I didn’t take them up on the offers.
I’ve been quiet this mercury retrograde. I’ve stayed to myself in ways I wasnt before. Don’t use Snapchat anymore, deleted bumble, etc. it’s like I want to stay away from boys and relationships. Isn’t this the opposite of mercury retrograde?
I banish anyone from my life I don't want in it, but the trick is to truly not want them ... sometimes we think we don't, but a part does either because we crave love, attention etc
Gotcha! Do you do love spells or is that against the rules like all the fairy tales say?
It was for myself
Lol
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@seleukos
I used to feel like you did years ago....cut myself off from love and connections. I remember saying to my sister that I would never love anyone again and she says to me "of course not" and laughed
Well she was right! I've been loved and loved others all my life...it's all there is to me and fuels me every day
❤️
I used to feel like you did years ago....cut myself off from love and connections. I remember saying to my sister that I would never love anyone again and she says to me "of course not" and laughed
Well she was right! I've been loved and loved others all my life...it's all there is to me and fuels me every day
❤️
Posted by pinkbird03Pretty quick !Posted by MyStarsShineLol I love that!! How long did it take to work?Posted by pinkbird03I've done a few but the golden rule is never to name names.....you can wish love to come to a person, when the time is right, but never to involve other people. I did a passion spell a few years ago.....on my God!!Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by pinkbird03I meant my magic works, my work that I do .... *witchesbrew* 👁
@MyStarsShine
What do you mean it works?
I’ve heard from lots of ex flings this month actually. But none that I’m interested in. Two tried to go on dates, but I didn’t take them up on the offers.
I’ve been quiet this mercury retrograde. I’ve stayed to myself in ways I wasnt before. Don’t use Snapchat anymore, deleted bumble, etc. it’s like I want to stay away from boys and relationships. Isn’t this the opposite of mercury retrograde?
I banish anyone from my life I don't want in it, but the trick is to truly not want them ... sometimes we think we don't, but a part does either because we crave love, attention etc
Gotcha! Do you do love spells or is that against the rules like all the fairy tales say?
It was for myself
Lol
😈click to expand
I wrote a list down with purple pen on white paper and slept with it under my pillow ... the first line was
"I HAVE A LOVER"
Then I listed all I wanted and it all came true
Lol
He was a lover with a capital "L"
He was an ARIES
Nearly killed each other
😈
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by pinkbird03Pretty quick !Posted by MyStarsShineLol I love that!! How long did it take to work?Posted by pinkbird03I've done a few but the golden rule is never to name names.....you can wish love to come to a person, when the time is right, but never to involve other people. I did a passion spell a few years ago.....on my God!!Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by pinkbird03I meant my magic works, my work that I do .... *witchesbrew* 👁
@MyStarsShine
What do you mean it works?
I’ve heard from lots of ex flings this month actually. But none that I’m interested in. Two tried to go on dates, but I didn’t take them up on the offers.
I’ve been quiet this mercury retrograde. I’ve stayed to myself in ways I wasnt before. Don’t use Snapchat anymore, deleted bumble, etc. it’s like I want to stay away from boys and relationships. Isn’t this the opposite of mercury retrograde?
I banish anyone from my life I don't want in it, but the trick is to truly not want them ... sometimes we think we don't, but a part does either because we crave love, attention etc
Gotcha! Do you do love spells or is that against the rules like all the fairy tales say?
It was for myself
Lol
😈
I wrote a list down with purple pen on white paper and slept with it under my pillow ... the first line was
"I HAVE A LOVER"
Then I listed all I wanted and it all came true
Lol
He was a lover with a capital "L"
He was an ARIES
Nearly killed each other
😈click to expand
Thats awesome 😂 I’m getting excited! Is this something I can try or am I not qualified??
Posted by pinkbird03You can, but need to be cautiousPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by pinkbird03Pretty quick !Posted by MyStarsShineLol I love that!! How long did it take to work?Posted by pinkbird03I've done a few but the golden rule is never to name names.....you can wish love to come to a person, when the time is right, but never to involve other people. I did a passion spell a few years ago.....on my God!!Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by pinkbird03I meant my magic works, my work that I do .... *witchesbrew* 👁
@MyStarsShine
What do you mean it works?
I’ve heard from lots of ex flings this month actually. But none that I’m interested in. Two tried to go on dates, but I didn’t take them up on the offers.
I’ve been quiet this mercury retrograde. I’ve stayed to myself in ways I wasnt before. Don’t use Snapchat anymore, deleted bumble, etc. it’s like I want to stay away from boys and relationships. Isn’t this the opposite of mercury retrograde?
I banish anyone from my life I don't want in it, but the trick is to truly not want them ... sometimes we think we don't, but a part does either because we crave love, attention etc
Gotcha! Do you do love spells or is that against the rules like all the fairy tales say?
It was for myself
Lol
😈
I wrote a list down with purple pen on white paper and slept with it under my pillow ... the first line was
"I HAVE A LOVER"
Then I listed all I wanted and it all came true
Lol
He was a lover with a capital "L"
He was an ARIES
Nearly killed each other
😈
Thats awesome 😂 I’m getting excited! Is this something I can try or am I not qualified??
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Whenever you do that work you must always ask after you do it *if it's for the higher good of everyone involved*
Ive forgotten to do that in the past and it didn't end up well. So you have to be very very clear about what you want and how you ask for it ... and very confident in your self worth
🙂
Posted by MyStarsShineOk thank you!Posted by pinkbird03You can, but need to be cautiousPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by pinkbird03Pretty quick !Posted by MyStarsShineLol I love that!! How long did it take to work?Posted by pinkbird03I've done a few but the golden rule is never to name names.....you can wish love to come to a person, when the time is right, but never to involve other people. I did a passion spell a few years ago.....on my God!!Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by pinkbird03I meant my magic works, my work that I do .... *witchesbrew* 👁
@MyStarsShine
What do you mean it works?
I’ve heard from lots of ex flings this month actually. But none that I’m interested in. Two tried to go on dates, but I didn’t take them up on the offers.
I’ve been quiet this mercury retrograde. I’ve stayed to myself in ways I wasnt before. Don’t use Snapchat anymore, deleted bumble, etc. it’s like I want to stay away from boys and relationships. Isn’t this the opposite of mercury retrograde?
I banish anyone from my life I don't want in it, but the trick is to truly not want them ... sometimes we think we don't, but a part does either because we crave love, attention etc
Gotcha! Do you do love spells or is that against the rules like all the fairy tales say?
It was for myself
Lol
😈
I wrote a list down with purple pen on white paper and slept with it under my pillow ... the first line was
"I HAVE A LOVER"
Then I listed all I wanted and it all came true
Lol
He was a lover with a capital "L"
He was an ARIES
Nearly killed each other
😈
Thats awesome 😂 I’m getting excited! Is this something I can try or am I not qualified??
Whenever you do that work you must always ask after you do it *if it's for the higher good of everyone involved*
Ive forgotten to do that in the past and it didn't end up well. So you have to be very very clear about what you want and how you ask for it ... and very confident in your self worth
🙂click to expand
Posted by SeleukosDo you have pets, @Seleukos ?Posted by SmidgeBarely, if ever.Posted by SeleukosHow often do you allow yourself to care?Posted by SmidgeYes, no caring without clearance.Posted by SeleukosAllowed yourself? 😂Posted by SmidgeI allowed myself to care and you tricked me.Posted by SeleukosSpeak up. 🤔Posted by SmidgePosted by SeleukosI was kidding 😉Posted by SmidgeWould that even be a problem?Posted by SeleukosHe could leave me on seen foreverPosted by SmidgeGood night.Posted by SeleukosIt's scaring me that I'm genuinely thinking of doing it 😂Posted by SmidgeThat's such a thing would do. 😄Posted by SeleukosMercury retrograde.. no better time than now to send a message to him after all these years lolPosted by SmidgeThat's a real possibility, yes.Posted by SeleukosI read "distancing" as " dancing" and laughed.Posted by SmidgeYeah, he probably was hurt because you were leaving and started distancing himself.Posted by SeleukosPsht. No idea... Well, I thought maybe he was mad at me because I didn't directly invite him, I told his housemate to tell him...Thing was he'd ghosted me for 2 weeks prior sooo. *facepalm*Posted by SmidgePosted by SeleukosYeah, I dunno either. Headwreck.Posted by SmidgeWell, I don't know.Posted by SeleukosIf that was the case, surely he would have left it the way it was. I gave him multiple opportunities for us to remain just friends and then he'd start getting all weird and flirty. 😬Posted by SmidgeMaybe he just enjoyed your company the way it was.Posted by SeleukosIt's kinda like stringing someone along, but he never really got anything from it, at least that I can see, because even when he had the chance to act on it, he didn't.Posted by SmidgeWould depend.
Ok I have a question about aquas.
@Seleukos @AerialView
Wtf would an aqua want from you if he was dipping in and out of friends/more than friends but never actually acting on it?
He might not even realize what he is doing or it's insecurity.
Can you provide a specific example?
It's from my own experience but it's kinda a long story 😒 and it happened yeeears ago so it's kinda irrelevant but it still makes me wonder. 🤔
Maybe he just liked the idea of it but wasn't willing to take the necessary steps on his own.
He was a cool guy though, would have made a good friend. He came to my "goodbye dinner" when I left the country, showed up late with some girl, ignored me, never said goodbye... Then never spoke to me again.
laawl
Well, if that isn't the textbook definition of classy..
Why even bother and come?
Only to feel pissed off because he wasn't invited as a result.
Urgh, people and their drama.
He was invited, just not directly 😂 maybe I should have told him directly 😭😭
"Sorry I didn't directly invite you"
" Uh... Wut"
I'm gonna go to sleep before I do anything weird. ✌
*whispering*: what is the worst that could happen?
If yes how?
I sorry. 😢
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Posted by SeleukosDid you ever think of getting a little cat or dog? 🙂Posted by MyStarsShineNope, I only grew up with cats.Posted by SeleukosDo you have pets, @Seleukos ?Posted by SmidgeBarely, if ever.Posted by SeleukosHow often do you allow yourself to care?Posted by SmidgeYes, no caring without clearance.Posted by SeleukosAllowed yourself? 😂Posted by SmidgeI allowed myself to care and you tricked me.Posted by SeleukosSpeak up. 🤔Posted by SmidgePosted by SeleukosI was kidding 😉Posted by SmidgeWould that even be a problem?Posted by SeleukosHe could leave me on seen foreverPosted by SmidgeGood night.Posted by SeleukosIt's scaring me that I'm genuinely thinking of doing it 😂Posted by SmidgeThat's such a thing would do. 😄Posted by SeleukosMercury retrograde.. no better time than now to send a message to him after all these years lolPosted by SmidgeThat's a real possibility, yes.Posted by SeleukosI read "distancing" as " dancing" and laughed.Posted by SmidgeYeah, he probably was hurt because you were leaving and started distancing himself.Posted by SeleukosPsht. No idea... Well, I thought maybe he was mad at me because I didn't directly invite him, I told his housemate to tell him...Thing was he'd ghosted me for 2 weeks prior sooo. *facepalm*Posted by SmidgePosted by SeleukosYeah, I dunno either. Headwreck.Posted by SmidgeWell, I don't know.Posted by SeleukosIf that was the case, surely he would have left it the way it was. I gave him multiple opportunities for us to remain just friends and then he'd start getting all weird and flirty. 😬Posted by SmidgeMaybe he just enjoyed your company the way it was.Posted by SeleukosIt's kinda like stringing someone along, but he never really got anything from it, at least that I can see, because even when he had the chance to act on it, he didn't.Posted by SmidgeWould depend.
Ok I have a question about aquas.
@Seleukos @AerialView
Wtf would an aqua want from you if he was dipping in and out of friends/more than friends but never actually acting on it?
He might not even realize what he is doing or it's insecurity.
Can you provide a specific example?
It's from my own experience but it's kinda a long story 😒 and it happened yeeears ago so it's kinda irrelevant but it still makes me wonder. 🤔
Maybe he just liked the idea of it but wasn't willing to take the necessary steps on his own.
He was a cool guy though, would have made a good friend. He came to my "goodbye dinner" when I left the country, showed up late with some girl, ignored me, never said goodbye... Then never spoke to me again.
laawl
Well, if that isn't the textbook definition of classy..
Why even bother and come?
Only to feel pissed off because he wasn't invited as a result.
Urgh, people and their drama.
He was invited, just not directly 😂 maybe I should have told him directly 😭😭
"Sorry I didn't directly invite you"
" Uh... Wut"
I'm gonna go to sleep before I do anything weird. ✌
*whispering*: what is the worst that could happen?
If yes how?
I sorry. 😢
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Posted by pinkbird03WelcomePosted by MyStarsShineOk thank you!Posted by pinkbird03You can, but need to be cautiousPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by pinkbird03Pretty quick !Posted by MyStarsShineLol I love that!! How long did it take to work?Posted by pinkbird03I've done a few but the golden rule is never to name names.....you can wish love to come to a person, when the time is right, but never to involve other people. I did a passion spell a few years ago.....on my God!!Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by pinkbird03I meant my magic works, my work that I do .... *witchesbrew* 👁
@MyStarsShine
What do you mean it works?
I’ve heard from lots of ex flings this month actually. But none that I’m interested in. Two tried to go on dates, but I didn’t take them up on the offers.
I’ve been quiet this mercury retrograde. I’ve stayed to myself in ways I wasnt before. Don’t use Snapchat anymore, deleted bumble, etc. it’s like I want to stay away from boys and relationships. Isn’t this the opposite of mercury retrograde?
I banish anyone from my life I don't want in it, but the trick is to truly not want them ... sometimes we think we don't, but a part does either because we crave love, attention etc
Gotcha! Do you do love spells or is that against the rules like all the fairy tales say?
It was for myself
Lol
😈
I wrote a list down with purple pen on white paper and slept with it under my pillow ... the first line was
"I HAVE A LOVER"
Then I listed all I wanted and it all came true
Lol
He was a lover with a capital "L"
He was an ARIES
Nearly killed each other
😈
Thats awesome 😂 I’m getting excited! Is this something I can try or am I not qualified??
Whenever you do that work you must always ask after you do it *if it's for the higher good of everyone involved*
Ive forgotten to do that in the past and it didn't end up well. So you have to be very very clear about what you want and how you ask for it ... and very confident in your self worth
🙂click to expand
Remember not to do it with exes or anyone in particular as it can backfire 💥😲
Posted by SeleukosOk soPosted by MyStarsShineSure, but no.Posted by SeleukosDid you ever think of getting a little cat or dog? 🙂Posted by MyStarsShineNope, I only grew up with cats.Posted by SeleukosDo you have pets, @Seleukos ?Posted by SmidgeBarely, if ever.Posted by SeleukosHow often do you allow yourself to care?Posted by SmidgeYes, no caring without clearance.Posted by SeleukosAllowed yourself? 😂Posted by SmidgeI allowed myself to care and you tricked me.Posted by SeleukosSpeak up. 🤔Posted by SmidgePosted by SeleukosI was kidding 😉Posted by SmidgeWould that even be a problem?Posted by SeleukosHe could leave me on seen foreverPosted by SmidgeGood night.Posted by SeleukosIt's scaring me that I'm genuinely thinking of doing it 😂Posted by SmidgeThat's such a thing would do. 😄Posted by SeleukosMercury retrograde.. no better time than now to send a message to him after all these years lolPosted by SmidgeThat's a real possibility, yes.Posted by SeleukosI read "distancing" as " dancing" and laughed.Posted by SmidgeYeah, he probably was hurt because you were leaving and started distancing himself.Posted by SeleukosPsht. No idea... Well, I thought maybe he was mad at me because I didn't directly invite him, I told his housemate to tell him...Thing was he'd ghosted me for 2 weeks prior sooo. *facepalm*Posted by SmidgePosted by SeleukosYeah, I dunno either. Headwreck.Posted by SmidgeWell, I don't know.Posted by SeleukosIf that was the case, surely he would have left it the way it was. I gave him multiple opportunities for us to remain just friends and then he'd start getting all weird and flirty. 😬Posted by SmidgeMaybe he just enjoyed your company the way it was.Posted by SeleukosIt's kinda like stringing someone along, but he never really got anything from it, at least that I can see, because even when he had the chance to act on it, he didn't.Posted by SmidgeWould depend.
Ok I have a question about aquas.
@Seleukos @AerialView
Wtf would an aqua want from you if he was dipping in and out of friends/more than friends but never actually acting on it?
He might not even realize what he is doing or it's insecurity.
Can you provide a specific example?
It's from my own experience but it's kinda a long story 😒 and it happened yeeears ago so it's kinda irrelevant but it still makes me wonder. 🤔
Maybe he just liked the idea of it but wasn't willing to take the necessary steps on his own.
He was a cool guy though, would have made a good friend. He came to my "goodbye dinner" when I left the country, showed up late with some girl, ignored me, never said goodbye... Then never spoke to me again.
laawl
Well, if that isn't the textbook definition of classy..
Why even bother and come?
Only to feel pissed off because he wasn't invited as a result.
Urgh, people and their drama.
He was invited, just not directly 😂 maybe I should have told him directly 😭😭
"Sorry I didn't directly invite you"
" Uh... Wut"
I'm gonna go to sleep before I do anything weird. ✌
*whispering*: what is the worst that could happen?
If yes how?
I sorry. 😢
I no longer take responsibility for others.click to expand
If this state of mind or feeling is a thing caried forward from your childhood, you are letting those who hurt you win.
Carrying on the pattern not always the best choice ?
Posted by SeleukosOkayPosted by MyStarsShineNo, it's the opposite.Posted by SeleukosOk soPosted by MyStarsShineSure, but no.Posted by SeleukosDid you ever think of getting a little cat or dog? 🙂Posted by MyStarsShineNope, I only grew up with cats.Posted by SeleukosDo you have pets, @Seleukos ?Posted by SmidgeBarely, if ever.Posted by SeleukosHow often do you allow yourself to care?Posted by SmidgeYes, no caring without clearance.Posted by SeleukosAllowed yourself? 😂Posted by SmidgeI allowed myself to care and you tricked me.Posted by SeleukosSpeak up. 🤔Posted by SmidgePosted by SeleukosI was kidding 😉Posted by SmidgeWould that even be a problem?Posted by SeleukosHe could leave me on seen foreverPosted by SmidgeGood night.Posted by SeleukosIt's scaring me that I'm genuinely thinking of doing it 😂Posted by SmidgeThat's such a thing would do. 😄Posted by SeleukosMercury retrograde.. no better time than now to send a message to him after all these years lolPosted by SmidgeThat's a real possibility, yes.Posted by SeleukosI read "distancing" as " dancing" and laughed.Posted by SmidgeYeah, he probably was hurt because you were leaving and started distancing himself.Posted by SeleukosPsht. No idea... Well, I thought maybe he was mad at me because I didn't directly invite him, I told his housemate to tell him...Thing was he'd ghosted me for 2 weeks prior sooo. *facepalm*Posted by SmidgePosted by SeleukosYeah, I dunno either. Headwreck.Posted by SmidgeWell, I don't know.Posted by SeleukosIf that was the case, surely he would have left it the way it was. I gave him multiple opportunities for us to remain just friends and then he'd start getting all weird and flirty. 😬Posted by SmidgeMaybe he just enjoyed your company the way it was.Posted by SeleukosIt's kinda like stringing someone along, but he never really got anything from it, at least that I can see, because even when he had the chance to act on it, he didn't.Posted by SmidgeWould depend.
Ok I have a question about aquas.
@Seleukos @AerialView
Wtf would an aqua want from you if he was dipping in and out of friends/more than friends but never actually acting on it?
He might not even realize what he is doing or it's insecurity.
Can you provide a specific example?
It's from my own experience but it's kinda a long story 😒 and it happened yeeears ago so it's kinda irrelevant but it still makes me wonder. 🤔
Maybe he just liked the idea of it but wasn't willing to take the necessary steps on his own.
He was a cool guy though, would have made a good friend. He came to my "goodbye dinner" when I left the country, showed up late with some girl, ignored me, never said goodbye... Then never spoke to me again.
laawl
Well, if that isn't the textbook definition of classy..
Why even bother and come?
Only to feel pissed off because he wasn't invited as a result.
Urgh, people and their drama.
He was invited, just not directly 😂 maybe I should have told him directly 😭😭
"Sorry I didn't directly invite you"
" Uh... Wut"
I'm gonna go to sleep before I do anything weird. ✌
*whispering*: what is the worst that could happen?
If yes how?
I sorry. 😢
I no longer take responsibility for others.
If this state of mind or feeling is a thing caried forward from your childhood, you are letting those who hurt you win.
Carrying on the pattern not always the best choice ?
Allowing myself to be chained down again would be letting them win.
The same for moving on.click to expand
Do you enjoy your work hobbies and friends ?
He’s not that into you.. Aquarius men chase. Slowly but they do chase. They tell you if they are into you. Give him space and do your own thing and if he reaches out. Be very sweet and humble. Don’t be rude or mean or upset. Cut him off and he might come back in a few days or weeks. If not, move on
Posted by EarthcapgirlThank you for the advice. That is what I am trying to do.
He’s not that into you.. Aquarius men chase. Slowly but they do chase. They tell you if they are into you. Give him space and do your own thing and if he reaches out. Be very sweet and humble. Don’t be rude or mean or upset. Cut him off and he might come back in a few days or weeks. If not, move on
Do you think that with the those men, it is better to let them initiate?
He came back a few days after my last post in this thread.
We did not contact each other for 10 days.
I tried to follow the advices given here, I did not act angry or anything.
When he came back, the way he was communicating was different, he was sweet, asking me about my new job, telling me he was sure I will find the job of my dreams.
He was acting quite sweet
Then something strange happenned. One day he called me,twice, but I was away from my phone. I tried to call him back but he did not answer and then, when I asked him about it, he said that he called me by mistake
It made me angry, because it was an obvious lie, the old me would have lached out on him, but I have learned to control myself, so I stayed silent for about 25mn, and then I sent him "Yes, obviously".
He replied straight away saying that he was joking, and that he could see that I did not appreciate the joke, so he apologised for it.
This is all very weird, like he is the one that said no each time I tried to go out with him, but he is the one acting all insecure if I don't pick up the phone...
After that, he made an effort again to resume normal conversation.
I think we are now back to the old dynamic, with me iniciating texting most of the time.
We have not really talked about the phone incident yet, but I do plan to ask some questions as soon as the opportunity present itself.
Are aquarius known to be insecure?
@Seleukos @Earthcapgirl @pinkbird03 @Lioness18881 @AerialView @Pandora101 @vixen14 @WittyGem88 @Aquaman4848
We did not contact each other for 10 days.
I tried to follow the advices given here, I did not act angry or anything.
When he came back, the way he was communicating was different, he was sweet, asking me about my new job, telling me he was sure I will find the job of my dreams.
He was acting quite sweet
Then something strange happenned. One day he called me,twice, but I was away from my phone. I tried to call him back but he did not answer and then, when I asked him about it, he said that he called me by mistake
It made me angry, because it was an obvious lie, the old me would have lached out on him, but I have learned to control myself, so I stayed silent for about 25mn, and then I sent him "Yes, obviously".
He replied straight away saying that he was joking, and that he could see that I did not appreciate the joke, so he apologised for it.
This is all very weird, like he is the one that said no each time I tried to go out with him, but he is the one acting all insecure if I don't pick up the phone...
After that, he made an effort again to resume normal conversation.
I think we are now back to the old dynamic, with me iniciating texting most of the time.
We have not really talked about the phone incident yet, but I do plan to ask some questions as soon as the opportunity present itself.
Are aquarius known to be insecure?
@Seleukos @Earthcapgirl @pinkbird03 @Lioness18881 @AerialView @Pandora101 @vixen14 @WittyGem88 @Aquaman4848
Posted by vixen14Posted by doubleram
He came back a few days after my last post in this thread.
We did not contact each other for 10 days.
I tried to follow the advices given here, I did not act angry or anything.
When he came back, the way he was communicating was different, he was sweet, asking me about my new job, telling me he was sure I will find the job of my dreams.
He was acting quite sweet
Then something strange happenned. One day he called me,twice, but I was away from my phone. I tried to call him back but he did not answer and then, when I asked him about it, he said that he called me by mistake
It made me angry, because it was an obvious lie, the old me would have lached out on him, but I have learned to control myself, so I stayed silent for about 25mn, and then I sent him "Yes, obviously".
He replied straight away saying that he was joking, and that he could see that I did not appreciate the joke, so he apologised for it.
This is all very weird, like he is the one that said no each time I tried to go out with him, but he is the one acting all insecure if I don't pick up the phone...
After that, he made an effort again to resume normal conversation.
I think we are now back to the old dynamic, with me iniciating texting most of the time.
We have not really talked about the phone incident yet, but I do plan to ask some questions as soon as the opportunity present itself.
Are aquarius known to be insecure?
@Seleukos @Earthcapgirl @pinkbird03 @Lioness18881 @AerialView @Pandora101 @vixen14 @WittyGem88 @Aquaman4848
Lol he tried to save his precious ego by saying it was a mistake and when you didn’t respond favorably...he claimed it was a joke.
Don’t fall for his charm. He’s trying to go back to his routine but don’t allow that, don’t initiate...let him chase and let him lead. If he likes you, he will ask you out and go out with you. Just be straight and blunt and don’t sugar coat things. To us, it’s a breathe of fresh air when we come across someone who doesn’t have filter with their feelings or intentions.
But I would advise to stop texting so much. Don’t let this become a habit. We need to communicate orally with people to feel stimulated and move things along. It’s so impersonal when all you do is text and very easy to say no to a person who you’re just pen pals with. Transition the convos to phone and see where that takes you.click to expand
I think you are right, he is definetly trying to go back to his routine. To me, it feels like he prefers when I am the one initiating contact. I am indeed trying to let him chase and lead from now on.
I told him that I would not invite him again since he says no every time. We asked me to show him when he ever said no when I invited him to go out. So I did just that and sent him the pics of our convo to prove it.
He told me that out of the three times it happened, only one was valid to him, as the other occurences needed to be put context.
In my head I was thinking "what context, a no is no, there is no need to intelectualise this lol"
Now I just wonder if he will try to call me again or if he has been traumatized by his first attempt...
Omg he sounds like hard work
How do you have the patience?
How do you have the patience?
What are your moon signs?
Posted by Lioness18881I understand that they get insecure like everybody else, but it was the first time I saw this aspect of his personality. He has been acting quite confident up until he tried to call me.Posted by doubleram
He came back a few days after my last post in this thread.
We did not contact each other for 10 days.
I tried to follow the advices given here, I did not act angry or anything.
When he came back, the way he was communicating was different, he was sweet, asking me about my new job, telling me he was sure I will find the job of my dreams.
He was acting quite sweet
Then something strange happenned. One day he called me,twice, but I was away from my phone. I tried to call him back but he did not answer and then, when I asked him about it, he said that he called me by mistake
It made me angry, because it was an obvious lie, the old me would have lached out on him, but I have learned to control myself, so I stayed silent for about 25mn, and then I sent him "Yes, obviously".
He replied straight away saying that he was joking, and that he could see that I did not appreciate the joke, so he apologised for it.
This is all very weird, like he is the one that said no each time I tried to go out with him, but he is the one acting all insecure if I don't pick up the phone...
After that, he made an effort again to resume normal conversation.
I think we are now back to the old dynamic, with me iniciating texting most of the time.
We have not really talked about the phone incident yet, but I do plan to ask some questions as soon as the opportunity present itself.
Are aquarius known to be insecure?
@Seleukos @Earthcapgirl @pinkbird03 @Lioness18881 @AerialView @Pandora101 @vixen14 @WittyGem88 @Aquaman4848
Lol. They're not a different species. They get insecure like everyone else. I don't know about all of them... i can only speak from my own experience, but if i didn't answer the phone, he would keep calling and texting then crack the sads. They like independence and freedom and give you the same independence and freedom in return. At the same time, they want to know you're always there. Mine and i are broken up but still, if either of us calls or texts we know we'll both answer or text or callback. I don't know what that's about exactly but it's like they need to know there's someone who's always there when they need to talk or get bored or something. But missing calls is something that does definitely upset them more than regular peopleclick to expand
Also, I don't really understand how he is the one to get insecure when he is the one that has always said no when I tried to go out with him.
He is a bit of a mystery
Posted by BrittnieI am aries sun and moon
What are your moon signs?
If my informations are correct, he is either libra or virgo
Posted by MyStarsShineI don't know really.
Omg he sounds like hard work
How do you have the patience?
The first time I posted about him here, I was ready to give up, but since he came back...
Right before he tried to call me, I was complaining to my friend about how static the situation was.
Now I would say that it is evolving a tiny little bit...at a very slow pace
Posted by doubleramAre you happy to do most of the initiating?Posted by MyStarsShineI don't know really.
Omg he sounds like hard work
How do you have the patience?
The first time I posted about him here, I was ready to give up, but since he came back...
Right before he tried to call me, I was complaining to my friend about how static the situation was.
Now I would say that it is evolving a tiny little bit...at a very slow pace
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Posted by SeleukosI think he is like you. I already noticed that he was quite proud before.
I often feel shame whenever I reach out to people.
What he is doing might be a trick but he could be a bit like me and just felt vulnerable and retreated.
I would say, that he probably felt some kind of way because I did not reply, and he just decided to lie about it.
It was quite a stupid lie, I have to say. Why make it all akward, when he could just have called back or ask me to call back when I am available.
He turned this into something more important than it needed to be.
Posted by MyStarsShineI would say that I don't really mind as long as the person showd some interests.Posted by doubleramAre you happy to do most of the initiating?Posted by MyStarsShineI don't know really.
Omg he sounds like hard work
How do you have the patience?
The first time I posted about him here, I was ready to give up, but since he came back...
Right before he tried to call me, I was complaining to my friend about how static the situation was.
Now I would say that it is evolving a tiny little bit...at a very slow pace
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Some people sometimes want all your attention for the ego boost, without giving you any in return. This is the kind of situation I am trying to avoid.
I am trying to protect my ego I would say.
Posted by vixen14I tend to do this a lot, I mirror the other person's actions. He used to take quite a bit of time to reply, so I do the same now. Not necessarily on pupose, but I dont get out of my way to reply quickly like I would usually do.Posted by Lioness18881Posted by doubleramThey've got one set of rules for themselves and another set of rules for how everyone else treats them. I don't know if they're self aware enough to notice thoughPosted by Lioness18881I understand that they get insecure like everybody else, but it was the first time I saw this aspect of his personality. He has been acting quite confident up until he tried to call me.Posted by doubleram
He came back a few days after my last post in this thread.
We did not contact each other for 10 days.
I tried to follow the advices given here, I did not act angry or anything.
When he came back, the way he was communicating was different, he was sweet, asking me about my new job, telling me he was sure I will find the job of my dreams.
He was acting quite sweet
Then something strange happenned. One day he called me,twice, but I was away from my phone. I tried to call him back but he did not answer and then, when I asked him about it, he said that he called me by mistake
It made me angry, because it was an obvious lie, the old me would have lached out on him, but I have learned to control myself, so I stayed silent for about 25mn, and then I sent him "Yes, obviously".
He replied straight away saying that he was joking, and that he could see that I did not appreciate the joke, so he apologised for it.
This is all very weird, like he is the one that said no each time I tried to go out with him, but he is the one acting all insecure if I don't pick up the phone...
After that, he made an effort again to resume normal conversation.
I think we are now back to the old dynamic, with me iniciating texting most of the time.
We have not really talked about the phone incident yet, but I do plan to ask some questions as soon as the opportunity present itself.
Are aquarius known to be insecure?
@Seleukos @Earthcapgirl @pinkbird03 @Lioness18881 @AerialView @Pandora101 @vixen14 @WittyGem88 @Aquaman4848
Lol. They're not a different species. They get insecure like everyone else. I don't know about all of them... i can only speak from my own experience, but if i didn't answer the phone, he would keep calling and texting then crack the sads. They like independence and freedom and give you the same independence and freedom in return. At the same time, they want to know you're always there. Mine and i are broken up but still, if either of us calls or texts we know we'll both answer or text or callback. I don't know what that's about exactly but it's like they need to know there's someone who's always there when they need to talk or get bored or something. But missing calls is something that does definitely upset them more than regular people
Also, I don't really understand how he is the one to get insecure when he is the one that has always said no when I tried to go out with him.
He is a bit of a mystery
We’re fully aware. We like to do but don’t like others to do unto us. This is why Aquas tend to go for others who mirror them.click to expand
Posted by Lioness18881Not that I have a lot of experience with them, but it appears to be true.Posted by SeleukosLol. Aqua threats others equal but Aqua wants to be treated differently and as an individualPosted by Lioness18881Posted by doubleramThey've got one set of rules for themselves and another set of rules for how everyone else treats them. I don't know if they're self aware enough to notice thoughPosted by Lioness18881I understand that they get insecure like everybody else, but it was the first time I saw this aspect of his personality. He has been acting quite confident up until he tried to call me.Posted by doubleram
He came back a few days after my last post in this thread.
We did not contact each other for 10 days.
I tried to follow the advices given here, I did not act angry or anything.
When he came back, the way he was communicating was different, he was sweet, asking me about my new job, telling me he was sure I will find the job of my dreams.
He was acting quite sweet
Then something strange happenned. One day he called me,twice, but I was away from my phone. I tried to call him back but he did not answer and then, when I asked him about it, he said that he called me by mistake
It made me angry, because it was an obvious lie, the old me would have lached out on him, but I have learned to control myself, so I stayed silent for about 25mn, and then I sent him "Yes, obviously".
He replied straight away saying that he was joking, and that he could see that I did not appreciate the joke, so he apologised for it.
This is all very weird, like he is the one that said no each time I tried to go out with him, but he is the one acting all insecure if I don't pick up the phone...
After that, he made an effort again to resume normal conversation.
I think we are now back to the old dynamic, with me iniciating texting most of the time.
We have not really talked about the phone incident yet, but I do plan to ask some questions as soon as the opportunity present itself.
Are aquarius known to be insecure?
@Seleukos @Earthcapgirl @pinkbird03 @Lioness18881 @AerialView @Pandora101 @vixen14 @WittyGem88 @Aquaman4848
Lol. They're not a different species. They get insecure like everyone else. I don't know about all of them... i can only speak from my own experience, but if i didn't answer the phone, he would keep calling and texting then crack the sads. They like independence and freedom and give you the same independence and freedom in return. At the same time, they want to know you're always there. Mine and i are broken up but still, if either of us calls or texts we know we'll both answer or text or callback. I don't know what that's about exactly but it's like they need to know there's someone who's always there when they need to talk or get bored or something. But missing calls is something that does definitely upset them more than regular people
Also, I don't really understand how he is the one to get insecure when he is the one that has always said no when I tried to go out with him.
He is a bit of a mystery
I disagree.
I'm egalitarian through and through.click to expand
Posted by WittyGem88@Vixen14
@doubleram seriously. Stop initiating. He’s like playing games with you now because if he reaches out, youre available. Think of it this way...
Caviar is very expensive because its very difficult to get.
Canned Tuna is cheap because its very easy to get.
Do you wanna be a caviar or a tuna? Caviar has a higher value and tuna has low value. You want this man to value your feelings, respect you, be consistent with his actions with you.. then dont be too available for him and quit always initiating. When I mean always—- like how you used to do it. You can initiate once in a while but lessen it. Please. Look after yourself.
I would say that you are both right, I need to avoid going back to the old routine.
I started initiating again, because it was just akward when he was doing it.
I think that it is now his turn to show what his intentions are
Posted by doubleramOk, I figured as much. everyone on here lately having problems they either have opposite moons or sun signs lol so it makes total sense! So um... let me reread what you wrote and get back to youPosted by BrittnieI am aries sun and moon
What are your moon signs?
If my informations are correct, he is either libra or virgoclick to expand
Posted by WittyGem88I have done this. I have many friends I like to spend time with and family, when I'm not with them or at work, i'm tired at home. Anytime my ex invited me somewhere if it wasn't my scene I would turn him down, I was also very intimidated by him so I would turn him down and the mere thought of all the angst and nervousness I felt. He was a Leo and my bestie is an Aries and yall can be intimidating as fuck to us. I really think this guy likes you and when you back off im pretty sure he will come back. Dont say hey I dont like your actions just say, I didn't think you wanted to spend time with me because you always turn the idea down. Then he will state his reasons. When we date similar signs, dating is a lot easier but dating your opposite sun or moon makes you grow a lot and you realize stuff about yourself. The number one thing going on moving forward is going to be communication and reading how you two online are different will help to understand each other some. Have you hung out in person yet?Posted by doubleramHe is already rejecting you. How many times does he have to say No? :/Posted by SeleukosPosted by doubleramGoing out for himself is something else than going out with you.Posted by SeleukosYes I see why this could appear as some sort of compliment fishing. In my head I was just trying to see if he had some sort of interest. It was still a very playful convo.Posted by doubleramOkay, but that's still some sort of compliment fishing and some Aquas don't react well to that.
I also tend do answers with a delay of days but mostly because I often forget to charge my phone etc. but that doesn't excuse his double standard about it.
Regarding the dates thing:
I wouldn't ask someone out if there is a slight possibility that I might have a bad day and be moody.
I wouldn't want to pull her down somehow. Not saying this is the case with him but it might be. Especially if he is mostly working all the time.
Possible solution: do a netflix and chill together to show him that you both can date even if he is down sometimes.
Also, I do understand that given his schedule he must be tired, but when I ask him what has he been doing, he always tell me that he was out somehow. So he does have time to invite me.
I would like him to be less static by initiating texting or by inviting me out.
Right now I dont see myself doing a "netflix and chill" kind of date with him
it's too early
It might not be the relaxation he needs at this point.
I don't think it's ever too early for movies and chill.
Put a dinner prior to it and keep things calm and relaxed.
I have already tried to invite him though
1st attempt > He told me he had planned to go to a stand up comedy show but he missed it because of work
So I asked if he was inviting me
He replied 'I would like to, but you know I have not control over my week days schedule'
2nd attempt > I asked him to meet after school so we can have a drink.
He was already invited to a friend's house to celebrate a baby birth
3rd attempt > He tells me he wanna go out but feels lazy too
I text "let's use this as an occasion to have our 2nd date, let's go for a drink"
He texts me that he would rather go to the movies
And then 50mn later he texts me "not today, let's do this another day"
He has a big ego, but I have one too. I don't know if you guys see my point.click to expand
Posted by WittyGem88I have done this. I have many friends I like to spend time with and family, when I'm not with them or at work, i'm tired at home. Anytime my ex invited me somewhere if it wasn't my scene I would turn him down, I was also very intimidated by him so I would turn him down and the mere thought of all the angst and nervousness I felt. He was a Leo and my bestie is an Aries and yall can be intimidating as fuck to us. I really think this guy likes you and when you back off im pretty sure he will come back. Dont say hey I dont like your actions just say, I didn't think you wanted to spend time with me because you always turn the idea down. Then he will state his reasons. When we date similar signs, dating is a lot easier but dating your opposite sun or moon makes you grow a lot and you realize stuff about yourself. The number one thing going on moving forward is going to be communication and reading how you two online are different will help to understand each other some. Have you hung out in person yet?Posted by doubleramHe is already rejecting you. How many times does he have to say No? :/Posted by SeleukosPosted by doubleramGoing out for himself is something else than going out with you.Posted by SeleukosYes I see why this could appear as some sort of compliment fishing. In my head I was just trying to see if he had some sort of interest. It was still a very playful convo.Posted by doubleramOkay, but that's still some sort of compliment fishing and some Aquas don't react well to that.
I also tend do answers with a delay of days but mostly because I often forget to charge my phone etc. but that doesn't excuse his double standard about it.
Regarding the dates thing:
I wouldn't ask someone out if there is a slight possibility that I might have a bad day and be moody.
I wouldn't want to pull her down somehow. Not saying this is the case with him but it might be. Especially if he is mostly working all the time.
Possible solution: do a netflix and chill together to show him that you both can date even if he is down sometimes.
Also, I do understand that given his schedule he must be tired, but when I ask him what has he been doing, he always tell me that he was out somehow. So he does have time to invite me.
I would like him to be less static by initiating texting or by inviting me out.
Right now I dont see myself doing a "netflix and chill" kind of date with him
it's too early
It might not be the relaxation he needs at this point.
I don't think it's ever too early for movies and chill.
Put a dinner prior to it and keep things calm and relaxed.
I have already tried to invite him though
1st attempt > He told me he had planned to go to a stand up comedy show but he missed it because of work
So I asked if he was inviting me
He replied 'I would like to, but you know I have not control over my week days schedule'
2nd attempt > I asked him to meet after school so we can have a drink.
He was already invited to a friend's house to celebrate a baby birth
3rd attempt > He tells me he wanna go out but feels lazy too
I text "let's use this as an occasion to have our 2nd date, let's go for a drink"
He texts me that he would rather go to the movies
And then 50mn later he texts me "not today, let's do this another day"
He has a big ego, but I have one too. I don't know if you guys see my point.click to expand
Posted by WittyGem88I know I have to work on that, and I know you're right.Posted by doubleramAvoid getting back to the routine and also love yourself. Love yourself enough to allow him to prove how he feels for you and commit to you than you chasing him like before. And if he cant step up his game, be ready to leave.Posted by WittyGem88@Vixen14
@doubleram seriously. Stop initiating. He’s like playing games with you now because if he reaches out, youre available. Think of it this way...
Caviar is very expensive because its very difficult to get.
Canned Tuna is cheap because its very easy to get.
Do you wanna be a caviar or a tuna? Caviar has a higher value and tuna has low value. You want this man to value your feelings, respect you, be consistent with his actions with you.. then dont be too available for him and quit always initiating. When I mean always—- like how you used to do it. You can initiate once in a while but lessen it. Please. Look after yourself.
I would say that you are both right, I need to avoid going back to the old routine.
I started initiating again, because it was just akward when he was doing it.
I think that it is now his turn to show what his intentions are
click to expand
Chasing people never really gets me anywhere, so I gotta change and see what happens.
Posted by BrittnieYes we've met but only once. So I am getting impatient because I feel like it's time to get things goingPosted by WittyGem88I have done this. I have many friends I like to spend time with and family, when I'm not with them or at work, i'm tired at home. Anytime my ex invited me somewhere if it wasn't my scene I would turn him down, I was also very intimidated by him so I would turn him down and the mere thought of all the angst and nervousness I felt. He was a Leo and my bestie is an Aries and yall can be intimidating as fuck to us. I really think this guy likes you and when you back off im pretty sure he will come back. Dont say hey I dont like your actions just say, I didn't think you wanted to spend time with me because you always turn the idea down. Then he will state his reasons. When we date similar signs, dating is a lot easier but dating your opposite sun or moon makes you grow a lot and you realize stuff about yourself. The number one thing going on moving forward is going to be communication and reading how you two online are different will help to understand each other some. Have you hung out in person yet?Posted by doubleramHe is already rejecting you. How many times does he have to say No? :/Posted by SeleukosPosted by doubleramGoing out for himself is something else than going out with you.Posted by SeleukosYes I see why this could appear as some sort of compliment fishing. In my head I was just trying to see if he had some sort of interest. It was still a very playful convo.Posted by doubleramOkay, but that's still some sort of compliment fishing and some Aquas don't react well to that.
I also tend do answers with a delay of days but mostly because I often forget to charge my phone etc. but that doesn't excuse his double standard about it.
Regarding the dates thing:
I wouldn't ask someone out if there is a slight possibility that I might have a bad day and be moody.
I wouldn't want to pull her down somehow. Not saying this is the case with him but it might be. Especially if he is mostly working all the time.
Possible solution: do a netflix and chill together to show him that you both can date even if he is down sometimes.
Also, I do understand that given his schedule he must be tired, but when I ask him what has he been doing, he always tell me that he was out somehow. So he does have time to invite me.
I would like him to be less static by initiating texting or by inviting me out.
Right now I dont see myself doing a "netflix and chill" kind of date with him
it's too early
It might not be the relaxation he needs at this point.
I don't think it's ever too early for movies and chill.
Put a dinner prior to it and keep things calm and relaxed.
I have already tried to invite him though
1st attempt > He told me he had planned to go to a stand up comedy show but he missed it because of work
So I asked if he was inviting me
He replied 'I would like to, but you know I have not control over my week days schedule'
2nd attempt > I asked him to meet after school so we can have a drink.
He was already invited to a friend's house to celebrate a baby birth
3rd attempt > He tells me he wanna go out but feels lazy too
I text "let's use this as an occasion to have our 2nd date, let's go for a drink"
He texts me that he would rather go to the movies
And then 50mn later he texts me "not today, let's do this another day"
He has a big ego, but I have one too. I don't know if you guys see my point.click to expand
Posted by Lioness18881Yeessssss There is a theme happening, Not just on here. I'm helping friends in my life. It is happening so much more than you realize. I'm realizing its on a much bigger scale than I previously thought. I thought I was understanding and open and now I am even more so.Posted by BrittnieThere's a theme happening lol.Posted by doubleramOk, I figured as much. everyone on here lately having problems they either have opposite moons or sun signs lol so it makes total sense! So um... let me reread what you wrote and get back to youPosted by BrittnieI am aries sun and moon
What are your moon signs?
If my informations are correct, he is either libra or virgo
Your last comment makes sense. I'm actually intimidated by Aquas lol. They're like meeting your match in the stubborn, fixed department. 😂
It's so good though because it's challenging so it's not so boring. You never fully understand wtf is going on with each other thoughclick to expand
I got bored in other relationships but I never I mean NEVER knew what Leo was thinking and It was like dating myself LOL I can understand why shes getting impatient but he will be back and let him know you like him but you need to see him more than once a month. When you leave he will see he needs to make you a priority. I learned this the hard way
Posted by Lioness18881Exactly!! LolPosted by doubleramA difference i noticed between fire and Aqua, we want to do things. They want to talk about things. So they're cool just talking to you all the time on the phone. They think that's spending time togetherPosted by BrittnieYes we've met but only once. So I am getting impatient because I feel like it's time to get things goingPosted by WittyGem88I have done this. I have many friends I like to spend time with and family, when I'm not with them or at work, i'm tired at home. Anytime my ex invited me somewhere if it wasn't my scene I would turn him down, I was also very intimidated by him so I would turn him down and the mere thought of all the angst and nervousness I felt. He was a Leo and my bestie is an Aries and yall can be intimidating as fuck to us. I really think this guy likes you and when you back off im pretty sure he will come back. Dont say hey I dont like your actions just say, I didn't think you wanted to spend time with me because you always turn the idea down. Then he will state his reasons. When we date similar signs, dating is a lot easier but dating your opposite sun or moon makes you grow a lot and you realize stuff about yourself. The number one thing going on moving forward is going to be communication and reading how you two online are different will help to understand each other some. Have you hung out in person yet?Posted by doubleramHe is already rejecting you. How many times does he have to say No? :/Posted by SeleukosPosted by doubleramGoing out for himself is something else than going out with you.Posted by SeleukosYes I see why this could appear as some sort of compliment fishing. In my head I was just trying to see if he had some sort of interest. It was still a very playful convo.Posted by doubleramOkay, but that's still some sort of compliment fishing and some Aquas don't react well to that.
I also tend do answers with a delay of days but mostly because I often forget to charge my phone etc. but that doesn't excuse his double standard about it.
Regarding the dates thing:
I wouldn't ask someone out if there is a slight possibility that I might have a bad day and be moody.
I wouldn't want to pull her down somehow. Not saying this is the case with him but it might be. Especially if he is mostly working all the time.
Possible solution: do a netflix and chill together to show him that you both can date even if he is down sometimes.
Also, I do understand that given his schedule he must be tired, but when I ask him what has he been doing, he always tell me that he was out somehow. So he does have time to invite me.
I would like him to be less static by initiating texting or by inviting me out.
Right now I dont see myself doing a "netflix and chill" kind of date with him
it's too early
It might not be the relaxation he needs at this point.
I don't think it's ever too early for movies and chill.
Put a dinner prior to it and keep things calm and relaxed.
I have already tried to invite him though
1st attempt > He told me he had planned to go to a stand up comedy show but he missed it because of work
So I asked if he was inviting me
He replied 'I would like to, but you know I have not control over my week days schedule'
2nd attempt > I asked him to meet after school so we can have a drink.
He was already invited to a friend's house to celebrate a baby birth
3rd attempt > He tells me he wanna go out but feels lazy too
I text "let's use this as an occasion to have our 2nd date, let's go for a drink"
He texts me that he would rather go to the movies
And then 50mn later he texts me "not today, let's do this another day"
He has a big ego, but I have one too. I don't know if you guys see my point.click to expand
I can’t speak about all aquas, but mine never showed insecurities. He was always very confident about everything including his relationship with me. He showed this confidence in private, in public, and around his friends.
Why do you think your aqua is insecure?
Why do you think your aqua is insecure?
personally i think he was joking and being a smartass, he called you twice in a row. that wouldn't be an accident. i would have said very dryly " nooooooo it was an accident *eyeroll*" but it wouldn't come across the same in text as it would orally lol
TBH i think you are over thinking shit.
TBH i think you are over thinking shit.
Posted by WittyGem88it's good you told him you dont care. I dont know why some guys, care so much about their appearance if they get bald or receding hairline. If there's receding hairline just shave it and then it looks decent. and awesome too, like Vin Diesel.
My aqua has insecurities. I mentioned it in another post remember @lisabethur ? He feels pressured to become successful and hes insecure about his receding hairline so hes been putting stuff on his hair. But really I had to tell him over and over he can go bald for all I care. He still got abs and who doesnt want a Jason Statham at home? Or a Bruce Willis. Bald men are sexy. I think Aquas do get insecure its just a matter of us, partners, managing that insecurity.
they need to feel secure from their partners that they are wanted/desired. so you got it right.
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