Ahhh this Aqua boy...

Well, it amazing how you guys do sort of come back when ignored. I received an inquiry/ invitation to go to a festival several weeks ago from him. Yes, normally this would not be a huge deal but he has not requested to be in my presence since we parted ways and his girlfriend entered the picture 6 months ago. We would just chat online every week and that's it. I just find it strange that he would want to hang all of a sudden.... Well, I didn't see him there (it was casual..as in I'll be there on this day etc) but the following week, as soon as I signed on, I IMed me immediately to tell me he got hurt badly playing soccer that weekend prior to the festival. He may need surgury etc. It was funny cause he was asking me who my doctor was in town since he needs a referral for surgery but it was just so obvious that he IMed me to tell me that he was hurt (there were many people he could of asked this question to). All my friends are like, ..funny he still comes to you for comfort and support. As much as I am flattered, I am frustrated because he really takes me for granted. Of course I will be there for him. I told him to let me know if there is anything I can help with but I just feel sad and angry that all I am is a crutch for him when the going gets tough. To me, that's what the girlfriend is there for...the reassurance and sappy...."everythign is going to be ok" pep talk. Why is he coming to me for it?

Sorry...just needed to get that off my chest. This is not a knock to Aquas.

Funny, my aqua ex does the same thing.

Yeah, I always thought Aquas were forward thinkers ...that's why I was confused with his behavior. Yes, I agree that a sun sign can't be sole indicator for actions. I think he does have Mars and Mercury in Aquarious but his Moon is Scorpio and his Venus is Capricorn. Scorpio is very possessive (which he was in the relationship) and the Capricorn may tone down the Aqua flightiness in relationships being a stable/Earth sign.

That's odd OFA, cause it sounded like you were implying on another thread on the Leo board that even though you ended your relationship with him, and wanted to be friends, you were still holding on to the possibility that you would go back to him.