Me and the Aqua boy met through mutual friends back at the start of this year. We used to talk loads for months, it was always a bit confusing, we were close and spoke about loads but I always had other boys I was with, and despite expressing that we should hang out he never arranged anything so it never really went anywhere but we also were into each other. In the summer he told me that "when he begins to like someone he just convinces himself he's better than them and leaves". Well in the summer I was seeing a boy (which the aqua boy knew about he never seemed to mind saying it was hotter that we would talk while i was with someone ) the aqua boy got weird with me; telling me we shouldn't talk anymore but then messaging the next day, telling me I shouldn't sleep with anyone who doesn't appreciate me and just generally giving mixed signals, I will also add in that around this time he went on holiday and would tell me things along the lines of "I don't want to get with any other girls except you" etc and generally acting 'faithful' despite him knowing I was with someone, not too long after this we had a conversation about nothing interesting , I replied in the morning and he completely vanished and I didn't hear from him for ages. I never made other attempts to contact them as I find him quite intimidating when he acts like he isn't interested. I was quite upset he is the most interesting person I've ever met, but also so frustrating! Then after MONTHS of this boy blocking me out his life he messaged me out the blue, we spoke and he told me he's "so sorry truly" for disappearing, and then when I suggested that he only messaged me because he wanted to hook up he seemed offended, but when I asked "well what do you want" he just simply said "honestly idk" ?? This boy is so incredible and I could easily like him so much but I really don't understand how to take this behaviour ? Should I bother or should I leave him be ? Ps- we have never hooked up but we have both expressed that we were into each other
