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Sexyttarius
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Just a question for the aqua women, who have made me suffer my whole life lol:

I am trying to finde inner closure with an aqua girl who has messed up my head. I don't want to go too much into details but since aquas are known to be detached, cold at times and not really open to their feelings at first, I hope i can finaly find some answers even when so much time has passed by, but I can't get over her and I am not in touch with her anymore since we kind of had argument. So here is my question:

Imagine it's the 14th of February, would you send a short yet kind of flirty/personal text message in the night to a guy on Valentine's Day, if

a) you have known him just for a short period of time and were actually interested in him

b) you see him as a friend only, yet again have not known him for too long and actually not seen him for weeks

c) you want to fool him?

as for a) Personally I would never send a VD message to anybody if this person were not my gf or a girl I were interested in. I mean if VD was like any other hollyday then how come I don't know too many guys (actually NONE) who send a VD message to their best buddies, dads or bosses? "Hey Jim, Happy Valentine's Day dude, Bob." I mean really? lol

as for b) I know women say Happy VD a lot to their female friends, family members and mayve even good guy friends who they have known for years but would you really say it to just any friend of yours? Wouldn't it give the receiver the wrong message?

c) Well I don't really know why she would fool me. Do aqua girls fool you just for fun? Maybe I did something wrong, maybe she just wanted attention and validation, maybe I didn't meet her expectations maybe...I just don't know. After VD I asked her out but we got in a little argument because I didn't know whether she was playing with me given her responses made little sense to me so I got a little pushy and over confident. She cut me off, I cut her off, yeah I know little chlidren crap even though we are supposed to be adults.

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lisabeth
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oh you were hoping and hoping for some love interest from this woman who sends VD to everyone?

this is definitely mixed messages. don't get your hopes up for some woman who sends VD messages to everyone when she thinks it's a holiday to make people smile.

some women do go overboard only making sure you have a smile and have good day. they want to make your day brighten an happy and they will be off on their way.

they are not invested in you as an individual, so just smile and say thank you and it's a nice gesture.

however in this case, this is bad case because you kept your hopes up. That's why it's better not to do anything and keep to yourself because people will get the wrong idea when you don't really want more than acquaintance. how is it cold when she's trying to make you smile?? Is it only cold because she didn't want to get DEEP with you?

that's why it's cold, because you weren't satisfied and the gesture of smiles and hi how was your day is so fleeting and you feel you want more.



Plenty of FISH out in the seas, don't worry your head over this one.
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lisabeth
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now I understand why a lot of people get sad and crestfallen when they didn't get the woman and she is all smiles and trying to make you smile.

*smh*

ladies, if you read this, don't send any VD messages or make people smile because it is fleeting and they're gonna get mixed signals. if you feel you want to make smiles, work at the old folks home and make valentines cards for all the old folks in wheelchairs and disability and make their days smile. Maybe an old man will fall in love but he'll be wise to know it was just a very lovely gesture.

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Sexyttarius
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Posted by lisabethur8
oh you were hoping and hoping for some love interest from this woman who sends VD to everyone?

this is definitely mixed messages. don't get your hopes up for some woman who sends VD messages to everyone when she thinks it's a holiday to make people smile.

some women do go overboard only making sure you have a smile and have good day. they want to make your day brighten an happy and they will be off on their way.

they are not invested in you as an individual, so just smile and say thank you and it's a nice gesture.

however in this case, this is bad case because you kept your hopes up. That's why it's better not to do anything and keep to yourself because people will get the wrong idea when you don't really want more than acquaintance. how is it cold when she's trying to make you smile?? Is it only cold because she didn't want to get DEEP with you?

that's why it's cold, because you weren't satisfied and the gesture of smiles and hi how was your day is so fleeting and you feel you want more.



Plenty of FISH out in the seas, don't worry your head over this one.
I don't know whether she sent other mass textes on VD but I know for sure that this particular text was sent to me only because she called me a special nick name, kind of an inside thing between us so I don't think she used the same nick for other people. Now if it was only "Happy VD" then I would have assumed it to be a mass text. But our history was a little bit strange since we had not texted and seen each other for weeks up to that day and there were also some weird moments of jealousy, deep looks and bodylanguage on both of our parts in the weeks leading to VD.

Yes I think it is not a nice gesture at all. Why would I send a Happy VD text to anybody? Why would anybody think it would make me smile if I got such a friendly message? Usually I have never cared about that day and I don't get the people who complain about not getting any friendly messages from their friends on VD, as if they wouldn't still be single the next day. I figured most people who say Happy VD to their friends add something like "Happy VD my good friend" or "Always a good friend Happy VD"..so basicly they make it obvious enough that it's just a friendly gesture.

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Sagi The Hunter
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I have a crush on an Aqua. But unsure how to approach him. I heard from people that he is a grumpy sort. But I don't care. I talked to him before in the past and he seemed really nice and cool. I even gave him a Canadian penny before and I just happen to know right there that he is a coin collector. Lately I just happen to sit back and stare at him. I know that doesn't do anything except put awkward vibes on him. Oh yea. He's a co-worker.
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Organized Chaos
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Posted by Sagithehunter
I have a crush on an Aqua. But unsure how to approach him. I heard from people that he is a grumpy sort. But I don't care. I talked to him before in the past and he seemed really nice and cool. I even gave him a Canadian penny before and I just happen to know right there that he is a coin collector. Lately I just happen to sit back and stare at him. I know that doesn't do anything except put awkward vibes on him. Oh yea. He's a co-worker.
You should be careful on your approach whenever you do. He is a co-worker and if things gone bad between you two. Things wouldn't bode well at your workplace as you're forced to see him everyday. If you sort out this risk and go ahead and go through with it anyways. Do some research on him and determine if he is worth that risk before making any advances that is other then professional. Key things to look at is if he's single or if he is interested. Another is that is he willing to take that risk also.
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lisabeth
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hey they CHANGED Sarah Palin's chart on astrotheme. For years it's Libra rising, even astro sites and astrologers have done essays on her with that FORMER libra rising...

now this makes much more sense. She's a Virgo rising, putting her Sun in the 6th house. And they got a source too.

It makes more sense since she's married to a Double Virgo with Cancer venus/Cancer mars, lots of Cancer energy,

and her moon aquarius is in the 5th house.

http://www.astrotheme.com/astrology/Sarah_Palin

and her Jupiter Aries /Aries venus is in the 8th house.

this is much much better. she's still pretty airy with double aqua, mars aqua, and saturn but LESS so. she isNO longer libra dominant, but she's aqua, aries, and virgo dominant.

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Organized Chaos
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Posted by RollergirlOrc
Posted by Aquistorm
No different then when we are by ourselves. If everyone accepts us, good. If everyone doesn't. Just as good.
So you don't have a latent fear of being ostracized? It's cool. I'm trying to find the Aquarius Achilles heel.. Just for personal knowledge.
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Nope, not really. But it differs with each individual. If I am being ostracized for being myself. Then that is their problem. Not mine.
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lisabeth
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this song, i looked up the writer of the song Toy Caldwell,

Scorpio sun/Sagittarius moon/Sagittarius Venus/Sagittarius Jupiter, leo mars.



holy crap!!! that's a lot of SAG!!

and this is what he wrote in the lyrics

"I ain't never been with a woman long enough, for my boots to get old.

We've been together so long now they both need resoled.

If I ever settle down you'd be my kind and it's a good time for me to head on down the line.



Never said that I love you, even though it's so

Where's that duffle bag of mine it's time to go.



Chorus



I'm gona be leavin at the break of dawn. Wish you could come but I don't need no woman taggin along.

So I'll sneak out that door couldn't stand to see you cry.

I'd stay another year if I saw a tear drop in your eye





damn!!!! that's so Sagittarius. Leave the gate open and he's on his way roaming and roaming...





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aquapiscescusp
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Posted by Aquistorm
Posted by RollergirlOrc
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No different then when we are by ourselves. If everyone accepts us, good. If everyone doesn't. Just as good.
So you don't have a latent fear of being ostracized? It's cool. I'm trying to find the Aquarius Achilles heel.. Just for personal knowledge.
Nope, not really. But it differs with each individual. If I am being ostracized for being myself. Then that is their problem. Not mine.
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that is a strong Aquarius motto -- if you don't like who I am (which is probably the norm but who cares about the norm and the people that follow the crowds) someone more interesting will
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aquapiscescusp
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Posted by RollergirlOrc
Posted by Aquistorm
No different then when we are by ourselves. If everyone accepts us, good. If everyone doesn't. Just as good.
So you don't have a latent fear of being ostracized? It's cool. I'm trying to find the Aquarius Achilles heel.. Just for personal knowledge.
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aquarius can't live with failure, no matter the size of the task
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Organized Chaos
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Posted by aquapiscescusp
Posted by RollergirlOrc
Posted by Aquistorm
No different then when we are by ourselves. If everyone accepts us, good. If everyone doesn't. Just as good.
So you don't have a latent fear of being ostracized? It's cool. I'm trying to find the Aquarius Achilles heel.. Just for personal knowledge.
aquarius can't live with failure, no matter the size of the task
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Or other people's standards to society or life.
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lisabeth
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I saw this on the news. He was adopted young, and apparently his American/U.S. citizen parents didn't get him citizenship?

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https://www.yahoo.com/news/adopted-3-brought-us-korean-man-deported-222504748.html

then I read this....cause I thought to myself, the government would probably take into consideration of an individual's past history:

quote from link:

"Seven years after Crapser and his older sister were adopted, their parents abandoned them. The foster care system separated Crapser when he was 10 from his sister.

He was housed at several foster and group homes. When Crapser was 12, he moved in with Thomas and Dolly Crapser, their biological son, two other adoptees and several foster children.

There, he was physically abused, Crapser has said. In 1991, the couple was arrested on charges of physical child abuse, sexual abuse and rape. They denied the charges. Thomas Crapser's sentence included 90 days in jail, and Dolly Crasper's included three years of probation"
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SelenaKyle
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Posted by lisabethur8
this song, i looked up the writer of the song Toy Caldwell,

Scorpio sun/Sagittarius moon/Sagittarius Venus/Sagittarius Jupiter, leo mars.



holy crap!!! that's a lot of SAG!!

and this is what he wrote in the lyrics

"I ain't never been with a woman long enough, for my boots to get old.

We've been together so long now they both need resoled.

If I ever settle down you'd be my kind and it's a good time for me to head on down the line.



Never said that I love you, even though it's so

Where's that duffle bag of mine it's time to go.



Chorus



I'm gona be leavin at the break of dawn. Wish you could come but I don't need no woman taggin along.

So I'll sneak out that door couldn't stand to see you cry.

I'd stay another year if I saw a tear drop in your eye





damn!!!! that's so Sagittarius. Leave the gate open and he's on his way roaming and roaming...







Not all Sag dominate folks like to roam 😛

Leave the gate open and i stay put, lock it up and i bust the sucker down and flee.

Ever heaard the phrase, run with wild horses? That's all about Saggie energy imo- if you approach them slowly and, walk or run beside them they won't bolt. Try to harness them or force them to do what's not natural and watch out...

hehe
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SelenaKyle
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Posted by aquapiscescusp
Posted by RollergirlOrc
Posted by Aquistorm
No different then when we are by ourselves. If everyone accepts us, good. If everyone doesn't. Just as good.
So you don't have a latent fear of being ostracized? It's cool. I'm trying to find the Aquarius Achilles heel.. Just for personal knowledge.
aquarius can't live with failure, no matter the size of the task
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true...
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lisabeth
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Posted by justagirl
Posted by lisabethur8
this song, i looked up the writer of the song Toy Caldwell,

Scorpio sun/Sagittarius moon/Sagittarius Venus/Sagittarius Jupiter, leo mars.



holy crap!!! that's a lot of SAG!!

and this is what he wrote in the lyrics

"I ain't never been with a woman long enough, for my boots to get old.

We've been together so long now they both need resoled.

If I ever settle down you'd be my kind and it's a good time for me to head on down the line.



Never said that I love you, even though it's so

Where's that duffle bag of mine it's time to go.



Chorus



I'm gona be leavin at the break of dawn. Wish you could come but I don't need no woman taggin along.

So I'll sneak out that door couldn't stand to see you cry.

I'd stay another year if I saw a tear drop in your eye





damn!!!! that's so Sagittarius. Leave the gate open and he's on his way roaming and roaming...







Not all Sag dominate folks like to roam 😛

Leave the gate open and i stay put, lock it up and i bust the sucker down and flee.

Ever heaard the phrase, run with wild horses? That's all about Saggie energy imo- if you approach them slowly and, walk or run beside them they won't bolt. Try to harness them or force them to do what's not natural and watch out...

hehe

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then it sounded like Toy Caldwell was feeling the "Noose" around his neck tighten. lol the woman was getting desperate for some "commitment" then. 😄 😄

then wrote the song. lol

and ran off in the sunset.